9 hours ago, Keithambrose said:

Well are we ready for an older, overweight, gay, Bond?

sure , about time

9 hours ago, Keithambrose said:

Surely you can find a flight with 3 or 4 changes to join me?

combing through the offers dilligently

On 9/10/2026 at 9:27 PM, jimmie50 said:

My posts will most likely be few and far between for the next week or so.

@jimmie50 did mention the above in his last post, however I am wondering if it would be too intrusive, considering I have never met jimmie, to message my cambodian friend at Hotmale to ask 'cam' if jimmie arrived safely in Cambodia?

17 minutes ago, ichigo said:

@jimmie50 did mention the above in his last post, however I am wondering if it would be too intrusive, considering I have never met jimmie, to message my cambodian friend at Hotmale to ask 'cam' if jimmie arrived safely in Cambodia?

While appreciating that this thought came from a good place, yes I do think it is inappropriate and intrusive given that @jimmie50 has only been on Cambodian soil barely a week. Based on his reported travel timings, he left America Friday night/wee hours of Saturday Asia time. With a long layover he would have arrived Saturday evening, meaning his first proper day was last Sunday, a week ago. By his own words he planned to be offline and focus on real life for a bit.

Give the man a chance to reunite with Cam, settle in and grasp the lay of the land. There may be some unforeseen delays such as perhaps changing of accommodation, or tech issues. Although I believe Jimmie has met with forum members before, he’s been careful about not doxxing Cam and protecting his privacy. Boys do not always share everything with their bars and “bar friends”, it may not be commonly known Cam has returned to live with a foreign boyfriend. You may be doing him a real disservice by spreading the word and getting everyone at the bar curious. If he does indeed not reappear over the next few days, this can be considered much later on.

I add my good wishes to everyone else’s and hope @jimmie50 is doing well, enjoying Cambodia and accumulating stories for us ‘back home’

12 minutes ago, hank75 said:

While appreciating that this thought came from a good place, yes I do think it is inappropriate and intrusive given that @jimmie50 has only been on Cambodian soil barely a week. Based on his reported travel timings, he left America Friday night/wee hours of Saturday Asia time. With a long layover he would have arrived Saturday evening, meaning his first proper day was last Sunday, a week ago. By his own words he planned to be offline and focus on real life for a bit.

Give the man a chance to reunite with Cam, settle in and grasp the lay of the land. There may be some unforeseen delays such as perhaps changing of accommodation, or tech issues. Although I believe Jimmie has met with forum members before, he’s been careful about not doxxing Cam and protecting his privacy. Boys do not always share everything with their bars and “bar friends”, it may not be commonly known Cam has returned to live with a foreign boyfriend. You may be doing him a real disservice by spreading the word and getting everyone at the bar curious. If he does indeed not reappear over the next few days, this can be considered much later on.

I add my good wishes to everyone else’s and hope @jimmie50 is doing well, enjoying Cambodia and accumulating stories for us ‘back home’

Completely agree - thank you for the insight.

15 minutes ago, hank75 said:

Boys do not always share everything with their bars and “bar friends”, it may not be commonly known Cam has returned to live with a foreign boyfriend. You may be doing him a real disservice by spreading the word and getting everyone at the bar curious

initially I thought ichigo's idea is great but this is a good reason to keep our noses out. We may be knowing more than Cam bar co-workers indeed

8 minutes ago, vinapu said:

initially I thought ichigo's idea is great but this is a good reason to keep our noses out. We may be knowing more than Cam bar co-workers indeed

As I said, I aim to be in Siem Reap on Tuesday. Happy to say hello if it's thought a good idea.

10 hours ago, Keithambrose said:

Well are we ready for an older, overweight, gay, Bond?

Hmmm 🤔...or maybe you can play the Judi Dench character, M. She's retired due to her failing eyesight.

@jimmie50 Where are you?

1 hour ago, Keithambrose said:

As I said, I aim to be in Siem Reap on Tuesday. Happy to say hello if it's thought a good idea.

If Cam is the only way to contact Jimmie my humble suggestion would be to enquire about a boy who has returned to build his house and not mention any personal details. Starting with the boys from Battambang is best as they all know each other. And while they may not discuss boyfriends or foreign sponsors, if one person is building a house, buying a truck or starting a business there’s quite alot of chat about it and accompanying Facebook posts.

Some boys are reluctant to mention they have a farang boyfriend or sponsor as if word gets back to the bosses or mamasans they equate this with “windfall”

I do think Jimmie would be very happy to meet a forum member in Siem Reap.

3 hours ago, hank75 said:

If Cam is the only way to contact Jimmie my humble suggestion would be to enquire about a boy who has returned to build his house and not mention any personal details. Starting with the boys from Battambang is best as they all know each other. And while they may not discuss boyfriends or foreign sponsors, if one person is building a house, buying a truck or starting a business there’s quite alot of chat about it and accompanying Facebook posts.

Some boys are reluctant to mention they have a farang boyfriend or sponsor as if word gets back to the bosses or mamasans they equate this with “windfall”

I do think Jimmie would be very happy to meet a forum member in Siem Reap.

I would only get involved if Jimmie is around, and wanted to meet.

2 hours ago, Keithambrose said:

I would only get involved if Jimmie is around, and wanted to meet.

Here’s hoping he sees your message before your trip.

Surely there's a much simpler way of going about all this. Hasn't he met up with forum members previously and presumably they'd have his number, Line or Whatsapp and could try to reach him through one of these?

@bkkmfj2648 ?

13 minutes ago, mauRICE said:

Surely there's a much simpler way of going about all this. Hasn't he met up with forum members previously and presumably they'd have his number, Line or Whatsapp and could try to reach him through one of these?

it looks nobody has , otherwise I assume somebody would chip in with some information unless instructed by jimmy50 to stay quiet.

3 hours ago, Keithambrose said:

I would only get involved if Jimmie is around, and wanted to meet.

and this is how it should be

We all here are being concerned, not nosy

7 hours ago, hank75 said:

Starting with the boys from Battambang is best as they all know each other.

not necessarily as Cam is from some village 1/2 hr away from the city

1 hour ago, vinapu said:

it looks nobody has , otherwise I assume somebody would chip in with some information unless instructed by jimmy50 to stay quiet.

I have his Line. I have just sent him a message to ask how's things.

30 minutes ago, jason1975 said:

I have his Line. I have just sent him a message to ask how's things.

@jason1975 saves the day

5 hours ago, mauRICE said:

Hmmm 🤔...or maybe you can play the Judi Dench character, M. She's retired due to her failing eyesight.

@jimmie50 Where are you?

Would prefer the old Q role!

3 hours ago, hank75 said:

Here’s hoping he sees your message before your trip.

If he doesn't, that's fine, it means, hopefully, he is otherwise happily engaged!

2 hours ago, hank75 said:

@jason1975 saves the day

indeed

I have it on good authority that one of our members , rarely contributing here but familiar with both HotMale guys and jimmie50's story will be passing by both Siem Reap and Battambong mid October, he promised to have eyes opened in case he will see familiar boy's face with older farang in tag. He hopes farang will sport "Make America great again " red hat so it will be easier to make sure farang is an American indeed.