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llz reacted to jason1975 in Chiang Mai Off Season September 2026 UpdatesI believe someone on the forum has written about the host bars. The rich customers who go to host bars are not there to off the guys but to flaunt their wealth. Their happy ending comes when they succeed in showing off to the other customers that they can buy the most drinks.
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llz reacted to musgrave in Chiang Mai Off Season September 2026 UpdatesOrion Bar in the night market area and Connections Bar in the Chang Klan area.are the main gay bars - generally frequented by tai yai lads some of whom are offable. Friday and Saturday are a little busier but it is low season. Both bars have Facebook pages. An alternative to AA is New Circle Club also on Facebook and located in the same area as AA. A short walk from AA is a small venue frequented by lads which was discussed in the CM forum - always found it lively.
RAM bar cabaret and Sixcret Cabaret both in night bazaar
Woody( and his partner Non) of Classic House massage do tours - a day trip to include Mon Chaem and Mae Komphong are well worth doing - trips into surrounding country side. If going to Mae Khompong a side trip to The Giant is recommended. if Woody and Non are not available they can usually arrange a friend to help.out.
CM coffee and restaurant scene is vibrant - some really outstanding places . My favourite - a little out of town is Cafe Eley
Host bars are popular here generaly coming alive around 11pm.onwards. Multiple lads catering to mixed customers - Sharky Host Bar and Club, BRC karaoke and Bar, Maya Club
Phoenix night club not too far from the night market - popular
Hornet and Grinder Apps work well here
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llz reacted to Londoner in Optometrist Jomtien complexYes; I reported last year that he helped me with an adjustment, refusing to accept payment for twenty minutes plus work. My experience led my partner, who was due to buy a new pair of spectacles in Pattaya Tai, to use his services instead. He was very pleased with the service he received; and the price.
A guy like that , working alone, deserves customers.
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llz reacted to Olddaddy in Optometrist Jomtien complexWhat a lovely polite friendly man the optometrist at Jomtien complex
Went to him and made me a few pairs of glasses 🤓
He has been to Australia 🦘 several times too and that was great conversation
If you need glasses 🤓 his customer service is good
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llz reacted to vinapu in Adventures of a Bangkok Rookie August 2026thing that some cheap people, like myself use to carry them from Bangkok to Pattaya or other way around
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llz reacted to durian in Thailand VE to be cut to 30 daysI was looking at this yesterday, It's still possible to enter for 60 days by buying a 60 day visa online before you travel. 40 dollars.
A 90 day visa for Vietnam is only 25 dollars.
Thailand seem to be shooting themselves in the foot.
Then people on the socials harp on about most people don't need 60 days.
I like to have 60 days, I'm retired, I'm not a criminal, I behave myself, always.
90 days in Vietnam is over in two days time, it's been fabulous, I will almost certainly be back here in December and January and cancel my 2 month booking in chiang mai.
If as often mentioned they are doing this to stop the bad behaviour and criminal activity, they are going about it the wrong way imo.
It's not like criminal and bad behaviour starts on day 31 of your 60 day visa.....
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llz reacted to macaroni21 in A very short bkk journeyI think you're alluding to something which I have long noticed, but rarely say out loud because it comes with a high risk of causing offence. But let me voice my observation now, with an IMPORTANT CAVEAT: PRESENT COMPANY EXCEPTED. I am not referring to either Olddaddy or Pong.
My observation is this: the worst examples of English writing is often seen from native English speakers, not from those who speak it as a second language. Partly, it's a self-sorting result. Non-native English speakers are conscious that they are using a foreign language and think they will not be able to write as well as native speakers, so they take extra trouble to check and proof-read what they write; or if they have no confidence, they don't write in English at all.
Native English speakers tend to "let loose". If their English is good, all well and fine. But if their English is bad, they may not even realise it, and they write as they speak (slang, highly localised usage, confusing syntax, etc) largely unaware how they come across to others. They are used to people in their own circles understanding them, and since those in the same circles also supposedly speak "English" (note the quotation marks), they all think that the language they use (and write) must be, well, English.
