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On 5/30/2019 at 8:31 PM, SolaceSoul said:
And this happened at an all-inclusive Punta Cana resort:
https://6abc.com/amp/woman-shares-story-of-survival-after-dominican-republic-attack/5323526/
While I have no doubt this story is true there is an oddness to it. An attack in a poor country might be robbery or, with a woman, rape. but this? There is always a reason for something - there is more to this story .
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On 6/4/2019 at 8:44 AM, RockHardNYC said:
Fair question.
I don't really know. I wish I did. I don't have a calculated presentation. It's something strangers (some escorts) have shared with me through the years. I've tried to get strangers to clarify, but all I get is "I don't know, it's just a vibe." Not very helpful.
I often work with the 1%. While people are individuals, there is a certain confidence and assertiveness that wealthy people share.
Ostentation is pretentious and vulgar, a characteristic associated with a faker and pretender. That's not at all what I was talking about here.
In public, I work hard to be extremely discreet. I like to stay hidden, be part of the background. But my attempt is often a joke. I stand out, and that's the way it is.
Well, bless your heart!
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Yes, thank you so much for recognizing the need for anonymity. It's crucial in the DR, people are tolerant but face is as important as it is in Asia and buttressed with machismo.
Van's story was very sad and the outline above from SolaceSoul reflects the facts. Sadly, this murder could have happened anywhere in the world - murders are seldom random acts - we usually know the ones who wish us harm. Considering the poverty in the DR the fact that this is an old story and far, far from common, I think gays who display common sense are as safe as most places we go.
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6 hours ago, SolaceSoul said:Yes, I was about to say the same thing. Unless Juan Binbin has moved to a new location in the last few weeks (since Easter), it’s only a couple of short walking blocks north of Independence Park in the Colonial Zone and a 7-9 minute walk from Paco’s. It’s no more “dicey” than anything else in Zona Colonial — and definitely not less dicey than walking to Cine Lido On Av. Meila!
What IS consistent about Juan Binbin is the selection of boys is never great.
Exactly. A friend and I were traveling together this month and decided not to go to JBB because if there was one of the type we like - there would be ONLY one. IMHO they are not a handsome lot.
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23 hours ago, BlkSuperman said:
You weren't offensive. There are Some people in this forum you just have to ignore because they're simply miserable as hell. If you are spending your own money on vacation then you're allowed to vacation and enjoy as you please. Glad you enjoyed your trip. I'm here now. Will post a full summary with PICTURES AND VIDEOS by Monday. Thanks for the shout out!!
Perhaps you did not notice that I said that there is nothing wrong with traveling for sex. We all do it. I merely pointed out that there is more to the city and the people than their sexual organs. I'm sure you will post pictures; all I hope is that you don't, again, post faces.
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Juan's is open during the day and as it is only 1 1/2 blocks from the firehouse in the very center of the old city I don't see anything really "dicey" about it. Use Uber or go during the day most of the guys stay there.
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OK. I have to say this. I've been to Santo Domingo from 4 to 6 times a year for thirty years. I've seen bars and discos come and go as well as procurers like Manny. Let me point out that the restaurant scene in the Colonial zone is wonderful, the people are friendly and kind. There is a lot to do here besides sex and you might find, as I did, that learning about the people and their history builds an appreciation that enhances your "sex tourism". There is nothing wrong with traveling for sex, everyone here does it or else why be here. But you will find it dull as time goes by if you don't, also, enjoy the place.
By the way, some of the sex photos that were printed caused a huge stir among the guys in the city. Don't be fools and ruin it for them and for us.
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On 2/24/2019 at 6:41 PM, alwaysrio said:
The price of the watch misses the point. If you try to blend into the landscape the less opportunity you have to be a victim. But even making a momentary mistake or lapse in judgment as I did in forgetting to lock my luggage I then became a victim.
Was I more visible with an expensive watch which looks like everyone else's or the tourist sitting at a cafe on the Conde wearing a shirt with an American flag that said, F Trump? That is the point.
I'm sorry if you think you blend into Santo Domingo and no one knows you're a tourist you are, sorry, delusional.
