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Gay Thailand

This is the main forum for all things gay in Thailand. Post about specific events, places, activities, questions, and comments under the relevant city heading. If commenting on more than one city or other parts of Thailand, use the general comments section below. Keep the topics related to information on Thailand.

  1. Started by Shaun01,

    Hey, been reading the forum for a while now, so much that I feel like I've already been to Thailand. However - I haven't. I am planning my first trip (thinking late march-April). I'm really struggling with picking hotels, even after reading and researching - the reason being I'm kinda picky with hotels (I travel ALOT for work) I need hotels that are at least Marriot / Hilton level, but also ones that won't be a problem to bring boys back to. Also, obviously the closest to the action. I don't mind paying $150-$250 a night... So... any recommendations for Bangkok / Pattaya that fit the description? Thanks!

  2. Started by colom-bien,

    I took a 3-month trip this year across 11 countries and 23 cities in Australia, India and South-east Asia. My first time in all of them. And while the focus of my trip was scuba diving, attending religious festivals, seeing friends, hiking, sightseeing, food, etc., I was very eager to experience the boys in Thailand. Especially after reading this forum for the past couple of years. Admittedly, I met a lot of boys in all of the countries. But they were typical Grindr/Sniffies/HeeSay hookups. Thailand’s massage boys and go-go boys were something new. I typically don’t pay for sex, but am occasionally fine with it if it adds novelty and variety to my sex life. BAN…

  3. Guest reader
    Started by Guest reader,

    From Bangkok Post The state and civil sectors are gearing up to implement the Marriage Equality Bill, which is set to become law next month. The bill was endorsed by His Majesty the King and published in the Royal Gazette on Sept 24, making Thailand the third country or territory in Asia, after Taiwan and Nepal, to recognise same-sex marriage. The bill will become law 120 days after it was published in the Royal Gazette, which means same-sex couples will be able to start registering their marriages on Jan 22 next year. Yesterday, the Bangkok Metropolitan Administration, along with the Social Development and Human Security, Interior, Justice, and Cultur…

  4. Started by 12is12,

    Kiethambrose just posted his memory of 1st visit, back in 1977. That's 47 years ago! Do we hear 50... ?

  5. Our holiday is over and we return to our homes tomorrow. We've been discussing our impressions of the JC, the changes, the good and less good, and comparing what we found this time with the nine or ten previous stays. Firstly, the bar scene. Our knowledge is very limited because we usually have a walk through the soi quite early....20.00 to 21.00. We are therefore merely visitors. There have been occasions when there has been a vibrant atmosphere with many cheerful (and attractive) guys greeting us and inviting us to come in for a drink. And on others, with few punters and many guys, the atmosphere has been less pleasing. Guys transfixed to their phone…

  6. Guest reader
    Started by Guest reader,

    From Bangkok Post PrEP medication options for HIV prevention should be diversified to ensure people have more choices to meet their requirements, a recent forum as told. Nittaya Phanuphak, executive director of the Institute of HIV Research and Innovation (IHRI), said PrEP takers need to have more choices in protecting themselves from contracting HIV/ Aids. While oral PrEP has proved to be effective in HIV prevention, there are certain limitations, as ingesting it orally on a daily basis may prove inconvenient during work hours or if people have a demanding lifestyle. Furthermore, when prescribing PrEP, a medical checkup -- such as having a blood stat…

  7. Guest reader
    Started by Guest reader,

    From Pattaya Mail The exact number of expats currently living in Bangkok and Pattaya isn’t explicitly detailed in official sources like the Tourism Authority of Thailand (TAT) or the Ministry of Foreign Affairs (MFA). However, the MFA does indicate that Bangkok is home to the largest population of expatriates in Thailand due to its role as the nation’s capital and a hub for international businesses, diplomatic missions, and educational institutions. In Pattaya, expats are largely retirees, business owners, and individuals working in hospitality or tourism sectors. Recent reports and visa data show that non-immigrant visa holders, including retirees and bus…

  8. Started by faranglaw,

    Well! The boy who happily accepted 1200 last year now wants 2,000 and will bargain down to 1700. I guess Trump will fix it.

  9. Day 1 He was losing the battle. Talking to him daily by video call on WhatsApp for last 3 weeks I could see him getting weaker and weaker and our talk was shorter and shorter. Even if he kept his mental faculties intact he was losing strength inch by inch. His last words I heard were ‘ thank you ‘ presumably unfinished ‘ thank you for a call “ . And then next morning message from wife “ he left us last night”. Even if I’m quarter of world away I knew that I need attend his funeral , simply because I felt I owe it to him and his family I was so close to for that last 44 years. Fact that we were the same age , to a month, was kind of warning signal ‘ you are so…

  10. Started by HornyOne,

    Is it possible to take your boyfriend for a couples gay massage in Jomtien where we can have a couple of gay masseurs and all have a lot of fun together?

  11. Started by emiel1981,

    Today I'm coming back to Bangkok for another 4 nights to conclude my 5 weeks holiday in Asia... Who is in Bangkok these days and is up for a small forum meeting and hitting the bars?

  12. Started by Verchiele,

    It seems that Moonlight is promoting a new show and making it a big deal! - not sure how this will be different to regular shows. Any thoughts / comments on this new format show? Definitely sounds like a broadway type show.

