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Gay Thailand

This is the main forum for all things gay in Thailand. Post about specific events, places, activities, questions, and comments under the relevant city heading. If commenting on more than one city or other parts of Thailand, use the general comments section below. Keep the topics related to information on Thailand.

  1. Guest reader
    Started by Guest reader,

    Came across a new (to me, anyway) massage shop in Bangkok: 365 The River. Although its Twitter site is just about entirely in Thai, you can gain some perspective from the photos and illustrations. From what I can make out, it may--or may not--be located somewhere in vicinity of Bang Sue station. A more diligent search may be productive for those lucky enough to be in town.

  2. Guest reader
    Started by Guest reader,

    Based on a tip from @10tazione, I was able to confirm that some shops on Silom Soi 4 are looking for new quarters because the sale of the parcel now seem imminent . Although no hard date was mentioned, it’s understood that proprietors are already eyeing available space in Patpong and elsewhere. One source said it was at least a year or more out while a rumor of an earlier date was also circulating. However, a blogger claims that developers have their eyes set on Patpong with both parcels being folded into a larger project but with a considerably longer time frame.

  3. In go go bars in Thailand every male on a go go bar stage is called a 'boy', whatever their age. Most of them are aged 20 to 30 but in the muscle bars they might be 40. So when Thai people are speaking to each other would they use the Thai word for 'boy'?

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  4. Started by Olddaddy,

    I'm thinking this time to catch the bus from Bangkok to Jomtien Not because of price💲 but for experience 💃 I haven't caught the bus🚌 for donkeys years 🐴, I'm thinking the Bells 🔔bus service that can pick me up at my hotel in Bangkok,is that possible. Of course by the time I paid all the fare plus the time I could just pay the 1300 baht and be in Pattaya much quicker,but it's an experience😁

  5. Started by Olddaddy,

    I'm not going to go on & on , So your thoughts please ,is the gay scene ( moneyboys) particularly in Pattaya and in regards to hiring moneyboys starting to "die off " as the next generation get towards retirement age are they willing to pay for sex ?

  6. Started by Olddaddy,

    I will be in Bangkok March 5 arrival Just googled some hotel 🏩 Tartawan 4,000 baht a night 😲😲

  7. Started by Menaughty,

    Hey y'all, Lol I am back with my specific questions topic. I always go through and read posts after post to gather as much info possible and then if I have any remaining questions about a location I create a topic. Because I understand it can be annoying without reading anything then just creating a new topic and asking people for information. So after reading and reading for hours and days about Thailand [Bangkok specifically], I have some questions that seems unanswered for me and I would some guidance from the forum members: 1. I see the term "OFF" being used only in Thailand forum and no where else. Now I know it might sound dumb but what does 'o…

  8. Started by Keithambrose,

    Not sure whether this should go here or in Cambodia section, but I get feeling that Cambodia section not read that much. Anyway, I am back in Bangkok, and as I now feel better, looked for a boy. I picked a boy from Siem Reap, who had contacted me there, on Grindr, but I hadn't taken him. He is now in Bangkok, so we met. He lives in Siem Reap, only visiting Bangkok. Short, but cute, nice ass and body. Very enthusiastic kissing and bottom. Plus point was massage he did afterwards. One of the best I've had. Not a muscle was untouched, perfect strength and skill. He works at Massage shop 'No 5', which is facing Pub St. I don't remember it. From the pic he sent, it look…

  9. Guest reader
    Started by Guest reader,

    From The Thaiger Hotel room rates in Thailand increased by an average of 15% from 2023, as reported by SiteMinder, an e-commerce platform assisting hotels with direct and third-party bookings. This growth distinguishes Thailand as the only country with double-digit expansion. The Hotel Booking Trends report from SiteMinder, which analysed over 125 million reservations, indicates that the average daily rate (ADR) in Thailand rose to 5,377 baht from 4,648 baht in 2023. Rates peaked in December at 6,460 baht per room, an 11% increase from the previous year’s same period. SiteMinder attributed this growth to Thailand’s response to increased in…

  10. Guest reader
    Started by Guest reader,

    From The Thaiger Police officers last week interrupted a kinky group sex session involving at least six men in a public park in Bangkok’s Bang Khen district. Esor News shared a video and pictures of the group of men fleeing from police officers on Thursday, February 20. The video captured police officers blowing a whistle loudly and chasing the perverted exhibitionists as the men hurriedly left the debauched scene. As officers shone their torches on them, it became evident that they gathered near a large concrete pillar. The footage showing the men engaging in sexual activity was blurred. Thai netizens flooded the comments section with h…

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  11. Started by 12is12,

    The last post about sex is 6 months old.... Is the scene there only for locals?

