Terry4

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I picked up a "straight" truck driver once in Thailand. When we were in the room he made it clear that he wasn't gay and no way was he going to suck cock. Once this was accepted he couldn't wait to bury his tongue in my ass! Go figure!

Me Sir ....You Sir....homosapien too !!
 
I love you Vinapu

One thing I detest is negative type of people.
 
You know those who do nothing but give off negative types of vibes around you , whether its looking doom & gloom or just complaining about everything.
 
Nowadays if im sitting in a beer bar and there are farangs or even Thai guys who are expressing negativity then I move on, I dont want that negative energy of theres to pass over to me, they own it and I dont want it .
 
Last visit I sat in Eden Bar having a wonderful tme before a Farang came in sat opposite me and if they talk to me i will always chat back to them, my parents didnt bring me up to be arrogant , so he started talking to me about small things and we spoke until he started with “ i have never seen so many ugly boys as this low season” , then “ why dont they put the prices down its too expensive “,
 
So, i checkbinned and said my goodbyes to him, i didnt want his negativity,he owns it,not me.
 
And dare I say it even some Thai guys now have it.
 
One of my fetish turn ons is positive type of people and I love Thai boyz who have a good smile and express exhuberance even if its fake
 
Even if a Thai guy was not even goodlooking his vibrant positive personality would turn me on .
 
one bar I love is Nice boys Go Go in Sunee because the guys are always smiling and I can feel that vibe among them that they enjoy being there,they actually work as a team and that turns me on their friendliness to each other and smiles no doom and gloom there
 
I am yet to see a miserable looking boy up there on stage .
 
Screeching angry ladyboy type places i also avoid ,
 
Sure there is a place to complain but some people are just “ angry” all the time .
 
I tend to frequent places where theres a happy and fun barowner , I love @home bar because the Scottish owner makes me laugh and is fun to be around ,for all i know he just might be a good actor but at least he knows how to entertain and create a fun atmosphere.
 
Even some bars i have walked past because I can “ feel” a negative vibe coming from it , usually starts from the sour faced doorman then look inside to see them all on their phones and sour faced too.
 
I now dont tip or provide a small tip in places where the staff just couldnt give a toss about smiling , it doesnt cost anything to smile and im not encouraging negativity by tipping ,
 
I know we all cannot be jumping out of our skin everyday but at least give a smile a day and enjoy being alive,enjoy having all this “ boy candy” around !

One thing I detest is negative type of people.
 
You know those who do nothing but give off negative types of vibes around you , whether its looking doom & gloom or just complaining about everything.
 
Nowadays if im sitting in a beer bar and there are farangs or even Thai guys who are expressing negativity then I move on, I dont want that negative energy of theres to pass over to me, they own it and I dont want it .
 
Last visit I sat in Eden Bar having a wonderful tme before a Farang came in sat opposite me and if they talk to me i will always chat back to them, my parents didnt bring me up to be arrogant , so he started talking to me about small things and we spoke until he started with “ i have never seen so many ugly boys as this low season” , then “ why dont they put the prices down its too expensive “,
 
So, i checkbinned and said my goodbyes to him, i didnt want his negativity,he owns it,not me.
 
And dare I say it even some Thai guys now have it.
 
One of my fetish turn ons is positive type of people and I love Thai boyz who have a good smile and express exhuberance even if its fake
 
Even if a Thai guy was not even goodlooking his vibrant positive personality would turn me on .
 
one bar I love is Nice boys Go Go in Sunee because the guys are always smiling and I can feel that vibe among them that they enjoy being there,they actually work as a team and that turns me on their friendliness to each other and smiles no doom and gloom there
 
I am yet to see a miserable looking boy up there on stage .
 
Screeching angry ladyboy type places i also avoid ,
 
Sure there is a place to complain but some people are just “ angry” all the time .
 
I tend to frequent places where theres a happy and fun barowner , I love @home bar because the Scottish owner makes me laugh and is fun to be around ,for all i know he just might be a good actor but at least he knows how to entertain and create a fun atmosphere.
 
Even some bars i have walked past because I can “ feel” a negative vibe coming from it , usually starts from the sour faced doorman then look inside to see them all on their phones and sour faced too.
 
I now dont tip or provide a small tip in places where the staff just couldnt give a toss about smiling , it doesnt cost anything to smile and im not encouraging negativity by tipping ,
 
I know we all cannot be jumping out of our skin everyday but at least give a smile a day and enjoy being alive,enjoy having all this “ boy candy” around !