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I completely agree I have been to the DR more 120 times in more than 30 years and the information offered by the posters is accurate, the people mentioned are correct. Manny does not stock my twink types and as I have my own personal shopper, so to speak, I have not used Freddy or Francisco in a few years but they are there plying their trade and very open. Truly, this is not hard.
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I have to ask if this is old blue-eyed Francisco who hangs in front of Pacos he is very much a pimp. Tour guide??? I've known him for thirty years. You tip him and he arranges a kickback from his boys. Nothing wrong with this mind you, but he is a pimp. Freddy has been a driver for gays for decades.
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One thing I forgot to mention and I post this for anyone who can use it. I found a wonderful lady taxi driver who responds to calls. Mrs. WanphenWuttiwai 089-7654292. Truly reliable and knowledgeable.
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14 hours ago, fedssocr said:
Have you been to Colombia. Of all the places in S America that is the one I'd most like to visit. The apps and websites are full of hung, hot Colombians. They all seem to be really horny all the time.
No, not yet. But, your right a Date with one of the Chaturbate models would be worth the trip. Just beautiful guys - they share that with Brazilian guys - just hot. No, beautiful.
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As the redoubtable Vinapu is not sure about my feelings I've decided to wrap up and give clarity as well as some final thoughts.
Yes, I had a good time. Thailand is always fun. I think Jomtien soured me. But, this is my fault as I should have returned to Bangkok. I did not go to Pattaya because it is cheaper but I do agree with FloridaRob - Brasil is so much more expensive yet the cost is far more reasonable., humbly, suggest that whenever you drive something even slightly underground then the costs go up.
I'm lucky that I love many types. Asians, blacks, and Latinos - even the blue-eyed red-haired lads of Dublin. Frankly, the older I get the more I go to Santo Domingo in the Dominican Republic. 90 minutes from home - enough said. Now, if I can find someone in Santo Domingo's china town...
I too am waiting to see what happens to Brazil under it's new, ultra-right-wing president. As I will be carefully watching for reports of the Ambiance and Boy's town.
Christian mentioned that the soi with the Ambiance is closed to cars at night. Yes. But, my grab took me nowhere near the place on my first three ( yes 3 times. I shortened it for the story ) times entering the destination for the driver. He insisted I had gotten into the wrong car. Well, I checked his plate before entering, Heiko of the Poseidon spoke to him, and really, the front of Poseidon is littered with grab cars???? No, they need some basic, minimal standards for drivers in Pattaya.
I'm glad others remember all the wonderful bars of Saphan Kwai. Midnight Cowboy used to dress the boys in old Thai costumes for some of their shows. They were just wonderful. I used to stay at a small, Thai Chinese owned hotel right next to the far larger Elizabeth. They were wonderful to me and there was never a better more welcoming spot.
I think my feelings are cloudy because, as always happens, on my way home I'm saying "never again", "too damn far and too damn long a trip." I feel jet lag terribly. Yesterday someone came by my house around noon. He called me, knocked on the door, chatted with a neighbor who called me. I did not respond. Why? I have no idea I would have said I was up and awake all day. I must have been sitting up sound asleep and oblivious - this is a week after my return.
Finally, my thanks go out to Scooby without whom my old phone plan would have greatly restricted me. Ggobkk for guiding me, in personal notes, to such a good tailor, and to Paulsf for lots of advice and encouragement. This is a wonderful group of like-minded people who assist each other.
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3 hours ago, ChristianPFC said:
Great reports!
I still clearly remember when I was about 15 and my parents went with me to Scotland for holiday, the hotel was labyrinthine, but I forgot how many turns and steps up and down it took to get from my room to my parents'.
Fake disco has a lot of steps, from stage going up to the wall, which might help to give everyone a view of stage, but has disadvantages when walking there drunk and without seeing the floor. (Before someone asks: I'm talking about my observation of others, not personal experience.)
And the gogo bar in a side soi of Bua Khao in Pattaya that closed around 2013, there was a step of a few centimeter, invisible in low light and dark tiles, on the way to toilet, where I hurt my toe.
And many more construction and interior design mishaps.
