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Where can i get this mask? Might need one as well lol
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We are in scientific sense all animals lol
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I think by bad food in philiphines, he meant taste wise? Ive been there once and am not looking forward to eating at all when i was there lol
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Trip report Christmas in Bangkok and New Year in Pattaya
spoon replied to spoon's topic in Gay Thailand
I am starting to having the same withdrawal myself. Writting the reports helps me reliving some of the experiences as well.- 163 replies
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Trip report Christmas in Bangkok and New Year in Pattaya
spoon replied to spoon's topic in Gay Thailand
This will be the last chapter to my report as my last day has been reported in real time at the beginning of my trip report. I havent book my future trip yet, and struggling a bit to find excuses to go to bangkok or pattaya again after a very recent visits lol. I know i shouldnt care but i do. Anyway, i waited in hotel after i had my dinner, too lazy to walk out. Its been one hell of a journey this time around, and i started to feel tired. I texted my copa masseur confirming our meeting at 9pm+ and he said yes and will see me at 11:30pm. About 15min before the agreeed time, he texted me that he is on his way. He arrived slight on time and knock on my door. I welcome him in and he asked if we csn go eat first. I said i already eat but i am ok to accompany him to eat outside. And of course, we will be taking his bike to go there lol. He said there is one restaurant he usually go after work, called kiss food and drink, that opens 24 hour and had good selection of thai and western food at reasonable price. I ordered a drink and he asked my permission to order the food, which i agrees. When the food arrived, he without fail try to give me some so ill eat with him, by putting some of the food to an empty plate he requested for me. The food is really good, seafood tomyam and stir fried asparagus. Paid the bill and i asked him to go back to the hotel using the beach road, instead of just taking a u turn at the next traffic light. He agrees and i get another joy ride on his bike, with further hugging, and his left hand stroking my legs from time to time. And i think he noticed that i am enjoying the ride, he took a further traffic light all the way at thanon chaiyaphruek before taking a right turn toward the beach. I feels like i dont want this to end haha. As we go along the beach road, i can see one group of arab students? were on the beach playing beach volleyball, but with 6 person a side like the normal court volleyball. I told my guy that looks interesting and he make a stop there lol. I told him that i used to play this back in high school and university and he told me he also plays volleyball. We chat a bit on what position he plays (i play setter not because im good at it, but because no one else can play it lol) he plays setter too i think. One more thing that connects us. We didnt stay too long watching the game, and i told him that we can go back to hotel now. Once in the room, we didnt rush to the fun, and stay a bit more chatting on the bed, and he told me his real age this time lol i told him he says a different age (younger) last time and he said because customer usually want to hear that. I told him i actually prefer older guy. I actually dont mind about age, but some of my best experience had been with older but still fit and muscular guys. I find them to have less attitude issues, more passionate and caring, and of course more muscular and very appreciative. He told me about his younger days. Last time i took him, he told about his karaoke video clip gig. But this time he told me about magazine spread, in male model magazine, called STEP by STAGE. He showed me the magazine catalogue in one of the thai online magazine e-store. I asked him if he gets commission or royalty if someone buy it, which i think he should but he says no, he only get a one time payment. He did 2 issues of solo, and 1 issue with another male model. I can say for me, his body looks much better now. He used to me lean toned and now more muscular. But his younger self looks more handsome, while his current looks are more manly, which works really well for me lol. The fun part was great as before, though i think or feel it lasted much longer lol. We started with massage, and this time i also asked to massage him lol. Maybe i was a bit tired, thus it feels longer but we only done and settle down after cleaning up at 4am. He managed to catch some sleep but i didnt, and at 6am, he woke up, clean up a bit and asked my permission to leave. I got up to get his tips, and told him i will find him again the next time im in pattaya. And as reported at the beginning