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but some are refreshingly honest, one of my most offed Tawan boys when asked , answered bluntly 'I don't like boys but if you happy I happy"
 
another answer I still smile at recollection, this time by Senso boy is "I like girls but I like your hand too"

Last night I ended up in X-boys, hoping that the rimmimg show was back on. By the time the show started- at 10:15 - the place was practically full but there were only 5 other farang, the rest being made up of....you guessed it - Chinese. Drinks 400 baht.
 
A large group walked in and I was forced to vacate my seat so they could all sit together. They opened a bottle of whisky and, as usual, it was the female who got completely pissed and she became a little noisy.
 
The show was spoilt by too many lip-syncing ladyboy acts. The Asians seem to like them so they are the ones the shows cater for. Unfortunately, we have become old news.
 
But they were really terrible. The first act was a very butch-looking ladyboy with a big package. She came out wearing a plastic bodysuit 2 sizes too small and desperately tried to look sexy but to no avail. She was finally joined by the only really handsome guy in the show; he's got a big, beautiful smile and a huge, curved cock, which we got to see later.
 
Unfortunately, there was no rimming, but one of the guys in the 69 show got pretty close.
 
There was also no fucking show but that's no great loss. I'm happy to report that the show ended with one of the guys in the big cock show sitting on a chair and jacking off. He didn't take very long to finish but managed to dump a very respectable load onto the floor.
 
On the way back to the hotel I was accosted by a guy offering "massage". I recognised him immediately - he used to be a gogo boy. He said he recognised me, but I doubt it.
 
Feeling horny after watching the chuck-wow show, I stood there wondering what I should do. I've had some great success in the past with guys sitting on the steps next to Family Mart. He told me he was from Isaan and could see immediately that I was kind of interested so he invited me further up the stairs into a darker area, where he proceeded to put my hand on his cock. Suddenly, I became very interested indeed! Wow!!
 
After a quick shower together we got onto the bed and assumed the 69 position. I hadn't noticed in the shower, but he had a mook. Thankfully, it was very small. (Maybe it was the size of his cock that made it look so small.)
 
His cock was not only long, but very thick with a prominent purple head. You just have to love those Isaan boys! He was a real handful, and quite a mouthful, too.
 
Time to fuck. I asked him if I could top him but unfortunately, he doesn't bottom. Not to worry, I can bottom instead. The challenge was whether or not I could take such a monster. It's a challenge in always up for.
 
To cut a long story short, he was able to get it in but it was quite a struggle and a little painful. He's no doubt used to customers telling him to take it slowly. Once underway, it was fine.
 
He wasn't adventurous like my daytime friend, nor did he last as long. I made the mistake of forgetting to tell him I wanted to chuck-wow him, so he came inside. Of course, I knew he was about to cum when the action suddenly got fast and furious but I didn't have the heart to tell him to stop. There's nothing worse than that. It was all over in less than 10 minutes. But given the size of his weapon I wasn't really complaining. I still had a lot of fun. So did he, judging by the amount of cum in the condom. He was basically one of those guys who just sticks it in, closes his eyes and gives it all he's got. No subtlety at all.
 
He'd had quite a workout and when he finished he collapsed on top of me and lay there for a while, enjoying the moment. A hug and a kiss and he was out the door. We exchanged phone numbers but I've got something special planned for tomorrow night after I've seen the show again at X-boys.
 
I'll keep you posted.

Isn't he the one that asked for patience or was that Job?

Jesus even reading this thread is exhausting.

Jesus even reading this thread is exhausting.

Jesus even reading this thread is exhausting.

Arrived in CM about 2 weeks ago with the intention of using this town as a base for 6 months (initially) in Thailand.
 
Managed to survive Songkran here.  One day of the celebration was spent travelling into the country to a place called Mae Taeng.  Lots of bamboo shelters hanging over a fast flowing river - food and drink everywhere and lots of Thais just having good fun.  Most of my time was spent man gazing at the mostly young men enjoying the water- sadly they seemed to want to keep their shirts and jeans/shorts on whilst in the water.  But a few de-shirted and provided some stunning scenery. I took photos
 
The other days were spent in the city and I managed to get drenched regularly -nothing like getting hit on one side of the face with water when in a tuk tuk.  Must say I was a bit worried when people started getting water out of the moat to use - always looks a bit dodgy to me.
 
One day I called into Classic Massage and didn't make it past the front bar.  The guys there are always so friendly and the place is well run - have to go back soon and have a massage - Non and Sak are my favourites there,
 
Bar wise - have been to Secrets , Orion and Station One.  
 