Taxi at airport. The last years, I always took the ARL from airport to town, and in some cases took taxi from ARL station closest to my room. If I were ever to take a taxi from airport, I would do at departure level to save the 50 THB fee. They built turnstiles to prevent people from doing so, but the last time I did (2014?) the turnstiles could turn in both directions!
I think that last time I took a taxi from there, despite agreeing on use of meter when I asked first, when we were on our way the driver asked for fixed fare, which I refused, so he sent me back to the same spot. That together with several other mishaps taxi from and even taxi to airport, was enough to give up.
ARL is clearly cheaper, takes about the same time, I am strong enough to carry my luggage, and my departure and arrival times are when ARL operates, so I don't bother with all the taxi bullshit any more.
Grab. All reports are positive, I might try some day. But I assume their maps are based on google maps, which has plenty of mistakes. If you have no local knowledge, and the location on google maps is wrong, you can't blame the driver. I just checked and Tuk-Com is correct on google maps, I have no idea why your trip went wrong. There is a multi story car park somewhere behind Tuk-Com which could be the place your driver took you. "Parking Garage Parking couvert Tuk Com" on google maps.
Christian, I suspect you're correct about the grab to Tukom. It was the multi-story parking garage. Here's another: inpute Poseidon destination Ambiance. Car arrives and off we go to an arean and a hotel that I don't recognize. He hands me his device and I type in Ambiance, check thart it's correct - off we go to another place. As I was following on my own google directions ( thanks Scooby for the data plan !!! ) and when we were 2 minutes away and he was parked on the side of the road talking to his help desk. I gave him a tip ( yeah I'm an American ) and left. The good news is Grab never billed me for that trip.
I just think that Pattaya is not that big that a driver making his living as one would be able to loook at the map and find the damn thing - I did!
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I totally agree. I was just struck by the fact that, for me, the goi-go bars had 4 or 5 possible offs each night and I would walk up and down the Jomtien soi and find nothing for me. I didn't find any bars in Boys Town that did not have workers I found attractive. Sunee, also has nothing for me.
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So, I gave up on Grab in Pattaya. Still, I never climbed a Bhat bus. Why? With all the reading I have done and the questions I asked I arrived with the idea that a taxi in Pattaya was a rare sighting. Not so.
To be clear, I spent some 25 years traveling only to Bangkok and on retirement 8 years ago switched to Pattaya. However, I had a very narrow view of Pattaya as I would arrive at the Ambiance and never leave Boys Town. Staying in Jomtien raised an issue of getting back and forth.
Actually, I never waited more than 2 minutes for a taxi to come by. Average fair about B200. Yes, I know it's a lot more than a B10 trip. I understand that but as in all things I don't live there I have limited time and this worked well.
Boystown.
I felt very sad. January 13, my first night in Pattaya and BoysTown was remarkably slow. I arrived at Toy Boys at my usual 8:30 - yes early. I always am and the bars always sat me down and I had a drink while the guys assembled. Very accommodating; they still are but the place was empty. "come back 10 PM, best time, no boys" I went over to Cupidol and they had a few.As promised more came by 9:30-10 PM and the selections were nice and I enjoyed myself. But, damn the soi is empty and sad looking. I will be monitoring this space for updates as this was not what I expected.
Jomtien.
The main soi of Jomtien Complex running down from Poseidon was busy. Lots of people. Gays in bars augmented by non-Gay sightseeing folks from the Agate.Sadly, Jomtien - despite the huge attraction of the Poseidon - is not my place. The bars are the opposite of Go-Go bars. In a Go-Go the guys are on stage facing the audience and the orientation is totally to appeal to those customers. Sure, we can argue about music, lighting, quality of shows, types of underwear, etc. The guys are facing me, oriented to my sight lines and, clearly, there for me.
I was told that these Jopmtien bars are like the old Host Bars of Bangkok. No, not so. I spent years in Charmming, Adam, and Alladin. For some years I stayed in Saphan Kwai just to be near them.
Host bars had a group of guys, fully dressed, sitting on one side oriented toward you, looking at you, smiling at you, etc. No shows, no underwear but the same face to face, "take me home" idea.
Jomtien is a soi with open to the air bars facing each other. The chairs all face the soi and you sit with your back to the bar area. However, and this is huge for me: the guys are all in the soi between the chairs of facing bars trying to persuade people to come in.
