[Dominicans on Facebook]

Hi, I would never show a photo of their face that I took or in a compromising way. I highlighted Facebook posts of a group and suggested that they might be available. You may be correct, I can't tell but that's a reason to use a pseudonym when I post. My name, of course isn't Paborn. I got my current boyfriend this way.

I started by friending, his yes was a good sign but not conclusive. I commented on his posts working up from smiles to comments. it was months before I contacted him and now he is with me as my live in on my trips. He has a job which leaves me free time. I'm older so I have graduated to wanting a steady guy.

But his job allows for daytime play. I have another two talking to me and ready for my trip in October.

Thanks for confirming my compensation - 40/50 is good. My boyfriend works 10 hrs a day , six day a week for $249 a month!! $50 goes a long way .

In the end you're right, of course, but I claim nothing about anyone . I have never seen any of these guys in Marlowe's.

Have you been to ESEDEKU? I have not been in years?

 

[Dominicans on Facebook]

this is not a group. This is a screen shot - cropped to not show name - of a recommendation dent to me by Facebook - it shows that all these people are friended by each other

[STEP YOUR PUZZY UP!]

congratulations. You will dispose of that income well!

[It pays 2 B NICE!]

I'm unaware of your social media. But, I'm always in search of restaurants in the colonial zone. Which one(s) are you recommending. I used to always stay in the Zona but have switched to Gazcue as I have aged and elevators are a must. But, I love the Colonial Zone. Not just for Marlowe's 

[Hanging out with webcam boys in Medellin]

On 5/6/2023 at 3:18 AM, xpaulo said:

Ferchos Masajes, it's a place you can send a Whatsapp message asking for photos of guys who are available that day. The two days I asked it was the same about 30 or 40 guys. You can message back with your choice and time and they confirm with the guy and message you back. You can meet the guy at a place that rents rooms for sex. I can't remember if having the guy meet you somewhere else is an option, I think it is. I can't remember the price. It wasn't much. Both times I think they tried to get me to transfer the money to a bank account, but I don't speak Spanish, so I'm not certain. I said that was impossible with my foreign bank account and went at the appointed time and the guy was there so I guess it's not a deal breaker. (Do you remember the, "that's a deal breaker" sketches on SNL. My favourite was, "if he says his brother's name during sex, that's a deal breaker."} Anyway, the guys in the photos are not male models. But blue collar guys are my favourite and the two guys I booked with great. I asked for tops so I don't know if you would get different photos if you asked for something else.

is it a website or a WhatsApp number. I hate to be thick but I goggled it and you know how everylink other than it comes up. I just want to be sure it sounds very interesting.

[Hanging out with webcam boys in Medellin]

On 4/14/2023 at 2:01 AM, xpaulo said:

I did hook up with a guy in Medellin from Chaturbate in January. It took a lot of arranging and was more expensive and he pushed for every dollar he could get. But he lived up to his end of the arrangement...  and more. It was certainly a good time for me. And there were no messages afterwards trying to get more money for which I was grateful. A party with a group of guys like him would indeed be a lot of fun.

How would you even begin? 

[Santo Domingo - 3rd report: Juan Binbin]

On 3/20/2023 at 4:27 AM, floridarob said:

AM I that out of it that I had to Google ofc 🙄

I just did too. I have never heard it.

[Coffee Grinder Silom]

On 5/26/2023 at 12:10 AM, vinapu said:

Feasting there on churros as we speak.

Very nice place , not expensive and nice respite from midday heat. And yes right across from Tawan,s old location and 2 door from new one.

Generous mug of tea.

Staff cute and smiling.

Great addition to the scene and area.

Vinapu, I have not been to Bangkok since 2019. I'm approaching 74 so I doubted I would return as I love Santo Domingo as well. But, I'm beginning to reconsider. I know so much as changed . I used to stay at Tawan and that all gay place on Rama V at the end of the soi where Dicks was.  

I know so much as changed, reading through so many threads and making sense is hard. Is there a reliable source? A thread that's current ? Another site with a good synopsis? If you could direct me I would deeply appreciate it - I wonder how many guys are in my situation?

[Off Topic Thread June 3 and before]

18 hours ago, floridarob said:

I'm referring to Riobard and Half vaccinated....they seem to have gone wayyyyy off the rails, together and at the same  time 😲

I know. I was supporting you - sorry to be opaque

[Off Topic Thread June 3 and before]

7 minutes ago, floridarob said:

WTF????

Are two of you sharing lines........

I'm , often, mystified by what I read here. But, this???? 

[Off Topic Thread June 3 and before]

4 hours ago, Half-vaccinated said:

Im really sorry to hear that. But was that the car you bought?  Lots of travelers read the board and somebody in boxed me.  They also said you never got a chance to ride in it. Again, sorry for your loss.

