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Yes of course!!  Since we have similar tastes in men  :>))
I cannot wait to hear your trip report after you have already been with Zack at the Kmanspa.....

I always liked going to Babylon. I am getting older and fatter (lol...) but could still have my fair share of groping, getting touched and sucked... But also just liked to aspect of cruising the complex and walking into one of the dark steam rooms. Somehow I didn't really dare to visit another sauna in Bangkok since Babylon closed. Probabaly because me too I have feeling that I might not belong to these places as they might have a different croud.
I won't feel comfortable between too much in shape Asians I'm afraid... 
Makes me think I might be right not checking them out as I might feel out of place... Shame. Liked my little sauna afternoons in Babylon. 
Somebody can tell me about their recent sauna adventures in Bangkok that might change my mind? 

Day 5
 I did not mention I will be leaving soon and there was no need as in the morning he rushed to his day time job , just giving me enough time to have breakfast and pack up .  I had that bottle of red wine I forgot to give CCP and  presented her to my tuk-tuk driver who took me to airport.  He was quite surprised that his quoted fare of 8 $ included getting bottle, lol. Hope he did not try it on his way back to the city.
Sitting on the plane all emotions  related to this affair left me , all of then sudden I realized I have 5 days free to roam fortified with 30000 baht CCP decided to leave in my pocket by pissing on our deal. At noon I was in Swampy already. Immigration was breeze. Hour later I  was checking into Rose. It was my first time there and I liked what I saw. Super location in quiet corner steps from Suriwong, room with the view. Only thing I did not like was washbasin in the  toilet, way too low. Clearly aimed at people much shorter than I’m. 
 I went for  a stroll and crossing Silom I spotted one of  boys known to me with handsome farang. Because we exchanged few PMs on the subject of said guy I suspected I  knew who farang is but they were in rush and I had blackout forgetting farang’s nick so did not stop them either. Later on fired PM to him to confirm it was him and it was a case indeed. So to 31 forum members I met I add one whom I just passed by chance, lol.
G’bangkok in soi 4 was busy so I went for dinner to Happy Beer Garden greeted warmly by one of waitresses who by coincidence had birthday today as whispered by other waiter. So treated her with big bottle of Chang.
Then to Hot Male beer bar, had few drinks with P , my first night stand and then decided to check Jupiter’s show.
Bar was packed. As always boys were  first class look but smiles lacking, nothing new here .After show and it was midnight I decided to leave passing by few their guys standing by the door including one quite muscular and handsome like hell. I was already outside when Guardian Angel pushed me back inside so I asked that guy about drink. We sat down and made deal very fast. Boy drink and off fee 950, gave mamasan 1000 baht note and couldn’t get a change so after few minutes decided   to leave. If somebody will wonder why on my next visit or two at Jupiter I will not tip , there’s answer, that self service.
Boy, J,  was hungry and suggested modestly Foodland but inside was less modest ordering their most expensive dish, some steak. No harm done and Bon Appetit.  
In the room  was very active and pleasant. World is coming to an end, another Jupiter off I’m so happy with. I never thought I will live that long! Too bad he did not want to stay till morning. Tipped him generously though as it was well deserved but as always  I denied request for  taxi money. What was supposed to be my last night in PP turned to be my first in Rose. Nice to be back in Bangkok, it took less than a day for me to get over and forget whole CCP debacle like it never happened.

Simple rule: NO NO NO pre payments.

