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I offer 1000 regardless of location (Bangkok, Pattaya, Chiang Mai) and get enough who accept. I have many regulars for 1000 as well. There is the one or other stunner who asks for more and will not budge, but I can't have everyone. Beware of sending money for travel in advance, it's a scam in most cases.
Not in my experience. I don't recall any case of a low quote, only high quotes.

I offer 1000 regardless of location (Bangkok, Pattaya, Chiang Mai) and get enough who accept. I have many regulars for 1000 as well. There is the one or other stunner who asks for more and will not budge, but I can't have everyone. Beware of sending money for travel in advance, it's a scam in most cases.
Not in my experience. I don't recall any case of a low quote, only high quotes.

Thank you for being so open about your experiences. A subject that is little talked about, but of general concern.
That's interesting! I don't talk about such subjects at all.
First, I don't want to divulge to my new partner how many I had before him.
Second, I think most (of my sexual partners in SEAsia) are not aware of the various STD and modes of transmission. There would be little use in talking about these issues, and it would be a turn off for me.

I offer 1000 regardless of location (Bangkok, Pattaya, Chiang Mai) and get enough who accept. I have many regulars for 1000 as well. There is the one or other stunner who asks for more and will not budge, but I can't have everyone. Beware of sending money for travel in advance, it's a scam in most cases.
Not in my experience. I don't recall any case of a low quote, only high quotes.

Are not most boys in these series chinese-looking Bangkok hi-sos ? Give me a movie with brown-skinned isaan country boys any time !

I'm scratching my head, doesn't coincide with what you wrote, or maybe it's me 🤨

 
 
As often as possible??
 
The main way is unprotected anal sex/////

My guess, since you are in Thailand, is that your sex partners are younger than you. There's been a bit of discussion on this board about the HPV vaccine and it is available in BKK. 

The discussion you should be having, in my opinion is finding out if your partners even know what HPV is and there is a vaccine available for it.
 
Yeah....like when you use them.


I'm not your target audience...... My sarcasm runs too deep for this 🤐

I’m a gay man on PrEP. I love bottoming, and am not using condoms for anal sex. And I have anal warts and a big problem with anal fissures (anal fissures are often found in the sexual life of gay people). Here’s my story.
For a bit of context: I come from California and live in Bangkok. I am a gay man in my mid-30s, love to bottom, and have been taking PrEP for the last two years. While I don’t use condoms for anal sex, I get tested every three months and am very proactive in managing my risk for HIV and STIs.
Needless to say, when I first learned I had anal warts, I was worried but didn’t think that I’d be treating them for over a year. Over that time, I’ve learned a lot about HPV, gained clarity around transmission and treatment, advocated for better treatment, and figured out how to talk about anal warts with sex partners. I hope that sharing my story, and what I’ve learned, is helpful to other people who experience anal warts.

About my anal warts, anal fissures and treatment
Before having anal sex I love to take time to prepare. This includes douching very gently and fingering myself to pre-lube. One day I could feel a certain texture within my ass, which felt different than the rest of the soft tissue inside. This is when I became worried that I might have a wart, and so I made an appointment to see my doctor.
The warts were small and located on the anus (exterior) and in the anal canal (the interior area between the anus and the rectum). About a month later I would undergo laser surgery procedure, and two months later, warts returned. At that time I decided to switch to a new proctologist who began doing very small treatments, with a combination of CARPICON Suppositories and ISOPRINOSINE Tablets (to gain immunity against HPV which develops these warts. I was also prescribed a CARPICON cream (designed to boost the immune response to the area applied) which I apply twice per day on the anus and inside the anal canal area.

My progress to date: two small wart areas have reduced to one, which continues to reduce in size with each treatment.
Talking about topics related to sexual health is often uncomfortable. I’ve found that it’s been very important to find the right people to discuss my experiences (whether in person or online!)

