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We entered Dreamboy and there were 40 guys on stage. Way more than the number of guys at Jupiter yesterday night. The mamasans initially seated us in front row but after they realised how big our group was (and with the 100% possibility of us inviting Dreamboy guys for drinks with us), they allowed us to sit at spacious semi-circular sofa seats above the normal seats. Very soon, two guys were invited to sit with us for drinks and one was eventually offed by esteemed forum member. I was with my guy so I was hesitant about buying drinks for anyone. I know at least 5 guys in Dreamboy, with the most prominent being the one I offed 5 times in June - Music Guy! He looked ravishing on stage and he flexed his chest muscles in his sexy red shorts. He saw me and smiled but he also saw my guy next to me. He probably thought that I wouldn't meet him tonight. My guy was busy chatting with mamasans. He knew them well because he worked at Dreamboy for a while. After a while, I finally got my guy's attention. I asked him if I could buy a drink for Music Guy. My guy nodded. "Up to you." And that was how I ended up seated in the middle of two hot guys on a Saturday night in Bangkok.

The Raya was my favourite hotel because of room size and glass shower. I would now stay at Raya only for old time's sake and sweet memories. For long stays, I prefer airbnb. For weekend stays with my guy, my current favourite is Quarter Silom. We used to stay at 56 Surawong during weekend trips but now I like the gym and breakfast at Quarter. All cheaper than Le Meridien which I can no longer afford to stay in.

The floor looks like it will get very wet when water from the bath tub spills out. Such a big space for bathroom leaving little space for bedroom.

VB is one of the loudest and fun guys I met. I offed him only once and it was two year ago. Lean body and great abs. Unfortunately, I prefer the other guys in Good Boy so I never offed him again. But I bought him drinks and tipped him whenever I went to his bar.

I asked ChatGPT for a summary. The Subtle Art of Not Giving a F*ck is a self-help book by Mark Manson that argues you shouldn't try to stop caring about everything. Instead, you should be very selective about what you care about. The central message is: You have limited time, energy, and attention. Spend them only on things that truly matter to you, and stop worrying about things that don't. Some of the book's key ideas include: Accept that life is difficult. Problems are a normal part of life, and trying to avoid them often creates more suffering. Choose your values wisely. Focus on values like honesty, growth, responsibility, and kindness rather than popularity, wealth, or constant happiness. Take responsibility. Even when something isn't your fault, you are responsible for how you respond to it. Embrace failure. Mistakes and setbacks are opportunities to learn and improve. Stop seeking constant positivity. The book argues that it's healthier to acknowledge negative emotions than to pretend everything is always fine. Be comfortable saying no. You can't please everyone, so it's important to set boundaries and prioritize what's meaningful to you. Despite the title, the book isn't about being rude or indifferent. It's about: Caring less about trivial opinions and distractions. Caring more about your goals, relationships, and principles. Accepting that you can't control everything, but you can control your choices and attitude. In short, the book encourages living a more intentional, resilient life by focusing on what genuinely deserves your attention.

Ah. I have seen that book at bookstores at airport but never felt inclined to pick it up and browse the pages.

For those of you who are in Bangkok in mid August

My guy and I met forum members for dinner at food court in basement of Park Silom. Wide variety of food choices. My guy was excited when he saw a stall selling Singapore chicken rice. Unfortunately, all the chicken were sold out so we ordered Thai food instead. Forum members updated each other on our daytime adventures. After dinner, it was bar visit and tonight we decided to visit Dreamboy!

Is it noisy since it is beside the road?

AI is powerful! I was curious about the power of AI so I sent ChatGPT links to all the trip reports I wrote in 2025 and 2026 and ChatGPT could quickly give a summary and analysis!

You have a kind heart and willing to give others a second chance.

I am going again in December during Christmas time, in case you want to know!

What is the book's title? What is the book about?

We woke up in morning and had sex before showering and going downstairs for breakfast. As usual, we had our chess set with us and we played as we ate. Few people at 8am on a Saturday morning. After breakfast, my guy went back to his room to sleep for the rest of the day as is his daily routine. He could have slept in hotel room but he didn't bring along a change of clothes when he went to bar yesterday night. He said sorry for his forgetfulness. He said he would go back to his room to sleep and he would arrive back at hotel room at 7pm. I could do whatever I want when he was away. So it was a deal. I went back to hotel room and rested awhile. At 10am, I went out to Siam Paragon for shopping and I also watched the latest Spider-Man movie. I was back in hotel by 4pm and I went to swimming pool to relax in the water. From the pool, I saw several guys in the gym who worked at nearby massage shops in soi 6. I went back to my hotel room and at 6pm, my massage appointment arrived. Excellent massage and the sex after was even better! We showered and went down for a smoke and chatted awhile. He left to have dinner with his friends before they reported to work at bar. I went up to room and a few minutes later, my guy opened the door. He looked around the room, saw the messy bed and the two used bath towels. He knew what had happened and he teased me. "We meet my friends dinner at 9pm. What do you want to do now?" I asked him. (Definitely not sex!) He said let's go to the gym and I agreed. I am not a gym person so I just spent the time taking videos of my guy lifting weights. He met a Viet friend who works in massage shop at the gym. My guy didn't do intense work out as we only had half an hour. He did some light exercises and didn't sweat much and at 8:45pm, we left to go to Park Silom for dinner with other forum members.

It's close to the bars! Good choice!