Day 4
 Contrary to what may be expected I slept quite well and would sleep even longer but at 7 am I was waked  up by sound of air conditioner. Breakfast on 15th floor , included in price, I truly enjoyed food and the view . Going down,  my phone sounded, it was Line message , you guessed rightly,  from CCP. Repeated last night excuse about delivery and being hungry like he couldn’t say that at night he will not come.
Then complained that he is stressed because of debt and it caused him to lose 5kg, fact I noticed yesterday at the airport. And noticed that I keep tight limit on his monetary requests. Next out of blue question come if during those 5 days in BKK we can make trip to Phi Phi island . I said no , I’m not planning to go outside of Bangkok . He mused ‘ why ? we have so many days” so I answered   because it would cost more than I planned to spend. And I had question too ‘ what about our trip today?’ , answer was brief “ I think I cannot “ . All I could do is to say ‘ thank you for letting me know , I will ask at travel office”.
Then I knew all affair is  over. And as it turned so did him because my next message “ what about tomorrow? “ was never read till last day of the trip.
So yes, all warning signs were like that, warning signs . it was only me who seeing those opted to ignore them feeding what  my friend described as  ‘ magnificent illusion” . It was magnificent indeed. But no more . I fired my tablet decided to cut my stay in PP short. Tickets for today were bit costly so I bought one for tomorrow for exactly the same flight I was supposed to take with him day later. It was my third ticket for PP-Bkk flight, first was original and second for that requested earlier flight. Also booked 1 night at Rose hotel because Baan Silom was full for the night.
 Wandered a bit around riverbank and downtown including magnificent Psar Thmei market but emotions and uncured jet lag conspired and early afternoon I just collapsed in bed to a sound sleep till 9 p.m.
Then groomed myself a bit and went to Space Bar again skipping dinner. Hard to believe but breakfast was only meal I had today. In the bar I was greeted by my last trip companion. I did not waste time to ask him to come to my room after bar closes , idea he approved gladly. Later in course of conversation he told me that he knows I’m taking ‘big guy” with me to Bangkok. Wishing it was true indeed I said nothing. So obviously CCP spilled the beans, otherwise how he would know ?.
 Few rounds of drinks kept me and boys at my table in good spirits, fact is quite a few of them were hiring material if I stay longer. Tab was even higher than yesterday and again I suspect I was charged for more drinks I ordered  unless boys ordered some behind my back on my tab. No complains as I had good time indeed. But it looks no end to today’s dramas.
 My expected companion disappeared somewhere and was nowhere to be found.  I went to hotel hoping he will be waiting there but no. So lined him only to receive message that he is angry with me because he noticed I tipped few guys just for sitting , drinking and talking.  Clearly PP air is not good for me this time, sigh. But I got bright idea to offer him what I’d pay CCP tonight and shortly he was on his way.
 
 What I thought as consolation price was consolation indeed. He turned out very warm and yet energetic  guaranteeing sleepless steamy night  for us both. Probably best of that whole trip.
 

Pre-Covid I met a guy online and fell madly in lust. I met him on an app but followed him on Instagram. Covid came and I was scared to go out and he got a BF and was off the market. For 3 years I have followed his every move still in lust. About 4 months back, he broke up and we started chatting heavily. Now, LINE at least 20 times a day from morning till night. Last week he met for dinner and we had a great time but no sex. I told him I could wait till he was ready. This week, he said he has Sunday off and will spend the weekend with me. I am more than just a bit excited. This is a potential true love. The guy I'll spend the rest of my life with. I may get his name tattoo plastered on my body. Should I go ahead and apply for immigration for a visit to the US?  I am beyond giddy.

Hi all,
I came across this really interesting video on YouTube about the history and future plans of the Bangkok mass transit system. I really like seeing this sort of stuff. Seems like every time I come to Bangkok, more new stations are opening up which is great! Hopefully all the planned routes eventuate. I much prefer this method of transport whilst visiting Bangkok (when I manage to venture out of Silom that is..)
 

Richard Barrow describes a recent train journey to Udon Thani. His report includes some great photography, cultural and tourists places of interest along with places to stay and eat. Makes me want to buy a ticket and go.

Good morning from Udon Thani Railway Station in Northeastern Thailand. I came here on Special Express No. 25 from Bangkok last night. I had booked a bed in the 2nd Class sleeper carriage which cost 977 Baht for the lower berth. The train left Bangkok at 8:25 p.m. and arrived in Udon Thani at 5:44 a.m. So, it was about nine hours. I had a good night’s sleep.





Continues with photos:
https://www.richardbarrow.com/2023/02/weekend-train-trip-to-udon-thani/
 

BTW Zack is a really good bottom boy 😁 I enjoyed him a lot...

Don't you realise how childish it looks? And how difficult to read? This may be how you write to friends but posters on this boards are used to a form of English they mostly comprehend. Having to try and work out what another poster is trying to say negates the point of the posts! It's merely an affectation that perhaps is supposed to look trendy. Sorry to day: it doesn't! 

All this interest in Grindr I find interesting because:
Recently, I was discussing with one of my Thai friends how we can increase their visibility (for marketing purposes) in the Pattaya / Jomtien gay falang community.  We noted that this type of marketing is done much better in the Bangkok gay falang community than it is here in Pattaya / Jomtien.  In fact, the masseurs are often marketed by the massage shops that they work in with individual profile names that include a QR code that allows for the end-user to obtain additional information and to make a direct booking.  
Below is an example from the K Man Spa shop where each masseur has his own distinct profile with his contact and booking details.               https://kmanspa.blogspot.com/p/kmanspa.html
Why doesn't this type of approach exist here in Jomtien / Pattaya ?
                
