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hi all , im going to ask a question .....im around midsixties and have a medical question that you might have an answer for 

when my foreskin retracts , it is tight and sometimes sore to retract and then does not want to go to its original state {stays retracted}. 

this is quiet uncomfortable .

 

anyone with similar experience and if so whats the solution ?

 

 

 

Mmmm...I have never heard of this I must admit 

I'm mostly into seeing psychology/ psychiatrist professionals ...but I will be seeing my Psychiatrist on Monday who I believe was a medical doctor before

if you wish for me to show him your post ...and I will do that for you ,let me know , he is a quiet man who doesn't talk much though and just listens 👂

But a very odd man who may or may know your condition 🍆who sits on a leather chair with one leg over the other writing stories I'm telling him about 

Perhaps a PICTURE I could show him???

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I am  big fan of UNCUT,  but so sorry you are having issues with your "turtleneck"......   I have done some reading on the issue and I believe there are "excercises" you can do to STRETCH the foreskin and make retraction easier and more comfortable ?   Certainly you should discuss your particular issues with your doctor.....

And I am always available to "assist" you with your foreskin stretching.  😏   While what I lack in medical degrees, I make up for with "enthusiasm" and foreskin SKILL>  

Good Luck,   see a doctor,   noone should suffer with issues that are "fixable".....

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The medical term is paraphimosis although difficulties with both retraction and reposition suggest phimosis as well. It would be advisable to seek assessment and intervention via primary care physician or urologist. You likely have several more years of sexual function and would not want to compromise your penile tissue health by simply enduring the condition. 

I am a bit surprised that it appears you have not had this addressed in spite of current senior age. Is this later age onset? In that case PDE5i uptake commenced in later years may be a contributor. While not anatomically constricting foreskin, Sildenafil (Viagra) or Tadalafil (Cialis) may elevate penile congestion even post-ejaculation and exacerbate paraphimosis. 

In the meantime, you may find this article informative …

https://www.aafp.org/pubs/afp/issues/2000/1215/p2623.html

5 hours ago, Olddaddy said:

Mmmm...I have never heard of this I must admit 

I'm mostly into seeing psychology/ psychiatrist professionals ...but I will be seeing my Psychiatrist on Monday who I believe was a medical doctor before

if you wish for me to show him your post ...and I will do that for you ,let me know , he is a quiet man who doesn't talk much though and just listens 👂

But a very odd man who may or may know your condition 🍆who sits on a leather chair with one leg over the other writing stories I'm telling him about 

Perhaps a PICTURE I could show him???

This might be my favorite post from you yet.... 

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@Riobard is correct. I would get this matter attended to promptly. As mentioned in the article, paraphimosis can lead to gangrene, and actual loss of the glans (head of the penis). Steroid creams can be attempted, but often circumcision will be needed. I'd seek the advice of a physician (preferably a urologist) ASAP, as the outcome can be quite unfortunate if gangrene of the glans sets in. 

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I would encourage to OP's actions to be guided by a urologist, and not by YouTube ads. The presence of paraphimosis really makes matters more complicated and more urgent than simple phimosis. PhimoStop is only indicated for Kikiros Grade 2 or less:

The Kikiros classification of phimosis severity [5]: Grade 0, fully... |  Download Scientific Diagram

As I mentioned earlier, paraphimosis can lead to gangrene, which has truly debilitating consequences:

Long‐term follow‐up of penile glans necrosis due to paraphimosis - Sato -  2019 - IJU Case Reports - Wiley Online Library

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30 minutes ago, unicorn said:

I would encourage to OP's actions to be guided by a urologist, and not by YouTube ads. The presence of paraphimosis really makes matters more complicated and more urgent than simple phimosis. PhimoStop is only indicated for Kikiros Grade 2 or less:

The Kikiros classification of phimosis severity [5]: Grade 0, fully... |  Download Scientific Diagram

As I mentioned earlier, paraphimosis can lead to gangrene, which has truly debilitating consequences:

Long‐term follow‐up of penile glans necrosis due to paraphimosis - Sato -  2019 - IJU Case Reports - Wiley Online Library

 

Then you will get to cherish the look of surprise on my face."

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there is a photo a few posts above which i tried to avoid seeing !!

anyway , i took advice from several of you , saw the doc , saw the urologist , and am getting the circumcision 

thanks everyone !

BTW if left unattended it  can eventually lead to cancer in extreme cases .

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