The greatest emotional relief came from people who replied with “I’ve had this too,” and began to share their experiences related to how their warts were discovered and treated.
Continue to evolve your own safer sex practices
One of the many ways I practice safer sex is to ask my sex partners, as often as possible, about sexual history. Over the years I’ve found ways to talk about taking PrEP, choosing not to use condoms, and also what it was like to have had gonorrhea, chlamydia, and herpes. Now I include genital warts in the discussion.
When I tell people about having anal warts, I’ve received a range of responses. I’ve been pleasantly surprised with how many people say they are already familiar with HPV and understand how easy it is to transmit. I’ve also heard from people who are uncomfortable or unsure about risks of genital warts and decide they do not want to have sex. I always accept their decision. Above all, I’ve found that being proactive and bringing up these topics helps both myself and other people practice how to talk about sexual health.
A common reaction to the topic of genital warts is “well, you should have used condoms” or “we have to use condoms then.” It’s important to know that condoms are effective at preventing STI transmission in certain circumstances. HPV can also be transmitted during contact other than anal sex – such as kissing, fingering, and oral sex – when condoms are not used.
When I first learned I had anal warts I was optimistic they could be treated once and be gone, but it hasn’t turned out that way. Through everything I have learned I am better able to accept the situation, and it no longer is a cause of anxiety.

No idea. It's not mentioned (the one comment in Chinese asks for exact location) and I don't recognize any place.
Not original anyway, the poor resolution even of the subtitles show it's taken from somewhere else and compressed.
If there is any such content on social media, it would be all posed.
When I did some research on public toilet cruising in Thailand 10 to 5 years ago, there was very little activity.
The video is a waste of time.

No idea. It's not mentioned (the one comment in Chinese asks for exact location) and I don't recognize any place.
Not original anyway, the poor resolution even of the subtitles show it's taken from somewhere else and compressed.
If there is any such content on social media, it would be all posed.
When I did some research on public toilet cruising in Thailand 10 to 5 years ago, there was very little activity.
The video is a waste of time.

No idea. It's not mentioned (the one comment in Chinese asks for exact location) and I don't recognize any place.
Not original anyway, the poor resolution even of the subtitles show it's taken from somewhere else and compressed.
If there is any such content on social media, it would be all posed.
When I did some research on public toilet cruising in Thailand 10 to 5 years ago, there was very little activity.
The video is a waste of time.

"Bait and switch" wouldn't work with me. In Saphan Kwai / Inthamara, there might be 2 or 3 I like and can take any of the, but if none is available, I will leave without massage.
Massage skills vary, and I have been in the same situation (masseur has exhausted his massage skills after 20 min and repeats calves), so I had to take action and turn around and have a grope to lead over to happy ending.

Thanks for the above suggestions!
 
Day 1
so landed in Suvarnabhumi airport in the afternoon. Immigration was quite fast, probably about 10 minutes or so. Then took a cab to my time and trusted Le Meridien hotel. I love the hotel because its nice and no issues bringing your guest back to the room.
 
Arena Massage
I always go here first because its one of the nearest to my hotel. This time I took a grab there instead of walking, although its only less than a km. In the past i always walk there under the sun and the walk always gets me horned up and sweaty thinking of whats to come. This time I arrived freshly showered. Menu for 1h 1.5h and 2h. Masseur tip for 1.5h was 1200 requested - i think by far one of the lowest ive seen. Oil massage for 1.5h was 790, aromatherapy was 990. Silly me chose aromatherapy, not much difference to oil. Furthermore I chose peppermint oil flavour (idk why man) which awkwardly caused a bit of burn to my c0ck when applied. Will go for oil in future. 
 
Upon entering, over 10 shirtless zaddies staring at me. Gosh this always makes me gulp like im taking a viva exam. I saw a masseur i had before - Nuk. He is handsome, muscular, has a hot tattoo, hot abs and he is very nice, and does a good hard massage. 
 
i love how arena has a unique vibe. I would describe it as oily, sweaty, mechanic, gym vibe. This aint a romantic boyfriend restaurant. Your shirtless oiled up car mechanic is here to pound you and you say yes sir and pay him anyway.

Pic of my room. Basic but serves its purpose. I had a lovely massage, was hard and sensual, really felt relaxed after, and I was feeling his hard oiled up body and groping all over yums. Just so hottt to see a hot guy being all oiled up and over you. 2000 in tips to boy. 
 
R3 Sauna
Grabbed over to R3 sauna. I checked with their line account before hand whether there was any parties happening. O parties at R3 fri sat, sauna mania foam party on sunday. I love attending these parties because its a chaotic hot mess. About 10 hot models, some were fucking each other. And then the public joins in. There was this super hot model that i suscribed to onlyfans for awhile back, and he “acted” in several thai scenes. Went to grope and lick him heh. But he was so popular there was a whole queue of people lining up to fuck him. It was so hot to just see this super hot model taking it from anyone who wants to fuck him, including obviously less hot guys. Kind of a kink ha. There were people fucking and getting fucked by models, sucking, groping all over. Hot Chaotic mess. I was probably exhausted from the recent massage so mainly eye powered and groped around instead.
 
