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The Dangers Of Assumptions

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13 minutes ago, vinapu said:

Hope this thread will run it's course before Christmas. Question is, Christmas of what year one wonders ? 

It has its uses in cases of insomnia!

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  • members in disagreement would do forum great service  by moving their discussion to private message section as membership at large  not necessarily dreams  about being lured into such disagreements. 

  • emiel1981
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    Because of personal reasons and not having had plans to return to Thailand again, I was absent on this forum for some time. I come back, and this is one of the most active / recent threads... 😥 P

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    @PeterRS  I had been holding my tongue in the hope that this unpleasant and pointless thread would be deleted or drop from sight. However as you seem set on perpetuating it…. It is hard to b

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10 hours ago, vinapu said:

Hope this thread will run its course before Christmas. Question is, Christmas of what year one wonders ? 

Not relatable to all involved. Now the proof’s in the [enter day of observance] pudding; we know you lack sensitivity around cultural and religious diversity. 

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4 hours ago, unicorn said:

! the first time I've seen his stubbornness. 

Nine Dangerous Mindsets - Part 5: The Stubborn - Situational Awareness  Matters!™

You should see the Interminable,  dull, condescending, self justifying, tedious PMs I'm receiving,  which I am ignoring.

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1 hour ago, Keithambrose said:

You … ignoring.

We could ignore too, but it’s just simpler for all if we don’t have to be exposed to endless update bulletins you provide about your private correspondence and how it impacts on your fee-fees within a thread that you purport shouldn’t exist anyway. Perhaps he doth protest much while actually thriving on drama. 

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2 hours ago, vinapu said:

At least I have grey hair in abundance

As do I, in a bun dance whenever presented, as well as pre and post.

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2 hours ago, Keithambrose said:

You should see the Interminable,  dull, condescending, self justifying, tedious PMs I'm receiving,  which I am ignoring.

Ha! That's almost certainly the longest sentence @Keithambrose has ever written on this Gay Guides Board. Usually about 5 or 6 words are his maximum. Funny he talks about PMs. It was one! Lawyer speak!

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Because of personal reasons and not having had plans to return to Thailand again, I was absent on this forum for some time. I come back, and this is one of the most active / recent threads... 😥

Please let's not make this forum a place to fight out personal arguments or disagreements. When posting something, ask yourself the question is this something others like to know or read about... And with this thread it feels like the only reason for it is so @PeterRS can ventilate and get rid of a lot of angryness. Can't imagine forum members are interested in this. 

If there's something going on between you and another forum member, keep it between the two of you. I really don't see why you would write about it here. Even IF everything is true and you're completely right, even in that case I would say keep it private. Not a subject forum members are interested in. We want to ready about boys, bars and other adventures abroad. 

On 6/5/2025 at 10:23 AM, PeterRS said:

Now I wonder if even you have read the entire posting history! Somehow I doubt it. 

Before you make the same remark to me: off course I did not read all of it. Because I don't care about all the details. What I do care about is to maintain a positive vibe and atmosphere at the forum. 

On 6/5/2025 at 11:05 AM, Keithambrose said:

Best thing, as suggested to me by others, is just  ignore your posts. I intend to do so. 

Somehow it's hard to ignore a post that keeps getting on top in the most recent comments list. While writing this I'm aware that I'm now also guilty of popping this post up again in the list. 🙄

On 6/5/2025 at 10:54 PM, ToTheCore said:

wow.  this thread and the obsession over it by eater peter is absurd and borderline psychotic.

There's another poster writing about certain retiree destinations who won't continue.  And I think there's a cadre of members here who wish he did. 

Everyone, PLEASE reach out to him and encourage him to come back and ignore the utter nonsense of this post. 

I really hope @bkkmfj2648 will return to this forum and keep us informed about his life and adventures. Now in Vietnam in soon again in Thailand. I must say I have had so much more fun reading his posts than @PeterRS recent contributions to this forum in this thread. @PeterRS proved he can contribute also in a very positive way to this forum with the many posts he had done. Hopefully he will return to posting interesting stuff and get out the negative vibe of this thread. 

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11 hours ago, emiel1981 said:

Before you make the same remark to me: off course I did not read all of it. Because I don't care about all the details. What I do care about is to maintain a positive vibe and atmosphere at the forum.

Thank you for your post and I do take your points. BUT - and it's a big but - how can you hope to understand the reason for it UNLESS you go back to the very reason for its existence! You say you are not interested in details. This is ALL about details! Why did you not read the earlier posts which I had summarised? Unless you read the three specific posts on the Colombia thread and the unprovoked attack on me made there, you cannot understand the reason for this thread. I have had PMs from posters who did take the trouble to read all the relevant threads and agree with me!

11 hours ago, emiel1981 said:

When posting something, ask yourself the question is this something others like to know or read about.

I agree. Which is precisely why I have asked for what reason the original attack in the Colombia post was made. I have received no response. A brief one might have sufficed and not only kept the discussion to that particular thread but actually ended it there and then.

11 hours ago, emiel1981 said:

. . . If there's something going on between you and another forum member, keep it between the two of you. I really don't see why you would write about it here

Again I totally agree with you, Which is why on May 28 I sent @bkkmfj2648 a long PM outlining my feelings about the attack he made and stressing this should not be discussed on the main Board. Two weeks have passed and I have had no PM response. How can one keep an issue between two members if one member does not even respond? Please answer me that.

11 hours ago, emiel1981 said:

@PeterRS proved he can contribute also in a very positive way to this forum with the many posts he had done. Hopefully he will return to posting interesting stuff and get out the negative vibe of this thread. 

Again I thank you. Following the OP I have posted nothing negative here other than to respond to those who have written negative posts about the OP. If there is no more negative posting by others, you will see no more from me!

23 minutes ago, vinapu said:

Galia omnia est divida in partes tres

I had to learn that for UK O level exam. I had not studied Latin at school, and when I passed the Oxford University entrance exams,  I was told that I  had also to pass O level Latin. I had left school by then. Ceasar's Gallic wars was the set text! Happy days!

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I apparently missed all the chaos of the OP thread....  Is there a cliff notes version "for dummies" where I can catch up with littlest effort ?  😏

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