Together we designed some prototype business cards and web page prototypes and when we got to the various social media items to include - we were able to have a profile name for ALL of the various social media (Line, Facebook, Hornet, PlanetRomeo, Blued, Instagram, Twitter, Telegram, TikTok, Whatsapp, etc.), EXCEPT for Grindr - because Grindr does not contain a Profile Name and/or Profile ID - like Hornet and Line do.
So, Grindr was the anomaly and cannot be easily inserted into someone's desire to market themselves.

Burapa – 2023 – Back to the Culture – Ride for Peace motorbike parade

Background
Being a new retiree in the Pattaya / Jomtien area I am trying to experience many of the unique Thai cultural events that take place in my new home country, Thailand.

This report is about the annual BURAPA Bike Week event that takes place each year (except during the pandemic years) in Pattaya.

How did I find out about this unusual event? I am a member of the PCEC (Pattaya City Expats Club) and on 11 January 2023, Richard Rhodes, one of the founders of Burapa, was invited to give a talk about their annual event.
Pattaya Mail article about the PCEC presentation of BURAPA
I do not own a motorbike and I barely know how to drive one. So, I was not driven to see this event because of that but instead to see/learn about a different kind of not well known Thai happening. The below PRIME video gives a good summary of what they are about.
Prime Video - Burapa: Bikers of the East
Logistics
I don’t own a car or motorbike, so, with 2 of my local friends (Thai / Laos – they were featured in my earlier New Year’s week events posting here), we took a BOLT taxi to the event. My Thai friend has a car – but he wanted to be able to drink and that is why we took a BOLT taxi.

The Burapa Bike Week event is held at the Eastern National Sports Training Center in what the locals of Pattaya call, “the dark side” = Eastern Pattaya – east of the railroad tracks. Below map indicates where it is on the right hand side. It was a 120 baht fare from the Jomtien Dongtan beach area, and took about 35 minutes. Unfortunately, Google took us on a wild goose chase where for the last part of the trip it sent us on long and windy dirt roads that circumvent the northern part of these large grounds in true darkness – as there were no street lights. However, there was a ton of traffic – so it was slow going.
    
For the return trip back to Pattaya – we made the mistake of trying to get a BOLT taxi from the northern point that we entered at – which is dark and on a dirt non asphalted road. The first 2 BOLTs that we called gave up – even though my 2 friends who can speak Thai tried to navigate the BOLT drivers to where we were – it was just too dark to find us – even though there was a ton of traffic all around us. So, now I know where the “Dark Side” of Pattaya originates from.

I prepared the below map for all of you so you can avoid our mistake – which was caused by Google navigation that the original BOLT driver used.

I strongly suggest that you arrive and depart this event from the SOUTH part of these grounds on the well lite Chaiyaphruek 2 Road. See the below 2 exit points indicated in green. The third BOLT driver that eventually found us where the above RED X is indicated on the below map – explained to us that for future visits we should always wait for a taxi on Chaiyaphruek 2 Road – as it is asphalted and well lite. Our trip back to Pattaya (Jomtien) was a breeze and quick.
       
Ride for Peace
On the third day of this 3 day event was the annual, “Ride for Peace”, where hundreds of motorbikes drive from the fairgrounds in eastern Pattaya down Beach Road in Pattaya City, and then continue onwards to Jomtien Beach Road and then return to the fairgrounds.

So, around 3:30pm, yesterday (11 Feb 2023), with my 2 friends we walked over to the Police Box at the beginning of Dongtan Beach to wait and watch for the arrival of the motorbikes. Some had said that 500 would come – but I estimate that around 200 motorbikes passed us on Beach Road. It was kind of exciting – more for the surprise of the many unaware tourists who were going about their beach business and for all of the bahtbuses that were blocked from moving until the 200 motorcyclists had passed by. This made me aware of the fact that this event is not well advertised / known outside of the motorcycle community. We even asked the local motorcycle taxi guys if they knew when the parade would start and they did not even know what we were talking about. So, my Thai friend went into the Police Box and they told us that they were already on our way as they had already left Pattaya City and were heading for Jomtien. In about 10 minutes the entire thing was over. Below is a photo from the short film that I made (notice the motorcyclist riding with a LARGE live snake).
 