Secrets was relatively quiet but it may have been because I went around 9 - 9.30. Only a few boys there.  Will have to return one night a bit later.  Next door is Ram where I have never been - seems to draw a mixed crowd mainly for the show.  
Orion is always friendly though small and it will re-locate at the end of this month - only a short distance away more towards the main road of the night market.  Usually about 6 or more boys. Enjoyable place.
 
Station One is the Kalare Market on the opposite side to Orion - up the stairs and walk through to the back.  Near Ozeed Bar -  Small bar, open to cool beeze at night and friendly - pool table. Only a few boys - but very relaxed.  The bar staff boy there is one of the best guys you will ever meet
 
Only foot massages thus far and not ventured to Adam's Apple as yet
 
 
Hornet is quite active here and even an old 69 year old like me gets a few enquiries and not all from money boys.  Have met 3 sensational guys on Hornet - one is about 44 kgs , would get blown over by a strong breeze - but with equipment that anyone would envy.  Another - so quiet and handsome and eyes to die for - but so horny.  Have to learn to manage myself a bit better with Hornet - don't want to suffer early burnout.
 
Wherever you look here are handsome guys - the guy who works in the laundry shop I go to - just delightful - killer smile, beautiful skin - I have the cleanest clothes in CM!!!!!
 
So the advice to myself is to relax, calm down, manage my activities, and not get too excited too often - there is still 5.5 months to go - and find a few more gay or bi friends - all my friends seemed to be straight, married - all this looking and not touching !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Cyx0mfVCf_k
 
This is the video from the blued guys in the first post

I am a staunch supporter of monogamy. I have seen too many marriages end up squalid betrayal of friends. I agree with the thought that in gay relationships there is more tolerance for any erotic escapades of one of the partners. but to me I straighten my dick if I love and if love is reciprocated. And I don't belive in.gay ambient....I m a gay i am.a word citizen, I belive in love for gay for hetero for everybody..
..sorry for my bad English

From Khaosod English

 
BANGKOK — Explore love, friendship, desire and more aspects of gay men in the urban city through the eyes (and hands) of a Spanish artist.
 
Our World features a series of cartoon-style paintings by Bangkok resident artist Dani Monfort Gil who depicts the gay men he’s met on the sidewalk and in the mall, some of whom he’s approached for their stories.
 
Admission is free. The event opens at 6pm on Friday and runs through the end of April. Serindia Gallery is located on Soi Charoen Krung 36.
 
http://www.khaosodenglish.com/life/events/2017/03/28/see-gay-bangkok-illustrated-spanish-artist/

I agree vague, but why not answer the main meanings.
 
Marriage equality in general---Great idea, with many legal rights attached.
Marriage for gays in general---Depends on the people involved.
Marriage between young and old--Depends on the people involved.
Marriage between members of different cultures--Depends on the people involved.
Marriage for me and a Thai man--working out so far 7+ yrs

I had boys telling me during negotiations for short time (writing on Line or calling) that they have to leave soon (at xx / within xx minutes), in that case I abort and tell the boy to meet another time when he has more time. I can't have sex looking at a clock (or my partner looking at a clock).
 
I used to do long time in the past (2009-2013), but then aborted it. Too many unknown, starting at sleeping preferences (I want a quiet aircon at 27 deg C, no light and sound, that means the boy cannot even play on his mobile phone while I'm trying to sleep), to different times of getting up. I don't need that, rather "fuck and go".
 
Nowadays longtime only when we click and the boy (can be free or paid) just stays afterwards, we don't even speak about it. Most get dressed, which is my cue to pay, others get back into bed, and stay over night.
 
I don't understand the reluctance of some boys to do over night (as expressed in several posts), wife, kids, roommates, that all can be arranged and would well be worth the extra money. But if the OP wants LT for the same price as ST (do I read that right?), then I understand the boys.

The problem is, few of the money boys I encountered in Thailand were good. Just off the field, no talent, being lured by the comparatively large amount of money that can be made. The vast majority is unskilled labor, no talent, no training.
 
I do make that comparison (500 Baht for an hour in my room is a good deal for the boy, compared to 300 Baht minimum wage), and get plenty of takers (boys who do not speak English and had little or no contact with tourists before, at least no sex with tourists before. Once they get into the market servicing foreigners, the 500 Baht times are probably over).
 
I happily pay 1000 for the few boys who are good, to come to my room (no travel for me, no drinks, no off-fees), but from experience I can't see that any boy would be worth the prices now paid in Soi Twilight.
 
For the touristy markets, everyone can easily look elsewhere and find the same stuff for half the price, just a few km away in Bangkok (e.g. Patpong night market versus MBK). For male prostitution, you have to travel to Pattaya to find the same service at reasonable prices.