I had a sick day off from work this sunny windy Tuesday and feeling a bit rundown,so have been in bed with my computer.
 
Strangely I received a message on the Facebook messenger,usually I dont answer but this one messaged me with “ when u come back Pattaya?
 
Looking at their Facebook profile I recognised a Thai guy who was my ex BF.
I have not replied back to him though.
 
It started in August 2018 when I visited the hamburger s near Tukcom in South Pattaya.
Looking forward to my big cheese hamburger they made there I sat down and admired how beutiful and clean inside was.
 
I could see the Waiter approaching me from the corner of my eye but I never like to make eye contact before they arrive as I dont like to appear demanding or authoritian, so I kept pretending to read the menu when I heard simeone say “ omg ! Omg !
 
Still not looking up but looking out the corner of my eye i could see the Waiter stop dead in his tracks just before my table.
 
Looking up cautiously I could see a face i recall but not remember, you know how you sort of recall someone but their face has changed but your mind sort of remembers some of their facial features, and you still know you knew them from somewhere?
You probaly dont know what im talking about lol so let me skip over it lol.
 
So anyway I look up to see a mature aged thai guy with dark tanned worn tired face , almost like a regular sad face,hard leather like skin,wrinkled forehead, and a little bit of a belly sticking out from his belt,he just stopped dead track sort of nervously smiling at me and staring straight into my eyes., arms wrinkled brown with ugly green faded tattoos
 
 
I lhad all these thoughts going through my mind in like seconds.hard to explain, even guilt like i have done something to this guy,who is he etc
 
He then introduces himself, and to cut a long story short, he was my ex Thai boyfriend on and iff from about 2003 to july 2005
 
He was probably my first love and he was such a gorgeous gorgeous guy.
So smart,enterpreuner , he was always talking business and making himself learn english.
I taight him all the swear words ! Bitch , whore slut were my favourite to teach him
 
Dark skin he was from Mae Hon Song in the North past Chiang mai and parents were Burmese
 
I remember i had first me him in the then Lucky 777 go go bar up next to where Cityboys was.
After that I was making 4 to 5 trips a year to Thailand to visit him and actually paid him to stay out of the bar i then bought him a big motorbike.
 
He moved back to Mae Hon Song to be with his mother and sister,and I had gone with him a few times,whilst they weren’t exactly dirt poor they were sort middle class with a thai house.
 
His father was in Bang Kwang jail for being involved in importing drugs but had recently been transferred to Chiang Mai jail after serving 10 years so it was only him looking after his sisters and mother,although they had a uncle living just near them who didnt appear to badly off with a pick up truck, nice home, even a gold chain around his neck , however i didnt like him,something about him wasnt quite right,well muscled tattoed and in his 40’s i would say at the time , he just looked like he would stab yiu at a moments notice, i kept telling Chai not to tell the Uncle we are gay,but Chai said he encouraged it ?
 
I had been up to Mae Hong son with him several times and stayed at his familys house but i preferred a motel in the township.
 
 
We usually travelled by rent a car around and drove regularly around the mountains etc where most of the time we were stopped by friendly soldiers who looked in the boot searched thru clothes etc.
 
I was actually very in love with him ,he was a top and had the biggest black cock and balls i have ever seen and along with his rimming skills and long tongue U couod ask for no guy better than him !!
 
Chai had nice chocolate skin with a athletic body to match and ready to fuck me with a moments notice i was in fantasy land.
He always looked good ,well dressed,hair oiled and combed back, nice perfumes even on his large balls!!
 
He use to love putting his erect cock into my ass cheeks in bed and leave it till the morning where i begged him to fuck me.having had that annoying weapon buried at the entrance to my horny hole.
On a good day he would rim my ass and tongue pleasure my pussy until iscreamed like a whore on heat.
I use to rub his hair as his face went down in between my butt cheeks burying his tongue inside pleasuring my used pussy hole.
 
He made me cry and i mean realky cry sometimes when he said he didnt really love me, of course he would say he was only angry later and kiss me.
 
Once he became angry i sometimes enjoyed being his bitch so to speak and sometimes used to make him angry on purpose so i could get on my knees and suck him off whilst he was calling me a bitch and whore,we once done this in the toilets at the Chiang Mai zoo , whilst seeing the Pandas
 
I remember a group of chinese guys coming in and looking underneath the cubicle to see 4 feet and raving loud in chinese ,cameras around their neck as i saw camera flashes under the door,
 
Sometimes i would have to correct him as i was sucking him ,you F...n Bit , he would say and i would have to stop sucking in his enormous young hard cock to correct him, No its bitch !!! I would say.
 
