Yes, fair point. If you go somewhere reula, you get the same room you like. The staff remember you, and you dont mind if it's not such good value. Personally, knowing I'm getting a room I like, and I am a bit fussy (!), is a big plus.
These situations are tragic. But there is little comment about some people who put their own lives at risk, and importantly, those of their rescuers by being foolhardy or stupid. Recently a big rescue attempt was mounted to rescue 2 'climbers' from Ben McDhui, the second highest peak in Scotland. They had no equipment, and were wearing jogging bottoms and trainers! They set off at 6pm, temperature at peak -15C!
I think there is a case for charging such people.
I take your point. Perhaps we should revert to the 'multiple personalities' label. Mind you that would cover neuro divergent! I agree re guidelines. One or 2 members are gratuitously rude. Usually the same people, though they do come and go.