If you want someone it is up to you to get his attention and get him over. Frankly, I do not like this system in any way. Many people are there for a drink with friends, etc. I'm not. I'm shopping. I need the merchandise to be better displayed.
Now for my controversial statement. Feel free to jump in but this is my 12-day sampling result: the guys in Boystown are far, far better looking than the guys in Jomtien. Perhaps there is a reason you work with your clothes on? But, how does that explain the faces? The pimples, the shaggy looks.
OK, now yell at me. Frankly, never again. I will miss the Poseidon. Of course, it's not too far for dinner.Massage places.
I have little to report other than a harsh opinion. The guys working at the Ambiance still look cute and last trip I worked my way through each and every one - some twice.Here's the harsh part. I saw not one single massage guy in Jomtien, and there were many, who I would have enjoyed. I found none of them attractive. I did not check out the places near Tukom so I can't say.
Honestly, I hate to say this and don't understand it. Toy Boys, Cupidol, Dream boys, Ambiance massage all have handsome, often toned, guys working there. I saw very few guys in Jomtien who could get a job in the go-go bars.
Just one man's humble opinion.
My final note is the Tailor shop: Siam Next Fashion. Leave Poseidon, walk to the road and turn rightt. The place is maybe 40 feet down. I had a sports jacket made of linen and silk, fully lined, working cuff buttons, etc. as well as trousers with silk to the knee lining and two silk shirts for $227 dollars. Beautifully done.
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7 hours ago, EricV said:
They had dispatchers for a while. Problem was, they were in cahoots with drivers, telling visitors there was a fixed fee of THB500 or more, which was defeating the purpose of the machines, tags, etc...
Eric, if that's what truly happened it would have easier and far cheaper to fire them, throw them in jail for a stint and hire new people holding the examp0le over them.
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18 minutes ago, fedssocr said:
how was the pollution in Bangkok? I am thinking about bringing a bunch of the N95 masks and giving them out as tips. :-)
It was pretty bad, lots of people with masks. Otherwise cool and low humidity
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I choose Sunday to go to Pattaya as the opinion here is that there is less traffic midday Sunday than other days. Good advice, 90 minutes with no problems.
The driver arranged with Poseidon hotel in Jomtien was there early and that pleased me enormously and raised my expectations for the trip.
Rather than recount each day let me break this down to its constituent parts.
The Poseidon:
I had never been to Jomtien but was convinced to try it as well as this Gay hotel. Well, it's outstanding. Very nice, attentive service and nice rooms. The restaurant is just fantastic. For the first time on a visit to Thailand, I ate western food as the chief here is wonderful. The menu is fairly short and German/Austrian and perfectly prepared. The Schnitzel is on the menu as "pork schnitzel" not pretending to be true Wiener Schnitzel as this is always made with veal. But, as family connections affirm most Vienesse make it with pork as it is far cheaper. The menu is entirely in that vein even offering the famous Berliner currywurst.Breakfast is ala Cart I always chose bread basket ( all the bread here is wonderful ) augmenting with eggs, bacon, sausage. etc. Here I must mention that the breakfast sausage is a true breakfast sausage, not some sad hot dog abomination ( my apologies to hot dog lovers. I love a good ballpark or a true wienerwurst too, but it has no place on the breakfast table ) and the coffee is good.
I'll mention Dick's here as it is the only other place I ate. Dick's is the same in Jomtien as it was in Bangkok even down to the service tableware. The food is good and because the Poseidon does not serve lunch this was my place for a late lunch and afternoon tea.
Grab:
While this app was wonderful in Bangkok it was just evil in Pattaya. Not the app, of course, but the drivers. I tried several times but let me give just one cogent example: I wanted to go to Tukom. I typed in to pick up at the Poseidon and destination Tukom.The driver arrived promptly, tracked by the app, he drove to the general area of Tukcom with help of google and ended up circling a parking garage two blocks from Tukom and wondering how to get in past the pay gate. I got out after a fruitless no English-no Thai conversation and walked.
So, I ask. Would you not expect someone making his living driving in Pattaya be able to find a large shopping center in his own town?