Getting back to the story though, july 20005 i met him in Pattaya on my return visit about the 5th that year !!! Using my CC of course !!
 
Chai insisted we drive from Chiang Mai to Mae Hon Sing instead of getting a plane , at that time we use to fly from BKK to Chiang mai then to Mae Hon Son but this time ....he wanted to drive?
 
To cut a long story short when me and Chai were in CM we rented a car ,he drove and we met up with a thai guy who used to be the DJ at his old go go bar.
 
I helped them load the boot with bags and we were off,he drove like a maniac around country road bends etc before we got to MHS
 
Of course i was always angry with him but he made it up to me.
 
I always thought it was peculiar that motorbikes would come to our motel in the middle of the night and his friends would pick up their gifts he brought them in green plastic bags,some of them didnt even seem grateful as they looked the farang up and down like i was a madman whilst leaving as i genuinly wished them well with their “ gifts” and smiled and waved.usually leaving with no headlights on ,i thought how strange but never gave it much thought.
 
Of course they turned out to be “ runners” if u get my drift .more on this later.
 
Only later it had occurred to me how lucky we were not to get stopped by the roadside soldiers and searched,he had later bragged to me that if there was a roadblock he had no intention of stopping thats why he was driving at high speeds during the night to Mhs
 
Getting back to Australia in between my visits I had worked out i had probaly spent close to 500,000 baht for him thats buying him a motorbike, clothes,bribes for his father in jail, gifts for his family etc
I remember my late Mother asking a lot of questions about why i was going to Thailand all the time
I was running up CC debt then to fund the trips , something im still paying off today
 
I decided i wanted him to come to Australia and to cut a long story short i paid a pattaya visa agent a large sum i think even back then it was something like 30,000 baht
 
I had to put money in his bank account etc but i was in love and back then in thise days the telephone calls were expensive,i had to buy international cards so talking to him from Australia became like $30 a day.
 
Anyway we travelled to Australia embassy etc and the visa agent rang me said he was not successful but i had to pay a bit more because he could get it through,being gullible back then and in love i paid the extra 25000 baht and Chai my boyfriend was going to get a tourist visa , 3 months !!
 
Plans were made ........to be continued

Thanks for that vinapu.  When newbies post for the first time on this board (and elsewhere, where the aggressiveness of some posters is well-known) we should answer their enquiries even if  it is all "old hat"  for us regulars.  Imagine how disconcerting it is  for someone whose first post is dismissed.
 
So, lispice, welcome to the board and to Thailand.  Treat the guys you meet with respect and pay the going-rate, correctly defined above. If you go to Pattaya, 1000 is usually fine for short time.
 
Be sure to let us know how you get on; it's always interesting to read posts from those who are visiting for the first time. If you are like me, you will never forget your introduction to Thailand.

Are you familiar with the song sung by Alberta Hunter, "My Man...Is Such A Handy Man?" Seems it would be right up your, um... "alley."

I was having drinks with a thai friend at a beer bar in Patong. The truck driver, who was an acquaintance of his, was passing by, and we invited him to join us for drinks. After several more drinks and some sweet talk, the three of us ended up back in my room!

I am an Asian guy who lives on the other side of the world, and am planning to visit BKK next week for about 7 days.
I have been following this forum for quite some time and many thanks to everyone here for tons of helpful information. 

I love to be rimmed, but usually the boys I off (twinks) are reluctant to obliged. I don’t put pressure on them to do it as that would not be conducive to good sex. However having my balls licked is a good second best.

lets leave such low-tech solutions in the supermarkets where they belong
 
if the bars and massage venues want to use tech to compete with where the apps are now and where they are heading then they should be getting rid of their dancers and masseurs and deploying advanced sex robots - even the models available now couldn't be that much worse than so many of the regular post here about app/bar offs that need to watch straight porn on their phone to keep it up while fucking them or offs/masseurs willing to do little more than wank but demanding full tip
 
and the tech is only going to get better
 
and of course you just swipe your debit/credit card down the butt-crack to pay for the encounter - except not with bitcoin which is obviously going to be dead in the water before the bars catch up here!
 
bkkguy

I once  asked the Thai maintenance guy at my apartment block to come up and clean my refrigerator and was quite pleased with the results
 
bkkguy

Of course you have to be clean.....but one thing I love is getting a long tongue up my pussy. ( butthole)
 
Or being “ rimmed” as its known , its actually very popular up in the straight farang areas Soi 6 bar area where of course the best “Rimmers “ are the Ladyboys and thats why they can be popular among the straight farangs who luv their holes being licked & pleasured by a hot tongue lashing.
 
