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Unplanned Bangkok Trip (March 2024)

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I think the Thai Ministry of Tourism should toss this forum a commission for all the spur-of-the-moment trips it inspires. I mean, who wouldn't feel a twinge of envy and rush to book a trip after scrolling through those Thailand adventures and tips written here? So, there I was, bitten by the travel bug, and voila! ------ found myself booking an unplanned trip to the land of smiles.

Touching down in Bangkok after a longer than usual stopover in Taiwan, I braced myself for the infamous immigration snake lines. But despite the full queues, every counter was promptly manned, and I breezed through. Maybe because cause of the build up in immigration, baggage claim took less than a minute, thanks to my luck and  eagle eyes spotting my luggage as soon as I approached the carousel. Sorted out some cash and a SIM card, then off to my pre-booked pickup. As I got whisked off from my pickup point, I was hit with that warm, unmistakable Bangkok air, making me buzz with excitement and giddiness for the adventures ahead.

Hotel check-in was expected to be a breeze, yet I found myself low-key panicking as my card repeatedly acted up declining the transaction.  It finally dawned on me that I had forgotten to adjust the low maximum spend setting—a habit whenever I travel.

The allocated room seemed reasonable initially, but its issues became apparent later. After showering off my jetlag, I hailed a taxi for my pre-booked appointment at S'sense Spa in Suan Plu.

Knott was still at the spa and appeared delighted to see me. Upon asking if he really remember me, he promptly identified me by removing my socks pointing at my ankle tattoo, a gesture that left me both shocked and impressed. The quality of my session with Knott, both massage and cheeky extras, remained consistently good as I remembered. This explains my choice of S'sense as my first stop—a reassuring and safe start to the trip, saving the fun experimentation, risks, and disappointments for later.

Following purchase of supplies and stocking the fridge, jetlag began to rear its ugly head. Nevertheless, I resolved to push through and explore Silom.

To my disappointment, Tawan remained shuttered, prompting me to wax nostalgic reminiscing nights spent there, particularly recalling that going to Tawan was  my first foray into Silom nightlife. My first ever off was with Tawan's hunky Lek, given my hotel was close by (the now defunct Glitz).

Although tempted to inquire about familiar faces nearby, shyness prevailed, fearing potential embarrassment if they were not from Tawan.

I strolled towards Hotmale, noted a familiar performance and lineup except for a cute, smiling hunk whom I promptly invited to join me. He's from Myanmar and only been working there for four months. He has a very sweet and friendly demeanour. Being a rookie, he seems to be very dependent on translation apps. I typically don't mind language barriers, often finding them endearing and cute. But given my fatigue from travel and jetlag, I decided to listen to my body and give tonight a pass. I bid him farewell with a bit generous tip, sincerely promising to return.

And that, folks, is how I ended up with no off on my first night in Bangkok!


 

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    Part 7 After saying goodbye to Mek, I welcomed the return to my solitary bed, relishing the comfort of solitude. While I enjoy companionship, there comes a point when I crave time alone. My time

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    Part 8 Fresh from Prince, I took a taxi back to the hotel and spent the rest of the afternoon chilling and mindlessly doing random things online. By night time, I was torn between going out

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41 minutes ago, Foolish said:

I'm super jealous...going for songkran but with straight friends. Don't think it will be fun 😅

Not for them, maybe  Just claim you were waylaid by a band of big boys with bigger guns.🙂

12 hours ago, CallMeLee said:

And that, folks, is how I ended up with no off on my first night in Bangkok!

 

You are forgiven - I think I express prevailing mood here . Offing boy while under jet lag could result in all too easy money for him , had you fell asleep immediately.

Been there , done that.

Funny thing,  just yesterday I exchanged messages with other member and complained that forum becomes too quiet for lack of trip reports  not knowing you about to grace us with one almost right away. Very thank you for dynamic relation

Start planning escape now 🙂

7 hours ago, Foolish said:

I'm more concerned that they may drag me to nana first 🤣

consolation is around the corner , is named Aurora Sukhumvit massage and features quite a few hunks if one believes their Line feed

2 hours ago, vinapu said:

consolation is around the corner , is named Aurora Sukhumvit massage and features quite a few hunks if one believes their Line feed

Whoa, I have not heard of this one before.  A google search shows its name to be Aurora Massage @Sukhumvit and:

https://www.top-rated.online/cities/Khlong+Toei+District/place/p/17837152/Aurora+Massage+%40Sukhumvit

with Line feed: https://line.me/R/ti/p/@359fhjop

The comments in the first of the two links above (sorted chronologically) seem highly variable:

5/5 Rattha W. 2 months ago on Google • 1 review 
Good service

1/5 Y Y. 2 months ago on Google • 9 reviews
Cold staff bad service

5/5 Josh 3 months ago on Google • 203 reviews
Very comfortable

5/5 Dan C. 10 months ago on Google • 19 reviews
It is a place where men should come and relax with a fragrant aromatic oil massage or a scrub for smooth, soft skin. Suitable for taking a break to relieve fatigue. Good service staff, clean store, private, luxury

1/5 Tam T. 1 year ago on Google • 40 reviews
No fun. There are no special services, the owner emphasized.

