June 21Jun 21 40 minutes ago, vinapu said: clear case of overregulation With the irony being that this activity is "illegal". So, is this an overregulated "illegal" activity?
June 22Jun 22 12 hours ago, bkkmfj2648 said: With the irony being that this activity is "illegal". So, is this an overregulated "illegal" activity? yes
June 22Jun 22 Active Members 22 hours ago, PeterRS said: @daydreamer may recall that there was a thread back at the end of 2018 started by @abidismaili titled The Men of Thailand magazine. Does anyone recall: was Twilight the only go-go bar in that soi in 1991 and did the others all just begin to appear after that? Yes, I remember that thread. @abidismaili and I identified @vinapu's first bar visited, named Up2. I believe Twilight was the only bar in that location in 1991, at the beginning of the soi. just across Surawong from Barbiery Bar. I remember being in Barbiery, and seeing a prolific poster on one of the Thailand gay forums that some may remember named David in Pattaya. He was taking photos of the beautifully body painted dancers in Barbiery to post on a gay Thailand forum, as he often did with his photos. I don't recall which forum David posted on. The camera David was using was one of the first Sony digital cameras, one that used a 3.5 inch floppy disk, before Sony developed a memory stick. The camera was a Sony Mavica. Hey, don't we have a forum member named @Mavica ?
June 22Jun 22 1 hour ago, daydreamer said: Yes, I remember that thread. @abidismaili and I identified @vinapu's first bar visited, named Up2. correct, that was my 1st bar visited ever but it was not exactly in soi Twilight but on Rama IV, I guess in location where Take -a -Nap hotel later was or right beside
June 22Jun 22 3 hours ago, daydreamer said: Yes, I remember that thread. @abidismaili and I identified @vinapu's first bar visited, named Up2. I believe Twilight was the only bar in that location in 1991, at the beginning of the soi. just across Surawong from Barbiery Bar. I remember being in Barbiery, and seeing a prolific poster on one of the Thailand gay forums that some may remember named David in Pattaya. He was taking photos of the beautifully body painted dancers in Barbiery to post on a gay Thailand forum, as he often did with his photos. I don't recall which forum David posted on. The camera David was using was one of the first Sony digital cameras, one that used a 3.5 inch floppy disk, before Sony developed a memory stick. The camera was a Sony Mavica. Hey, don't we have a forum member named @Mavica ? 91 ahh to be so young again lol, didn’t need to pay to off guys back then….
June 22Jun 22 Wasn't "David in Pattaya" the same David that ran a small bar near (not in) Sunee. Soi Yensabai? And then later Oscars in Boyztown? A nice guy, I recall; and also a performer. He was extremely kind to an American friend of mine who lived nearby and suffered a very cruel illness in the last months of his life. If so, he passed away about seven years ago.
June 23Jun 23 Active Members 21 hours ago, vinapu said: correct, that was my 1st bar visited ever but it was not exactly in soi Twilight but on Rama IV, I guess in location where Take -a -Nap hotel later was or right beside Right, Up2 bar was on Rama IV, not far from the Rama IV end of Soi Twilight. It was a fairly large bar, but unfortunately, I believe the out of the way location caused its demise.
June 23Jun 23 2 hours ago, daydreamer said: It was a fairly large bar, but unfortunately, I believe the out of the way location caused its demise. but not before mamasan there fixed me with my first ever Thai boy who took me to now boarded up short time rooms in the walkway between Suriwong road and and Moonlight bar. To this day whenever I walk to Moonlight I take that route for old times sake.
June 23Jun 23 On 6/22/2026 at 3:59 PM, Londoner said: Wasn't "David in Pattaya" the same David that ran a small bar near (not in) Sunee. Soi Yensabai? And then later Oscars in Boyztown? A nice guy, I recall; and also a performer. He was extremely kind to an American friend of mine who lived nearby and suffered a very cruel illness in the last months of his life. If so, he passed away about seven years ago. Yes !!! Forget the name of that small bar in soi Yensabai opposite the laneway .. White knight ? I don't know but when he sold it . A angry pommy guy took it over ....he had it a few years then the kiwi Warwick formerly of baan dock Mai guesthouse bought it
June 24Jun 24 Baan dock Mai hotel 🌸🌷🌹lol It was close to the action at that time ,sunee plaza , tukcom etc Warwick the owner sold it in 2015 to a young aussie guy who ran it into the ground and eventually it closed up I think a few years later Oh getting back to the bar mentioned by Londoner , the bar was called LE CAGE
June 24Jun 24 1 hour ago, Olddaddy said: Oh getting back to the bar mentioned by Londoner , the bar was called LE CAGE The historian in me could not resist - as I missed this place as my "discovery" of Pattaya was too late. Enjoy below video from 16 years ago of the La Cage - Mike's Bar
June 24Jun 24 Oh yes it became MIKES BAR Unfortunately I always found MIKE a sour face 😞 type of character so didn't go much Hopefully most of the sad old guys in the video have moved on to a better pasture ☠️😇and we have a new generation of farangs instead these decrepit sour face Cxnts
June 24Jun 24 Yes....thanks. David and a mate did a drag-act there. In fact , the first time I met him he was in full drag, something I found rather alarming - not my cup of tea- but I later found him to be a good guy. He was one of that generation that built Boyztown and the Pattaya scene generally after the earlier work of the likes of Jim Lumsden and Michael Burchill. It is right that they should be remembered on this forum.