Whilist its not the easiest thing to request in Pattaya unless you go for the feminine ttype boyz , money seems to talk and sometimes im lucky enough to find a hot straight muscle thai boy to lash my pussy with his tongue,
 
The best rimmer I everwas a hot guy in New Zealand ( half maori) only 20yo and the best caramel smooth goowng skin you have seen , he ask me if i wanted Spanish .?
Unfortunately I picked him up from the street and he was a junkie , but he was friendly.
 
Spanish ? I said, whats that? Of course I couldnt resist and it cost me a arm and a leg to get him to show me what Spanish was but its a tongue lashing between your butt crack and your balls , he went to town burying his face in between my butt cheeks before tongue teasing directly under my ball bag, , I never had experienced as many orgasms as that in one night ! Ever !!!!
 
Not sure if it was really “ Spanish “ sex as he called it though ?
I know “ Greek” is anal sex
French is oral
 
Polish is ....African sex is etc
 
If i am mood in Pattaya i always ask a boy on the apps if he will rim my butt , not every boy will,so if your after this fetish best to ask first although it may be a bit embarrassing asking say in a beer bar and the boy not understanding asking the farang owner or something, “ what mean lick ass , this farang want me ““ lick ass “him”

Of course you have to be clean.....but one thing I love is getting a long tongue up my pussy. ( butthole)
 
Or being “ rimmed” as its known , its actually very popular up in the straight farang areas Soi 6 bar area where of course the best “Rimmers “ are the Ladyboys and thats why they can be popular among the straight farangs who luv their holes being licked & pleasured by a hot tongue lashing.
 
Whilist its not the easiest thing to request in Pattaya unless you go for the feminine ttype boyz , money seems to talk and sometimes im lucky enough to find a hot straight muscle thai boy to lash my pussy with his tongue,
 
The best rimmer I everwas a hot guy in New Zealand ( half maori) only 20yo and the best caramel smooth goowng skin you have seen , he ask me if i wanted Spanish .?
Unfortunately I picked him up from the street and he was a junkie , but he was friendly.
 
Spanish ? I said, whats that? Of course I couldnt resist and it cost me a arm and a leg to get him to show me what Spanish was but its a tongue lashing between your butt crack and your balls , he went to town burying his face in between my butt cheeks before tongue teasing directly under my ball bag, , I never had experienced as many orgasms as that in one night ! Ever !!!!
 
Not sure if it was really “ Spanish “ sex as he called it though ?
I know “ Greek” is anal sex
French is oral
 
Polish is ....African sex is etc
 
If i am mood in Pattaya i always ask a boy on the apps if he will rim my butt , not every boy will,so if your after this fetish best to ask first although it may be a bit embarrassing asking say in a beer bar and the boy not understanding asking the farang owner or something, “ what mean lick ass , this farang want me ““ lick ass “him”

Nobody knows for sure where technology will take us. Who could have predicted Uber? Who could have predicted Digital driver's licenses? And who could have predicted Grinder and jacked?
 
What technology will be produced and used in the entertainment and bar industries that is the million dollar question…
 
Maybe you will use an app to hire a guy and he will be delivered to you in a self-driving van that doubles as a short time room that will drive around for 1 hour before taking you back to the designated drop-off spot.

I had a sick day off from work this sunny windy Tuesday and feeling a bit rundown,so have been in bed with my computer.
 
Strangely I received a message on the Facebook messenger,usually I dont answer but this one messaged me with “ when u come back Pattaya?
 
Looking at their Facebook profile I recognised a Thai guy who was my ex BF.
I have not replied back to him though.
 
It started in August 2018 when I visited the hamburger s near Tukcom in South Pattaya.
Looking forward to my big cheese hamburger they made there I sat down and admired how beutiful and clean inside was.
 
I could see the Waiter approaching me from the corner of my eye but I never like to make eye contact before they arrive as I dont like to appear demanding or authoritian, so I kept pretending to read the menu when I heard simeone say “ omg ! Omg !
 
Still not looking up but looking out the corner of my eye i could see the Waiter stop dead in his tracks just before my table.
 
