Phoenixblue
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Honestly, given the chance, I would love to explore the option of being married.
However, gay marriage, is a luxury that I am rarely afforded.
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4 minutes ago, reader said:
Do you believe in long engagements?
These 2 words carry many interpretations, perhaps you can be a tad more specific?
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6 hours ago, scott456 said:
He gave me a big load.
Lucky you.
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5 hours ago, Mavica said:
Many do and / or have been in committed relationships for decades, pre-Obergefell (in the USA).
Many do, no doubt, but they are still relatively in the minority among gay men..maybe I'm wrong and I hope that I am but that's what I think so far.
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28 minutes ago, Novarunner said:
I like some of my clients as well as some of the people I work with and others I tolerate because, yes, I do get paid since it is a job. My line of work is much different than GP but I still don’t see why that statement wouldn’t hold true here too.
You are fortunate to be in a line of work where you actually like some of the people you interact with. This case is not universally true though.
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23 hours ago, floridarob said:
Where do you fall for your country....are you surprised by this list, I was 😱
Who is this "World of Statistics? A UN agency?
I find it hard to imagine that they had to do a survey in India and Malaysia where the question put forward was when did you loose your virginity! To be more precise did they ammend that question with "did you loose your virginity with a member of the opposite sex or same sex?"
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15 hours ago, scott456 said:
Like I said, every dog has its day. I was fucked by a horny 22 year old French boy in Paris last week, for free.
Interesting. Care to give more details if you like? ✌️😍
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1 hour ago, Moses said:
With a $60 annual subscription, Hornet is the best app based on price, number of candidates, number of contacts, and search performance.
There is no one best app that is applicable worldwide. Different apps for different regions. Price/cost and reward ratios vary accordingly.
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3 minutes ago, vinapu said:
right , but doesn't mean they may not enjoy sex with their client
If they didn't enjoy it they wouldn't have done it Or maybe, like people in most jobs, they tolerate it just for getting paid.
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17 hours ago, TotallyOz said:
Things have changed so much in the USA since I lived there. I was recently able to attend a wedding for a relative who is marrying her gay partner. Growing up gay, I NEVER thought I'd see the day. And, I know we have a long way to go. But, damn, we have come a long way too. I often don't see the positive side of things, but seeing a room full of friends and family and all watching as a preacher read over the rituals, it really just took my breath away.
I then thought back to my first BF in NYC and how bad he wanted to marry and his family forced him back to Israel to marry a woman. I often wonder what would have happened if the world was different back then and now my life direction would have altered.
Anyway, it was just such a beautiful sight and so wonderful and truly life changing for me.
Is same sex marriage really that much of success? How many gay couples have remained married more than 5 years?
I am thankful that the option to get legally married exists but is it being utilized fully? Do gay men really want to enter into committed relationships?
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37 minutes ago, scott456 said:
Believe it or not, most GP do not enjoy sex with you. It's only work and money for them.
This is a Cardinal Rule that most men, for whatever reason, seem to overlook.
Love, romance and affection are not involved. It is a commercial transaction pure and simple. Men renting their bodies for sex are not in love with you.
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1 hour ago, Keithambrose said:
It could be said to be more of a philosophy. And as Vinapu has pointed out tolerance was not shown in Sri Lanka, or Myanmar.
Philosophy is abstract. Thai Buddhism is devotional; hence the common scenes up and down Thailand of folks praying to Buddha statues and other deities. Again the charm of it is the spiritual vibes in Thai temples, I admit I love the ambience of the chanting and incense and flower bouquets.
I never said Buddhism was perfect, yes it can get politicized as you mentioned in Myanmar but noway as close as to how other religions are. Buddhism is way more peaceful and tolerant, relatively speaking.
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22 hours ago, Keithambrose said:
Arguably, Buddhism is not a religion, in that Buddha is not a God, as I understand it.
Well religions are just systems that program their adherents to blindly follow a set of rules and regulations that regulate how they live their lives; as such Buddhism is indeed a religion. I think one of the charms of Thailand besides the awesome food and sex and architecture and people is the charm of the local branch of Buddhism practiced there. I do understand that Buddhism is far from perfect but it's much more "humane" in it's approach to life. Imagine what would happen if the world embraced the Thai version of Buddhism! It'll be alot more peaceful and tolerant; bonus point: more relaxed attitude towards sex 💗🌈
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11 hours ago, caeron said:
The Catholic Church wishes you to know that the creator of the universe, the alpha and the omega, the Omnipotent, Omnipresent, Omniscient and, of course, Omnibenevolent God who chose to incarnate as a human and kill himself so that he could forgive you is really, really, REALLY obsessed with what you do with your penis.
Because that's how the creator of millions of stars, planets, and life forms rolls.
They may also have a bridge in one of New York's boroughs that they'd like to sell you so that they can continue their holy works. Ministering to those who misuse their penes is at times a costly undertaking.
Add to that ALL the major world religions* currently embroiled in holy religious wars killing each other to prove that they are the only rightful way to God and His, He is always male, only representatives in existence. My God is better than yours.
*the exception being Buddhism?
