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Gay Thailand

This is the main forum for all things gay in Thailand. Post about specific events, places, activities, questions, and comments under the relevant city heading. If commenting on more than one city or other parts of Thailand, use the general comments section below. Keep the topics related to information on Thailand.

  1. [Final health bulletin: Saturday evening I dragged myself to the hospital again; for the 1st time in my life was connected to a saline drip; emerged 2 hours later totally envigorated; and with pills successfully regulating and calming my digestion system. Celebrated with an egg & vegtables salad in Foodland. Hurrah!] Some of you might remember that whenever the issue came up in threads on this board, I advocated for using it also to recommend the deserving providers and to warn against the unworthy scammers. Although I failed in this endeavour, I am always glad to implement it myself. I wrote positively about James in Atlas, and more so - at the Princ…

  2. Started by Londoner,

    I've reported before that my partner knows ten of his former workers at Dreamboys (Pattaya) who are in LTRs with foreigners, having met them in the early 2000s. Mostly via apps but I've met five of the couples in Pattaya, their relationships still going strong. I wonder if anyone more up-to-date than me on the current scene- in other words, almost everyone here- knows of any ongoing or recent relationships like this flourishing. Or perhaps they are a thing of the past, when the guys who came to Pattaya and Bkk had experienced rather different childhoods than today's workers. For some, arrival in Pattaya on the late bus was their first experience of electricity. …

  3. Started by 12is12,

    [When it rains - it pours. Relegating my sore throat to 2nd place, yesterday I suffered from a night of violent vomit and diarriah (although not eating local or street food). Am now confined to my room, drinking Evian water with electrolyte solution (per Raposa's suggestion), and eating bananas. Were it not for that, this massage report would have been posted yesterday.] At about 3:15 pm I entered Senso's fancy lounge (see foto). Present were the papasan, one patron waiting reading and one masseur. The papasan kind of made a big thing of showing me on his tablet 2 options: 60 minutes - 2800; 90 minutes - 3300. When I ruled out the only masseur ther…

  4. Started by sudoxi,

    This is my first time to Bangkok and Thailand in general. I have read a lot on this forum and got some great advice from posters. I have been here for a week now did a tour with Mac from siamroads which was great. I just worked up the courage to try some of the Bars. I went to Fresh Boys on Saturday night. I stayed and watched the show I bought one of the guys who caught my eye a drink then ended up offing him which was a great experience. the next night I went to Hot Male watched the show however no one really interested me, I felt the place was much smaller than fresh boys and I didn’t like how bright it was. So I ended up back at fresh boy…

  5. Started by Olddaddy,

    Grindr is picking up key words "How much " $ etc Someone here before mentioned it but I didn't take notice I guess I lose my subscription 😭

  6. Started by 12is12,

    I'm an almost-newbie; sex-visited twice: 2019 - BKK 3 days; 2022 - pattaya 7 days. in anticipation of my current visit, I summerized the main info and opinions from the 1st page threads. It helps me; maybe other newbies will find it useful. Corrections and additions r more than welcome. Rates: Most st (short time) - 2000-2500. Off fee from the bar - 500. Min tip for massage - 1200. Hour motel - 500 for 2 hours. Bars: Atlas is reported 2 hold THE leading show nowadays. Jupiter and Moonlight r also good. Cocks r exhibited during the shows at Freshcocks, Dreamboys, Hotmale, Banana. "Goodboys (formerly Screw…

  7. Started by 12is12,

    Could anyone please recommend an english speaking family doctor to treat a severe case of sore throat (unconducive 2 oral activities), preferably in Silom area? Or where and how 2 locate one? Thx

  8. Started by 12is12,

    I read half of the threads on the main page; was surprised that the other half dealt with non-sex issues (so many). Please help me out with the following: 1 - A post mentioned that at Dragon & Koi the Myanmar guys can converse basically in English. Is there anywhere anyhow else I could find conversationalists? 2 - 'Formal' rates and tips r now pretty clear 2 me. How much r the small tips, given 2 guys who circulate 4 a fondle, or with a "tuck", or such stuff? Is 50 b enough? 3 - How does the "all in" rate which includes the tip work in Senso (maybe other places)? I mean, how can there b a unitary tip, given the vareity of services (b2b S SS H)? 4…

  9. Started by 12is12,

    Anyone wants 2 meet in BKK, Thursday - Sunday, January 9 - 12 ?

  10. Started by Fetcher,

    I will be in Bangkok next week. Has anyone have any experience with Klover? The guys are very hunky. I lined the shop to see if they offered special massage and got this reply “We are the exclusive massages ”

  11. Guest reader
    Started by Guest reader,

    From Pattaya News At 1:30 AM on December 8th, 2024, Thonglor police raided a drug-fueled party involving over 120 individuals, both Thais and foreigners, at a luxury hotel in Bangkok’s Watthana district. Pol. Col. Pansa Amornapitak, Thonglor police chief, revealed that a tip-off on December 6th reported a planned party with drug activities. Authorities conducted surveillance and launched the raid after noticing a large gathering in a hotel room on Sukhumvit Soi 31. According to Pol. Col. Pansa, the attendees, mostly Thai and foreign male tourists, were reportedly part of an LGBTQ+ group. Initial searches reportedly uncovered ecstasy and ketamine at the…

  12. Started by sawat,

    Whenever i see the boys outside the massage shop - how do you choose the masseuse? Do you stand there and stare at them for a few moments? it feels kind of awkward. Then today I saw one that I was really interested in, but he just looked down at his phone, and then a one next to him called out massage but I wasn't interested in him and then would feel guilty if I choose the other one and rejected the one that called out. The one that calls out is never the one I am interested in. So how do you handle this? I don't want to look like a creep standing there and assessing them on the side of the road ma...