Looking up cautiously I could see a face i recall but not remember, you know how you sort of recall someone but their face has changed but your mind sort of remembers some of their facial features, and you still know you knew them from somewhere?
You probaly dont know what im talking about lol so let me skip over it lol.
 
So anyway I look up to see a mature aged thai guy with dark tanned worn tired face , almost like a regular sad face,hard leather like skin,wrinkled forehead, and a little bit of a belly sticking out from his belt,he just stopped dead track sort of nervously smiling at me and staring straight into my eyes., arms wrinkled brown with ugly green faded tattoos
 
 
I lhad all these thoughts going through my mind in like seconds.hard to explain, even guilt like i have done something to this guy,who is he etc
 
He then introduces himself, and to cut a long story short, he was my ex Thai boyfriend on and iff from about 2003 to july 2005
 
He was probably my first love and he was such a gorgeous gorgeous guy.
So smart,enterpreuner , he was always talking business and making himself learn english.
I taight him all the swear words ! Bitch , whore slut were my favourite to teach him
 
Dark skin he was from Mae Hon Song in the North past Chiang mai and parents were Burmese
 
I remember i had first me him in the then Lucky 777 go go bar up next to where Cityboys was.
After that I was making 4 to 5 trips a year to Thailand to visit him and actually paid him to stay out of the bar i then bought him a big motorbike.
 
He moved back to Mae Hon Song to be with his mother and sister,and I had gone with him a few times,whilst they weren’t exactly dirt poor they were sort middle class with a thai house.
 
His father was in Bang Kwang jail for being involved in importing drugs but had recently been transferred to Chiang Mai jail after serving 10 years so it was only him looking after his sisters and mother,although they had a uncle living just near them who didnt appear to badly off with a pick up truck, nice home, even a gold chain around his neck , however i didnt like him,something about him wasnt quite right,well muscled tattoed and in his 40’s i would say at the time , he just looked like he would stab yiu at a moments notice, i kept telling Chai not to tell the Uncle we are gay,but Chai said he encouraged it ?
 
I had been up to Mae Hong son with him several times and stayed at his familys house but i preferred a motel in the township.
 
 
We usually travelled by rent a car around and drove regularly around the mountains etc where most of the time we were stopped by friendly soldiers who looked in the boot searched thru clothes etc.
 
I was actually very in love with him ,he was a top and had the biggest black cock and balls i have ever seen and along with his rimming skills and long tongue U couod ask for no guy better than him !!
 
Chai had nice chocolate skin with a athletic body to match and ready to fuck me with a moments notice i was in fantasy land.
He always looked good ,well dressed,hair oiled and combed back, nice perfumes even on his large balls!!
 
He use to love putting his erect cock into my ass cheeks in bed and leave it till the morning where i begged him to fuck me.having had that annoying weapon buried at the entrance to my horny hole.
On a good day he would rim my ass and tongue pleasure my pussy until iscreamed like a whore on heat.
I use to rub his hair as his face went down in between my butt cheeks burying his tongue inside pleasuring my used pussy hole.
 
He made me cry and i mean realky cry sometimes when he said he didnt really love me, of course he would say he was only angry later and kiss me.
 
Once he became angry i sometimes enjoyed being his bitch so to speak and sometimes used to make him angry on purpose so i could get on my knees and suck him off whilst he was calling me a bitch and whore,we once done this in the toilets at the Chiang Mai zoo , whilst seeing the Pandas
 
I remember a group of chinese guys coming in and looking underneath the cubicle to see 4 feet and raving loud in chinese ,cameras around their neck as i saw camera flashes under the door,
 
Sometimes i would have to correct him as i was sucking him ,you F...n Bit , he would say and i would have to stop sucking in his enormous young hard cock to correct him, No its bitch !!! I would say.
 
Getting back to the story though, july 20005 i met him in Pattaya on my return visit about the 5th that year !!! Using my CC of course !!
 
Chai insisted we drive from Chiang Mai to Mae Hon Sing instead of getting a plane , at that time we use to fly from BKK to Chiang mai then to Mae Hon Son but this time ....he wanted to drive?
 
To cut a long story short when me and Chai were in CM we rented a car ,he drove and we met up with a thai guy who used to be the DJ at his old go go bar.
 
I helped them load the boot with bags and we were off,he drove like a maniac around country road bends etc before we got to MHS
 
Of course i was always angry with him but he made it up to me.
 
