Glad to know that when my drink swayed, it was the wind, not excess of alcohol. My Office building in London did the same, the light fittings would perform a stately dance!
Each to his own! When there is some wind, I get the impression that the building is swaying slightly, which is fun. I haven't eaten up there for a long time, so don't know about prices.
This is a good example of people having different requirements. I think kissing is an integral part of the encounter, so I always check that it is on the agenda!