It may also have to do with the fact that those who have to learn English as a second language are taught the language in a structured way -- the nuts and bolts of grammar and so on -- and I have often been shocked how schools in Australia and the US (places I am familiar with) do not teach English that way. They assume the language need only be learned though use. The trouble with such an attitude is that students imbibe the language from their family's social circles and their own peers. If those circles don't speak or know how to write properly, then one cannot, logically speaking, imbibe proper English. And yet they hold the belief that what they are speaking is English.
An old friend of mine, now a retired schoolteacher, once explained to me that something happened in the 1970s and 1980s to pedgagogy. There was a change to valorising self-expression rather than teaching rules of grammar. Coupled with something to do with multiculturalism -- one is not supposed to criticise accent or idiosyncratic usage, instead, we must "celebrate difference" -- much language quality has gone down the chutey.
OK, I've said it. Let the arrows fly!
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llz reacted to macaroni21 in A very short bkk journeyThat was different. @rd2077's "style" is a " breathless no punctuation" style. Might have been transcribed from a voice-based, stream-of-consciousness dictation.
Or it might have been machine translated from another language. Sometimes we forget that many members here don't use English as their first language. That said, most machine translation I have come across do put punctuation in, although often at the wrong places.
I'm old-fashioned. I've been taught to ensure clarity in what I write. A former boss once told me: if you want to communicate, make sure the other party understands you correctly. It's not the responsibility of the other party to guess what you may intend to mean.
Since then, a whole new generation has come and flooded our media with their styles and I feel so out of date. Sigh!
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llz reacted to emiel1981 in Public Service Announcement (PSA) - Next phase of the Jomtien Beach sand replenishment project to reach our Dongtan BeachThis was exactly my first reaction. Panic set in. Until I read the rest of your post. Thanks for the detailed explanation. I am now convinced that there will still be enough beach to spend the days.
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llz reacted to jimmie50 in Weekends in Bangkok 2026I agree 100%. I don't bother to read or look at anything that is created by AI. Not interested in that at all. It is one thing to edit a photograph that you have taken or had taken...but to digitally create something out of nothing...it just doesn't look real to me. And the text written by AI...so over the top. Nobody talks that way.
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llz reacted to vinapu in Weekends in Bangkok 2026it is what is is but I wouldn't compare company reports few people, other than perhaps investors , read to debaucherous Thai trip reports
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llz reacted to bkkmfj2648 in Map of Jomtien Complex - SupertownTime to update the Jomtien Complex, aka Supertown map:
Added Peter Bar #2 (soon to be opening in the former vacated Sun Bar space), Added Sudjai Jomtien Massage - new massage shop that opened near the Fun Bar, Added The Best Massage - new massage shop that opened near the Agate Hotel, Deleted the 7 Days Cafe - which unfortunately recently closed.
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llz reacted to Marc308 in My dismal attempt at speaking Thai.Learning to speak paasaa Thai is a real privilege. It means that Thailand is willing to share a bit of its culture with us. Of course, it is not absolutely necessary you learn to speak Thai. One could theoretically live in the UK or Canada without speaking English, but you would be strongly disadvantaged. You'd necessarily be ghettoized to live in a community which speaks your language instead of being able to roam freely. I suppose, thanks to AI, in the not too distant future we will have devices which go far beyond what Google Translate can do. I would find that eventuality somewhat sad, because so much of culture is wrapped up into language. I hope Thailand doesn't become Anglicized one day after all the centuries which Thailand has mostly successfully resisted colonization.
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llz reacted to vinapu in Weekends in Bangkok 2026if AI will start writing our trip reports , I suspect it may be eventually only AI left as reader of them
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llz reacted to Vessey in I'm getting oldKeep in mind that growing older is considerably better than the alternative! 😂
But getting older, especially on holiday in Pattaya, certainly has its developing challenges.