I always thought it was peculiar that motorbikes would come to our motel in the middle of the night and his friends would pick up their gifts he brought them in green plastic bags,some of them didnt even seem grateful as they looked the farang up and down like i was a madman whilst leaving as i genuinly wished them well with their “ gifts” and smiled and waved.usually leaving with no headlights on ,i thought how strange but never gave it much thought.
 
Of course they turned out to be “ runners” if u get my drift .more on this later.
 
Only later it had occurred to me how lucky we were not to get stopped by the roadside soldiers and searched,he had later bragged to me that if there was a roadblock he had no intention of stopping thats why he was driving at high speeds during the night to Mhs
 
Getting back to Australia in between my visits I had worked out i had probaly spent close to 500,000 baht for him thats buying him a motorbike, clothes,bribes for his father in jail, gifts for his family etc
I remember my late Mother asking a lot of questions about why i was going to Thailand all the time
I was running up CC debt then to fund the trips , something im still paying off today
 
I decided i wanted him to come to Australia and to cut a long story short i paid a pattaya visa agent a large sum i think even back then it was something like 30,000 baht
 
I had to put money in his bank account etc but i was in love and back then in thise days the telephone calls were expensive,i had to buy international cards so talking to him from Australia became like $30 a day.
 
Anyway we travelled to Australia embassy etc and the visa agent rang me said he was not successful but i had to pay a bit more because he could get it through,being gullible back then and in love i paid the extra 25000 baht and Chai my boyfriend was going to get a tourist visa , 3 months !!
 
Plans were made ........to be continued

Well said Terry4.
I'm in total agreement.

I guess its a delicate subject for Airlines, but in this particular case the passenger who is suing described the other passenger as looking like a NZ Rugby league player so its possible just to be “ big” without being obese .
 
I guess for the comfort of other passengers if you are a big person you should consider at least buying 2 seats or alternatively flying Business Class although Thai Airways had some News a few months ago of refusing obese passengers in there Business Class flights.
 
Lets face reality and there are far more “ big” people around nowadays than ever whether they are obese or just heavy built ,even Ambulance Services are now creating emergency vehicles for “ bigger” patients.
 
Airline seats have got smaller , in reality shouldnt they just get bigger seats and maybe just charge a little bit more?
Shouldnt they have say a row of XL seats?

I guess its a delicate subject for Airlines, but in this particular case the passenger who is suing described the other passenger as looking like a NZ Rugby league player so its possible just to be “ big” without being obese .
 
I guess for the comfort of other passengers if you are a big person you should consider at least buying 2 seats or alternatively flying Business Class although Thai Airways had some News a few months ago of refusing obese passengers in there Business Class flights.
 
Lets face reality and there are far more “ big” people around nowadays than ever whether they are obese or just heavy built ,even Ambulance Services are now creating emergency vehicles for “ bigger” patients.
 
Airline seats have got smaller , in reality shouldnt they just get bigger seats and maybe just charge a little bit more?
Shouldnt they have say a row of XL seats?

Chill out? Hypocrisy at its best , you are wanting topics closed and write negatively in nearly every post.
 
I must admit though I am fascinated by your life, the fact you say you are from New York and you are of mature age you must of lived thru those eras of discrimination and not coming out .
I would love to read about those on here and about what it was like for you and your thoughts.
 
I also love gay history “ stonewall” etc , literature about that era , 60’s and 70’s and activism during that period, there must be many here who lived thru that .

Stupid thing to do, but prison is not an appropriate sentence. The wall was cleaned and, in the end, no lasting damage it seems.  A fine and possible deportation would be more than enough.

If the airline isnt full, a reasonable airline crew can and should assigned the seat for the obese where it wont inconvenient other passengers. simply denying the person to aboard the plane is not something they will do, u can imagine the PR nightmare. And if they do it, people can also ask for crying babies to be denied boarding the flight too. In fact, if i recall correctly, there is one airline tried to do that before for their first class and/or business class and received quite a backlash.
 
There are just things people have to deal with when takig public transport. U are sharing the space and all of the passengers are also paying customers. To be honest, i would be totally annoyed too if a very obese person sits next to me, but if it happens and the flight is full, what else can i do and what else can the airline do? The article didnt mentioned whether the flight is full or not and just mentioned that the crew ignore his concerns.

We are all adults here so I have no problem with the topic or any the posts per se.
 
Nobody is advocating the use of drugs; on the contrary, they are giving us a timely warning.
 
I don't use the apps, but colmx's post was very informative, nevertheless.