hank75

Because they are meant for a Thai audience. The boys have no interest in going with foreign customers nor is there any incentive for the patrons, or owners of these venues to introduce foreigners when they are doing good business from locals already. They have a system in place, foreigners don’t know the system and they don’t necessarily spend more than local customers, who have the benefit of being regulars and would not enjoy frequenting the same venue as tourists. Same goes for the girls commercial scene, for every Patpong or Nana bar, there are even more Thai-only joints with local entertainment and high rollers. There are also many trendy bars for a middle class audience, many of them pretend to be host bars but the boys and girls can he bought for the right price. There are also venues for hi-so and lo-so transactions. I was told if you go far enough up the hi-so ladder, even celebrities can be procured. 
As for the lo-so, this is an old interview: https://bk.asia-city.com/city-living/news/21-year-old-money-boy-bangkok

Because they are meant for a Thai audience. The boys have no interest in going with foreign customers nor is there any incentive for the patrons, or owners of these venues to introduce foreigners when they are doing good business from locals already. They have a system in place, foreigners don’t know the system and they don’t necessarily spend more than local customers, who have the benefit of being regulars and would not enjoy frequenting the same venue as tourists. Same goes for the girls commercial scene, for every Patpong or Nana bar, there are even more Thai-only joints with local entertainment and high rollers. There are also many trendy bars for a middle class audience, many of them pretend to be host bars but the boys and girls can he bought for the right price. There are also venues for hi-so and lo-so transactions. I was told if you go far enough up the hi-so ladder, even celebrities can be procured. 
As for the lo-so, this is an old interview: https://bk.asia-city.com/city-living/news/21-year-old-money-boy-bangkok

Because they are meant for a Thai audience. The boys have no interest in going with foreign customers nor is there any incentive for the patrons, or owners of these venues to introduce foreigners when they are doing good business from locals already. They have a system in place, foreigners don’t know the system and they don’t necessarily spend more than local customers, who have the benefit of being regulars and would not enjoy frequenting the same venue as tourists. Same goes for the girls commercial scene, for every Patpong or Nana bar, there are even more Thai-only joints with local entertainment and high rollers. There are also many trendy bars for a middle class audience, many of them pretend to be host bars but the boys and girls can he bought for the right price. There are also venues for hi-so and lo-so transactions. I was told if you go far enough up the hi-so ladder, even celebrities can be procured. 
As for the lo-so, this is an old interview: https://bk.asia-city.com/city-living/news/21-year-old-money-boy-bangkok

Guess hank was right on the money haha

My opinion only:
He wants you come to the bar, pay for all the drinks, treat all his friends, win him lots of respect, show the bar staff he has a wealthy patron, and then send him home with money without having to spend any baht himself to celebrate his own birthday. 

He will likely go to see his family in the day time, or several days later if they live far away. Thai boys like to spend their birthdays drunk with friends not in the countryside with their family! 

Michael, your story gave me a good laugh on an otherwise depressing weekend. 


 

My opinion only:
He wants you come to the bar, pay for all the drinks, treat all his friends, win him lots of respect, show the bar staff he has a wealthy patron, and then send him home with money without having to spend any baht himself to celebrate his own birthday. 

He will likely go to see his family in the day time, or several days later if they live far away. Thai boys like to spend their birthdays drunk with friends not in the countryside with their family! 

Ok. So, I got to his bar on time. My understanding was I was going to the bar to take him off for the night as he "wanted to spend the entire night with me."  Now, I know that was not true as he wanted to spend the night with friends and I gave him that option with the same amount of money.
So, I got there. I had a gift for him plus 5,000 baht cash for good luck.That made him feel special. We got some drinks in his bar and I tipped every bar person 100 baht as a HB Boy I was taking. We moved to the next bar. Again, I thought go in and have a few drinks with friends and head home. Well, that didn't exactly happen.
We got to the next bar and opened a bottle of Red Label and drink started pouring. I thought when done, we would go home as I was bored shitless. But, he asked for another bottle, so I obliged and the night continued, and continued and continued. We finally left after tips to everyone in the bar and tons of booze and the boy so tipsy he fell asleep in the car.
I thought we were going to have a nice sleep over as he requested. NOT me. So, we showed and got ready for bed. For me this was sleep time as it was now 4AM and that is when I usually get up. No, it was sex time. So, we had sex. It was good sex.
Then, he asked if it was OK to go back and continue party with his friends. I said fine and gave him money for the overnight and he left. Now, I would have happily paid this money 5 hours earlier and left to go home alone as I hate staying in bars all night and I hate shows in bars. But, I hate even worse, sleepovers. I was dreading sleeping so I'm glad he went. But, I am not happy that it took hours to tell me all of this.
It was a LONG night. I spent well over 15k baht on friend drinks and tips and offs. He was happy. I was happy that I learned that a 10 day vacation with anyone will never work. So, in the end, money well spent, lesson learned, and I've just recovered from my sleep.
 

Well, lets just say it was a hard night for me. LOL A few lessons learned. Yes, I'm not too old to learn. I'll write more when I recover.