  13. Started by kram987,

    This is my fifth trip, so I am averaging about once every five years and Its been 5 years since my last visit. Prior to this visit Ive mostly done massage, and Saunas.... Well ok Babalon, Arina and Hero. This trip started off great, tried a new place to eat Foodland I'd seen recommend here Cashew Chicken was very good. For the fourth time I went to a gogo bar, this time I think name was Fresh Boys and watched the show, one guy in particular stood out 41. He kept smiling at me and dropped by for a tip during the big cock show but I was exhausted so decided to head back to my hotel. Note to self go back for 41 another day! Then heading back (it was…

  14. Started by Min,

    Sometimes, just to kill time, I would (discreetly) point at a customer, who's sitting in the same bar or just passing by, and ask the boy(s) what "the store" makes of him. If boys know you for a long time and trust you, they can be honest and sometimes very specific in their opinions, which, I believe, are shared by many others in the same bar. Here are some snippets I collected yesterday in Pattaya. "That customer's all smiling but boys don't like to sit with him because he's very demanding." "That one is worse. He once opened a bottle and forced me to drink a lot to get me drunk so that he can deep-kiss me. I don't kiss customers in the store and I hate…

  15. Guest reader
    Started by Guest reader,

    From Pattaya Mail By Barry Kenyon The traditional gay scene in Thai tourist cities has centered on westerners. But that scenario could be changing with marriage equality becoming legal early next year. Bangkok’s Rainbow Alliance points out there are three billion people living less than five hours flying time from Bangkok. They reside in countries where homosexuality is either frowned on or actually illegal. So the trickledown benefits to Thailand’s economy could be awesome. Thailand is the first country in south east Asia to legalize same sex nuptials. According to the digital travel platform Agoda, 4 million extra visitors could boost revenue by…

  16. Started by TMax,

    Just starting the thread now and will keep updating as I go. So on to Plan B this trip. Thai airways didn't let me down as the plane from Perth was late (as always it seems) but the crew, service, food and entertainment were all very good. On arrival (about 10:40pm) and after the long trek to immigration I was shown straight to the priority counter, I flew business class and as soon as they saw that I was escorted to priority and took all of 5 minutes to clear. Rest of immigration didn't look too crowded and maybe would have only taken 20 minutes or so to get through. I still hate that finger print rubbish though, just a thumb print would suffice but h…

  17. Started by Matthew285,

    Second visit to Bangkok 15/11/25 So this is my second only visit to Bangkok and my first trip report. I will try to do an update every three days or so as I am taking my time and won’t have much to add on a daily basis. Staying at the Hilton Millenium a little out but only 15 minutes to Sala Daeng and 100 bhat in the taxi back from Soi 4 so not too bad and I like the full service hotels and have points so that’s another reason I use the hotel, also no issues taking people to room. First night I did not realise was Loi Krathong so the hotel was full with youngsters in traditional dress taking there Lantern’s down to the pier to put in the river, very nice t…

  18. Guest reader
    Started by Guest reader,

    From Pattaya Mail On Wednesday, November 13, 2024, the Pattaya City Expats Club (PCEC) had two speakers on diverse topics. Barry Kenyon spoke about various Thai immigration matters followed by Amy Falken’s motivational talk on embracing success with the fq3C system. Barry provided valuable insights into the complexities of Thai visas, the government’s focus on tourism, and the latest trends in visa applications. The talk was informative and provided the attendees with a comprehensive understanding of the current state of Thai immigration matters. Barry began by describing the complexity of Thai visas, referring to them as “alphabet soup,” and ex…

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  19. Started by suruhalowa,

    Seems there are few kinky massage for straight guys in BKK... Is there any kinky(like WS) massage/club for gays?

  20. Since 2012 I've been coming to South-East Asia almost every year. And when lucky, sometimes even twice a year. I always start and end my journey in Bangkok. But every time I try to explore a new area/country also. I usually stay around one month in Asia. For this year, I have planned to first fly to Bangkok for some nights of barhopping and meeting boys. Then off to Pattaya for a week beach- and relax-time. After that I will go to China for the first time, visiting some highlights and sight-seeing. Just before returning to Europe I will conclude with some more nights in Bangkok... Any other forum members around on these dates? Bangkok: October 14 - October …

  21. Guest reader
    Started by Guest reader,

    From Pattaya Mail By Barry Kenyon It looks like your finger got stuck on the keyboard. But LGBTQQIPSA++ stands for lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender, queer, questioning, intersex, pansexual, two-spirited and asexual. More identities are waiting in the wings such as gender fluids, agenders, bigenders, nonbinaries, ace spectrums and demisexuals. Not to mention the autogynephiles who are apparently sexually stimulated by just now and again wearing female clothing. Thailand stands ready to welcome more gays to get married or enjoy themselves long and short term. But the language can’t really deal with the complexities of alphabet soup even though …

  22. Started by Foolish,

    Going for a short trip to Phuket, I know the main gay area is at Paradise Complex. But are there any bars like those in BKK and Pattaya? If there is, what are the expected fees and are they all concentrated around the complex?

  23. Guest reader
    Started by Guest reader,

    From Tourism Authority of Thailand Bangkok, 14 November 2024 – The Tourism Authority of Thailand (TAT) advises travellers to review the latest guidelines from the Thai Food and Drug Administration (FDA) on importing health products for personal use. These guidelines are issued to ensure a smooth, hassle-free entry process, whether health products are brought into Thailand or sent by mail, and support Thailand’s commitment to health and safety standards. The FDA provides clear instructions for bringing various health products – including medicines, dietary supplements, cosmetics, and medical devices – into Thailand. Tourists are encouraged to familiarise the…

  24. Guest fealesa
    Started by Guest fealesa,

    Is there any gay clubs or bars in Ubon Ratchathani. I have been here for months and have not come across anything. Does any know of any gay cruising areas.

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