of the trip report, i didnt go to sleep after he left, since i need to go buy bus ticket back to bangkok and also packing and checking out, so after i bought the bus ticket, i went to the beach to have breakfast and rest at the beach chair until its time to check out. Id like to end this report with an excerpt from quite a recent song Beautiful by Bazzi feat Camila Cabillo that sums up perfectly how i felt about my time with this guy. It even get the time right lol Oh my God, where did the time go? I wish the hours would go slow How is it 6 AM? Your touch is heaven-sent Beautiful, beautiful sight right now Beautiful, beautiful life right now Got the angels singing ooh-ah right now like, ooh-ah And this is why we’ve got to touch (Ah) Sometimes words are not enough (No) Painted in your golden kiss, honey dripping from your lips I thank God and my lucky stars Darling, don't you know what you are? Yeah, baby, you are PS:- I might do a summary of some sort when i have time, probably on a different thread. Or on the many businesses thread in gay bangkok and gay pattaya thread.- 163 replies
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Trip report Christmas in Bangkok and New Year in Pattaya
spoon replied to spoon's topic in Gay Thailand
A quick google maps search shows no starbuck at jomtien area.- 163 replies
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Ive never had that experience before (passed out due to food poisoning), that must be scary. Main reason for food poisoning to be very dangerous, is severe dehydration and passing out is a serious symptom of dehydration. Glad u manage to came out of it, and only got bruises. It could be much worse. I guess ive had been lucky to never had food poisoning in thailand, as i really eat all kinds of food, and shakes, from the street food to restaurants. Maybe living just south of thailand, my stomach can handle the food with no issues, but surely as im getting older, ill need to watch where and what i eat. Hope you will have fun in pattaya, if u like what u see in dreamboy, you will like BBB bars in Boyztown. Seems like u are getting more action in massage, and bangkok have so many of those. In pattaya, the massage center in boyztown (copa, scandic, ambiance) would be your best bet.
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My guess is many of the ladyboys in gay gogo bars used to be gogo boys too, before the transition, thus they are sort of kept around rather than being hired from outside. So they find creative ways to justify their existence, in shows, and i see most of them time their shows are funny/comedic and find some bar goers enjoys that as well judging by the laughters and tips. Do they get off, the pretty one might i supposed? I guess from lady boy point of view, what other choices they have in the workforce when they had spent most of their life in gogobars, bars can only have certain number of mamasan, and the ladyboy bars only want the young and beautiful ladyboys. I also rather gogobars shows didnt have ladyboy especially the shows are more towards sleazy type. But they are part and parcel of gogobars since forever. I am glad some bars already went away with ladyboys shows, but if they do, ill just pay attentions to boys who sits in amongs the crowd during the show lol
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Yes, hank cover most of the things. As always, lower tips is still better than no tips at all. Money is money. If u sit with the boy, drinks ordered, some chat but u decide to off him, i do think no further tips is required. If boy says he dont need a drink (maybe your regular or he preferred tips) i definitely will tips boy more than 100. Any indecent touches also warrant extra tips in my opinion. U can also tips with another drink if u see the boys likes drinking. Sometimes i tips boy when they perform on stage or simply because i like him or he come to me during big cock show, in exchange for a "hand shake", but then i might ask few brief question (like long time ok nor not or top or bot) after without them sitting, so i usually didnt tip anymore for that chat, especially if it didnt result in him sitting next to me nor being off by me. On avoiding questions, i guess i never have reasons to hide where i stay nor how long ill be in bkk, but i guess u can answer vaguely, like ill be around for a while or if u see me here im here. Most likely they wont follow up with a different question.
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Haha it ended on 15th day of the lunar month (20th Feb) with a lantern festival or in malaysia, it is called cap goh mei. But thankfully, most countries only gives 1-3 days public holiday, which can be combined with weekends and extra leaves to make it a week long holiday, the week after should see significant reduction of crowds. Wish you have a wonderful time there, and hopefully boys who were away started working again by that time.
