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Gay Thailand

This is the main forum for all things gay in Thailand. Post about specific events, places, activities, questions, and comments under the relevant city heading. If commenting on more than one city or other parts of Thailand, use the general comments section below. Keep the topics related to information on Thailand.

  1. Started by Keithambrose,

    I see that a request for a Royal pardon has already been submitted! What a surprise. I wonder what the agreed period is before it is granted!

  2. Hi Guys, I have a gay friend, 40 yo, caucasian, good looking, into mature of 60+. He'll visit Bangkok and Phuket for other reasons, but would naturally like to also have some fun. It's not his 1st time. He knows that the oldies r there for the young locals. In the past, the apps didnt help much either. Nevertheless, we're wondering whether anyone here might offer some useful tips. If not for sex itself, r there in Bangkok any gay bars clubs (not gogo), where he might just enjoy the vibe? Guess in Phuket there's only Zag...

  3. Started by Mateo_37,

    I was wondering if anybody has visisted the VIP room on the third floor of Circus? How is it? A gogo bar or...? I would appreciate all your information. Thanks.

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  4. Started by peterholland,

    Hi can anyone give me information about the gayscene in Chiang Mai nowadays? Massage (twinks) and gaybars? I will visit Chiang Mai in november, during Yi-Peng festival and want to have some fun also!

  5. Started by masterchef,

    Did a walk about last night in and around the Silom area. Early evening a little rain shower, not enough to put off most. Any Soi 6 massage parlours seemed very quiet. Carried on walking to Sarawong passed the Green Massage, plenty of boys there, again seemed not busy. Walking back, I put my head into Super A. only 4 boys there and not to my liking at all and no other customer. Then just down the road I stepped into Future Boys/Golden Cock. No customer at all, I'm not surprised the boys are scruffy and the place is filthy. As you enter by the bar area on the floor was loads of dishes with left over food. The beer glasses were very murky and the gener…

  6. INTRODUCTION That was nasty surprise. One evening I felt something between discomfort and light pain. By the morning it was something under my skin which was mildly painful and could be easily felt as it was size of , say 10 baht coin. In the following days it did not grew but mild pain, sometimes just discomfort persisted. Of course in such case we assume the worst and so did I, specially that survived that long without hospitals and treatments. Then there were some obstacles like my workload and my doctor on vacations. Anyways after 4 weeks of kind of terror, more mental than physical though, I got tested. It was Wednesday. On Thursday at precisely 2.14 p.…

  7. Hi guys, oh man its been 6 months since my last bkk trip. But im finally back and will review/update you guys on places i go to. link of my last trip: massage wise i plan on going arena, senso - both are my go to. Heard Prince just reopened, i think i last went there in 2018 so will check that out. Also ive not been to jey spa but have them on line, will probably check that. Kiv vck (far…) bars - jupiter, dreamboys, kiv tawan/moonlight sauna - sauna mania, kiv krubb, r3 and O party hehe cant wait i probably want to try out some other massage/bars that ive not been to, if got any recommendations not stated above please …

  8. Started by Daz,

    HI! my apologies if I’m putting this in the wrong forum! My first time on this site. I will be in Pattaya end of September and I am looking for to get a tantric massage done. does anyone know of such a massage parlor that offers this kind of massage? As a side question; are sex toys available? Or are they still ‘banned’ in Thailand? Thanks All! have a great day wherever y’all are!

  9. Guest reader
    Started by Guest reader,

    From Pattaya Mail By Barry Kenyon As Thailand struggles post-covid to recover its huge international tourist profile, a renewed effort is underway to attract much more of the US$200 billion annual expenditure by gay visitors worldwide. As the tourist director of Chiang Mai explained recently to the New York Times, “We live in a country that is open and pretty liberal – I can’t think of a market that we wouldn’t welcome.” That’s quite a claim. TAT (Tourism Authority of Thailand) of late has been sponsoring gay pride events in several Thai cities, not only in Bangkok, and has now expanded its roadshow marketing to gay Muslims in several countries by promoting…

  10. Started by Olddaddy,

    Last trip I looked at many condo's in Pattaya with a focus of renting it out should I not stay . So I looked at the low class Flybird to the high class ones . Flybird was cheap starting at 300,000 baht for a studio ,had stairs only and seemed to be a combination of thais and farangs I also took into consideration closeness to markets ,gyms , walking distance to most things as I don't drive a motorcycle. I looked at a few in jomtien, unfortunately some had high strata fees and low maintenance. One I looked at seemed to be very noisy ,a lot of family holiday screaming kids running around etc and that condo was right near the pool. I couldn't i…

  11. Started by Kiwi306,

    During my last stay in Thailand I stayed in over 10 hotels, for one reason or another. I was happy with all of them and managed to get excellent low season rates, but even still, the costs mount up. Could someone please recommend how to go about finding accommodation say on a monthly basis or making suggestions about where to stay in either Bangkok or Pattaya?

  12. I read the site, why do older guys think that young guys do not want sex with them? Why? I'm young and I like older men, I don't like young people in any way, and old people don't know or don't want know this? Or is it not normal and strange?