I still try and see as many boys as I can, but these days, at 72, I am a pretty crap shag compared to even a few years ago.
I can still get erections, but not as strong as they were, at least not staying as strong as they used to; even with medical assistance, although that certainly helps. I tire more easily, and my lower back can now all-too quickly give-out in certain positions. I also manage to cum far less often than I rememeber.
So why do I persist?; simply because I still love interacting with hot naked young Thai lads. I love my regulars, and I still love the hunt for new boys amongst the bars every time I return.
And I am finding that I am developing my own coping mechanisms to help compensate. For example, a slow sensuous oil massage can still have my tired old cock waving about and screaming for attention by the 'turn-over'. With some short-times, I find I can still enjoy being a 'side', even with non-penetrative sex. I am accepting that I don't have to cum myself every time (actually I couldn't these days even if I wanted to). Previously I was always the top, but I am increasingly enjoying being the bottom. And finally, I find threesomes to be increasingly enjoyable; I can participate as and when I want to, and my usual Thai partner, who is fully versatile, slips easily into the lead role to help bring events to an overall happy conclusion. 🥰
So into my 70s, and my holidays continue to be fun for me, even though year on year becoming subtly different.
Hopefully I will be returning in a little over two weeks to put my aging body to the test yet again! 😂 Can't wait! 🥰
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llz reacted to mauRICE in My dismal attempt at speaking Thai.Ooh I've come across so-called native speakers of English like that; the most memorable was this Kiwi guy from the South Island - I didn't have a fucking clue as to what he was saying and was thinking of ways of getting out of the conversation. Guess what he did for a living? Thaaat's right, he was a teacher of English in Thailand. 🤦
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llz reacted to jason1975 in New "saunatainment" spot opens in Bangkok - WellmaxBecause we are sluts and not gentlemen? 🤣
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llz reacted to vinapu in Is it quiet right nowbest cure for Pattaya fatigue is certain city , just 1 hr. 50 minutes and 151 baht away, Bangkok or something , forgot the name
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llz reacted to MaxBKK in Advice for massage parlourThere are also several popular (with Thais) host bars. Karaoke if you like. There are often very cute student types at your service. 👍
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llz reacted to Olddaddy in Advice for massage parlourPerhaps leave the colour out , it could be defined as racist
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llz reacted to Vessey in Foreign Men Bid Thankful Farewell in PattayaNever seen that before, but I guess many of us have developed our own little rituals both on our arrival back and again on our departure.
My own rituals are both simple and similar. I still start and finish my holidays at the Queen Victoria Hotel on Soi 6, which has been my 'second home' since 2010. I always have a balcony room on the top floor overlooking the busy soi below. My interest in the girls in the bars below have long since dwindled, but I still just love the whole atmosphere of the place.
As I arrive, I throw my bag onto the bed, walk over, open the big balcony window, walk out, lean over the railings and welcome myself back, savouring the noisy activity below. On departing, my last act before I leave my room to get my taxi, is to repeat the process, promising to myself 'Until next time'!
I still get emotional every time as I leave, my boyfriend assumes the tears are for him, and indeed some of them are, but also some are for just leaving Pattaya, my 'Happy Place', to return to my normal life back home in England.
I still enjoy my life back home, it holds friends, family and the many activites I get immersed in, but it is an almost entirely celibate life these days, both conventional, and respectable. A far cry from the 'happy' massages, sweaty short times, and the general, hands-on, late-night debauchery enjoyed inside of some of my favourite boy bars.
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llz reacted to Vessey in Are the bars dead?I still use the Queen Victoria Hotel on Soi 6 for part of my holidays, in fact I have been staying there for the last 16 years, usually in a balcony room over looking the soi itself. It used to be joked that if Walking Street was the beating heart of Pattaya, then Soi 6 was its pussy! Around 60 girly bars, always fairly busy, even in Low Season, and packed to near capacity in High Season.