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Trip report Christmas in Bangkok and New Year in Pattaya
spoon replied to spoon's topic in Gay Thailand
I checked back my phone and i didnt take any photo on 1st january except during the countdown lol. So yeah, no photos to share on this day.- 163 replies
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Trip report Christmas in Bangkok and New Year in Pattaya
spoon replied to spoon's topic in Gay Thailand
On the other hand, foot massage at chivarome is 200 still. Yes 200 or 300, it is still very cheap.- 163 replies
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Trip report Christmas in Bangkok and New Year in Pattaya
spoon replied to spoon's topic in Gay Thailand
I have no idea that was the price lol maybe its special newbie price. Or special early bird gets the worm price. Maybe other member can attest?- 163 replies
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Trip report Christmas in Bangkok and New Year in Pattaya
spoon replied to spoon's topic in Gay Thailand
My previous hunk, db44 also have the same callous, from work out and playing guitar. And i actually like the feel too lol. And more so when he worried that id might not like the hand.- 163 replies
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Starbuck in malaysia also doesnt have malaysian translation either. I guess since starbucks are considered a luxury coffee here so is in thailand, as local coffee can be had for a fraction of their price (rm2 for local coffee vs rm15 for starbuck cafe latte), most local who can afford starbucks also knows english. Im not sure if the same is true in thai, but i guess to certain extend, they are true. We also suffer reverse racism, not sure if thats the correct term but in the service sector, fuel by western superiority complex, locals who went to these places wearing "normal" apparel are often being treated as if they are poor and cant afford being there, by workers who are locals as well.
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I had that experience all the time, being a non native english speaker. And its also annoying when people point out their surprise at how well i can speak and write in english haha.
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Trip report Christmas in Bangkok and New Year in Pattaya
spoon replied to spoon's topic in Gay Thailand
I woke up a bit early today maybe 9 or 10am. Decided to head to dongtan beach today and finally had a rest on one of the beach chair. Its lovely weather today, not so many people around. Its the new year and im pretty sure the aftermath of last night party still in progress. I walked along the beach all the way to the end and make my way back to find masseur that id like to take, found one, asked and he said he had bookings lined up already. So i chose to sit in one of the small chair (40bht) and rest under the shades, with gentle breeze from the ocean and shirtless men (some tourist does have great bodies lol). Soon after, one masseur approached me, called by the previous masseur i wanted to take, and offer his service. Took foot massage for 300 1 hour. I wasnt wearing swimsuit, just my usual track and shirt, and the masseur suggested for me to remove the pants. I only wear my brief for the massage in the open lol, but i guess its alright. The massage was decent and very relaxing indeed. Instead of aircond and sofa, with massage music, i am treated to a lazy chair, ocean breeze, sounds from the waves crushing the beach, and of course the view lol. Definitely something unique for me, or maybe i havent been to enough beach that have this kind of setup. I asked the masseur what time do most masseur usually come, and he says starting 10am onwards, but today, many of them late due to last night party. This is something i can get used to, and good enough reason for me to choose to stay in jomtien vs boystown especially seongthaw is easy ride between the two place. Watched the clock and its almost noon. Checked with my afternoon guy, by wechat, no response, but yesterday he did gives me his phone number and asked me to call. So i called him and he told me he wanted to shower and eat before coming to my hotel, and he will let me know when. Asked if he wanted to eat lunch with me, he said he had food from yesterday (buffet from BBB i suppose) and he dont want it to go to waste. He definitely already score high in my book, the only two boys this trip who can converse english good enough to hold conversation and phone calls, and dont like wasting food. So i had my lunch alone in one of the thai restaurant at jomtien beach road, and head back to the hotel to clean up and rest, wating for the boy. He then called me and said he is otw and 20min later, told me he is in the lobby. I headed out to pick him up to my room. Similar comments about the nice pool and the spacious rooms. We started at the living room with the casual chat to get to know each other. Then he asked if we wanted to go to the bedroom, which he then asked to go to the shower. I had already showered so he go in alone. He went out with just towels and hopped in the bed. We chat a bit more before things got steamy. I heard from a forumer before, that this guy can gives great massage so i asked him if he can do that first. And he says yes. Definitely will put his massage skills above average, nothing sensual, and his hands is a bit rough with callous from working out but i really didnt mind that, since he knows how to massage properly, and his hand is big that i felt his massage almost envelope my not so small body too at times. It lasted maybe 40min or so, another plus in my book. I also asked if i can massage his body as well and he said yes, though i didnt massage him that long, before we proceed to something else haha. Anyway, the whole thing lasted 2 hour or so, we then shower together, and he gets ready to leave, started to put on