  13. Started by dellboy,

    hi all , i hope to visit patts again shortly and would like to know if the massage shop down the right hand side of tukcom is still open ? i used to always frequent it its about half way down the side of tukcom . if you know it can you tell what type of lads are there at this stage ? age ? etc thanks in advance regards Dellboy

  14. Started by Olddaddy,

    The last 2 weeks in Pattaya recently I gave up on hiring money boys ! It wasn't the same paying some to pound my butt as getting someone who wanted to do it I had more enjoyable time than reading on apps " how much you pay me ? Can't you guys nowadays get free sex?

  15. Started by kokopelli3,

    This post is from Sawatdee Forum about the death of Sone, a friend, who passed away last night, August 16. A wonderful young man. 😭 https://sawatdeenetwork.com/v4/showthread.php?23117-RIP-Sone&p=295242#post295242

  16. Started by 12is12,

    Hi Guys, The Koh Samui forum is dead, or at least a dead end. The Sawatdee one isn't much better. A google search brings up the usual websites, offering un-updated results. Cld anyone contribute anything updated about the place, or point me in the right direction? Thx (-:

  17. Started by thenewworld009,

    What is the best gogo bar for you in terms of drinks, bar fines, Quality boys and sex performance? Drop it 😉

  18. Started by Shonen,

    I thought I’d watch some videos of The Complex on YouTube. I was shocked to see one done by Travel Viral under the heading of Jomtien Walking Street Supertown. He starts off by walking from the entrance near Double Shot, and saying here’s where the gays, fags, homos hang out. Then he asked the guys how much for boom boom. No one told him till he got to a massage place. Then one of the guys told him. Also in that area he was asking the guys if they are fags, and he must have used that word and faggot about ten times. Wow! Got my blood boiling! I can’t leave link because it’s on my premium tube I have on my smart tv. Maybe someone can link it. It’s about ten …

  19. Guest reader
    Started by Guest reader,

    From Pattaya Mail By Barry Kenyon Thailand regularly appears in the top ten destinations chosen by foreigners wanting to retire abroad. Unlike other south east Asian countries, Thailand does not offer a retiree visa as such but a number of choices aimed specifically or partially at this market. Non-immigrant “O” visa conversion This is the most popular route at present. A foreigner aged at least 50 enters the country with a visa exempt or tourist visa (30 or 60 days) and applies at local immigration to convert it to a three months non-immigrant “O” and thence to an annual extension of stay based on retirement. Typically, the financial requirement is 800,0…

  20. Started by Londoner,

    An old topic, I know, but some up-to-date information would be appreciated regarding my partner's visa to the UK. I have not found the Pattaya agencies I've dealt with satisfactory for different reasons. Has anyone recent experience of using a particular one? I'm not requesting a discussion on whether or not I should be using an agent; that decision has already been made. Just a simple recommendation. My experiences so far have been- bluntly- dire.

  21. Started by barcelona92,

    would like to know if all the boys working in the bars of jomtien complex are able for you to take home , and if they are how thas the thing work and what are their rates. thanks and sorry for my newby questions ...

  22. Hello everyone, newbie here I will be in Bangkok early Aug for two weeks. I am Indonesian, tanned, not really muscular but fit (regularly hit the gym), and in my early 30 (tho I tend to look younger 😅). I am discrete, only practice safe sex, only do sexual activity while travelling abroad. Always interested with White Guys and open for nsa, one night stand, even making friend is also welcomed. hit me up if u r interested to meet up Cheers!

  23. Hello everyone : ) We are having a little Thailand/Bangkok related group chat where we share alot about massages, food, fun , hotel and etc. If you are keen to join in and share about your experiences in bangkok, feel free to reach out to me with your telegram id. Thank you : )

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  24. Started by fedssocr,

    Since I tend to do a lot of massages when I'm here I figured maybe it makes sense to put my impressions in one thread. I already mentioned my experience at Zoo Spa and Onsen in that dedicated thread, so I won't rehash it here. Prime Massage, Silom Soi 6. Yesterday I visited Prime in Silom Soi 6. Obviously this place is a huge massage factory. My back and neck were giving me some trouble so I thought a real, legit massage was in order. I did a 90 min oil massage. I liked the orange scented oil. No choice of masseurs but I didn't really care. The young woman at the desk took my 700 baht and had me take a seat briefly. Then I was led across the soi to the anne…

  25. Started by mirko,

    I’m a gay man on PrEP. I love bottoming, and am not using condoms for anal sex. And I have anal warts and a big problem with anal fissures (anal fissures are often found in the sexual life of gay people). Here’s my story. For a bit of context: I come from California and live in Bangkok. I am a gay man in my mid-30s, love to bottom, and have been taking PrEP for the last two years. While I don’t use condoms for anal sex, I get tested every three months and am very proactive in managing my risk for HIV and STIs. Needless to say, when I first learned I had anal warts, I was worried but didn’t think that I’d be treating them for over a year. Over that time, I’ve learned a…

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