Mavica
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Thank you for sharing the clip. I don't know what the story-line is for this short video clip, or if you need someone to assist with production. If it were me producing the videos and i didn't want to hire someone to help me with production ... I'd probably study the most popular gay porn videos available online to learn some production values. The masks/head coverings are a turn-off for me and the bodies of the two individuals in the clip aren't to my liking. ☹️
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On 9/6/2022 at 8:16 PM, maump said:
Fox is fake news, MSNBC is consider the far left, CNN is left of center, especially in the opinion shows. But the new direction from the new owner is to treat the republicans as honest people with a different viewpoint; instead of a pack of well documented power seeking lying hypocrites.
Not really. CNN has consistently, for many years now, contracted with and paid spokespersons/supporters of the various Presidents to appear and present their viewpoint. No other network does this. It's not something new. CNN has been consistent in offering "both sides" in those panel discussions.
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4 hours ago, Olddaddy said:
But I'm not one now to waste time working continually for money my goal this year starting from October 1st to December 31 is to suck as many cocks , and be fucked
I don't know you personally. I have an impression, though, after reading many of your postings on Thai forum and on the Philippines, etc. I'm left with the impression that you are uncomfortable with being gay, how others may view you and your sexual preference and other things in your life ... and that you throw caution to the wind and are unconcerned not only about your own health ... but about that of others who follow behind you and trick with the same young men. For me, it begs the question: do you value your life? Harsh comments? Yes. But sincerely offered from someone approaching his mid-70s.
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Risks are not just to us individually, but to many others. I will act responsibly, and the risk to me is too great to frequent the GP saunas in Rio - or elsewhere - so I've decided to postpone/cancel a possible Fall trip to Rio. For me, the level of risk is not "doable". We sleep with the many others our partners have slept with. All too many people forget about or were not alive in the 80s when HIV hit and devastated our community. Yes, immunize ourselves if we can / want. But let's be real, and responsible for our health and the health of others. Ok, sermon is over! 😁
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Don't the Thai specific topics belong in the Thailand forum?
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There have been questions raised about criminal charges against one of the two, who, in video's, is seen wearing an ankle monitoring device? Criticism has been posted elsewhere about the age of one or more of the sex partners. Just asking.
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No, the sky is not falling.
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4 hours ago, floridarob said:
I just can't wrap my head around how the Thai's and others get farang's so brainwashed into supporting them financially.
I think I understand. An older gay guy who prefers/enjoys the companionship of slight-build younger men is flattered when that young man fawns over him, pleases or slightly pleases him sexually, etc. It's a relationship many guys don't have the opportunity of back home - so they don't want to let go. Smart, intelligent (otherwise) farangs. Such relationships/financing isn't limited to Thailand, as we know. And it's not limited to just the gay community. Straight men and Pinoy women (as one example) ... you see/hear a lot of the same commentary. In the Philippines, it's not just the girl/young lady you help support ... but her extended family (sometimes true in Thailand). I've known many young men in Mexico who have had 2 or 3 foreigners financially supporting them - at the same time. I'd laugh watching the Mexicans juggling the visits of their backers/lovers (particularly in Acapulco). "A fool and his money are soon parted" (Thomas Tusser).
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10 hours ago, macaroni21 said:
Personally, I am a collector of details, but it would be presumptuous of me to expect the same of anybody else ...
I am similar. Thank you for the comment, and request(s).
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7 hours ago, floridarob said:
https://cruisingforsex.com/
Most of the stuff is old and out of date...but gives you an idea at least.You're right. There was a time, maybe 15-20 years ago, I posted extensively to CFS. It was one of the best cruising websites, contributed to by some awesome people. I remember, too, Dreaded Ned's Thailand forums to which I posted. What a free for all that was! I recognize a couple of names on this forum who also posted there, back in the day.
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I have been visiting the Philippines for over 15 years. And I have meet many many handsome Pinoy guys. All of them were cut and none were butchered.
I've tricked with quite a few Pinoy young men here in the USA. Most if not all were physically stunning, great in bed. None were "butchered". Fond memories!
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23 hours ago, t0oL1 said:
Good news for sheep but more studies will be done. Some of us need this now. Actually prescribed for me after my prostrate cancer surgery for rehab and still taking this at my own expense.
"Need"? I doubt it. "Desired"? For some, yes. I, too, am a prostate cancer survivor.
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3 hours ago, reader said:Guess I'll just count myself as very lucky. The last six years of my life have been the happiest of the preceding 70. Up until that point I'd always considered myself a committed butterfly.
I don't concern myself with "true" love. I'm perfectly happy just to have someone simply to love. I don't need a litmus test with which to measure it.
We insulate ourselves by the use of language. We become "clients", young men become "professionals." That makes it easier to put the required emotional distance between us. For many, that's a healthy way to look at it. The parties part ways without emotional baggage.
I tip my hat to all those who find contentment in their later years without any emotional attachments. At one time I counted myself in that camp. And then a simple smile turned my life on a dime. You may think of me as foolhardy and delusional. So be it. But you can't feel what I feel; know what I know.
We all came to Thailand because we sought sexual intimacy we couldn't find at home. Please be tolerant of those of us who discovered emotional intimacy and affection in that same pursuit.
Not all of us came to Thailand "because we sought sexual intimacy we couldn't find at home." Depending on age, yes ... many. My first visit to BKK was in 1992 - 30 years ago. At the time I was not partnered but had a very active sex life in Chicago where I lived. I also traveled to many other countries. Sex wasn't the only reason for these travels, but it was an important 'add on". The only country I've made a first trip to for sex ... was Brazil; Rio de Janeiro.
I've never lived in Thailand, but I have lived on other countries. The longest length of time I've lived "abroad" was the 6 years I spent living/working in Mexico; Mexico City.