I have never purchased a car for anyone. Whoever "in boxed " you does not know me at all if they think I purchased a car. it's an absurd idea.  A tourist, even a frequent visitor, can only help to provide opportunities, alleviate hardships, provide a pride to a better life. Make sure they can stay in school, etc.

Beyond that, you are not helping you are bestowing gifts to buy love - it buys sex, not love and says more of you than anything else.

Also, if someone has bought a car for anyone, you should know them and the reasons they did it. If you don't know the actual relationship and situation neither you nor I are in a position to judge.

Really, you should not pay attention to "in box" rumors. We gays just love dish - I have not spoke to a tourist in Santo Domingo in over ten years.

Good Lord 

[Off Topic Thread June 3 and before]

I was actually responding to someone here who blathers and lashes out. I was giving my perspective based on my age of 74 , my 40 year of visiting SDQ 3 to 4 times a year and wanting a relationship above other considerations. That does not mean that those considerations are not of value or important. They are just part of the mix I consider.

[Off Topic Thread June 3 and before]

6 hours ago, BlkSuperman said:

Escorts in Florida, Atlanta, Cali and NY are $300 -$500 an hour and when they get to your home they don't so half of what you asked them to leave you asking, WHY TF DID I WASTE MY MONEY ON THAT BS?

People who know about South America and these sexy Beautiful men will travel to SDQ and GIG to GET THEIR LIFE and sleep with the men of their dreams. 

It's not just gay men. In the straight social media groups, men fly to colombia to do the same thing. 

When I first joined this site, there were posts telling me what the going rate was in SDQ and Rio. I appreciated that info because as a newbie I had no idea what I should pay in the saunas or walking through the colonial zone. 

If anyone wants to go to those countries and pay $100 to $150US then that's their business and that's fine.

MY husband got pissed with me last time we were there because he wanted the tall sexy cop so bad.

When we turned back around to talk to the cop, my husband told me to tell him $75 per person.  We actually got Into an argument because I told him $40 per person. 

He declined at first and we left with my husband being hot under the collar with me because he wanted to be with the cop. One hour later The cop texted and said he'd accept the $40 per person, a total of $80 to have sex with us in our apartment.  

It's not bragging. I don't need to brag and have never made a disparaging remark about any of the men in SDQ or Rio. It's informing others the way I was informed before I took my first international trip. I could never look down on or talk bad about these guys because my ex and i escorted back in day and had ads advertising our services in Hot spots, David and Black inches magazine. Who TF am i to look down on someone when i did the same thing for years?

Do I do more for the ones who deliver? Hell yeah! Some come in the apartment and ask for shoes, socks underwear,  cologne, condoms, lube or a shirt that I'm wearing and I have no problem giving it to them or buying it for them when I'm there or back home. I do it often because I know the struggle first hand. 

One guy even told me that it would take him 5 hours or more to make $40US dollars in his country and was very thankful that he made that much.

Because my sex drive is so high, the guys who gave me exemplary sex were even hired multiple times in a day and made $120 -$160 a day.

Same thing with my barber husband. He comes over 3 times a day, each day im there and makes more in a 3 hour time frame than he would standing on his feet all day cutting hair for $10 a head.

When I read some of the posts here and ppl say they agreed on $75 to $100, those are the prices that the guys at Pacos ask. Catch those same guys in front of marlowes or walking the colonial zone and he won't be asking that much, I guarantee. 

you misunderstand me. The word JUST is important. I need some desire, they might be cute, amusing, etc. Their price is not my only consideration. But, then I'm 74!

[Off Topic Thread June 3 and before]

Lord, I now know why it's best to "fly over the cuckoo's nest" rather than land. 

first, I am a sex tourist. As are you and every one of us here and in the Thai forum. I have been to Thailand 38 times and do not look for a steady there because it's too.

Second and final - I like Dominicans. I enjoy the country, the food and the culture. Having a steady allows one to go to concerts, jazz clubs, movies. etc. Because one is not planning around visitations.  You do you. I posted only to confirm that, yes, some of us do things differently.

oh, and my first boyfriend was brown, my cuban as white as snow ( probably why he survived without papers ) , my third normal Dominican copper and my guy now is black and is part BWi. it's not about race, it is about culture, learning Spanish , and appreciating their history

[Off Topic Thread June 3 and before]

Just for the record. I do not have a seasonal guy who I discard. My first lasted 7 years and died in an accident. My second lasted as lone but was an undocumented Cuban who was deported. I do not go to Cuba for personal reasons. My third lasted on 4 as he was bi and decided to marry and I did not desire to be a third wheel - we still talk. My current is still with me. 

Sometimes people who used big words are also masking the reality of their not having any facts - they're just breaking wind.

[I HATE YOU ALL!]