  13. Started by Olddaddy,

    Two WhatsApp messages in two days by two different boys that I saw in my October trip One guy I had seen several times in my first 2 weeks of my 4 week trip then he ghosted me and was too busy ,he even cancelled a few appointments to turn up , Excuses were "it's raining " etc or" I'm too tired after working restaurant all day" ' He wasn't a bar boy ,he is 38yo ex bar boy works in restaurant I took him to dance clubs , etc and even paid him for his time , then I thought I did something wrong ,he just started ignoring my messages So I didn't see him the entire last 2 weeks of my trip ,he just didn't answer my messages or response was a few days lat…

  14. Started by Keithambrose,

    I am on my way back to Bangkok. I have a lot of small denomination USD bills that I have built up. These are OK in Cambodia, but I've not tried them in Bangkok. Do boys accept these, as well as the red notes, etc? Via Vinapu tuck or otherwise!

  15. Started by 12is12,

    Sorry; I forgot the name of his business. Siam guides maybe..... How do I contact him ?

  16. Guest reader
    Started by Guest reader,

    Other videos available at https://www.youtube.com/@whitepartybkk/videos (Thanks to @paulsf for the tip)

  17. Guest reader
    Started by Guest reader,

    From Pattaya News On January 3rd, 2025, Ms. Traisulee Traisoranakul, the spokesperson for the Ministry of Interior, announced preparations to implement the Equal Marriage Law, which takes effect nationwide on January 23rd, 2025. Deputy Prime Minister and Interior Minister Anutin Charnvirakul tasked the Department of Provincial Administration with ensuring readiness, including procedural training, service systems, and other operational adjustments to facilitate smooth registration for all couples under the new law. The Department has collaborated with relevant agencies to amend regulations and draft updated guidelines for family registration to align with the…

  18. Guest reader
    Started by Guest reader,

    From Pattaya Mail By Barry Kenyon Entry Travel Authorization (ETA) This will apply to the tourists from 93 countries currently taking advantage of the visa exempt, no-charge category: 60 days on entry plus, if needed, a further 30 days extension at local immigration for a fee of 1,900 baht (US$55). Currently, the only registration procedure is the post-arrival form TM30 submitted to local immigration by the hotel, condo owner, house master or tourist in person. Enforcement of TM 30 is selective and is a paper-driven bureaucracy. The new ETA will require a pre-flight or pre-entry submission by e-portal, but the Thai Cabinet has yet to endorse fully the …

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  19. For those of you who have made Thailand your second home (or new home), I’m curious to know—how has the surge of TikTok and YouTube content about Thailand affected your experience? It seems like there’s been a flood of videos promoting the idea that Thailand is cheap, cheap, cheap! From claims of USD 400/month for modern condos, $1 breakfasts or lunches, and $3 haircuts to promises of more sex than you can handle (with double the action if you’re open to ladyboys), they make it sound like a paradise on Earth. The videos often paint a picture of Thailand as a carefree, ultra-affordable utopia, where smoking the popular drug is not only accepted but readily available i…

  20. Started by Foolish,

    Back in thailand on 26 Nov for my longest trip so far 🤭 Landed in Suvarnabhumi and was met by lady driver from Nams Taxi to whisk me to Pattaya. Day 1 - checked in at Copa, was happy that the room was ready even tho I arrived before 1pm. Decided to take it easy today cos I was tired from working late. 1st stop, decided to check out Nice Boys, which I have never been to before. As reported in another thread, they are now called boys nighclub. The Nice Boys signboard had been removed. I was not prepared to walk into a scene of two boys being j/o and fondled in the open by two customers. They had about 8-9 boys on stage in jean and trousers which I…

  21. Started by Londoner,

    When are the new entry/visa requirements likely to be introduced?

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  22. hey guys -- please indulge me on this one - i, of course, love very few things more than a massage in thailand one thing i hate though is having my feet worked on (bizarre, i know) - is there a polite way to tell the masseur in thai not to work on my feet? i really appreciate any help - ouch - thanks!

  23. Started by 12is12,

    In anticipation of my first visits 2 Santo Domingo and 2 Thermas Barcelona, I thread-researched and then posted an organized summary of all relevant updated info. I recently started 2 do the same about BKK, but the length and width of it proved too much for non-experienced me (visited 3 times in 15 years). Would anyone of the experts b willing 2 prepare some kind of updated summary of venues rates etc? It could then b pin-posted, and updated periodically..... Apologize if I crossed a line. Should anyone rise 2 the occasion, I promise 2 treat him 2 a club night (-:

  24. Started by 12is12,

    Has anyone ever participated in CNY festivities. Where would u recommend to do it? Any event tickets that require pre-buying? How r the boys and the venues during the 2-3 days?

  25. Started by Londoner,

    What shows are available nowadays in go go bars? They used to be in important part of an evening's entertainment, particularly in Soi Twilight. I remember the trapeze act and the candle wax shows. A little arty-farty for me. Such shows could be quite elaborate. X Boys had a dance scene which involved nearly-naked guys dancing around an enormous paper-mache phallus and then stroking it, resulting in a shower of milk being sprayed over all and sundry. At least, I hope it was milk. The most extraordinary that I saw was in Pattaya's Sawatdee bar. It once put on a special performance by an apparently celebrated- and rather plump- ladyboy; the place was packed. . A w…

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