Just after 1:30am, we left DJ station. We walked to Patpong 2 and passed by Midnight bar. Forum member was there having a drink with hunky Myanmar waiter who was drunk. Hunky Myanmar waiter asked me if I wanted to drink shots with him. Sure. Sambuca! 3 shots for him, me and my guy. After that we went to Happy Beer Garden for supper with four Vietnamese guys from Good Boy after their bar closed at 2am. Forum member joined us as well. We ate and drank beer until 3:45am when the aunties at Happy Beer Garden started to chase us out as they close at 4am. It was nice meeting up with the gang. They are friends with my guy. I know them well because I have offed them (except for one because he is a good friend's long term guy and I abide by the bro code). I did speak to one of the Viet guys in private to arrange for massage tomorrow. Hehe. I went back to hotel with my guy and we had quick shower before collapsing on the bed, exhausted but we enjoyed every minute of the night.

My guy had told me that he recently had an Asian customer take him to DJ station to drink and dance. Asian customer only paid him 2000 baht instead of minimum 2500 baht for short time. It is low season so my guy accepted the customer's offer. But all these years that I have known my guy, I never knew he could dance. So I wanted to find out what happens if I take him to DJ station. After we paid entrance fee and entered, I grabbed my guy's hand and headed to the dance floor. It was packed with gays but there were some Western ladies as well with their boyfriends. To be fair to my guy, he tried his best to get into the groove but it was obvious that dancing is not his forte. Of course I could have just hugged him while enjoying the music at the dance floor but I decided to put him out of his misery. We headed to the drinks counter and had shots - first tequila then B-52s. Then we wandered around DJ station before we found a table and seats near the ladyboy stage. I took out a mini chess set and we played chess for the next one hour and half!

Yes, it made Dreamboy guy into such a bad person. I hope you don't get personal messages from anonymous forum members asking who is the guy for whatever reason. I believe the guy made promises to you because he has not been offed for some time and he wanted to secure an off badly.

After getting back my passport from Reception Guy, my guy and I went to G's for dinner gathering. The reason why I made this weekend trip was to meet esteemed forum member Mr Vinapu again. He was already seated at table outdoor. Guido's cat was on chair next to him so my guy and I sat on seats facing them. The cat was obedient and moved away just in time for forum member Spoon to join in. He was having a massage at Prime before this. I had the sausage special and my guy followed my order. Spoon and Mr Vinapu had already arrived one week ago and had been on many adventures before I joined them this weekend. And surprise surprise they visited the other bars - Tawan, Dreamboys, Good Boy, Banana, Freshboy, Moonlight, Hot Male but they have not visited Jupiter! So we were definitely going to Jupiter tonight after dinner. I asked my guy if he wanted to go for massage and wait for me but he said he would join us at Jupiter. I believe he wanted to meet his Vietnamese friend who works at Jupiter as a waiter. They go way back to the days of Soi Twilight. At Jupiter, the mamasans saw that we were a group together so instead of seating in the back row at the side, they let us have a front row L-shaped seat. Forum members could have a good frontal view of the models walking down the runway. My view was blocked by a pillar but it was ok. I had my guy next to me. Mamasans realised that we had each paid 500 baht at entrance. They asked us if we would like the 500 baht each refunded if we choose to order a bottle of whisky instead at 4000 baht. We could have unlimited mixers and could drink more. Unfortunately most of us don't drink so we passed on the offer. It was a kind and thoughtful gesture on the part of the mamasans. Tonight, PJ was singing. No longer as pretty boy and young but his voice is still captivating and he entertained the customers until the models appeared. There were not many models tonight on a Friday night - about 20 only. Most of the stars were not working tonight. But the fantastic dancer with abs and his brother were working. We asked and we finally found out that they are not brothers but they look very very alike. One is Myanmar while the other is Cambodia. Myanmar guy was the original dancer and his sexy moves and incredible body made him famous. When he went back to his home country for a while, Cambodia guy took over his dance performances. That was how customers thought that they were brothers. Halfway through the show, forum members were sitting with Jupiter models and in discussions about stamp collections. I would have a Jupiter guy seated next to me but of course I could not since my guy was present. The show was toned down and not explicit. I believe it only gets more explicit and entertaining on Saturday nights when the bar is full. Tonight was only 20% full. At close to midnight, the show had ended and we were out. I tipped Vietnamese waiter 200 baht and I also tipped his half-Thai half-Malaysian twinky waiter friend 200 baht on way out. My guy and I had dinner appointment at 2am with Vietnamese guys from Good Boy bar. I decided to go to DJ Station with my guy. It was our first time going there together as a couple!

If Malaysians continue going to Thailand and spending more and more, it could be a possibility. Why not. As long as not involved in any scam or criminal activity.

Yes thinking back I believe we were at Quarter Silom in mid July. But sorry didn't reach out to meet. I was busy with my guy. Hehe.

There are Airbnbs of course. Most are at below US$50 per night. Just go to Airbnb app and make your booking. I like staying at Airbnb because they are cheap but during Christmas, I want to be in the thick of the action at the hotels where the staff will put up Christmas decorations and everyone is in Christmas mood.

Comparison of Silom hotel prices during Christmas week 2026 (from Agoda) US$596 - Dusit Thani US$189 - Le Meridien US$151 - Crowne Plaza US$150 - Voco US$122 - Pullman US$115 - Montien US$88 - Rose US$88 - Quarter Silom US$76 - Nishitetsu Croom US$69 - Ibis Styles US$59 - Raya US$56 - Tarntawan US$50 - Furama US$42 - 56 Surawong

Not really. There's a chess set, a pair of flipflops, an umbrella, my clothes and two bottles of vitamins and health supplements which my guy asked me to buy.

I believe the guy was keen to get an off so he gave you a low quote. The current price is short time 2500 or 3000 and long time 3500 or 4000.