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8 hours ago, GWMinUS said:
I also request a wheelchair to get to and from the plane. I just turned 78yo. And these days all the Airports are just too big!! I have a bad hip, arthritis, and I just cannot walk those distances any more. And there are the added perks of getting on the plane first and going through the special immigration lines. I understand the wheelchair is provided at no charge by the Airport Service. But I usually give a Tip to the Attendant. I was told in Manila to NOT give a Tip. But I slipped 500Pesos in his hand and he gave me a big smile!!
Cheers to Paborn, enjoying your Post!!!
God bless! Yes, I always tip . Oddly , in Bangkok the same guy stayed with me up to the Taxi stand but on arrival in the US ( TSA government close down issues I think ) they were short staffed and were trading off most efficiently.
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3 hours ago, Scooby said:
Happy you like T Mobile plan. I have moved many people who travel extensively off of ATT and Verizon etc where the just rape you. Hope you noticed that the plan makes the local calls completely free if you have wifi. I don't bother unless I expect it to be a very long call .
Yes thank you very much. The plan is much better. With Verizon i was charged $9.99 for a days calls if I used the phone even once for a miniute call. I also got a new XR I phone to replace my old 6s whose battery was on it's last days. So much better.
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After a fun evening with Mr. Scewboy, truly a doll and finely made. Next morning I feast ( facetiously ) on the smallish breakfast at Tarntawan; Making a mental note that there is a large hotel across the street where I could buy a better breakfast. Perhaps next trip, the omelet is not that bad.
This day is dedicated to the newish Ganymede spa recommended by the estimable Divine Madman. To get there I use my new T-mobile phone and data plan ( recommended to me by this board ) and make my first use of Grab, recommended by Paulsf. Where would I be without everyone's help?
Grab works fantastically well. Not only is it easy to use, charges to your credit card removing the need for the driver to have changed and it provides the driver with a google maps set of directions. Behind me are the days when I would ask for the "Grand Palace" and be taken to the Royal Palace. Being forced to tell the driver that I was "alas, not dining with the King" will no longer be a source of embarrassment.
Ganymede is located on a soi before a resort and is gated. The driver followed along carefully and found it. I believe this would not have been as seamless without the app. I have no Thai and invite you to imagine communicating this to the average taxi driver.
The spa is new, well appointed and very inviting. The "massage therapist" I selected from their Line account timeline is named Kevin. Actually, I made the appointment before leaving the US and was delighted when it all worked out. He's Vietnamese and gorgeous. We had so much fun I booked him to come to me at the hotel the next day. No problem, he showed up the next day 15 minutes early and was a delight, we lunched together. I humbly thank Divinemadman for his excellent blog.
Lunch was at Madrid Tavern, everyone likes pizza, even the Vietnamese. Frankly, I wondered how good this would be. When I say pizza I'm thinking of the New York ( New Jersey ) style and this Madrid's is not. It is, however, a very good thin sliced Neopolitan type. I appreciated the ability to order a small which is perfect for one.
Until I leave for Pattaya you can assume dinner, drinks and teasing chatter with Jack at Maxi's every night. Now, off to Moonlight.
Ah! The legendary Moonlight. I remember it when it was the brand new Jupiter 2000 named to welcome the millennium. I also remember when that area housed a room I shared for a week with a lovely lad from Issan, one of Barbiery's best.
Frankly, I enjoyed it better when it was my room. No, that's not fair. It's a nice place just too much hype for me. I've never been a Vegas guy. The "models" are just not my type. I recognize their good looks and obvious attraction to others; however, the "floor models" are more my speed. Still, I return to Scewboy for the evening and choose a doll from Chiang Mai. Who makes a fine end to a very nice day.
In summary, I was only three nights in Bangkok which I regret as I enjoyed it and ( sigh ) still miss the delightful Jack. But, I supposed you guessed that. The crowds were not large for high season, Maxi's is good. Madrid is good and the Tarntawan is perfectly fine and the endless speculation seems unjustified.
Tomorrow I'm off to Pattaya and my first visit to Jomtien.
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exactly, Hank. This is better handled with dispatchers and the volume of business coupled with cheap labor would warrant it.
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