Gay Thailand

I'm a 32-year-old residing on the sunny island of Singapore in Southeast Asia. I'm considering a trip to Bangkok in April. I'd be interested in arranging a meet-up to visit a gogoboys bar together (I'm a bit hesitant to go alone), or we could also grab lunch or dinner together. I'm eager to gain insight into the gogoboys bar culture, including the dos and don'ts.

Any laundries around Boystown? Remember seeing one at Supertown in Jomtien…

I have heard of guys being offed from bars but not for sex. Some of the guys I met told me that customers off them to take them drinking at other bars or go to DJ Station. I know of fellow forum members who are content with offing guys just to chat with them the whole night. I myself have taken guys back to my hotel room for muscle worship, BDSM roleplay and blackjack cum drinking parties. I once even engaged a guy who dances very well to just do coyote gogo dancing for an hour for my viewing pleasure. What are some things that you have done or which you heard others doing?

I finally found the elusive sauna which almost everybody has heard about but never been able to find. It took some while and a great deal of walking about to find it but the best thing was that, in the process, I also discovered the gogo bar area in Hatyai. It still isn't anything like BKK or Pattaya, or even Phuket, but for all those who are thinking of a trip to the south, here is the link to my blog post. http://xiandarkthorne.blogspot.com/2011/07/getting-to-gl-sauna-and-mens-gogo-bars.html My apologies to everyone for posting just a link as I took photos of the way there and all my directions are on the photos to make it easier for people to find the way. Ther…

Preliminaries and getting to. This was my first trip to Thailand after leaving workforce for good and as result it was also longest of them all (so far I hope).Also first covering month of January, I was in that month before twice but only for ,few days in the beginning back in 2003 and at end last year. I keep travel diary on evert trip everywhere so no need to stretch my memory, cleaning glasses from time to time will suffice to produce this report. Reading it this morning I noticed that some occurrences faded from memory already which makes point again not to be upset about small things as they are soon forgotten for good. Winter trip has advantag…

I didn’t realize how much of a holiday it was until I wandered back from Sunee to Boystown. That explains the packed hotels but I have never seen more business at Serene. Outside there were dancers playing more for another bar. First stop was Nice Boys with maybe 8 customers - some openly entertaining boys. Invited a nice one for a couple drinks and pleasant company but was more missing a nice waiter from a couple years back. Winner boys had a huge table outside with customers and a couple boys followed inside to dance. I should have tipped or bought a couple drinks as they grew bored but I was more interested in my favorite Blue Kamakazes. I inquired about Win…

"Early morning in Karon, Phuket, saw a British tourist sustain a knife injury following a dispute over money with three local ladyboys in his condominium, located near the base of Kata Hill. The incident was reported at 4am to Police Lieutenant Surasak Sudmuang of the Karon Police, who promptly arrived at the scene with his team to initiate an investigation. The 23 year old British man, 23 had invited the three ladyboys from Patong to his condo. The agreed-upon price was 4,000 baht each, reported The Phuket New. The situation escalated when the British man handed only one of them 2,000 baht, instructing the other two to leave. It was at this point that an a…

Bars closed last night at 12:00. Thought it was a power outage as I looked outside the hotel the street was dark and quiet. Don’t see anything online about Buddhist Holiday today but my respects go out for all. Wondering if some bars might open after midnight here tonight, especially one late night bar in Pattaya

Hey friends, I recently availed the PCR28 testing service at Pulse Clinic in Silom, and I have to say, it was a remarkable experience. They're offering a 50% discount on their comprehensive STI testing, which now costs 6,700 baht. This test covers 28 different infections, with results delivered in 7 days. If you're in a hurry, you can opt for a faster turnaround with an extra fee. The clinic is easily accessible, located near the BTS Sala Daeng station. I found their service to be excellent—fast, efficient, and professionally handled. It's a great opportunity, especially since such extensive STI testing isn't readily available everywhere. Highly recommend checking it…

Stopped in last night for dinner. Chicken in mushroom sauce mashed potatoes and Cole slaw for no more than my Taco Bell nachos couple days before. Both were fine

From Thai PBS World The opposition Move Forward party has vowed to continue to push for a bill seeking to allow members of the LGBTQ community to choose their own honorific name prefixes, after it was shot down in parliament on Wednesday. Move Forward party-list MP Tunyawaj Kamolwongwat said that the party will not back off from its push for the passage of the bill in the next parliamentary session, adding that they are supportive of LGBTQ people. Another Move Forward MP, Paramee Waichongcharoen, said that his highest dream is that, one day, he can remove the prefix “Mister” from his name. He questioned the sincerity of government coalition parties and Prim…