cloth. I felt that i wanted to know him more, so i went close to him and asked if he could stay longer. At first he said he wanted to go to the gym, then i told what i wanted to do if he stays, mostly cuddling with chatting, so he asked how long, i told him 2 hours and ill pay tips too. He agrees and there goes all of his clothes again, undressing in front of me, and i already felt money well spent haha. We got back to the bed, and i open the tv, and we chatted. I told him about some boys i know in bbb, asked about why most people there where shirts, and told him about a friend who couldnt find him in bbb the last time he was there in oct. He said bbb bew bosses policy that changes the bar to how it is now. Thus most boy now had to dress decently. Its now own by three thai bosses (not sure if all 3 are thai or not). He also told me the first guy i off, his doesnt really speak english, which explains why he cant tell me the reason he cannot go long time yesterday. Now on to the reason why he was absent from BBB for a while. He told me, he had has customers who likes to take him to their own countries, he mentioned singapore and china. Anyway, at some points, this happens a bit too often that the BBB boss is angry at him for now being around in the bar, even when they pay off fee. After he came back from being away too long, the boss told him he cannot work anymore. So he cant go to bbb for close to 4 month, and he told he just got back to work in BBB 1month. My guess is its the high season and boss want the bars filled with boys and he finally agree to bring him back but not without him having to pay quite a heftt penalty as well. I know that most gogo bars practice something similar to ensure the bar will have enough boys around to give ensure the bars also earn money from customers drinks/entrance. Its just the things that gogoboys have to deal with, and i guess one of the reasons why some boys choose to work in a different bars instead, to avoid paying penalty to go back to same bar. We also talked about yesterday countdown. I showed him my video of the balihai fireworks, and he showed me BT countdown video he had. The two hours passed by rather quickly and soon i have to say good bye. I wished i had met him earlier but the two days ive been to BBB, he wasnt around, and he told me because he went to Bangkok with a customer. He came back for the new year party because again, if boys didnt show up, they will have to pay penalty to bars. That explains the huge number of boys still in boyz music even at 2am. Owh, his mom also called him when he was there, and he excused himself for few mins to talk in the living room. He said he havent been back home more than a year already. I also got to know how he enter the scene, since he said he used to work as engineer before (explains his good english) but one of his friends told him how to get money quicker and faster and thats how he got into working in the bar. He is definitely one ill be looking forward to meet again when im in pattaya. I checked with z909 after the guy left my room, and see if he wanted to meet for coffee if he is still in jomtien, and he said he just got back at his room. So i get dressed and head out to the beach area to buy dinner at one of the street stalls, chicken and rice, and some roti with fruits, and eat my dinner at the room. In few hours, my longtime copa masseur will come to my room.- 163 replies
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Maybe they should hold songkran earlier too?
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Or that profile is for him to find someobe for long term relationship rather than for work?
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So apparently it became worse due to lack of winds during this time of year. Pollution sources have been there for a long time already. Hope boys will always wear mask when they are outside. I wonder if closing roads will solve the issues. Inducing rains helps the last time we had bad haze in indonesia/malaysia/borneo last time, though the source was forest fire and open burning from big plantations is the cause. Smogs is most from factories and cars, so better regulatory needs to be enforced.
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Can i join in the exchange lol. Though i rarely plan ahead. But itll give me some options of dates that i can join in later haha.
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Trip report Christmas in Bangkok and New Year in Pattaya
spoon replied to spoon's topic in Gay Thailand
On a different note about tet, in ho chi minh, when i was there, during tet, they will do a very elaborate decorations display along nguyen hue road. If i recall correctly, they actually planted a mini paddy field with real mud and real paddy planted on the streets lol. (Paddy is the plant where rice comes from btw)- 163 replies
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Yup, people have reasons for meeting or not meeting someone. For me, it is a bit of a step out experience as i am very shy person at firstand usually wont make any small talks with stranger myself. But talking about bars and boys loosen me up as we already shared something that is rather personal in my view, so i find it easy to connect after that fact. And yes, the type of activities can always be determines after the first meet or first few meets, and see if we have more in common than just boys and bars.
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Trip report Christmas in Bangkok and New Year in Pattaya
spoon replied to spoon's topic in Gay Thailand
Yup, i wasnt there as tourist though. But yeah, most people advice to avoid visiting during tet- 163 replies
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Trip report Christmas in Bangkok and New Year in Pattaya
spoon replied to spoon's topic in Gay Thailand
Except tet holiday is almost a week lol- 163 replies