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Gay Thailand

This is the main forum for all things gay in Thailand. Post about specific events, places, activities, questions, and comments under the relevant city heading. If commenting on more than one city or other parts of Thailand, use the general comments section below. Keep the topics related to information on Thailand.

  1. Guest reader
    Started by Guest reader,

    From Bangkok Posr The government will temporarily halt the need for international passengers to fill out TM 6 immigration forms to ease passenger congestion at international airports. Prime Minister and Defence Minister Prayut Chan-o-cha said after a cabinet meeting on Tuesday this would reduce the process for foreign visitors as they were already required to fill out many forms upon arrival. It will also help alleviate congestion as international arrival numbers have increased, he added. Gen Prayut said authorities will evaluate the outcome of the announcement and consider if it needs to be revised, especially if they are unable to trace passengers. The In…

  2. Started by musgrave,

    Returning to Thailand later in the year and thought I might try the Raya. i have stayed at Tarntawan, Triple 8 and Glow Trinity in the past. I know a few on the forum have stayed at Raya and would be interested to hear from them. I have checked out their web site and also read reviews on travel forums. Particularly interested to hear about noise, outside view, communal area, room set up, breakfast - with thanks

  3. Started by fedssocr,

    I follow the 285 Spa twitter account (@285_spa). Best I can tell it's in Bangkok but far away from the tourist areas. They have some handsome guys. Lots of tattoos if you're into that. And a cute pair of twins. I originally posted a photo but then realized that might not be allowed in this open forum.

  4. Started by Olddaddy,

    May seem like a strange question but I'm fascinated to know why. Why do you prefer Bangkok over Pattaya ? Now I'm a City boy here in my own country but for many reasons I don't like the City of Bangkok when it comes to taking guys. Love to read some of your reasons, I guess there's a lot more muscular type guys in Bangkok where Pattaya has more twinkish ? I like Bangkok for a few days then I need a "relaxing" place to get away to.

  5. Guest reader
    Started by Guest reader,

    If you’re in town, the short walk (or one stop away from Silom on MRT) to Samyan Mitrtown is worth the excursion, especially at twilight. the mall / university complex has embraced Pride month in a big way. In lights, entertainment and colorful signage, the message is loud and clear: it’s okay to be gay. All the shops in the multi-story mall are geared to the needs of the university students who abound in the area, including mini versions of Big C and Home Pro. Not to be missed is the free open air observation deck which takes on a magical atmosphere as the sun goes down. https://www.timeout.com/bangkok/news/theres-a-massive-rainbow-path-in-samyan-to-cele…

  6. Visiting Bangkok this coming week for work. Love to go dancing at Clubs too. Hopefully DJ station is opened again after the recent fire.

  7. Guest
    Started by Guest,

    I suspect there might just be a permanent cut in the number of gogo bars open after the economy has recovered from covid. Right now, one can go into a Bangkok gogo bar, buy a drink for 350~400 baht, then have a mamasan sit down to watch your eye movements and spot if you are looking at a particular boy (as happened in Fresh Boys). Depending on my mood, to counter this harassment, I either resort to random eye movements or ask them to go away. By the time the customer has had 2 drinks and an off fee, the bill might be just under 1500. Plus any tips. Then after 20~40 minutes of short time service in the hotel room, the gogo boy is trained to complain if he get…

  8. I have a boy coming over but he insists that I give him money upon arrival (before sex). Is that normal or the boy might be up to something I don't know about? In Vietnam, this kind of thing happened to several of my friends: the boy took money and just ran away (before they set off for a short-time hotel). Or they went to the hotel together, but then the boy took off while the poor customer was in the shower.

  9. Started by Patanawet,

    Officials out in force in Silom Soi 4 and Patpong - Covid, fire and safety checks to fulfil new governor's aims

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  10. Started by WelshGuyUK,

    Hi guys I will go to Jomtien 14 October till 3 November Just wondering whether anyone has an apartment to rent near Jomtien Complex? I realise rules say a month but maybe still cheaper than hotel?

  11. Guest reader
    Started by Guest reader,

    From Bangkok Post A large majority of respondents say people of a "third gender" are acceptable to them, according to an opinion survey by the National Institute of Development Administration, or Nida Poll. The poll was conducted on June 8-10 by telephone interviews with 1,310 people aged 15 and over of various levels of education and occupations throughout the country to gauge their attitude toward people of a "third gender". Asked whether people of a "third gender" are acceptable to them as friends or colleagues at workplaces, 92.82% said "yes" and 7.18% said "no." Asked what if a member of their family is a "third gender", 90.61% said he or she wou…

  12. Started by Olddaddy,

    Just wondering what apps to download ready for my Thailand & Phillipines trip. For transport I have downloaded Grab , not sure if Bolt is another one that operates ? For meetings I have downloaded Grindr & Hornet,not sure if planetromeo could be another one along with blued? For communication I have download Line , although I have WhatsApp,I'm not sure what they use in Thailand. Also is there any apps that you use to record notes & trip report , that you say can include pics etc ,is that apps such as Evernote etc ?

  13. Started by Will7272,

    Any current news about the bar scene around Silom. Are any open yet, busy ?