Dreamboys Bar
Grabbed back to silom and went to dreamboys. 500 for entrance + drink. I came abit late like 11pm. Shows ongoing till 1am. Was quite full house and lots of boys. Now there was a little bit of drama. I saw a guy that I offed before, and although we had lots of fun previously, he kept asking for money months after we met over the apps. So I didnt really respond back because I didnt really know what to respond. Then now in the bar with him around and waving to me i got nervous and didnt really want to off anyone else, although there wasn’t any that I was like super super interested in, there were few guys my type. LOL. Anyways, stayed to have a look around at people offing boys, 1 or 2 decent routines with hot shirtless guys. I left empty handed at 1am sadly.
 
Jackd
After showering and lying on my bed I thought to myself, did I really just left a bar empty handed on a friday night. So I opened the apps and not long after, found a hot muscular abs zaddy on Jackd. 2500 he quoted. Only took him about 20 minutes to comeover. Finally had my hot full on sex meal for the day. I told him I liked kissing and we ended up making out like forever, licking his hot body and abs and sucking each other. 
 
And I ended day 1 at 3am with a goodnights sleep.
 

There are some very hot Filipinos , none of which I've ever seen in Thailand, but they exist. It's like I never saw an Issan guy in NYC, so I think the Thais I've seen in Manhattan represent all Thai guys or I've only seen white chunky Brasilians on flights yet the bronze beauties from Salvador never, so I make an assumption about them.

Not sure if you've noticed in third world countries, the people with money to travel, are a different class. Not usually the types you, me or Vinapu are attracted to either.....

Go explore the Philippines, will be good content for your blog 😉

My rating of money boys in Thailand is the following: I value Myanmar higher than Thai and Vietnamese lower, based on plenty of experience with Myanmar and little experience with Vietnamese.
My experience is the contrary, I value Myanmar people, be it in Myanmar or in Thailand, the highest of everywhere I have travelled in SEAsia.
In particular I found that the poorer / more oppressed the people are, the nicer / more generous they are towards me.
  
I don't think so. They (and other migrant workers) do work that no Thai would want to do. If they were causing troubles, the Thai would quickly send them back.
 

I'm on my way home after a few amazing days in Bangkok. Before my trip I read this forum from top to bottom and took copious notes on the Bangkok massage scene, places to go, etc. I took a lot of notes to help me remember for my next visit. I wish I could share therapist names here because they are not all created equal and I ran into some total duds as well as some amazing ones.
 
Here's my take on the massage places:
 
1. S'sense massage - by far my worst experience and the only massage I walked out on in the middle. When I arrived, they did the "bait and switch" and said my therapist was not available but tried to offer me another one who was not my type. I asked for someone else and they gave me one who was cute but a total dud. I laid there bored while the therapist gave me a massage that seemed to focus on the calves and feet FOREVER. Zero fun stuff. I remembered reading on this forum that if you're in that situation, just get up and walk out, and I did just that. I hopped into a Grab (that app is awesome! The way Uber was when it first launched... clean cars great drivers cheap cheap cheap) and went to PARADISE...
 