He is now working in the VIP section of Fake so I assume he is fine with gay customers, as long as they have fat bank accounts. 

He is now working in the VIP section of Fake so I assume he is fine with gay customers, as long as they have fat bank accounts. 

Seems like Babe is working the VIP zone of Fake Club on 4 September. No idea if this is a one off or he’s joining the club permanently. 

My opinion only:
He wants you come to the bar, pay for all the drinks, treat all his friends, win him lots of respect, show the bar staff he has a wealthy patron, and then send him home with money without having to spend any baht himself to celebrate his own birthday. 

He will likely go to see his family in the day time, or several days later if they live far away. Thai boys like to spend their birthdays drunk with friends not in the countryside with their family! 

My opinion only:
He wants you come to the bar, pay for all the drinks, treat all his friends, win him lots of respect, show the bar staff he has a wealthy patron, and then send him home with money without having to spend any baht himself to celebrate his own birthday. 

He will likely go to see his family in the day time, or several days later if they live far away. Thai boys like to spend their birthdays drunk with friends not in the countryside with their family! 

My opinion only:
He wants you come to the bar, pay for all the drinks, treat all his friends, win him lots of respect, show the bar staff he has a wealthy patron, and then send him home with money without having to spend any baht himself to celebrate his own birthday. 

He will likely go to see his family in the day time, or several days later if they live far away. Thai boys like to spend their birthdays drunk with friends not in the countryside with their family! 

My opinion only:
He wants you come to the bar, pay for all the drinks, treat all his friends, win him lots of respect, show the bar staff he has a wealthy patron, and then send him home with money without having to spend any baht himself to celebrate his own birthday. 

He will likely go to see his family in the day time, or several days later if they live far away. Thai boys like to spend their birthdays drunk with friends not in the countryside with their family! 

My opinion only:
He wants you come to the bar, pay for all the drinks, treat all his friends, win him lots of respect, show the bar staff he has a wealthy patron, and then send him home with money without having to spend any baht himself to celebrate his own birthday. 

He will likely go to see his family in the day time, or several days later if they live far away. Thai boys like to spend their birthdays drunk with friends not in the countryside with their family! 

Then he’s probably also thinking: why mess with a winning formula! LOL

That sounds like last night!

I might add to this guess that the boy probably want you to be included in his special day, apart from the money, as he wants to show respect to you too. U only invite close friends/family to such event. It probably to announce to all the boys in the bar that you are now his? Haha. Eitherway, dont overthink it. Its his special day, and i think since he obviously make u happy, just go with what he wanted as long as its reasonable.

My opinion only:
He wants you come to the bar, pay for all the drinks, treat all his friends, win him lots of respect, show the bar staff he has a wealthy patron, and then send him home with money without having to spend any baht himself to celebrate his own birthday. 

He will likely go to see his family in the day time, or several days later if they live far away. Thai boys like to spend their birthdays drunk with friends not in the countryside with their family! 

I went back to the gay area tonight. It was rainy and everything was quiet. HotMale had very few guys on stage. Dreamboys had even less. Freshboys had more but not the typical slew. I went back to take the guy from Sept. 12. I really like him and have chatted daily since meeting. I popped in to get him. I wanted to take someone from his bar with us but the boy I took from last month didn't want to go with him. He is now a bit jealous and upset I am taking his friend. We left:
Drink 300 for me
Drink 300 for boy
Off Fee 500
so total for Freshboys was 1200 baht.
I was walking by Screwboy when a guy called my name. I didn't remember him but he remembered me. He started telling me the names of all my exes from Pattaya. He had photos as well. I was intrigued so I went inside and had drinks with him and the boy from Fresh. It was fun and they had beers. The mamasans swarmed around us. There were two new boys from Bangkok in clothes. I had them both for drinks and they were hot! But, "Man. Man." and no sucking or anything so I left them alone but have an eye on one of them.
6 drinks at 300 baht each was 1800 baht
200 baht for each boy was 800 baht
100 baht for tips for my boys friends there 400 baht
400 baht from guy who remembered me from Pattaya and a nice conversation
3400 baht total for Screwboys
Total for night: 4600 baht
Boy who came home for short time was a good tip which I won't get into great details.
But, a good night with no customers anywhere and few boys and still I had a hot big dick guy next to me for hours and told me he now wants to stay with me all next weekend.
Good night with hot boys all around and the hottest one with me for a great time!

Pitfalls: barely enough salary to cover falang food, rent, and essentials, without speaking of boys, bars and booze. 
Benefits: none that I can think of 

Benefits, its a way of staying in thailand, with additional income. If you already have a steady passive income or freelance jobs and not qualify for retirement visa yet, or dont want to dump money on the elite visa, this might be an attractive option. U also get to improve/learn thai language, andnall the benefits of being a teacher i guess. If you already habr a good full time job back home, this might not be for you. But if you are thinking of moving to thailand, have boyfriend in thailand, this might be another way to stay in thailand.

Yes he was off able at Moonlight.