  14. Started by Olddaddy,

    I haven't watched Gay Adult DVDs for years because one can get it online for free nowadays ,but my question is do they still sell the Adult porn DVDS in the markets in Bangkok? In Pattaya they used to come around on the motorbike,do they still do this? I actually had a farang friend mention this to me today that he used to come back with 100's of gay porn DVDs ,not something I would do particularly if customs would have to go thru each one of them.😂 How times change, I remember also the internet cafes , now all gone and I think replaced by the gaming places. Who used to remember the telephone places 20 years ago where you could call back to oversea…

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  15. Started by stijntje,

    Mid May, I planned a short visit to Bangkok after a business trip. Thailand Pass was easy to get, even if converting all pdf’s into jpeg made me waste some time. I’m a big fan of the Raya hotel on Surawong road, so I booked the Executive Suite on the top floor. It was a bargain for such a nice room : 2400 baht per night. I took a night flight from Europe, so I arrived in the afternoon local time. Passing immigration was very fast, so after buying a local sim card, I took a taxi to the hotel. Day 1 : start with a massage and visit the bars I prefer to start all my trips with a nice massage, so I went to Silom Soi 6 where you now have several shops…

  16. Started by numazu,

    So, I'm finally planning my long-awaited return to Thailand. I'm looking to go around July time, which I am hoping that the current pandemic-era travel requirements will be eased even further by then. I am basing my optimism on some articles that have stated this, including this one: https://www.bloomberg.com/news/articles/2022-04-07/thailand-mulls-easing-covid-test-rules-for-vaccinated-visitors I do understand that the rules are fairly fluid, and we are of course talking about Thailand, the Land of Smiles and Ever Changing Minds, so I am assuming some risk here, and maybe the new COVID variants will further complicate things, but right now, I am finally planni…

  17. Guest reader
    Started by Guest reader,

    From Bangkok Post Tourism operators have reached an agreement with the Tourism Authority of Thailand (TAT) to propose a visa fee exemption for international arrivals and an eligibility extension for visitors from nations not requiring a visa to enter the country from 30 to 45 days during the second half of this year. A joint meeting between the TAT and more than 100 representatives from 10 tourism associations yesterday ended with five proposals that are expected to be presented to the subcommittee of the Centre for Covid-19 Situation Administration (CCSA) next week. "All tourists should have been treated on an equal basis. If possible, we should also prov…

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  18. Started by flashbarryallen,

    This board has been invaluable to me over the years on my trips to Bangkok, and now I'm ready to explore Pattaya for the first time. I definitely need help. So far I've settled on taking the airport bus from swampy to Jomtien, and then I'm stuck after that. From descriptions people have given, I imagine my "home" bar would end up being BBB as I tend to prefer Moonlight and Tawan when in BKK (though I know there won't really be Tawan types in Pattaya.) What are some recommended hotels that would make access to BBB easy for me and any gents I happen to off? I prefer no hassle from front desk. As far as price, I prefer mid range where I could maybe get a juni…

  19. It seems not to have been noticed by posters that earlier this week the Thai Cabinet gave its approval to a Same Sex Civil Partnership Bill. https://www.bangkokpost.com/thailand/general/2322310/same-sex-partnership-bill-gets-nod A Civil Partnership Bill has been discussed in Cabinet over the last 10 years and thing has happened. Clearly there will be lots of hurdles before the Bill can become law. This is especially true given Thai society's conservatism. As Nikkei Asia points out, on the day of the Cabinet decision https://asia.nikkei.com/Spotlight/Society/Thailand-s-historic-LGBT-bill-exposes-rifts-inside-community The Nikkei article adds ther…

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  20. Guest reader
    Started by Guest reader,

    A fire broke out late this afternoon at DJ Station on Silom Soi 2. The fire department knocked it down fairly quickly but smoke filled the area. It reportedly originated in electrical equipment. Soi 2 was closed off this evening.

  21. I was in M2M, Jomtien Complex, tonight to watch their Monday show. It was good, highly energetic as usual. There is one dancer who looks hot and I think he's also the best dancer of the night. Probably even has some formal training in dancing the way he moves and pirouettes. Just wonder if we have a chance to off a performer from a show? Anybody here tried it?

  22. Just talking to my Filipino boyfriend today and we plan to meet late this month after my visit to Thailand. He was talking about homophobia in the Phillipines etc and it made me remember the time in Pattaya where I came across "homophobic guys in a restaurant in the soi bukhao area ,two men and a lady farang all drunk of course decided to move away from our table citing description profanities , I didn't even get into a conversation with them,but peculiarly they chose the table right next to ours despite their being umpteen tables to choose from,it didn't concern me as the Thai boy I was with didn't understand a word they said ,he was completely oblivious to it 😆 …

  23. Started by Olddaddy,

    Just watched a YouTube vid of a guy entering Thailand, I was surprised to see all the passengers lining up for the "Thai Pass" desk on exiting the plane and then having to line up at immigration. Only once have I used the "Fast track" service on arrival , that was around 2016 and it was great, unfortunately my budget needs to be spent on guys ,however if it's the case where the line up is full I may have to consider using the Fast track service again. They can pick you up in a golf buggy directly from the plane exit and drive you to the terminal exit and you actually go thru a different exit ,like a VIP section which was very fast as I was the only one . Un…

  24. Have you guys ever offered far far more for sex than you normally would? I'm back in Thailand next week after 3 years and I was just thinking today if I see a guy I really have to have I'm prepared to offer " Western" money equivalent to him . I only have done this maybe once or twice in the last 15 years of traveling Asia , the last time was to a straight bellboy in Cambodia who was the most gorgeous guy I have ever met . $150, however it wasn't the best experience as he couldn't get it hard Whilst I'm not made of money, I feel sometimes rather than miss out I'm prepared to pay much more for a guy particularly if he is straight and a non money boy. …

  25. Guest reader
    Started by Guest reader,

    Have to confess that I was unaware of the Gay Pride parade that took place today. As I stepped off the BTS at Saladeang about 6:45, I was quickly made aware by the raucous crowd assembled on Silom opposite the Silom Complex. Police had closed off one side of the road and the street was populated with hundreds of celebrants. For a run down on other events associated with the 2022 observance of Gay Pride: https://www.lifestyleasia.com/bk/culture/events/pride-month-2022-events-in-bangkok/

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