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23 hours ago, Shonen said:
No, I tried it about 15 years ago and it was very painful. I’ve gotten used to shaving and trimming a lot. Even my penis near the head has hair on it.
It's not painful if you put numbing cream on your skin before treatment. It used to be painful before new devices were developed, now its not more painful than shaving. It's cool on your penis too (or anus) ! 😎
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22 hours ago, Shonen said:
I’d like all bears to go hibernate. Saying that, I’m probably the hairiest man on earth.
Have you considered getting laser treatment to remove body hair?
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4 hours ago, ChristianPFC said:
I have never come across White money boys on the apps, or read or heard anything. But there are Blacks, you can probably find a dozen in Bangkok, all on grindr, and some in Pattaya. Those I messaged in Bangkok all wanted 3500 THB.
There's this guy Alex mentioned on another thread here. Looks white to me. What do you think?
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4 hours ago, ChristianPFC said:
I have never come across White money boys on the apps, or read or heard anything. But there are Blacks, you can probably find a dozen in Bangkok, all on grindr, and some in Pattaya. Those I messaged in Bangkok all wanted 3500 THB.
That's a shame, would have loved to see European MBs in Thailand. Guess if I wanted to have that experience Spain would be an option or Czechia, but then ofcourse the costs would be more than double. Thank you for your answer.
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5 hours ago, ChristianPFC said:
On the gay forums, there is general agreement that Pattaya is the best place in the world for choice and price.
If you're looking for other nationalities in Pattaya or Thailand in general would the choice value still hold true? How about if in addition to Asian men one would like to meet say European guys (East European) would they be available and with less cost than in say Europe?
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About 4 years before "The Celluloid Closet" was released this gem of a film was made, "My Own Private Idaho." For many reasons it strikes a chord with my heart as it was made when I was young and the introduction of gay characters was starting to rise in earnest. Not to forget that the two main protagonists are among my favorites. It may not be an overtly gay movie but the the hints and tender moments make it all the more magical and haunting at the same time. It's portrayal of growing up gay is even more realistic than films made nowadays. A tribute to the both Keeanu Reeves and the sweet, charming angel that is River Phoenix.
The campside fire scene is the particularly heartwarming. The exchange was poignant and romantic and profound and intense.
💗Mike Waters: If I had a normal family, and a good upbringing, then I would have been a well-adjusted person.
Scott Favor: [Laughs] Depends on what you call normal.
Mike Waters: Yeah, it does. Well, you know, normal, like, like a mom and a dad and a dog and shit like that. Normal...normal.
Scott Favor: So you didn't have a normal dog?
Mike Waters: No, I didn't have a dog.
Scott Favor: Didn't have a... a normal dad?
Mike Waters: Didn't have a dog or a, or a, or a normal dad. anyway, that's alright. I don't feel sorry for myself, I mean, I feel like I'm, I feel like I'm, you know, well-adjusted.
Scott Favor: [Laughs] What's a normal dad?
Mike Waters: I don't know. [pauses] I'd like to talk with you. I mean I'd like to, uh, really talk with you. I mean we're talking right now, but, you know. I don't know. I don't feel like I can be... I don't feel like I can be close to you. I mean we're close, you know, right now we're close, but, I mean, you know...
Scott Favor: How close, I mean...
Mike Waters: I don't know, whatever.
Scott Favor: What?
Mike Waters: [pause] What do I mean to you?
Scott Favor: What do you mean to me? Mike, you're my best friend.
Mike Waters: I know, man, I know... I know... I know I'm your friend. We're good friends, and it's good to be, you know, good friends. That's a good thing.
Scott Favor: So...?
Mike Waters: So I just...
[pauses]
Mike Waters: That's okay. We can be friends.
Scott Favor: [flustered] I only have sex with a guy for money.
Mike Waters: Yeah, I know...
Scott Favor: And two guys can't love each other.
Mike Waters - Yeah. [pauses] Well, I don't know, I mean, I mean for me, I could love someone even if I, you know, wasn't paid for it. [pauses] I love you, and... you don't pay me.
Scott Favor: Mike....
Mike Waters: I really wanna kiss you man.
[pauses]
Mike Waters: Well goodnight man.
[pauses again]
Mike Waters: I love you, though. [pause] You know that. I do love you.
Scott Favor: Alright, come here, Mike.
[Pats the ground]
Scott Favor: Let's just see. come on, man. I Just wanna see, come on.
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11 hours ago, premv3 said:
Here's my world's top-6. What's your?
1. Sao Paulo - Sauna: Lagoa <My #1 heaven>
2. Rio de Janeiro - Sauna: Clube 117 <My #2 heaven>
3. Bangkok - Massage parlors. Use Line app and add Jey Spa, V Club 7, Sabaidee Rama 4, or G Male.
4. Mexico City - mx.mileroticos.com, sexoservidoras.com
4. New York City - RentMen <Great collection but pricey>
5. London - RentMen
I'm looking forward to hear from everyone!
You can draw a line between the first four in the list and the last 2. The cost is double or triple the amount you will pay and the guys you hire won't necessarily be any cuter or more experienced in the skills of commercial sex.
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Gay and mature but you could be right that my interactions with gay men, other than online, are rather limited.