Advice sought for a BKK GAY bar for beer but not boys n tips

[durian]

You might be aware that me and him are BKK bound in January for a month.

We do like a beer and we do like a boy but, Christmas in Patong the boy bars (with permission) rinsed us of every penny.

We had a fabulous time but that lifestyle is not sustainable when you only want a beer in a gay bar. 
 

I'm looking for a gay bar where we can just have a drink and not be bothered by 'and a drink for me'

At the end of a long day, when we're tired and just want a very very cold beer  where would you suggest?

I love a boy bar and getting rinsed, but not nightly,  some nights a time out is nice. 
 

Cold Beer, Gay Bar, Bangkok.  Suggestions welcome, we're staying at the Quarter on Sala Daeng, by Lumphini park.

Cheers. 

[FunFifties]

Balcony and other bars in Silom Soi 4 are nice places to watch people and get a beer.

[zoomomancs]

For somewhere less crowded than Silom Soi 4, if you want quieter than that, what do people think of the White Rabbit bar near the entrance to Silom Soi 2?