Fair Grounds
This place is HUGE – so dress accordingly – in shoes/sneakers that are good to walk in and you do not mind walking in the dirt. They laid down hay everywhere to reduce the dust and this was very effective. The main attractions are:
The two BIG concert areas – structured on opposite sides of the fair grounds. One is exclusively Thai rock bands and the other one is foreign falang rock bands coming from the UK, Australia, USA, and Europe. There are plenty of places to sit and/or stand to watch the concerts and nearby are places to buy drinks (Chang beer was one of the main event sponsors), including cannabis infused drinks, like ganja. Performance area – where the motorbike guys show off their very interesting motorbikes – they slowly ride back and forth amongst the crowds. It makes this event very exciting – as if to be in a movie or Medieval or Renaissance festival. There were many sexy motorbike guys – especially the young ones. Market place – this was my favourite part of this festival. On the outer perimeter of the above mentioned areas, there are these narrow winding dirt paths FULL of individuals / organizations selling their wares. Including; t-shirts, leather wear, motorcycles – even Italian Vespas, Harleys, etc., pottery, knitwear that was very ornate and detailed – some of it was in native Indian style, places to eat, cannabis, tattoo shops, jewelry, food, drinks, opportunities to have your photos taken with various artistic types with a motorcycle emphasis, chances to sit ontop of horses and have your picture taken with native Indians (Thai people), visit Indian tepees, boot shops, etc. I was totally amazed of the potpourri of offerings that were available in this marketplace, as I had never seen anything like it before in my life. In conclusion, would I go again?
YES, but I would be better prepared – from a transportation point of view. Also, since this event is held over 3 days, I would try to arrive earlier – we arrived around 7pm – to instead arrive around 4:30pm – just to see some of the daytime shows and to see what the fair grounds look like during the day.

I highly recommend this event to all of you. Note that the entire access to the fairgrounds is FREE – great value for money. You only spend if you want to eat/drink or buy merchandise. The concerts and entertainment are ALL free.

I share some of my pictures below.









 

Men advised against masturbating during video calls
by Wassayos Ngamkham   February 14, 2023   Pol Col Siriwat Deephor, deputy chief of the Technology Crime Suppression Division (TCSD), advises men not to masturbate during video calls, or they might end up being blackmailed.  Police have warned that men who masturbate during video calls may leave themselves open to blackmail by gangs using phoney profile photos of beautiful women.
Quite a few Thai males, both children and adults, had already fallen prey to these gangs, Pol Col Siriwat Deephor, deputy chief of the Technology Crime Suppression Division (TCSD), said on Tuesday.
The gangs used bogus photos of attractive women in their profiles and sent friend requests to potential victims on social media. After they became online friends, the chats would become sexually oriented and eventually the victims would be enticed into turning on their camera and then masturbating during a video call.
The gangs recorded the videos and used them to blackmail the victims, the TCSD spokesman said.
If the victims refused to pay, the gangs would threaten to send the masturbation videos to their friends or family, or to make them public online.
Normally, the gangsters concentrated on extorting money from their victims and did not publish the videos. However, recently some videos had been disseminated even though the victims had paid the money. This caused damage to the victims, Pol Col Siriwat said.
He advised men not to masturbate during any video call or send such videos or photos to anyone.
People with information about the operations of these gangs could alert police via https://tcsd.go.th around the clock, he said.
https://www.bangkokpost.com/thailand/general/2506199/men-advised-against-masturbating-during-video-calls
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If these fools want to try blackmailing me, go for it!  They would send the videos to friends, family, or publish online?  Fine with me.  When it comes to masturbation, I would be delighted for them to provide the proof that at my age, I still can . . .

I also like 3some - massages - 4 hands and I don't like to do it in the massage shop - so I pay a premium over what others here in Pattaya / Jomtien pay to do it in the massage shop.
I pay 2.000 baht to each guy - 2 massage guys - so, 4.000 baht.
Some will sure SCREAM and say that I am overpaying for this local market but I do not believe so by much more.
Here is an example if I do the same thing in a massage shop:
 500 paid to the massage shop
1.500 tip paid to guy #1
1.500 tip paid to guy #2
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3.500 to do it at the massage shop instead of the comfort of my home where I control the music, lighting, oils and lotions that we use, what we drink, fun chat time also on my balcony to know the guys better.  Also, at home I do not need to worry about some things that freak me out at some of the massage shops;
 bugs and insects, where do I put my valuables when I take my shower, strange smells, temperature is too hot or too cold, I do not like the music, etc.
so, for a 500 baht premium I am VERY happy to "order in" for my massage fun...
 

Congrats to OP. You are in line for a medal at the gay sex Olympics.
☺️

Taking one for the team - I visited the Boyz Music show bar (part time disco) last night - as I had the occassion to visit Boyztown with the partner of @AndyUK, who are here on vacation and we were hanging out in the Jomtien Complex.  
Here is a picture of their new stage, DJ booth, and upfront seating area.