2. Paradise is on the street with all the gay massage places in Silom 6. Basically by my third day therapists recognized me and told me they saw me walking the street HAHAHAHAHA. Small town. It's clean, friendly, and I had one of my best therapists there... good lord he was huge and ready for action. Not the cutest but again this forum indicated that the cuter they are the less they do and that's usually right based on my experience this week. Did I mention huge? Anyway excellent masssage and double x 2 happiness.
3. Relax Massage - my husband went here, right across from Paradise (he also checked out Mr. Big at Paradise) and had a good massage with a cute guy. They are running a "rainy season special" and are half the price of Paradise. Great value.
4. JeySPA.... you knew this one was coming! This consistently ranks high on this forum so my final day there I splurged (it's definitely spendy with a tip of 1500 baht) ... I was very clear what I was looking for (big everything with six pack abs) and OH MY GOD did they deliver. They sent photos that let me know exactly what I was in for. That was one of my best massages in Bangkok (best massage of the trip was in Samui, but that's a different post...)  Very clean and yes as others have said, horrible traffic in that area so I took a Grab but wished I had taken the train. Easy to find with Google maps. You can negotiate on the room price.
5. Prime - 90 min head/feet and then 90 min Thai by the same guy who was touchy but Prime doesn't seem to go beyond massage and that's fine... it was just amazing. Great massage with great technique, clean, and they give you pajamas (I didn't wear the top) and you just feel like you're being pampered.
6. Green Massage - I wish I had time to go here... looked good and would love to read someone else's feedback
7. 9-Teen - on same road with 2 & 3 above, they did the bait and switch again when I arrived... I rejected their substitution and they found someone suitable, but he started negotiating tip in middle of massage before he would even remove his shirt. That was a HUGE turnoff and I felt like I was in a used car lot all of a sudden. All the other therapists at other places were much more subtle or trusted you to tip the min 1000 baht. My husband ran into the same thing. We did not return here and cancelled subsequent appointments we had made.
8. Natural Spa - super friendly guys and one of my cuter therapists (straight, small assets) worked there then kept in touch on Line but I didn't return due to aforementioned small assets. Room smelled musty and towels weren't fresh smelling. But they do seem to have cuter guys than the others.... I wouldn't rule them out next time but wish their rooms were cleaner. This also seems to be the feedback on Google reviews.
9. Magic Touch Massage with Mr. Tree... this was our first massage in Bangkok and was very mediocre. Shower didn't work and therapist wasn't very skilled in anything. Would not recommend.
Things I learned:
1. This is all really close to the Skytrain. When we first arrived we had some trouble with Google maps and it seemed like we walked all over. Silom 6 is maybe 8 mins from the station and there's lots to see on the way.
2. Great lunch spot in the heart of it all is Mango Tree Surawong. If you're a massage whore like we are,  book 11 am massages, then lunch at Mango, then walk 2 mins to Prime for a real massage, happy finish at Paradise or Relax/Natural Spa.
3. This I haven't figured out but I developed some theories on this. Most guys who weren't that into it I asked if they were straight and yes they were. As a top that provides limited options for me which is why I was going for SIZE and appearance. One guy showed me photos of his girlfriend. They are all really sweet but I wish there were a way to color code the t-shirts... red is top, blue is bottom, purple is both.... I assume the blue shirts would be the gay guys but I may be making an incorrect assumption there. I think next time I'll try to ask for some bottoms even though I don't want to  do anything more than play... see #4 below...
4. These guys have got to be riddled with all sorts of diseases. NO way would I consider anything unsafe, but I was able to have a lot of fun nonetheless. It does seem like most of the clients go there to just get PLOWED because everytime I got on a massage table they went straight for my butt and I had to make the universal sign for no intercourse but just playing. I do not hold any judgment against anyone who wants to take more risks, I am just saying that once I got there and saw the guys and the environment and the steady stream of customers I knew that my shields were going to be up and I would still have fun. AND I DID. (See JeySpa again).
5. I did not go to 15M based on feedback on this forum.
6. The drag (?) cabaret at Asiatique was AMAZING!! Calypso!! We were grinning ear to ear the entire show... if you buy tickets, buy them from their site (not Klook or resellers) and put in comments you are gay and excited to see show. We did that and they gave us the best seats in the house. (Seats are assigned by them earlier in the day, then they print tickets when you arrive)... huge highlight of our visit. It would be fun to see with a group - the audience was all reserved asians for the most parts and there were points where we were the only ones clapping and cheering them on. Those boys were working hard and dancing their asses off.
7. I walked through Silom 4 and loved the drag show there, but felt sort of self conscious as I was dressed for dinner at Vertigo and it was really strange walking the catwalk (street) with all the chairs and tables facing you... I needed someone to show me the ropes. My masseur from Natural Massage offered to come with me but he didn't speak English and I wanted some alone time.
8. Really regret not having time to try The Green Massage.

I hope this helps someone else who may fit our profile (newbie, more conservative, clueless and naive at times, see newbie part). Thanks to all who have posted here offering advice and help… I found it immensely useful as I planned our trip!! 
 
 
 
 

Would need a lot more input from OP. Are you interested in beaches, mountains, museums, temples? Traveling by public transport, walking, rented motorbike or car?

