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Yeah it can get a little pricey with drinks/off fees etc, and sometimes a bit of a gamble as we don't always know how they are going to perform and if we are going to connect. But once you find a good one, hold on to him dearly! The further out massage places, in Saphan Kwai (and others) are really good value and I would recommend for next time!

An interesting theory. Definitely will next time discuss tip direct with boy, but I didn't even ask mamasan as I know the going rates, he just kinda told me. Maybe he thought I was a first-timer lol. Thank you. I don't mind paying 3k for short time, provided that he gives me a really good time and goes above and beyond. 5k is a bit much for me, but I know there are boys that charge more, eg. Babe at moonlight charges 8k, but he is kinda famous so I guess that is warranted.

This recent trip was the longest I've stayed in Thailand (nearly a month) and was enjoyable despite some random health issues that decided to pop up. Rather than a day by day account, I'll just outline some interesting points. Bangkok Bars Dreamboys: I went here a few times, mainly to see my favourite boy and managed to off him just once. I think he is popular because on another two occasions I visited the bar, he was already booked by a customer. I felt as though the quality has dropped since last time, but there are still some gems. Screwboys: I was surprised by the high quality here actually, and there were lots of good choices to my taste. I had a short list of two, and it so happened to turn out that they are brothers (and Vietnamese). Took the older one first, and his English skills were really good and he was quite charismatic. The following night I went with the younger brother. Both were satisfactory, nothing earth shattering but an enjoyable time nonetheless. Mamasan was helpful and wrote down the badge numbers of boys that could do my requests. Freshboys: Didn't off anyone here, rather just watched the show and had a drink. I liked the choices here though, lots of toned twinks. Tawan: Just went here for the show as the boys here are much too big for me. Really relaxed atmosphere (although packed in like sardines), and the most x-rated show with a fucking show and jerk-off show amongst others. There were a couple of smaller looking guys in the rotation that would have been suitable for me, as well as the waiter. Banana bar: The majority of the show is katoeys, but they are the most stunning I've seen in all of the bars. The boys don't get much stage time, but I did spot one that I had offed previously when he used to work at Freshboys so we had a drink together. Smoking is allowed in this bar so you will smell like an ashtray when you leave. Moonlight: Went mainly for the show, which is very tame these days. Lots of good options in the rotation though, plus there are the models. Hotmale: A good line up here, and a good show (with very nice dicks). I went back with a Cambodian guy and he was lots of fun. Jupiter: Firstly, very impressed with the quality here. All model material and I could have easily gone with any of them. Mamasan told me the off fee and expected tip for boy, which he said 3000 for short time which I thought was a little on the higher side but maybe because they are models, the higher tip was expected. Or inflation. I ended up going with a nice Cambodian boy, sex was pleasant (but not earth shattering), and afterwards when I gave him 3000 he asked 'is that all?' I was confused, so then he said his rate was 5000. I was dumbfounded. To avoid any conflict I offered 4000 which he accepted. Note to myself for future, to always ask the boy what his tip expectations are, even if you know what the market price is. Kinda left a sour taste in my mouth, but this doesn't reflect so much on the bar itself. You live and you learn, and I'll put it down as an expensive mistake. Sol: The only bar I didn't manage to get to, but there is always next time. Massage Prime: I went here quite a few times, as I always do, and it's always high quality and run like a well-oiled machine. Advance bookings are required, although I think they are getting a little quieter now that high season is slowing down a bit. Jey Spa: My first time here. I booked in advance a boy who I had been admiring for quite some time, and I was really happy I finally met him. Exceeded my expectations too. Facilities are quite nice, and they are very responsive on Line. Senso: Only my second time here. The boy that I had last time was on vacation, so I chose another who was smiling and waving at me. He was a lot of fun and definitely worth a repeat when I come back. Kman: Last trip I had an excellent time here, so ended up booking the same boy and had an excellent time again. Prices here are much cheaper, but I tip generously. Hotels Quarter Silom: Good location. The rooms are a little small but well-presented, and with some interesting lighting controls. Rooms are not sound proofed, so you will hear everything. This hotel attracts I think mostly gay clientele, and there is lots of eye candy. Crowne Plaza: Probably my most favourite hotel in the area, but it does come with a hefty price tag. Very quiet, and very guest friendly. I came in late one night with boy in tow, and a manager-like person even pressed the elevator button for us. Le Siam: It's decent, and I did like staying on the other side of Silom Road for once. There are heaps of food options on Convent road which was great. Room size was okay and it is a little dated, but the price point was appropriate. Other things of note I finally met the esteemed @vinapu in person! My first forum member I have met, and we had lunch at Happy Beer Garden, whilst having pleasant conversation. Nice to meet you! To be continued...

Pad krapow my favourite! Except I dislike when they serve it with that sad looking circular fried egg lol, I prefer the Thai style of fried egg with the crispy edges tbh

Totally agree about Prime, always good quality. They have 4 buildings now so it seems!

Whilst I've never been there, I've heard good things about 'Emerald Green Mens Club', you may like to check it out.

KMan (also in Saphan Kwai) also has some guys listed as "T+B"

Whilst I can't comment specifically on Aquarius, I just came back from Phuket today and I stayed in one of the streets that run parallel to where Aquarius is. It's a nice lively area with plenty of massage shops, restaurants, bars and more. I quite liked it.

I thought you could already do this on an education visa?

Glad to hear you are back in Thailand! I just left Bangkok today to visit a few other places, but will be back soon!

If you want something closer to home, I may suggest perusing the RentMen website. I'm sure there would be many that would be obliging to your requests (for compensation of course). Otherwise you can try Grindr, but sometimes can be hit and miss. You may just like to outline your expectations in your bio.

If you are a guy, Prime will by default assign you a male therapist

Agree with this, different strokes for different folks as they say. For me, I quite enjoy go-go bars, however I have very little interest in going to places like DJ station (although I may try it one day).

https://siamroads.com

I read on a Google maps review that Prime will by default assign a male therapist to a male customer, and a female therapist to a female customer.

Can confirm dreamboys will open until 2am.

I just asked one of my bar boys, will report back what he says.

It's been nearly a year since I last went to Senso, but I remember there being a mixed bunch, more towards 'hunk' I guess but I chose a guy that was more a twink, but not like skinny jomtien twink, if that makes sense. He was I guess more slim/toned but he was lovely and we had a great time.

Still so many damn stairs!

Depends on your nationality.

Somewhat unrelated, but if you are looking for something to do during the day, why not spend some time learning the Thai language? Going to a daily class and then some self study could easily knock out a few hours of the day, not to mention would be super beneficial if you are going to live in Thailand full-time (assuming you do not already speak Thai).

Can relate to this sentiment all too well!

I think I read on Facebook that they are doing an upgrade at the moment, but should be back online at some point.

What does one do if sitting in a bar whilst being raided? Keep drinking?

Beautifully written!