Here is a picture of the bar and the main seating area.

Here are 2 pictures of the various drink price lists.  Note that drinks for the staff are 350 baht - whereas a beer for you is 200 baht.
     
I had a chance to make a very brief interview with one of the workers there.
What time does this place open?  1am
What time does this place close? - he would not say it verbally but showed me with his fingers to be 3am.  As we know the curfew is 2am.  Rumor says that it stays open until 4am.
Is there dancing?  He replied yes.
What kind of music does the DJ play?  Techno, house, pop-techno.  I said, what about retro music for us falangs?  He replied, "can can..."
Andy's partner and I, our real mission was to go to X-boys to see their lovely and VERY sexy show.  If you want to see big cocks, touch them, fucking, etc. then this is your place.  The X-Boys show is MUCH more participatory than the BoyzBoyzBoyz show - which is more industrialized and less hands on.  And the BIGGEST plus is the music at X-Boys is loud but tolerable, whereas, the last time I stepped foot in BoyzBoyzBoyz, with visiting member, @spoon was intolerable as they seated us underneath one of their humungous speakers - and I was nauseous, felt pain in my heart as my heart beats were in conflict with the base beats coming from the speaker and I could not hear properly for 3 days afterwards.
After our X-Boys fun - we passed by again at the NEW Boyz Music place, and it was about 1:15am and their show was about to show and the go-go guys were up on the stage and 90% were fully clothed and looked like the SAME guys who parade on the BoyzBoyzBoyz stage.  We did not stay for the show and we did not stay to see if after the show there was truly the possibility to dance.  The music was that techno trash that I do not care much for - as I am more into retro music where there are real people singing and pouring their hearts out - like the great divas - that is mixed well with a nice dance beat.
Ok, I took one for the team (this readership) - now it is your turn for one of you night owls who can resist until 4am to tell us what really unveils during the night at the newly reopened Boyz Music show bar / disco - located on the left when entering Boyztown from Second Road.
 

Day 6
Started off with a coconut water on my way to see U for the daily foot massage. Found out it was his day off, and he had come in just for me. Very thoughtful. It was, as always, delightful. Since I haven't yet had a Thai massage, I decided to walk over to Prime and make an appointment. Went over to Silom Edge for lunch then quick stop at hotel. Back to Prime for my appointment. 90 minutes of Thai massage is basically paying a guy to beat you up. They really do manage to put their hands, feet, elbows, and knees in every conceivable muscle. I was sore afterwards, so I decided to get a relaxing massage. Conveniently, a very sexy and muscular guy hit me up on Grindr. Works in a shop but also freelances, apparently. He's been mentioned on the forum previously, so I had planned to go to his shop to visit him anyway. But lucky me, he does hotel calls. He was at the hotel in 30 minutes, and gave me a very relaxing massage. After, he asked "anything else?" Well- yes actually. He also bottoms like a champ! I will definitely see him again.
Decided to go to Hotmale Beer Bar for a beer and to bring the guys there some cookies- they have been great to hang out with on this trip. Then over to Circus for the show. Back to Hotmale where I had to take a call. S, from the other day, spotted me from the balcony of Hotmale and made heart gestures to me so I went up to say hello. We had a beer and I decided to off him again. So we went back to Soi 4 for a couple beers at Connections. Watched the people go by until it was time to head back to the hotel. S was just as accommodating as the last time, and we slept in each others arms. He is a very sweet guy and also works at a restaurant in the daytime. I was headed to Pattaya in the morning so we woke up, had a quickie, showered and he left to go to the restaurant. I packed and got my car to Pattaya. More later...

BKK, with ur prmission I'd suggest u hop over there during normal hours, just to inquire.
If it's true, ur 1st dance visit there is on me. I'd like to partake from afar in ur "dream come true".....     (-:

yes, this is my problem because as you know - I am usually in bed by midnight.
but, if I knew that this NEW club / disco was really operational and open then I could take a disco nap from 10pm until 12 midnight and then head over to Boyztown to check it out.
I would hate to do that and everything is already closed because of the 2am curfew.....