But maybe ten years ago its popularity and future looked uncertain. It was a place of (en)closed bars with short-time rooms convenienlty above the bars; the bulk of its customers middle-aged to elderly white farang from Europe and the West.
Then a renaissance started to take place just over ten years ago, spearheaded by the NightWish Group (who now own 20+ of the bars), opening up the front of the bars, bringing in farang managers, and encouraging a younger crowd of customers from more diverse backgrounds. The focus became more on partying, with bells ringing up and down the Soi, but still with girls up and down the stairs to the short-time rooms with their customers. It discovered a new vibrancy, that I still feel infectious, even though the girls themselves hold little interest for me these days.
More crucially perhaps, that renaissance was accompanied by intensive publicity campaigns. For example, bars would daily line-up their girls outside the bars most days for pictures that would be on each bars Facebook groups. There were even opportunities, for example, for those abroad to buy lady-drinks online for their favourites with video links, etc. Such initiatives clearly succeeded as the numbers of vistors rose again, the bars thrived, the girls earned money and a younger demographic of customers spent their time and money there.
Elsewhere, the girly bars across LKMetro, Buakhao, TreeTown, etc, also thrive, even in Low Season.
On our side of the fence, I have watched in frustration as Sunee Plaza has slowly died away; Boyztown is now a shadow of its once vibrant past. Only Jomtien Complex still does reasonably well, and consequently I spend increasing amounts of my holiday time staying at the Zing Hotel there. But the bars are still heavily populated by aging ex-Pats, drawn by its boys and far cheaper beer prices. However, I am not sure that actual tourist numbers are particularly great, and most bars seem pretty useless in promoting themselves to the wider gay world, particularly to the younger gay world. At 72 I am one of the younger, fitter ones; I haven't actually seen Zimmer Frames in use, but quite a few customers look close to needing one! Haha
Selfishly low season suits me; lots of baht-hungry boys surprisingly anxious to spend bedroom time with an old fart like me. But long-term the slow decline is in evidence even here; and basically, IMHO, its our own fault! Places like the Complex still have so much to offer the gay sex tourist, we just need to encourage them (discuss! hahaha).
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llz reacted to Vessey in Are the bars dead?My No 2 regular boy, has worked in Toy Boys for the last few years (and elsewhere in Pattaya for many years more). He told me a few weeks ago how he had managed to snag an American customer for a few days. He is almost 30, but a small slim gay Thai boy and still very cute looking.
The customer had wanted a long-time companion, and one of the mamasans at Toy Boys was telling the boys to ask for 3k baht a night, despite the dreadfuly low low-season upon them. No 2 told the guy he would go for 2k a night and was duly offed; several other lads teased him for selling himself too cheap.
However, the American ended up keeping him for 10 nights, so No 2 finished with 20k in his pocket while his peers in Toy Boys had struggled to find any customers at all and remained with empty pockets!
The benefits of experience and a practical approach! 😂
He will once again have me offing him for three weeks in September!
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llz reacted to pylonguy71 in First Time in Bangkok - May 2026 Trip Reportok, this report is coming later than I anticipated, but work/life has been so busy since returning from my travels. Anyway, this is my first attempt at one of these reports, so I hope it's helpful/vaguely interesting lol...
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The day before my flight to Bangkok, I realized I hadn't been sent a check in text, so looked at my email and saw that Thai Airways had cancelled my flight and rescheduled me for the following day! Disappointing to say the least, given my Bangkok hotel was non refundable and this also meant I'd only have two nights (and three days) in Bangkok. It also meant I would miss out on my first massage with Copper (History go Massage), as he was booked for the rest of my stay. Even though I haven't read any reviews of him on here, his photos looked incredibly hot so I was really excited to meet with him. Anyway, I chose to see the bright side, which was an extra day in Europe, and also the ability to check into my hotel room immediately upon arrival in Bangkok (my flight arrived at 5.30am so I would've had to leave my bags and wait until the room was available) as I'd paid for the previous night. My flight was great, managed to get three seats to myself and stretch out - Temu Business Class hehe. Immigration and baggage claim was fast and easy, and I already had an eSIM installed for Bangkok, so I ordered a Grab to my hotel. I was able to check into my room, and I grabbed breakfast downstairs, then had a shower and a nap for a couple of hours. Then I got on a Grab bike and headed to TCS for my first massage with Ruj.