Thailand is set to REVERSE weed legalization after spike in cannabis-related mental health issues and crime - with government calling pot 'a big problem' By Luke Andrews Health Reporter For Dailymail.Com 18:31 GMT 13 Feb 2024 , updated 20:18 GMT 13 Feb 2024 Thailand is set to outlaw weed again just 18 months after the country decriminalized the drug. The major U-turn follows a spike in hospital admissions and crime linked to cannabis, as well as the perception that children are getting hooked too easily. Since June 2022, when marijuana was dropped as a controlled substance, hospitalizations for cannabis-induced psychological problems have doubled to …

Having not looked at the other gay forums for months, only to notice not as many posts as in the past. My question to older longer stay expats in Pattaya is , have you noticed less gay expats moving to Pattaya /Jomtien? If so, are all the "new" ones sociable as the ones say 20 years ago or more into their phones and more introverted? Is there any difference in this current retired gay expat generation in Pattaya? Do you think there are less gay expats retired in Pattaya than say 20 years ago or more or about the same? I know obviously many have passed on ,many we do not see post as in the past sadly which means they may have passed I did…

Though not over-impressed, I am always happy to see my beloved Thailand on the screen.

Trip Report – Koh Chang – 15 Jan 2024 – 18 Jan 2024 I am behind on my trip reports. I present this one from Koh Chang (which was easier to prepare) and then I will have a bigger one from Christmas/New Years - 17 day trip report for Songkhla. Sorry for the delays. Up to now, my favorite island in proximity of Pattaya has been Koh Samet. Hanging out with my volleyball friends at the Dongtan beach (Sea Rescue area), we were chatting about a new island place to go to and we decided to make a 4 day / 3 night visit to Koh Chang. Aerial shot of the Trat island archipelago One of them has a car, so that made the transportation modali…

Hey guys, Not a lot of things makes me happy these days. As the situation in my home country of Israel developes, I become more pessimistic about the future. Since October I'm drafted to the army and I expect that to end in several weeks. One thing that does make me happy, is planning. Due to the fragility of the situation, this trip has a high cancelation risk, so I'm booking it with full cancelation terms. After getting my husband approval, I'm booked for Songkran weekend in Bangkok! I'm expecting massive GCircuit parties and also will attend the Martin Garix set on the Siam Songkran event. First question, advice on lodging? Any particular advice regard…

Haven’t seen it this busy since before Covid and it’s only a Tuesday! Taiwanese actors are filming a movie next to Sol. Speaking of Sol what is it like? Cute guys sitting out front. Any tips?

I took a ride to the heart of gay Bangkok and had a good time. Screwboys is open and had at least 30 boys. All of who I have not seen in other bars. One there I liked and wanted to go back and get but time got away from me. Hotmale had a nice array of more muscle type guys. Freshboys was filled with twinks and gay boys and several I knew and the waiter from Viet I really liked. Had less boys that Screwboys it seemed but still a full stage. Dreamboys was packed with sexy guys but crowded no seats down front and I didn't want to go to the top so I left. I liked the night market. First time in YEARS I went and it was open for business. It made it feel lik…

Where are the cleanest short time room close to Jomtien complex . I live in Naklua but plan to spend some more time in Jomtien . Only place I have been was on second rd and it was less than desirable .

This recent trip was the longest I've stayed in Thailand (nearly a month) and was enjoyable despite some random health issues that decided to pop up. Rather than a day by day account, I'll just outline some interesting points. Bangkok Bars Dreamboys: I went here a few times, mainly to see my favourite boy and managed to off him just once. I think he is popular because on another two occasions I visited the bar, he was already booked by a customer. I felt as though the quality has dropped since last time, but there are still some gems. Screwboys: I was surprised by the high quality here actually, and there were lots of good choices to my taste. I h…

During a recent visit to Bangkok, I couldn’t help but notice an incredible number of rats in the Silom area as I was walking around. One evening I counted at least one on every block. It was actually quite nauseating and having been to Bangkok many times, I don’t recall ever having seen so many in the past. I realize that rats are common in big cities, especially when there is street food and trash around, but this last experience truly seemed to be record breaking. Has anyone else noticed this? I’m not sure what can be done but I hope it doesn’t get worse.

Has anyone here stayed at Malaysia Hotel lately? Is it still an OK hotel?

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No guns used, just fists. The bar named after a popular sex position had to close early due to a very drunk customer who wouldn’t leave the bar, even though no one wanted him there. He did something to tick off the owner and a scuffle ensued. Rather comical seeing him constantly aggravating the workers there. He refused to leave and one Cambodian guy almost knocked him out but he ended up with a bloody knee. He attempted to call police but none arrived. Evidently he’s a customer of the bar next over where he must have gotten plastered. The workers of that bar tried to get him away but were unsuccessful. I just sat there waiting for a finally but a cute twin…

Rather than go a few times a year Just give me your reasons at this stage of your life the reason why and are you considering the move in the future?If not ,why not what about opposite? who left Thailand?