Days 4 and 5
Catching up now, as I was too busy being in Bangkok to write about being in Bangkok! So day 4 started alone at my hotel having asked Banana Room guy to leave. I got up and had coffee, then went for my usual foot rub with U. Every day, U asks "full body today?" and I reply "no- just foot". Well, today when he asked, i said- why not? So we went up seemingly endless stairs to a room for the massage. I showered and got on the table and U came in. He knows exactly how to trail his fingers in all the right places to create a very erotic experience. Mid massage he asks if he should take his clothes off- of course he should! So now we are both naked and he continues teasing me with his hands. As I said- he is not really my type, so I do not take things further. But I am very satisfied with the massage and a handy J. He even sneaks his finger down below which I do not usually care for, but he's so sensual, I actually liked it. Showered and tipped, then went down to Soi Convent for Papaya Salad.
I had a date set up with P for that afternoon. P is a Thai guy I met on a previous trip. He's smart, driven, and super sexy. Totally boyfriend material, if only we lived in the same hemisphere. I haven't seen him since BC, so it has been a while and I am excited to catch up. I took the BTS to meet him, and he spotted me on the street and gave me a big hug. He suggested we walk to a restaurant and go early since it will be crowded. The walk to the place was an adventure in itself. Not someplace a Farang would normally find, I think. It is called Phet Chao Phraya- right along the river in a residential area. P was right- it quickly filled with locals as we sat and had dinner. Issan style food with commensurate spice- absolutely delicious. After dinner we drop into Shenanigans for a drink as it is still early. The tension between us is almost too much to take, so we come back to the hotel and have amazing, mind-blowing sex. If there is a position known to gaydom we didn't try, I'd be shocked. He shoots with me deep inside him, and then we hit the shower. After, we went to Coco Walk for some more drinks and live music. We take the train back to Silom and say goodbye- I went to Hotmale Beer Bar for a last pint, and call it a night. P wore me out!
Started Day 5 with some work emails and then went to meet a grindr guy for coffee. Had a great hour long talk and we decide to meet up again soon. I go for another heavenly foot massage with U. While there, another guy working at the hop had a stroke of good luck and won big money in the Thai lottery. He screamed and started jumping ip and down! I felt it tacky to ask how much, but it was enough that he was shaking and crying while making phone calls to tell his friends/family. A truly awesome moment to see- I hope it was millions! After the massage I went for a Papaya salad at the traditionally-Thai named Happy Beer Garden, then went to the hotel to shower and get ready for the evening.
I made a plan with Texas from Day 3 to hit some of the bars. We started at Connections while I figured out what he wanted to see. He likes twinky guys, so we went over to Fresh Boys. After being seated I explained he could call a guy down and within minutes he has a little guy for Laos by his side. Texas wanted to see a show, so he tipped the boy and we went over to Dream Boys. The show was pretty good, except for the very untalented drag performer. She must be related to the owner, because man oh man is she terrible. Anyway, while we are there, Texas grindrs a nearby guy, so we go to Hotmale Beer bar so they can meet. I leave them there to make a connection, as third wheels are not the look. I decided to go over to Banana Room and see if the guy from the other night is there. He is, and so I off him for short time. We got back to the hotel, and I made sure he knew that the other night was just me being tired. Great sexy bottom boy- worthy of a repeat. After we showered, he left and I finally, exhausted, fall into bed. I am only in Bangkok one more day before I travel to Pattaya for the first time. More later...
 

Vinapu, this is VERY good advice.  I have had 2 separate occasions that I can remember where I was hungry before a scheduled massage and I ate.  That is a BIG no-no.  During the massage I felt like I was going to vomit several times depending on where the masseur(s) were pressing on my body.  At one point, I had to tell the masseur that I was getting off of the massage table as I felt like I would vomit - he was worried it was him - I said, no, it was my stupidity - I ate shortly before the massage.  Anyway, we changed the program around and had the fun part first and then the completion of the massage afterwards and I am happy to say that NO hurls were ejected from my stomach.