In Mexico I was in my 40s and had sex to a level as if I was starving (and then having been fulfilled!). Sometimes, early-on, I had sex with 4 or 5 guys in a single day. If it walked, I'd fuck it. It was an extraordinary time in my life. As I satisfied the urge I developed repeat encounters with probably a half-dozen guys. They'd just show up on my doorstep, unannounced. I loved each one of them, and there were periods of time when one or two would live / stay with me for varying lengths of time (a weekend, a week, three months, a year, etc.). Mostly young men from the country, making periodic visits to the big city. Not just in Mexico City, but in Acapulco. A couple of them were elite military. Awesome lovers, each.
Direct payment of money for sex/companionship wasn't always expected. When it was, it was (at the time) relatively minimal (Peso equivalent of US$20/50 per stay, usually). Though, one was a dental student who needed US$200 for dental school tuition (one of the most fantastic fucks I've ever had). They'd stay with me, I'd give them a place to stay, feed them, do their laundry, buy them some new clothing, a return bus ticket home ... and in two instances money to get them across the border into the USA to join family members (one of whom perished working in the World Trade Center 9/11).
"True love"? Yes. At my age, I've learned to accept what comes my way - with gratitude. Share my affections and accept those of others ... without demands from either side. I have no problem sharing what I have, when I have it with partners (temporary or not) when they need help.
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On 8/22/2022 at 5:57 PM, Boy69 said:
,,, it is very rare to find true love ...
"true love"? In a gay or straight relationship, "true" can be elusive. Both in the relationship are looking for something, oftentimes it's different. We oftentimes, too, compromise to get what we want.
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20 hours ago, Slvkguy said:
So no, I wouldn’t hire him based on the inferior ad and the reported “rushed” services & “attitude”, but If that meets your “standards” - go for it.
Please don't troll this individual because you don't like buffed bodies, big dicks, etc. I'm suspecting you have an ulterior motive posting such negative comments about someone you say you don't know. 💋
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15 hours ago, Slvkguy said:
He may very well, be hot AF and the ad may be accurate. However, there are many better ads where the dicks don’t appear photoshop and there are several clear videos of actual fucking. I always go with the ads where there are fewer questions and/or red flags.
Personally, I don't see the red flags you do, but to each his own standards. I know something about photoshop and that video isn't photoshopped and those photos of him holding the big dick give me no concern that they aren't accurate. Just because the advertisement doesn't meet your standards doesn't equate to it or he being deceptive. Those of us who may hire him always have the opportunity to communicate with him and ask for more detail - and his Whatsapp number is included. What if a reader on the forum suggests you have ulterior motives shading this guy? If untrue you wouldn't like being called dishonest, either. 🙄
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2 hours ago, Slvkguy said:
if this is the person you’re referencing - a couple red flags:
his profile doesn’t state dick size, no clear picture of hard dick, no videos of him fucking, & very few reviews. This is someone I would avoid as it appears deceptive at worst and at best, he has no idea how to advertise his services online - which also translates to clueless. There are basic things that need to be in an online profile before I would even contact to begin further vetting to hire.
Maybe you and I have looked at different individuals. When I click on the link I viewed a video which shows a handsome body and big dick (not erect), and there is a still photo of him with an erect dick. I agree with vetting someone before hiring, but calling this individual's listing as deceptive is a bit of a stretch - based solely on the information contained in the advertisement. 🙄
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21 minutes ago, zoomomancs said:
Thank you for a great update. Re the age of consent in Vietnam, does anyone know why Google confusingly says it is 16 and 18? I have had a few fabulous meets in Vietnam and want to stay the right side of the law on my next trip.
If you are a citizen or permanent resident of the USA, my understanding is that it's a violation of USA federal law to travel abroad and have sex with someone under the age of 18 - no matter the age of consent adopted by a particular foreign nation which may be less.
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9 hours ago, Olddaddy said:
I think many with social anxiety can get hot sweats , etc when they get into crowded buses or trains
I've read many of your comments, and a good number of them demonstrate you are judgmental about others. I'm wondering, are you merely shining a light on many of your own personal problems ... or do you have specialized training?
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7 hours ago, Vessey said:
Invariably the boy and the farang will be looking for different things from any relationship. Farangs can easily fall in lust/love with their boy, but it is probably unrealistic to expect that a boy would lust after his farang unless there is only a small age difference?
The boy is more likely looking for financial security, maybe status, maybe travel opportunities etc; sex with his farang is just an accepted part of the package?
In the end it surely doesn't matter that each look for different things from the relationship; just as long as each gets what they want out of the relationship?
Or maybe I am just an old cynic? 🤣
A substantial age difference, coupled with cultural/language differences can be a prescription for disagreement and disappointment all-around. I'll suggest that relatively few such relationships survive any length of time. But, yes, there are those that do work - daddy/son - and financial and emotional security will almost always be the reasons - for the younger of the two and the financial support the farang will provide the younger man's family. "Love", well, it's subjectively defined. Many "straight" relationships are no different. Money and other security is the glue that binds. And, yes, each of us ... both sides of the relationship - take what we can for our own reasons. Hopefully, we do this without abuse of any sort.
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13 hours ago, Slvkguy said:
The Biden Administration is clearly responsible for the American failure re: monkeypox. We don’t get to excuse those we voted for and only blame the ones we didn’t.
The richest country in the world and we can’t seem to get much right.Oh, please! "American failure ..." is a bit melodramatic. So, if the USA has failed in the still developing situation ... which countries have gotten it right and whose advance preparations were the best or better?
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The NY Times is featuring an article on Monkeypox in the 09.12.2022 online edition (may require subscription to read in its entirety).
https://www.nytimes.com/2022/09/12/health/monkeypox-vaccines-treatments-equity.html