June 24Jun 24 11 minutes ago, Londoner said: Yes....thanks. David and a mate did a drag-act there. In fact , the first time I met him he was in full drag, something I found rather alarming - not my cup of tea- but I later found him to be a good guy. He was one of that generation that built Boyztown and the Pattaya scene generally after the earlier work of the likes of Jim Lumsden and Michael Burchill. It is right that they should be remembered on this forum. A very funny guy 😂 I loved him and he made me laugh 😂 something unusual as I'm not a happy type person !
June 24Jun 24 3 hours ago, Olddaddy said: I loved him and he made me laugh 😂 something unusual as I'm not a happy type person ! good news are piling up
June 26Jun 26 On 6/24/2026 at 12:45 AM, Olddaddy said: Hopefully most of the sad old guys in the video have moved on to a better pasture ☠️😇and we have a new generation of farangs instead these decrepit sour face Cxnts these "OTHER" decrepit sour faced Cxnts...
June 26Jun 26 4 hours ago, t0oL1 said: these "OTHER" decrepit sour faced Cxnts... I think most of them have died off ... hopefully anyway Oh please there's no need for jealousy!!!
June 26Jun 26 3 hours ago, Olddaddy said: I think most of them have died off ... hopefully anyway Oh please there's no need for jealousy!!! our time will come , face sour or smiling
June 27Jun 27 On 6/24/2026 at 11:13 AM, Olddaddy said: I'm not a happy type person ! Gosh what a surprise!
July 19Jul 19 Popular Post On 6/26/2026 at 5:50 PM, Olddaddy said: I think most of them have died off ... Sadly, many of the Thai guys I've known over the past 22 years in the Bangkok, Chiang Mai and Pattaya gay scenes have passed away and the above clip brought a tear to my eye. These guys grew up poor and without proper nutrition which in turn affected their physical and mental development and their bodies' ability to cope with the diseases and the heavy party lifestyle which they eventually encountered. One was given rice water as a baby as his family couldn't afford formula. They didn't go to the doctor when they were sick either due to lack of resources, fear or ignorance, and by the time a medical condition was discovered, it was often too late. It breaks my heart as quite a few of them were of my generation. 😔
July 20Jul 20 Popular Post Agreed; this should be remembered in all our dealings with Thais on the scene. I remember being more than irritated when falang visitors were haggling over a 100 bht note. I've seen poverty elsewhere in the world- parts of West Africa were truly shocking. However, the lives of the guys we met (and in some cases loved) were very hard. Many villages didn't have electricity twenty-five years ago- my partner did his homework by candle-light and the outside toilets were no fun. He was bitten by a snake in his family's at night and hospitalised. I knew what to expect when I visited his parents for the first time: what I saw illustrated once again why so many young men and women from such backgrounds went to Bangkok and Pattaya. I recall telling a friend that my partner had lived the first twenty years of his life in a rural slum. I'm so pleased that he met someone who was able to help. He deserves it.
July 20Jul 20 11 hours ago, Londoner said: I recall telling a friend that my partner had lived the first twenty years of his life in a rural slum. I'm so pleased that he met someone who was able to help. He deserves it. hope you get along with that someone, lol
July 20Jul 20 12 hours ago, Londoner said: I recall telling a friend that my partner had lived the first twenty years of his life in a rural slum. I'm so pleased that he met someone who was able to help. He deserves it. Ohh what a beautiful ending to a sad story. Is that who he lives with when you're back in the UK?
July 21Jul 21 He lives with three dogs...four until recently when one was killed by a cobra while she defended his farm. The perils of rural Thailand!
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