5/5 นายณรงค์ฤทธิ์ �. 1 year ago on Google • 1 review
The massage skills are very good, the room is very good and the service is very good.

5/5 Chitsanupong S. 1 year ago on Google • 1 review
For good service 
 

 

1 hour ago, macaroni21 said:

Whoa, I have not heard of this one before.  A google search shows its name to be Aurora Massage @Sukhumvit and:

https://www.top-rated.online/cities/Khlong+Toei+District/place/p/17837152/Aurora+Massage+%40Sukhumvit

with Line feed: https://line.me/R/ti/p/@359fhjop

The comments in the first of the two links above (sorted chronologically) seem highly variable:

5/5 Rattha W. 2 months ago on Google • 1 review 
Good service

1/5 Y Y. 2 months ago on Google • 9 reviews
Cold staff bad service

5/5 Josh 3 months ago on Google • 203 reviews
Very comfortable

5/5 Dan C. 10 months ago on Google • 19 reviews
It is a place where men should come and relax with a fragrant aromatic oil massage or a scrub for smooth, soft skin. Suitable for taking a break to relieve fatigue. Good service staff, clean store, private, luxury

1/5 Tam T. 1 year ago on Google • 40 reviews
No fun. There are no special services, the owner emphasized.

5/5 นายณรงค์ฤทธิ์ �. 1 year ago on Google • 1 review
The massage skills are very good, the room is very good and the service is very good.

5/5 Chitsanupong S. 1 year ago on Google • 1 review
For good service 
 

 

One of their "therapist" frong is very active making gv tho 🤭

Anyway Shark is cute 😍

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1 hour ago, macaroni21 said:

Whoa, I have not heard of this one before.  A google search shows its name to be Aurora Massage @Sukhumvit and:

https://www.top-rated.online/cities/Khlong+Toei+District/place/p/17837152/Aurora+Massage+%40Sukhumvit

with Line feed: https://line.me/R/ti/p/@359fhjop

The comments in the first of the two links above (sorted chronologically) seem highly variable:

5/5 Rattha W. 2 months ago on Google • 1 review 
Good service

1/5 Y Y. 2 months ago on Google • 9 reviews
Cold staff bad service

5/5 Josh 3 months ago on Google • 203 reviews
Very comfortable

5/5 Dan C. 10 months ago on Google • 19 reviews
It is a place where men should come and relax with a fragrant aromatic oil massage or a scrub for smooth, soft skin. Suitable for taking a break to relieve fatigue. Good service staff, clean store, private, luxury

1/5 Tam T. 1 year ago on Google • 40 reviews
No fun. There are no special services, the owner emphasized.

5/5 นายณรงค์ฤทธิ์ �. 1 year ago on Google • 1 review
The massage skills are very good, the room is very good and the service is very good.

5/5 Chitsanupong S. 1 year ago on Google • 1 review
For good service 
 

 

Their location is a 15 minute walk from where I am staying. I will try to squeeze this in my itinerary and let you guys know how it went.

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Part 2

Writing this trip report has proven to be quite the challenge. Balancing daily activities with the need to have fun, reflect on experiences, and put thoughts to paper has left me significantly behind schedule.

Upon returning to my hotel from Hotmale , I was eagerly looking forward to succumbing to the embrace of jetlag-induced sleep. However, my hopes were dashed as I discovered that my room was plagued by an annoying noise coming from the balcony, which to my horror ,housed the condenser units of adjacent rooms. I endured the disturbance for the night and approached the hotel staff the next day. Thankfully, they promptly assigned me a much quieter and better room. Having to repack and move was a hassle given that I have nested a fair bit with my stuff already scattered everywhere in the room.