I have never understood why anyone who go anywhere that they could not appreciate the culture, language and people. I can't comprehend even wanting to go to bed with someone just because they can be had cheaply. I do understand not over paying , budgeting, etc. Just pay fairly and treat people with respect and dignity. Don't talk down to them or treat them as if they were just meat. 

I prefer a steady because the whole experience of staying together is vastly greater than just sex.

[I HATE YOU ALL!]

On 5/24/2023 at 8:24 PM, Half-vaccinated said:

Yes! They running the 'straight' boys off. They getting tired of getting arrested. Thats why you see so many gay boys in and about the zone and in Marlowe's.  IAlso, allegedly the police are trying to clean up the zone.  And that starts with the Boys.

 

Well, I prefer my hustlers in Marlowe's. My long time rule is, "if they can't get in the bar they are too young or trouble "

[I HATE YOU ALL!]

10 hours ago, Half-vaccinated said:

Dont hate. SDQ is only 2 hours away.  And you can go every month with a direct flight from Atlanta. Truthbetold. The boys in the DR are a 3 compared to the boys in Rio.  The quality and the price point Trumps the D.R. But, you still can do a 5 day roundtrip + hotel + 10 boys for under a Grand. AND YOU CAN PULL BOYS All OVER THE ISLAND.  They cant do that in Brazil.  Everywhere you go in the Dominican Republic guys are  ready willing and able. Years ago I asked a friend of mine "Why you want to move to SDQ?"  He said, "Where can I live as a middle age man and attract boys?"   

I suspect the reason why the DR travelors do not post is because MOST have some boy they are smitten with.  That common. We are all smitten with a boy....Until a new boy comes along.  And believe me they do.  Its Memorial Day weekend and that country will be runneth over with Americans.  

I have been going for 40 years. I seldom post because, as you say, I rotate through boyfriends - some last years then you reset. The country is closer, I think safer and very navigable. great people .

[Back in Bangkok after 3 years]

On 3/16/2023 at 10:39 AM, macaroni21 said:

But... but... it's been so for at least 40 years!

exactly. Japanese all the way , always has been. 

[Santo Domingo - 3rd report: Juan Binbin]

On 2/25/2023 at 5:23 AM, speedoo1 said:

The rate at Juan Binbin is 3,000 pesos. No discounts offered. Juan claims that this has been the rate for years; Idk.
 

So it appears that you haven’t been overcharged. 
 

But to put it into perspective most guys in the apps will happily accept 1,500; hustlers from El Conde even less. The well build/gym fit, popular or experienced guys, e.g. at Marlow’s will be able to command 2-2,500. Of course, the guys will ask for more initially so keep your wits about you when negotiating prices.  
 

Above is for a quick/ maximum 1 hour session. You suck and be fucked (condon or no condon), no kissing or touching your genitals involved. Forget about them btm for you. 

Just curious, I have been to the DR many, many times but thinking of Columbia. Is it fair to compare Pereira prices to a capital like Santo Domingo? Bogota or Medellin I would not question. But, this feels like comparing New York to Scranton PA. Just wondering

[Gay Domican Republic ….]

I doubt the spelling bee organizers grade on grammar. But, I am at a loss as to how this comic video, cute as it is, as anything to do with the DR.

[Dominicans on Facebook]

I have been traveling to Santo Domingo for many years. I've known every procurer and bar. In the last year I was looking at the friends recommendations that come to me as a result., I guess, of all my "types" - I have no idea how this works. But I started to Friend some and have a collection now - today a suggestion cam for this Santo Domingo page which seems a shell and I have, as you can see, 17 mutual friends. The page blocks view of non mutuals so there may be more than this aggregated there.

Some of the guys are self proclaimed gays, some post pictures or do stories with money being shown . I suspect that many of these guys are available. Some have friends of their pages that I know have been with tourists. 

I'm curious if anyone has noticed this. I believe in a certain amount of coincidence in life - but 17 guys???

I have not contacted any of them. it just seems awfully intriguing. What does anyone think.

[Expanding My Horizons In Santo Domingo]

He appears to speak Spanish but they clearly say there is no chicken. They tell him beef, he still thinks it's some sort of Jamaican like jerk chicken. Somehow I doubt his fluency.

[Just making sure everybody is OK....]

Kind of you to ask. Always been a bit of a social introvert; quite possibly my reason to prefer travel for encounters rather local relationships. Thus, self isolating is a bit of the norm but I cancelled March in Santo Domingo and that IS rough. Husbanding my wine supply and waiting for the ability too travel again.

 

[Santo Domingo Uber Scam (Among Others)]

On 3/6/2020 at 8:01 PM, Walker said:

The most often issue I encounter is the wait time.  Drivers sit and idle after they accept your request.  I could never understand what they benefit from this.  Are they hoping customers would cancel and get charged cancelation fee of less than a dollar each time?

I've used Uber in Santo Domingo dozens of times and they come in roughly the time shown and you can track the car on the map. I don't understand how you experience this.