I was both nervous and excited, as this was my first time with a massage guy, and I felt like I knew what to expect from reading the great trip reports on here. Upon arriving at TCS, Ruj came and greeted me in reception then took me up to the room. I had downloaded google translate Thai so was able to communicate with him via that. Based on recommendations on here, I was upfront that I was looking for a full boy 2 body experience. In retrospect, I think it would've been better with this particular guy to let things proceed naturally, as he seemed almost annoyed by my texts stating what I wanted before we even got started. He asked me if he could keep his underwear on for the start of the massage, which I of course had no problems with. Run has a lean, smooth gym body, beautiful proportions, and he looked very sexy in his Calvins! The "legit" massage was actually better than I had been expecting. Not exceptional, but definitely quite good. What I wasn't feeling was any sense of sensuality from his strokes. After a pretty thorough rubdown, he asked me to turn over, and almost immediately grabbed my (soft) dick and started jerking it a little bit aggressively. It felt like he just wanted to get me off, and he made no attempt to get on the table or initiate anything sexual beyond this. I ran my hand over his beautiful torso, and this helped get me hard. I hadn't cum in a couple of weeks, so my dick responded to his touch, even though I wasn't really turned on, and I felt like I was going to cum very quickly. I happen to be pretty hung (definitely a grower) and he looked shocked when I was fully hard, and said "big! big!" a couple of times which made me almost laugh out loud. I reached into his briefs and grabbed his cock, which wasn't hard, but felt like it had good potential. As I expected, I came too quickly, and given it had been so long since I'd last came, it was a pretty massive load and he made some genuinely surprised noises. He seemed to think that I was just getting started, and grabbed more oil and started stroking my dick again. I gently touched his hand and shook my head.
He then led me to the shower, and stepped in to join me. He started stroking one of my nipples and I could tell that things could easily progress from there, but I was too in my own head by that stage, so I didn't really reciprocate. It was definitely a case of expectations ruining reality, and I now chalk it up to first time nerves, given how well things went for the rest of my time in Bangkok (just adding that now in case you thought this was going to be one big disaster of a report!). we got out of the shower and he texted that he was going to get me some tea. I looked at the clock and we still had about 25 minutes left of the massage, so I felt annoyed that he hadn't asked me if I wanted anything else and had prematurely ended (although I prematurely "ended" myself thanks to his aggressive jerking!). I dressed and sat on the sofa, and a few minutes later he came back in with a cup of tea. He sat next to me on the sofa and we started having a conversation using the Google Translate microphone, which translates both sides verbal conversation in real time - so helpful and cool! While waiting for his return, I had realized I'd been too in my head and not allowing the massage and extras to just happen in a more natural way, so I decided to just chill out and get to know him. We actually had a really great conversation, and towards the end he asked me if I had instagram, and he followed me from his personal account. I definitely got the impression that a much better time could happen together should we meet up again. Anyway, given that the massage hadn't been for the entire time I paid for, and that extras had been minimal to say the least, I reduced my planned tip and gave him 1500baht, which felt more than fair.
Next up, my first visit to the boy bars and things really heat up!
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llz reacted to daydreamer in Bangkok Visit - June 2026Thanks for your post, @floridarob (I've run out of "likes" for a 24 hour period).
I believe Google AI is assuming incorrect in that they are using a 5 day workweek (22-day working month) to establish the wages. In many countries such as Thailand, workers in many lower paid jobs have only one day off per week.