Once settled in my new room, I received a message from Jake, a Philipino MB I met from a previous trip. Given this trip is unplanned, it turned out that he'll be in Bangkok as well but with friends and a week later than my arrival. We agreed to have his incoming flight rebooked so that we can meet for a few days before he set off with his mates. Too much drama with this rebooking as I can't use my credit card to pay. Jake said that in Manila, sometimes the airline will look for the card used to pay for the flight during check-in. And he can be deplaned if he's not able to produce it. Still I can't see the logic . Must be an anti fraud thing

Deciding to fill my time, I ventured to Platinum Mall in search of souvenirs and treats to bring back home. Although the mall's offerings remained largely unchanged, I managed to find a few trinkets and enjoy a meal at the Foodcourt on the top floor.

Opting for a change of pace, I hopped on the BTS to Saphan Kwai station and decided to try out 15M. I was asked to remove my footwear before climbing up the second level. I was expecting to be given slippers at this point but was shocked to learn that I will be barefoot the entire time. Some masseurs are in the reception and while I am browsing the menu, noted how much photo enhancement were done to the photos they send to clients. Generally I found the massage experience to be underwhelming, questioning the value of opting for the longer 1.5-hour session as the quality seemed lacking.

As evening approached, I made my way to Dreamboys, only to notice a significant reduction in the lineup compared to my previous visit. Disheartened by the sparse lineup and boring atmosphere, I made a swift exit, seeking a livelier alternative.

I then marched straight to Screwboys, where I encountered many familiar faces missing from Dreamboys. It was a full on contingent on a small cramped stage. I was pleased to spot Mai among the performers, his boyish and manly charm is always a welcome sight.

Among the performers, I invited and struck up a conversation with Boy, a Vietnamese who used to work at dreamboys,  who surprisingly remembered our previous encounter (complete with details!)After enjoying the show, I proposed spending more time together, although Boy expressed his fatigue (not enough sleep for two days) and suggested a short time. I responded saying that I am in the same situation as him and may be asleep way before he did. We agreed, settled my bill and made our way to the hotel. 

1 hour ago, CallMeLee said:

in Manila, sometimes the airline will look for the card used to pay for the flight during check-in. And he can be deplaned if he's not able to produce it. Still I can't see the logic . Must be an anti fraud thing

I've experienced that on Srilankan Airlines.

2 hours ago, CallMeLee said:

Jake said that in Manila, sometimes the airline will look for the card used to pay for the flight during check-in. And he can be deplaned if he's not able to produce it. Still I can't see the logic . Must be an anti fraud thing

Their gov is known to deny departure for some citizen who they suspect are trying to flee the country and become illegal immigrant elsewhere. I guess two main reason, human trafficking and the cost needed to fly them back home if caught. I suppose human trafficker will pay for their tickets to leave the country under pretense so might be a reason for them to ask to show the cc used. Just a wild guess

I saw that warning multiple times  that car used to pay for flight may be asked to be shown but never was asked one to produce one. Still make sure to have that one on me.

When travelling I have habit of leaving one card at home, just in case.  

5 hours ago, CallMeLee said:

Writing this trip report has proven to be quite the challenge. Balancing daily activities with the need to have fun, reflect on experiences, and put thoughts to paper has left me significantly behind schedule.

 

it always is a challenge but thank you for an effort and waiting for part 3

i wonder if they would accept the card on your cellphone or in the app from the bank.

 I used the app for my bank to help identify my card that got stuck in a defective ATM machine in Siem Reap.  Those bank employees went above and beyond to help me.

On 3/17/2024 at 9:41 PM, macaroni21 said:

Whoa, I have not heard of this one before.  A google search shows its name to be Aurora Massage @Sukhumvit and:

https://www.top-rated.online/cities/Khlong+Toei+District/place/p/17837152/Aurora+Massage+%40Sukhumvit

with Line feed: https://line.me/R/ti/p/@359fhjop

The comments in the first of the two links above (sorted chronologically) seem highly variable:

5/5 Rattha W. 2 months ago on Google • 1 review 
Good service

1/5 Y Y. 2 months ago on Google • 9 reviews
Cold staff bad service

5/5 Josh 3 months ago on Google • 203 reviews
Very comfortable

5/5 Dan C. 10 months ago on Google • 19 reviews
It is a place where men should come and relax with a fragrant aromatic oil massage or a scrub for smooth, soft skin. Suitable for taking a break to relieve fatigue. Good service staff, clean store, private, luxury

1/5 Tam T. 1 year ago on Google • 40 reviews
No fun. There are no special services, the owner emphasized.

5/5 นายณรงค์ฤทธิ์ �. 1 year ago on Google • 1 review
The massage skills are very good, the room is very good and the service is very good.

