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I use centimetres, not inches, when I measure dicks. Somehow it makes them seem bigger.

Last week, we attended an LA Opera production of La Traviata, and I noticed in the program a title I've never seen before, "Intimacy Director." Have I just never noticed this before, or is this some kind of new position? I'm not sure what these people are supposed to do. Help only with the kissing scenes? The kissing did seem fine with that performance, but is this really something that the regular directors aren't trained to direct when they go to directing school or whatever? Or is this just wasteful featherbedding? In any case, aren't opera singers usually judged on their singing skills, and maybe acting--but kissing? I've never seen an opera review in which the critic commented on the singer's kissing skills. Here are their LA Opera webpages: https://www.laopera.org/about-us/artists-2/creative-team/sara-widzer/ https://www.laopera.org/about-us/artists-2/creative-team/shawna-lucey/ Is Shawna Lucey somehow a capable director, who somehow lacks the skills to direct intimate scenes? It does look from their webpages that Ms. Widzer has an MM (a Master's degree), whereas Ms. Lucey has only a bachelor's degree. Would directing intimate scenes only be taught in graduate school? If so, why can't Ms. Widzer just do all the directing? Someone correct me if my first impressions are wrong, but this seems like a lot of union bullshit to me.

One man's opinion regarding Asian countries. Probably pretty accurate.

I spent a memorable night at Hyandae (I think) sauna in Itaewon years ago. It’s either closed or changed names now. An American soldier and I tag teamed half a dozen or more willing Korean twinks on the mattress. I’ve been back once since and it was very disappointing. I’m in Busan now and I’ve checked out one place. It was basically 4 sleeping rooms surrounded by a corridor. Very quiet and disappointing too. Too be honest I’ve have had very little action since arriving back in Korea. Hardly any hits on Grindr, when in other Asian countries I would get at least some attention:)

Has anyone used the Timeshifter app for jet lag? If you have, did you find it useful?

Can you imagine what they say about us. 🙂

I don't think he has the figure!

But not the most exciting bunch!

sounds like one of my Tawan boys

Interesting. I must see if I can develop such a fetish!

No, Checkatrade!

Regrettably, my electrician is 50 Balding and overweight. Now, my plumber has an apprentice, about 19, slim, and very desirable! Difficult to know if I should offer him some 'overtime'!

Some flats don't even have kitchens, as the owners always eat out!

only in countries and houses where kitchens are big enough I guess.

I recall hearing that Trump = fart in the UK.

So, I just sent this as I'm boarding...Hey, I was just going to let you know when I'll be free so you can keep it in mind, but you don't need to decide now. I arrive tomorrow (Tuesday) around 9, so I should be free from say 11 to around 14. The next day (Wednesday) I'll be free even longer maybe from 10 to 16. What I was thinking to bridge the gap between the Brazilian price and the prix a la francaise is a sort of compromise....I don't know how busy you are, so consider me a low-priority, second-class client If you get a French cash cow feel free to postpone or cancel me, so that you are only sacrificing time, but not money to meet me. Even when you are with me feel free to answer your messages, leave early, whatever. In Brazil we were doing 300 reais/hr with idea that (if you want) it could be several hours. The rates in Barcelona are about 150eur/hour, maybe a little higher in Paris, I would imagine. So how's 500reais/hr, again with the expectation it would be several hours so that in the end it would be a lower hourly, but could add up to more in the end, again on the proviso that you can just meet me whenever you have "spare time"? If not this week, I will back May 16. And finally, if it doesn't work out here I will be back in Rio June 10

What Noem is thinking... "Oof!! He smells like the stalls at the Sioux Falls stockyards."

Well, actually <blush> I do like to fuck 2 or 3 hours...or more <double blush> In Brazil, I wouldn't mind if he (or the other guy I used the same "incentive plan" on went, say 5 hours for 1500 reais. I cant say that happened, I wore them out <blush again> One other guy from garotocomlocal who was no spring chicken, and not really a beauty either, (I was a little disappointed when he arrived) but a great fuck and I'd have to say played me to a draw after about 4 hours. He stopped, but another maybe 10 min and I wouldve had to call "uncle". That was on the session price of 300, but most guys if they are getting paid by the session I think are going to wrap it up at no more than an hour. True, most is not all....😆

I see you're in London, and will assume you don't mean London, Ontario. House parties almost always end up centred in the kitchen in Canada, especially for younger people and I'm curious if that's pretty much the same around the world.

Canada is even more fucked up. A Liberal government started a phased in program to make Canada metric in the early 80s. We got as far as kilometres and celsius when a Conservative government was elected and stopped the transition. But it didn't reverse what had been done. So some things among the citizenry are celsius and kilometres while others like inches and pounds are used. People in some industries and fields use metric because it's a better system... ie health care workers use kilograms and centimetres. I think kids are taught metric in the schools, but it still hasn't taken complete hold for some reason. One of the last vestiges of the Empire along with the monarchy, I guess.

I remember jacking off to the photos of this aspiring model from Vancouver BC, Paul Hardiman, over a decade ago. He ended up becoming an electrician. Oh, how I would have loved to live in Vancouver, in need of electrical work... https://hotelectric.ca/about/paul

I never ever accept a "by the hour business". We define a session and then agree on a session price.

This is the current rate in Paris for really good looking guys. Funny thing, I chatted today with a Brazilian I met many times in Rio Sauna (I met him first time in 2017 and he is more a friend now). He is very good looking, with a muscular body. He is gold on rentmen. He has a very nice personnality and now speaks some English. I tried to meet him in Paris, but it was extremely difficult since he was extremely busy. We were to meet yesterday for lunch but he had to cancel since he spent the nite with a client. He proposed to delay to 2 pm, but making clear that he had another appointment at 3 pm. I proposed to meet after his appointment, but he said that he had another appointment at 6 pm and then went to spend the nite with a customer ... He charged 200 Euros for outcalls and 150 Euros at his place. For outcalls, he did not accept to take the metro but asked to be picked up and taken back by taxi ... If he were less successfull and somehow struggling to have business, he might accept lower prices. It is really an offer and demand situation of a given boy. In the past, after his first trip to Europe, he made it clear to me that he would not accept in Brazil the local Brazilian prices but some intermediate price between European and Brazilian prices ...

market rates vary and so do prices , rents etc. One doesn't need to travel far to see differences. 800 baht " massage" tip in soi 6 would be considered cheap, travel 20 minutes to Saphan Kwai and this is exactly what many 'therapists" are quoting