Would need a lot more input from OP. Are you interested in beaches, mountains, museums, temples? Traveling by public transport, walking, rented motorbike or car?

My father used to say " now only thing starting with "f" I can do now  is to fart "

Information may be freely available on the internet, but @YoungWesternTop you should discuss with a medical professional before making a decision around medication and your health. 

I'm new here also, so I'm not sure if all the more established members are right... or if you're genuinely curious and anxious. If your curious and anxious, I'd suggest that you talk to your local sexual health providers about your concerns. They'd have a better idea about your personal medical situation, and can advise you better about risks; and hopefully be experts on it
I would say that you do seem a bit too anxious about it. Condoms for oral sex is a bit over the top, IMO. I'd refuse if a guy wanted to wear one to get blown. I don't want a mouthful of latex. But I understand the risks, and make my choices appropriately.
 

Finding information certainly seems more difficult than it was a few years ago. There used to be the section of a website titled AVERT which did publish statistics, although I believe it covered a more general msm percentage. I can no longer find it. A Paper issued by Australia's CSIRO in the Sexual Health section headed The Continued HIV Epidemic among men who have sex with men and transgender women in the ASEAN region: Implications for HIV policy and service programming, states re Thailand -
"HIV incidence among MSM under IBBS (integrated behavioural and biological surveillance) decreased only in Bangkok from 28.6% in 2014 to 10.3% in 2018."
https://www.publish.csiro.au/sh/Fulltext/sh20134
This is clearly illustrated in a graph showing the rate of increase/decrease in 7 major Asian cities.

If the chart is accurate, the rate of HIV among msm has decreased substantially. A major concern arising from the chart, though, is clearly the significantly rising rate in Kuala Lumpur and Ho Chi Minh.
There have been several other reports including data from 2014, but they require a great deal of time to analyse exactly what they mean since all seem based on different modelling methods and results which are extremely difficult to compare. Worrying, though, there is one paper dated July 16 2021 in Britain's highly respected medical journal The Lancet regarding an 18-month Study which suggests that "MSM will represent over half of all new HIV infections by 2025." This figure refers only to Bangkok. All reports I have looked at indicate a rise in the number of syphilis cases in Bangkok.
https://www.thelancet.com/journals/eclinm/article/PIIS2589-5370(21)00313-8/fulltext

I have messaged some boys who do onlyfans or Line group (with entry fees) on other channels. They sent me links to their paid content. But I don't work that way, I don't believe in advance payment in any form. As tempting as some of them are, rather skip and look elsewhere. If they were willing to meet at all, I doubt it would be for 1000 which is my going rate (i.e. what I pay). The gap (10 USD = 330 THB to look at previously recorded material vs. 1000 THB to meet me) is just too small for them to make it worth for them to meet me, and for me to pay to look.

My rating of money boys in Thailand is the following: I value Myanmar higher than Thai and Vietnamese lower, based on plenty of experience with Myanmar and little experience with Vietnamese.
My experience is the contrary, I value Myanmar people, be it in Myanmar or in Thailand, the highest of everywhere I have travelled in SEAsia.
In particular I found that the poorer / more oppressed the people are, the nicer / more generous they are towards me.
  
I don't think so. They (and other migrant workers) do work that no Thai would want to do. If they were causing troubles, the Thai would quickly send them back.
 

My rating of money boys in Thailand is the following: I value Myanmar higher than Thai and Vietnamese lower, based on plenty of experience with Myanmar and little experience with Vietnamese.
My experience is the contrary, I value Myanmar people, be it in Myanmar or in Thailand, the highest of everywhere I have travelled in SEAsia.
In particular I found that the poorer / more oppressed the people are, the nicer / more generous they are towards me.
  
I don't think so. They (and other migrant workers) do work that no Thai would want to do. If they were causing troubles, the Thai would quickly send them back.
 

I have messaged some boys who do onlyfans or Line group (with entry fees) on other channels. They sent me links to their paid content. But I don't work that way, I don't believe in advance payment in any form. As tempting as some of them are, rather skip and look elsewhere. If they were willing to meet at all, I doubt it would be for 1000 which is my going rate (i.e. what I pay). The gap (10 USD = 330 THB to look at previously recorded material vs. 1000 THB to meet me) is just too small for them to make it worth for them to meet me, and for me to pay to look.