  12. Started by martinsen,

    Anyone been to Tawan recently? I used to be a real fan of the place but have not been in several years. The boys were OK for that visit but not as great as some previous visits. What is the present status with regard to the boys and the show?

  13. Started by Pantherz,

    I want to spend a few days by the beach in a 5 star hotel where there are restaurants and nightlife within walking distance. Does such a place exist in Thailand? Looking at Phuket and Koh Samui, it looks like all the nice hotels are far from anny action. Am I missing something? Not specifically looking for gay venues, as I know that outside of Bangkok and Pattaya they are few and far between, but at least a young, fun, and open minded crowd. I am thinking of the kind of vibes one would get in Boracay, Cartagena, Puerto Vallarta, Seminyak…

  14. Started by LouieBi,

    I recently read the book Bangkok Boy by Chai Pinit. Absolutely fascinating At the end of the book he mentions that he still offers tours around Soi Patpong and Soi Twilight. Is he still around?

  15. Started by Londoner,

    Has anyone any experience of the new procedures, personally or vicariously?

  16. Started by ichigo,

    Excuse my ignorance, but can someone explain in detail how one catches a baht bus from Jomtien complex to boyztown (and opposite)? I’ve never done it before and just want to make sure I do it correctly lol. Thanks

  17. Guest reader
    Started by Guest reader,

    The skies opened up at 8:19 this morning with the capital’s first rain since sometime last month. Forecasters are calling for a 40-50% chance of precipitation on six of the next eight days.

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  18. I am staying at hotel near DMK airport in a weeks time and was looking for a suggestion of a close by massage shop ? Alternatively a good outcall massage. I’m looking for a decent massage with a happy ending, nothing more - thanks in advance if you do have a recommendation

  19. Started by sydneyboy1,

    Can people relate their experiences of bringing “local” guests to their room in 5 star hotels in Bangkok?

  20. Started by DustyX,

    I’m just back from my first trip to SE Asia: four countries in 21 days, with a tour group. While sex wasn’t the focus of this trip, I had hoped to find some fun along the way, and following this forum was a key part of my preparation. Thanks for all your advice. If you don’t mind, I’ve put my experiences in a single thread in the Thailand page, where I started and where there is the most engagement, rather than spread it across destinations. 11. Bangkok I had planned to try Arena or Senso for a massage to recover from my trip, but I was staying in another neighborhood, and my schedule was tricky. Besides, soon after I settled in my hotel, I got a message on g…

  21. Started by Lucky,

    I thought Fresh Boys had a really hot show the first time I saw it. But I went a second time with a forum member and it wasn't exciting. One problem was that a very sexy dance had been eliminated. But I still enjoyed it. Prince massage was my go-to place (when I could). Always hot guys and great massages. I went to Arena once, it was fine, but Prime massage appears to be highly overrated. Finally, and no offense meant to Vinapu, the cashew chicken at Mango Tree is way too spicy.

  22. Started by khaolakguy,

    As an alternative to whoring or a supplement, you can take boy special(s), I do recommend a day trip to Ayutthaya. There are lots of options for travel, including groups on boats, busses, or smaller groups in minibus etc. Strangely despite my many visits to Thailand, and travelling all over the country, neither I or my Thai partner had been before. So we decided to go but in a more independent and expensive way with a driver, comfortable car, and English speaking guide which allowed us to travel at our own pace. Collected from hotel at 0800 and returned at 1700. Ayutthaya is just WOW, as ruins (mostly) go. We don’t know how it took us so many year…

  23. Started by Olddaddy,

    I live in a large Gay area in Australia 🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈 I was just talking to a young Asian guy tonight who I met on Grindr though we didn't have sex he spoke about how the gay community 🏳️‍🌈 here are the biggest users of drugs, "it's great " he said ,telling me one makes you dance all night at the White party he went to in Bangkok and another called G makes him so horny and cannabis makes him laughing As cannabis is legal in Thailand he mentioned that it was great to use for sex ,I have never tried drugs before except poppers and Viagra etc I don't smoke so is it benefit you sexually have you found What about this sexual drug G ,what exactly does that do …

  24. Started by Londoner,

    Has anyone any recommendations regarding full health insurance for expats in Thailand?

  25. Guest reader

    From Tourism Authority of Thailand Bangkok, 12 February 2025 – The Tourism Authority of Thailand (TAT) staged the Amazing Thailand Out There event yesterday in Bangkok, marking a significant milestone in its efforts to promote Thailand as a premier LGBTQ+ travel destination. Marriott Thailand supported the initiative, highlighting the country’s world-class hospitality, rich culture, and unwavering commitment to inclusivity. Arriving at a pivotal moment following the enactment of Thailand’s Equal Marriage Act in January 2025, the event further cemented Thailand’s reputation as a global leader in LGBTQ+ rights. With the LGBTQ+ travel market projected to gener…

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