Day 3
Day 3 began with a morning session with my sexy Filipino J. After, we walked to Silom soi 26, but were too late forthe morning vendors and too early for the afternoon vendors. I thought we may end up at Unesco World Heritage, but J suggested we try Silom Edge fool court. There are about 12-15 options and we had a nice lunch there. Open 24 hours too, for that late night snack. After lunch we said goodbye as I had plans for the afternoon.
Went back to the hotel and showered, did some work, then walked over to Senso. Greeted by about 15 guys, each cuter than the next, but one guy, J, was wearing glasses and so cute, so he was my pick. Let's just say, I picked well. The massage started with my feet and legs, then back and shoulders. J was named from the beginning and feeling his body against mine was exceptional. When it came time to turn over, he asked what I like- I told him I am a top. He took a moment then went and got his supply pouch. He slapped a condom on me and lubed up and began to sit on my cock. It wasn't going well at first. I could tell he didn't bottom a lot. So, he pulled out some poppers and with a few whiffs of that he managed to get all the way down. We stayed in that position for a while as he got used to it but once he was comfortable, it was off to the races. His sexy abs and pecs were amazing to see and feel while we fucked. An absolute delight and highly recommended.  Tipped him, well, in the room then went down to pay. The ugly mamasan at the counter tried to quote me a higher price than on the menu. I refused and showed her the menu price. Shame on her- anf I remmerb that happening there once before. I do not mind paying a premium price for a premium service, but don't overcharge from the price list. 
Went back to hotel and showered. A quick pint with the boys of Hotmale Beer Bar, then off to Circus for dinner and part of the drag show. After, I bought some of the knock-off underwear on Silom and took it back to the hotel. I was feeling kind of tired, but decided to go out anyway. Ended up at Banana Room where I was seated next to a very drunk Chinese customer with a bottle of Bacardi (gross) and multiple shot glasses generally making a spectacle of himself by giving shots and tips to the staff. Not my style so I moved down and was seated in the front. There were a couple cuties, but I thought I might have an early night. Just then, an American from Texas came in and was seated right behind me. We started chatting and it turns out to be his first time night in Bangkok ever, and he was amazed. I explained how it all works, and he said "So they're all prostitutes" I replied "Well, that's a rather unartful word, but yes". I called down a cute guy that had been making eyes at me during the show to demonstrate to Texas how it works. Shortly, Texas left as his Grindr was blowing up, and I ended up offing the guy. We got back to my hotel, but I was really tired so I paid the tip to the boy, and asked him to leave. He apologized profusely, but I assured him he did nothing wrong- I was just totally zonked. So day three ended alone, but that was perfectly fine, as J had worn me out that afternoon. And, I had a date with P the next night anyway, so a good night sleep seemed like a good idea. I will explain P in the next post. More later...

