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sure it's ok, after all you are paying but keep in mind some boys like shows in other bars but others don't enjoy those so don't be surprised if you will see some grimaces when you table proposal. But sure , even if they don't like they will accompany you. Keep in mind if you take boy fort the show in another bar you will be paying for 2 drinks / admissions so it may be expensive option , even worse he may ask you to buy a drink for his friend who works in that bar or horror of horrors , invite his friend for a drink without even asking you . It's why I stop seeing one of my regulars few years ago. On another hand if you have boy with you already you won't be harassed for business by mamasan or other boys

you not big on hardware stores I gather ?

my name is vinapu not many

we may tend to their garden instead of forking out money ?

no idea, only explanation which comes to my mind is that we are too picky

of course they don't but likely think ' no hurt trying". In process they overdo it as we can see from report above. Cultural differences, generational gap and less than stellar command of English by the boys contribute to those misunderstandings of other party lack of interest in rushing things

no, he never got caught so far

Oldddady , you asked for it

if you ever bother to read one of my post-covid trip reports , you may notice that every trip I have non-scene guy visiting me at least once per trip. Usually in day time as he works shifts. We passed by each other on the street by chance , I was stunned by his look so next time I saw him , which with Guardian Angel help happened to be next day I smiled at him broadly which he noticed. Day or two later we met again , that time we both smiled so we both stopped for hand shake and brief talk during which he said ' we should have drink together sometime " . It did not happen as I was leaving next day but at least we exchanged Line. Next trip we arranged for that drink which led to dinner which let to suggestion to have few more beers and again he suggested to save money to buy beer at 7/11 and drink it in my room. Then I knew I'm home and indeed that drinking developed to something requiring diming lights and making sure windows are covered. When it was time for him to go home I asked him 'can I give you some money?" to which he responded "of course". Now we have an arrangement when I'm in Bangkok he tells me when he can visit me and its simple 'yes or no " on my side, no fuss If I decline or ask for different time and day. Win/ win situation for both of us.

or improving revenue stream

yes

I think it was 767 whose engine burst in flames, not 787.

tastes and experiences vary so no recommendation ever be universal

not that anybody would have any doubts

typical case when I can jump with one of my doubtful wisdoms and say to emiel " go and see for yourself"

it did , both in shops and on apps although luckily for me out of three cases of pics not matching , two were actually other way around and guys in flesh looked even more attractive than on pics. on my last trip report I even described case when boy offed from Dreamboys turned out to be one I was following on Grindr but it took a while for me to realize that ( pictire from Grindr was not as much misleading but made him looking much taller than in reality )

it looks you need to visit Senso and Prince, Arena is much less shiny but all other ingredients - hunky boys to inspect and helpful mamasan are there too. Jey Spa may have some boys on duty too, all meeting your specifications ( which happens to be mine too )

that's what victim of crime or bullying often complain about- everybody watched but nobody stepped to help

very sensible not to pursue undertaking of project , impossible even to start. Thinking about next meal seems to be more productive

Churchill was right, nothing destroys morale of fighting nation more than destruction of cherished cultural symbol. demolish some shipyard , military base or factory , it will only strengthen resolve, demolish nation's icon, you may be called barbarian but war has chance of ending very soon and as by product, you may immortalize yourself. Only one column is left from Artemida's temple in Efes but name of that idiot Herostrates lives forever.

I, for one, am in stage of life looking for ways to get rid of stuff rather than buy even more. Also learned they if I need something , I pay whatever it costs , if I don't need I just skip it even if price is 97% off. After years of hunting bargains I find it very liberating and also manly . Why ? my mother used to say " man pays twice as much for thing he needs, woman pays half price for stuff she doesn't need"

perhaps you were always too focused on the task

noted although last week of November is usually out of travel bounds for me for personal reasons . For now I have ideas but no firm plans yet - for me because of distance, airfares and flight times have oversized impact on travel plans.

exactly , what you described is quite popular behavior of younger but also older but offed for the first time guys . Deed done , lets shower, cash in and go instead of ' when you will see me next time ?' as minimum. In paid encounter of any kind it's one who pays to initiate parting rites. I'm not shy to point it out to guys looking for subsequent off that I was not happy with them rushing things out at the first time ............. Arthur is older, very massive guy who looks and probably is of mixed Asian / black race. In fact one can take him for a black guy

it's in the same small soi Patpong Post office is. I saw it but did not brave in, saunas are not really my thingy