Someone can be a member for ten minutes and have something worthwhile to say or a valid question to ask.  Equally people who have been here years can be wrong.  Not sure why you're so fixated with how long people have been here on the rather frequent occasions that you disagree with a post.  
 
 

still offable, still offable

Since dying for some minutes at 38 and having multiple heart surgeries and episodes since, I can't say it worries me at all now (at 51). I can either live and enjoy my life, or worry about it. I choose to simply get on with living.

Agree with email bust ...
What's the point of trying to save 500 or 1000 bt in the scheme of things like air fares, hotels, food, drinks etc etc??

Biggest bum on the planet
 

A nuanced view? I find that view utterly objectionable. You still idiotically maintain the 69 year old doctor was partly to blame. That is just nuts! "He knew the risks of such behavior!" How on earth do you know that. Have you evidence that he had experience of that before? Fact is you dont. Did the gate agent when offering the compensation for volunteers tell all the passengers some would forcibly be removed if four could not be found? I have no idea but I absolutely doubt it. At the very least it seems he was not provided with the mandatory written statement of instructions and that is against the law.
 
At least you agree the way he was so forcibly removed was "a grievous error". But it happened and you cannot divorce the two situations. Where in any airline contract does it unequivocally state a peaceful passenger who is causing no disturbance in any way, no harm, who is buckled in his seat awaiting take-off, who is not even suspected of carrying illegal substances or whatever,  may be removed by such violent means that he broke his nose, two teeth, sinus issues and concussion? Ill bet you cant find it because its not there. And my understanding is that airlines cannot bump passengers who have a specific urgent reason for arriving at the destination by a certain time. A doctor caring for patients would seem to be a lot more urgent than the reasons of at last some others on that flight.
 
As I pointed out in an earlier post and as the lawyer stated unequivocally in the media conference last night, the legal arbiter of what went on on that plane was the captain. His word was law. Period. He had the legal right to order the bullies off his plane and/or to temper their behaviour. Where was he? Nowhere but locked in his cockpit it would seem. Why did the flight attendants not warn him what was happening as I assume they can not have done?
 
Te end result is that high powered lawyer yesterday made it totally clear that the law suit which will definitely come (a point he finally agreed) will either have to be settled with a huge out of court settlement or to go to trial with the airline and the city of Chicago as the primary defenders. He must be loving every minute of this because as again stated he knows the flying public is totally pissed off with the way they are treated by airlines. Im prepared to put a few bucks on the table that if it does get to court, the defenders will be faced with with multi million dollar awards against them. My guess is the doctor will end up with a 7 figure sum for the actions on that aircraft and aggravated damages that could stretch as far as a 9 figure amount. 
 
And all because the airline would not offer a few hundred more in cash to find a volunteer. The fault is the airlines. No question.

From Khaosod English
 

 
More pics at link
 
http://www.khaosodenglish.com/life/2017/04/13/see-silom-celebrate-songkran-style-photos/

I expect this thread will be moved to The Beer Bar, but I'll offer this:
 
United is part of Star Alliance. Switch to EVA or another partner airline and use up your points through them. Because of personal past experiences, United's been on my shit list for many years... and I'm really difficult to piss off.

You get the impression that the military govt has decided to have a push on road safety.  I suppose that it is tough for them to deliver on things like the economy and other issues, but maybe this area is seen as low hanging fruit.  I've seen more traffic stops in recent visits but it will be interesting to see if the safety push has any impact on fatalities.

It would probably depend on what you were getting up to (legal or illegal) and which country you were returning to.

Never was asked for that by customs. I have no worries. Nothing I do is illegal. If you have pictures of boys you off and they can pass for 16/17 because they look young,  take care you have photo of ID card (or from these kind of boys just don't take a picture).
 
Unless you come from a jurisdiction, where it is illegal to go to prostitutes, there really is nothing to fear. Why have fear if you break no law? I do not understand the extreme safety measures some members take like putting all in cloud, encrypting laptop, logging out of Facebook.
 
I really don't care customs find my fuck videos. Last trip when doing my bagage check they found my transparant plastic bag full of condoms. I didn't care. Privacy for me is only relevant for people I know. I would not want family or collegues or friends to see my fuck videos, but if a custom official who I do not know sees it, so what? He probably sees many every day and has forgotten you already in 10 minutes.
 
If I were a custom official I would search very good the phones of women coming back from Thailand. They are rarely searched and I think a lot can be learned when we start focussing on the other sex more. I really would not be surprised the illegal material is to be found there!!

Issan = Wake at 6am, do a Monk & Parents tribute, open the loud speakers, do a village parade, drink Lao Khao (Rice whiskey) and knockout by midday.
 
Sleep the rest of the day and start again the next morning.
 
Suggest you stick to Bkk (Or maybe Chiang mai if you want to experience something different but still lively)