First time trip report- please be kind. 
Arrived Thursday night/Friday morning. Flight was uneventful and we landed at BKK at about midnight. Took about 20 mins through immigration and bags were already rolling out. Picked up my bag and went to get a cab. Stall number 46 was my guy, and away we went. The driver was hauling ass most of the ride, and then slowed down to a crawl on the mostly empty highway. I realized he didn't know how to get to The Raya- (thanks Vinapu), despite me showing him the address in Thai. I whip out google maps and then direct the ride for the final 20 mins. Upon arrival, I suggest the driver should pay me since I did the navigation. He didn't think this was quite as funny as I did, but I tipped him well so all was forgiven. Checked in, checked the apps, and passed out.
Friday- I decided to walk around to see what had changed since the pandemic. I walked past Green Massage to see if my guy was still there. It was relatively early, but there were only 2/3 people sitting outside, and my guy was not one of them. (When in Bangkok, I like to treat myself to a foot massage almost every day, as it's so cheap. I found a guy at Green that is great. Once, he convinced me to go upstairs for a full body massage, and it got sexy! He's not really my type, but he was so nice and eager, so I enjoyed the massage and the extras with him. Let's call him U. I figured he went back home during the pandemic and I would never see him again, but I went to check anyway. Hope springs eternal they say.) So, as I walked past the dog leg near Prime Massage, I am almost at Silom Road when I hear me name being called. Turn around, and there's U! He's a at Relax Thai Massage now- on the right after the dogleg. The guys there all wear black. Anyway, we hug and chat for a minute, and I tell him I will be back in an hour and get a foot massage. AMAZING start to Day 1. But I was on a mission so I continued on my way to: Foodland! I needed to get my favorite facial soap and they sell it there. I got the soap and some other things and check out. I was tempted to drop into the Unesco World Heritage Site 5 Michelin starred restaurant, but I had a foot massage scheduled and I needed to drop off my purchases. So we will have to save it's delights for another day.
Foot massage was great, as always, and U would stick his hands up my shorts and tickle my balls every once in a while- I would smile and he would giggle. He's very sweet and I am glad he is back in Bangkok. We chatted about the pandemic and losing work for so long (I also lost work the entire time) so I could fully empathize. Massage ended and Ieft with a promise to return the next day for another. Paid and tipped and went to lunch at Mango Tree. I have a tradition of Pad Thai at Mango for my first lunch in Bangkok. I also wanted to see the situation on that soi, so I walked down that way after lunch. Couldn't really figure out what was happening with the new place Queen or New Twilight or whatever- confusing to say the least. Will need further investigation.
Back to hotel to relax for a minute and shower as I was heading to Arena in the late afternoon.  I walked down Silom and into the plaza were Arena is. Went up and was met outside by the boss man. He said something as he opened the door, and about 20/25 guys all hopped up. I usually just pick a guy I like the looks of and see what happens. In this case it was a muscular guy who had a really great smile and seemed eager. So up I went with Mike. We got to the room and I took another shower. Mike comes in and he showers and is just as sexy naked as I thought. He speaks decent English and is nervously chatting and laughing. He tells me it's his first day, which of course I do not believe. But when the massage starts, I think- maybe it's true... Instead of a half-assed attempt at massage, I start to get pulled and twisted and pummeled as in a traditional Thai massage. This is unexpected, but very nice. The nervous chatter and laughter continues throughout. He also places little kisses and bites on my ass every once in a while- nice touch! About 20 mins later, he starts with the requested cream massage. This feels awesome and he uses his strong arms and body all over me. He grabs my hand and puts in on his nice sized rock hard cock. He then asks to fuck me- but I am a top so I say "I fuck you!"  More nervous laughter as he apologizes, but I say it's OK- no problem. We continue the massage and he starts to jerk me off and play with my ass. It's not gonna happen, but does feel nice. The ending was strong and I was sweaty. I get in the shower and he gets in with me and soaps me up and continues to grind on me and smack my ass- like we are in the locker room. He tells me several more times that I am the one to "open" him- meaning first customer. We dry off and get dressed and he playfully changes out my shoes with his- all the while laughing and joking with me. It was a thoroughly enjoyable experience for sure! Was I really his first customer? Or was that just more Magic of Thailand? I suppose there's no way to know, but it was a great afternoon.
Back to hotel, short nap, and then off to get some dinner. I stopped in Hotmale Beer Bar and had a pint. Chatted with the guys there, then on to Soi 4, as I haven't yet seen it with life. It was hopping at about 8 pm! Went to Circus and had some fried rice and another pint. Then off to Dreamboys to see how it was. I loved Lucky Boys, so I was hopeful. Well- let's just say the guys weren't great. Seated in the back and left alone by the managers, and there were probably 25 other customers inside. There were a few guys that would be fine, but as it was early, I paid the outrageous sum of 500 baht for my beer, and ventured over to Hotmale upstairs. Only 4 other customers there. But i ordered a beer and there were some cuties for sure. One guy caught my eye, number 32. Cambodian guy, super cute, gay, and speaks good English! Score! He goes and gets his clothes and I pay for our beers and the bar fine and off we go.
As it wasn't even 10pm yet, we walked back over to Soi 4, and a tout that I knew from BC (before covid) managed to pull us into Banana Room. The show was going on, so we were seated by the infamous Lucy. I am feeling generous, so I buy Lucy a drink, for old times sake. My Cambodian (S) enjoyed the show- said he had never seen it before. I also gave him a few red notes to tip the performers which he seemed to like doing. We watch the show and it ends with big cocks on the metal pole. Pay the tab and head out. 
We dropped back by Hotmale Beer Bar for a nightcap and talked. S was very touchy-feely and planted kisses on my cheek and lips. Very friendly and fun. Paid up there and went back to the hotel.
As soon as we get int he door, he drops his clothes. I ask if he wants a shower. No, he says. After, with you. Alright then. So we get into bed and he lived up to his promise to do everything. And everything we did. A really passionate and fun guy! We hopped in the shower after and went to bed. Snuggled all night then woke up and had a morning session. We got each other off again, showered and he left. So that's how my morning started on Day 2. He is a definite repeat.  More later...

If you contact the spa manager over line and choose two guys and tell him you want them to fuck each other, of course they will say no. I mean being a bit sensible has a long way to go. Just because you have money you cannot order people to do things as you wish. Massage places are massage places so technically speaking, asking their therapists to fuck each other bluntly like that is a big no in my opinion.
If it's a massage place, just ask for a four hand massage. Because it is a massage place... usually I hire someone I like and ask him if he can arrange a four hand massage with someone else at the shop. They usually point a friend who they are comfortable with and usually show the friend if you are at the shop. But I warn you that finding the sexual matches in threesome is really tricky so you might wanna talk about the details with the guy whose trust you earned. Do it before the meeting because you cannot control many things at the shop. Agree on what you want from threesome so that you are happy after spending your dime.
If you hire a freelancer from apps, it is a lot easier because you can tell them exactly what you want and who you want. They will send you the pictures of the other guy and his role etc. But I would say hire him first and then bring threesome. It makes your hiring more pleasant and fun when you have the chemistry.

make sure you go to gym daily for  a week or two beforehand as fuck on the lap requires some substantial gymastics