5/5 Chitsanupong S. 1 year ago on Google • 1 review
For good service 
 

 

From the looks of their lineup I'd say they are a branch of the Zoo Spa/Malepark group. So, I presume very high prices for not so great service.

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Going back I guess 10 years I invited the guy, who is now my partner, to come to the UK to experience my culture, to improve his English and as it was getting serious to see how compatible we both were.

He was flying on Qatar and was pulled at BKK and asked for the credit card used for the booking (mine) and a copy of my passport.

Panic stations as I was at work in the UK, fortunately I managed to get home and faxed them (it's that long ago!) the copies they required in time for him to make the flight.

I still remember his smiling face when I picked him up at Manchester Airport where customs had opened his bag and laughed at him bringing for me a couple of gay male magazines.

I purchased a ticket for a friend to meet me in Phuket once.  We were not flying together and I was aware that Airlines may ask to see the credit card used when checking in.

To avoid any problems I went to the airline office before he flew to have my credit card sighted.  They then put a message in his booking which ensured no issues at check in.

Of course immigration may be a different matter. 

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Part 3

With just one day left before Jake's arrival, I decided to take things easy since he seems to have some plans and places he would like to  see. One smart move on my part —I made sure to bring up the topic of compensation in advance this time around. However, his response was a bit unclear. He seemed to think that me handling everything for the next three days would suffice. He mentioned wanting to enjoy Bangkok without the hassle of worrying about MB work and finding clients. While it sounded reasonable, deep down, I couldn't shake the feeling that I ought to do something in return when he leaves.

I woke up and spent a few hours responding to emails and checking on the progress of work back home. Mates always nag me about not being able to relax and disconnect properly. But I think that investing time to stay on top of things now prevents a mountain of stress later on post vacation. Plus, it ensures that my vacation doesn't eat into all my leave credits, leaving me with nothing for the future. This approach has served me well so far, though I guess everyone has their own way of doing things.

When my stomach started rumbling, I decided to call it a day and went out for lunch. I stumbled upon a Chinese noodle house near McDonald's on Silom Rd. It turned out to be a poor choice—the service was cold and indifferent. Despite being customer number two at that time, I felt completely ignored by the four staff. I took the initiative to grab a menu myself, but when I sat down, the waiter pointed to a QR code on the table and swiftly walked away. The code led me to a Thai website, leaving me to fend for myself. Hungry and frustrated, I opted for McDonald's next door to fill up. Problem solved, albeit in a less exciting way.

With my hunger satisfied, I made my way to Green Massage for a foot massage. They tried to upsell me to a full-body massage, but I declined, citing my recent meal and the potential mess they may need to mop off. A foot massage there is always a delight, and I've never left disappointed. It's also a perfect way to kill time before catching the boy show next block.

Later in the evening, I found myself at Arena in Silom Plaza. It wasn't high on my list of places to visit prior to this trip, but recent events with Tawan made this visit compelling. Not much seemed to have changed—the atmosphere, the process, and the quality of masseurs all remained consistent. Yet, it still seemed to be the go-to spot for meeting Tawan-like guys, at least for the time being.

As night fell, I headed over to Screwboys, which was quickly becoming my favorite spot. Their current selection was on point, and I couldn't resist checking it out. One boy caught my attention. Not my usual type but his overall playful demeanour onstage and how he vibes with other guys looks entertaining. I quickly signalled to invite him to sit with me which he smilingly obliged. T as he introduced himself is from Vietnam - he also mentioned that it will be his birthday in three days. I nodded politely which he interpreted that I don't believe him. He then whipped out his phone and showed me a photo of his passport. I smiled and asked if he would like a drink.

T seems eager to secure business as he instantly became touchy and leading my hand to explore various parts of his body. A few moments later, we were kissing like we are the only people in the room. This left me a bit embarassed as I am personally not a fan of public displays like this. I asked him if he would like a second drink. He responded saying that will it be alright if his brother can join us and have that drink instead. 

Min joined us and minutes later was doing the same routine as T. I really couldn't complain being flanked and alternately kissed by two gorgeous guys. I was shocked to learn though that they are actual brothers (as per T: "mother, father same same "). I can't even process the fact that they both would like to spend the night. At the end, I politely declined the proposition. I just can't wrap my head around that kind of scenario.

It eventually ended with me and T marching out and doing a 7-11 pitstop. In the counter, T handed me a 100 baht note since he purchased a pack of ciggies. I appreciated the gesture but made it a point to add it to his tip.

At the hotel, we had a lively discussion over microwaved food and he's just a chatterbox talking about his life in Bangkok and his family in Vietnam. I prefer not to participate much in this type of conversation as these can be potentially used later for financial help requests. But T have a very animated and entertaining way of storytelling that I can't help but to engage.

We then showered together and things started to heat up again. Initially, I was concerned that his over the top touchy and flirty gestures in the bar is just for show to convince clients for an off - but he remained consistent all throughout. We had a quick shower, a bit more chat and a few minutes later, told him that Jetlag is calling me. He pulled me closer to his chest, kissed me in the forehead and said our goodnights.

 

11 minutes ago, CallMeLee said:

Part 3

With just one day left before Jake's arrival, I decided to take things easy since he seems to have some plans and places he would like to  see. One smart move on my part —I made sure to bring up the topic of compensation in advance this time around. However, his response was a bit unclear. He seemed to think that me handling everything for the next three days would suffice. He mentioned wanting to enjoy Bangkok without the hassle of worrying about MB work and finding clients. While it sounded reasonable, deep down, I couldn't shake the feeling that I ought to do something in return when he leaves.

I woke up and spent a few hours responding to emails and checking on the progress of work back home. Mates always nag me about not being able to relax and disconnect properly. But I think that investing time to stay on top of things now prevents a mountain of stress later on post vacation. Plus, it ensures that my vacation doesn't eat into all my leave credits, leaving me with nothing for the future. This approach has served me well so far, though I guess everyone has their own way of doing things.

When my stomach started rumbling, I decided to call it a day and went out for lunch. I stumbled upon a Chinese noodle house near McDonald's on Silom Rd. It turned out to be a poor choice—the service was cold and indifferent. Despite being customer number two at that time, I felt completely ignored by the four staff. I took the initiative to grab a menu myself, but when I sat down, the waiter pointed to a QR code on the table and swiftly walked away. The code led me to a Thai website, leaving me to fend for myself. Hungry and frustrated, I opted for McDonald's next door to fill up. Problem solved, albeit in a less exciting way.

With my hunger satisfied, I made my way to Green Massage for a foot massage. They tried to upsell me to a full-body massage, but I declined, citing my recent meal and the potential mess they may need to mop off. A foot massage there is always a delight, and I've never left disappointed. It's also a perfect way to kill time before catching the boy show next block.

Later in the evening, I found myself at Arena in Silom Plaza. It wasn't high on my list of places to visit prior to this trip, but recent events with Tawan made this visit compelling. Not much seemed to have changed—the atmosphere, the process, and the quality of masseurs all remained consistent. Yet, it still seemed to be the go-to spot for meeting Tawan-like guys, at least for the time being.

As night fell, I headed over to Screwboys, which was quickly becoming my favorite spot. Their current selection was on point, and I couldn't resist checking it out. One boy caught my attention. Not my usual type but his overall playful demeanour onstage and how he vibes with other guys looks entertaining. I quickly signalled to invite him to sit with me which he smilingly obliged. T as he introduced himself is from Vietnam - he also mentioned that it will be his birthday in three days. I nodded politely which he interpreted that I don't believe him. He then whipped out his phone and showed me a photo of his passport. I smiled and asked if he would like a drink.

T seems eager to secure business as he instantly became touchy and leading my hand to explore various parts of his body. A few moments later, we were kissing like we are the only people in the room. This left me a bit embarassed as I am personally not a fan of public displays like this. I asked him if he would like a second drink. He responded saying that will it be alright if his brother can join us and have that drink instead. 

Min joined us and minutes later was doing the same routine as T. I really couldn't complain being flanked and alternately kissed by two gorgeous guys. I was shocked to learn though that they are actual brothers (as per T: "mother, father same same "). I can't even process the fact that they both would like to spend the night. At the end, I politely declined the proposition. I just can't wrap my head around that kind of scenario.

It eventually ended with me and T marching out and doing a 7-11 pitstop. In the counter, T handed me a 100 baht note since he purchased a pack of ciggies. I appreciated the gesture but made it a point to add it to his tip.

At the hotel, we had a lively discussion over microwaved food and he's just a chatterbox talking about his life in Bangkok and his family in Vietnam. I prefer not to participate much in this type of conversation as these can be potentially used later for financial help requests. But T have a very animated and entertaining way of storytelling that I can't help but to engage.

We then showered together and things started to heat up again. Initially, I was concerned that his over the top touchy and flirty gestures in the bar is just for show to convince clients for an off - but he remained consistent all throughout. We had a quick shower, a bit more chat and a few minutes later, told him that Jetlag is calling me. He pulled me closer to his chest, kissed me in the forehead and said our goodnights.

 

Sounds like a nice guy, good to hear.

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