Gay Thailand

For those that have gone many years, how do you settle on a particular guy. After probably 5 different guys I felt like #1 was the best and on my next trip I feel like I will only choose him. I see others exploring and I don't know if I could keep taking chances vs I know what is already good and what I will get. Is the chasing the unknown worth it?

i've move to Chiang Rai for a while and then i realize that this city is totally different form bangkok or chiang mai cause i can't find any massage or escort service for gay in this province and i've to stay in this town for a months so can someone tell me to find some place please

I'm planning to schedule a comprehensive wellness check at Bumrungrad. Their packages look pretty impressive, especially since they include preventive tests meant to identify potential health risks or conditions you might be at risk for developing later in life. I know some of you might be inclined to tell me that I could do these tests for less at smaller clinics, labs, or more affordable hospitals. I totally understand that, but I prefer Bumrungrad and am comfortable paying for the experience. That said, I still want to make sure I’m getting the best price possible. I’ve compared Bumrungrad’s packages with those at Samitivej, BNH, Bangkok Hospital, and Bangkok…

Sorry to bore, but ----I'll repeat my annual Songkran warnings. DO NOT take passport, credit cards, more cash than you'll need for the day. If you can bear it, leave your phone at home. BEWARE PICKPOCKETS !!!!!! To keep things dry, you can purchase everywhere plastic pouches to hang around your neck but beware the string holding it can be easily cut (maybe tuck inside your shirt). You will never catch any thief. Personally, I scowl at big farang with water tanks strapped to their backs but smile and laugh at locals and children who try to soak me. Renting a motor bike is not a good idea unless you intend to use it only after six or so. Sorry to a…

Guide to the parlours of Sukhumvit (Pictures of people in this post are from X.) You might find yourself in Sukhumvit for work or other related reasons and depending on the time of day it might be inconvenient to reach your preferred places in other parts of the city. Here is a guide to some known and lesser known places in Sukhumvit for your convenience. Jey Spa I would refer to this as the flagship of the spas in Sukhumvit. The boys here are easy on the eyes (some are model tier) and boy do they deliver full service (H). Massage skills vary, but in general you don’t go there for the massages. The place is very clean and well-maintained. Papas…

I needed a break from Pattaya last week and the urge to visit Bangkok immediately after the Friday 28 March 2025 earthquake - gave me the excuse to go and visit BKK. I have noticed throughout my life that I seem to be attracted to disasters.... Me at the Costa Concordia disaster in 2012 off the coast of Giglio island in Italy https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Costa_Concordia_disaster So, I explore Bangkok last week and the only inconvenience due to the earthquake that I experienced, was that I was not allowed to go to the top of the Mahanakhon tower to visit the Skywalk - as it was closed (3 April 2025) for post earthquake damage assessment. …

Sign just going up tonight, Soi Tarntawan on same side as new Tawan, a few door before it, coming from Surawong. I thought it was the place where the coffee shop was , but told otherwise.

What a delightful surprise when I wandered into the new club called Atlas in Patong Soi 2 last night. Big spacious bar, well lit stage right in the center, everything modern and comfortable. And there on the stage were all of the boys from The One / Tawan. They have all quit The One, and are now working at Atlas, which just opened a few days ago. The bar is owned by Arthur, who long time Tawan patrons will remember as the big mixed Black/Asian bodybuilder from Tawan days. As frequent visitors will know, The One never regained the atmosphere of Tawan; it became stale and less inviting, and the show was tame and uninteresting. By contrast, Atlas last nig…

I was speaking to a member on this forum who told me his short time was 3-4 hours ! Mine is usually maximum 1 hour⏰ sometimes 30 minutes then I get bored with them But I know some of you go for a drink with them🍷🍹 before the action and that takes time When I get guys on Grinder I give them a maximum time ,eg 30 minutes and ask them to lower their price and many do ,as long as they perform in that 30 minutes eg able to fuck me🍆 or rim me 👅

Hello, I am an openly gay male and looking to retire to Thailand with my boyfriend. Is Thai people respectful of Americans and gay people. My boyfriend and I are looking to meet with other gay men in Thailand. Thank you

Now if Dept of Agriculture would have the balls to do the same 🤷‍♂️ Wasn't planned, he was supposed to go to BKK today but stayed in Pattaya one more night, no doubt to meet me 😝 I was out the night before in BKK, didn't sleep until 7am, Mike Taxi to Pattaya at noon and was exhausted when I arrived.... by the time I got settled in and ate, I took a 3 hr nap. I had planned to stay in Boyztown for the night but saw he posted that he was at Cocka2 bar when I woke up and headed over there... I met one of his personalities and we talked about an hour, he's too nice a guy to become my replacement for @gayinpattaya 🤷‍♂️ We talked about Madagascar guys, …

Its never too early to have a retirement saving target as the early you start the better. While i might still have a way to go before reaching the retirement age, if i can reach the magic number earlier, possibility of early retirement seems very attractive. Of course, if im not of retirement age, visa will be a different issue altogether. So im looking at two simplified options. First option, keep going to thailand as a visitor, but slowly increasing the duration of my trips once im no longer working full time. This can range from 1 month visit at a time up to just shy of 6 month per year. Long term condo stay might allow for much cheaper accommodation compared to …

Apologies for not finishing my last trip report. Life happened and I was so time poor after leaving Bangkok. Planning to redeem myself and determined to complete a report this time around! I'm excited to share that I'm coming back to Thailand for a short visit and will be arriving on the 17th of this month. I'm particularly excited to check out the "new" The One bar which was still shuttered last time. Massage-wise, there seems to be some exciting stuff in the Saphan Kwai area. Plus, there are a couple of host bars that I am curious to check out. If any of you guys will be in Bangkok during that week, send me a message and let's meet up!

I understand what T&B means. I also understand that a "Top" (for instance, at K-man Spa) will not bottom. But will they do everything short of that? If you get a Top are they expecting you to receive?

A Thai bar owner in Pattaya found his LGBTQIA+ friend lying dead under his bed with a blue towel in his mouth, and his gold necklace, worth nearly 250,000 baht, was missing. Gay Pattaya man found dead under bed, gold necklace missing | Thaiger

Landing at 6:30. Assuming hotel doesnt offer early check-in. Any remote chance of an early bird massage parlor? Or an alternative option for laying down my weary head ?

I've read posts that there isn't a great deal of entertainment down here in HY but none the less, if there is a happy ending, that might be nice. I'm in the Solis Beach hotel next week for two nights but staying by central mall in HY for a month. I did find a couple of 'gay bars' in google maps around Lee Gardens which I strolled by and was offered a LB show. I don't use the Line app but what from I've read that may be an advantage but from what I understand about the app, you have to add someone to it, rather that find some one. I do have grindr but it's not a very nice app. A boy 1 mile away told me last night that there is a happy ending here, but n…

From The Nation Bangkok is gearing up to host its most ambitious Pride festival yet, with organisers aiming to establish the city as a global hub for LGBTQ+ rights and culture. The "Bangkok Pride Festival 2025," themed "Born This Way," will see Rama 1 Road transformed into a vibrant rainbow-coloured celebration of equality on June 1st. Naruemit Pride, in partnership with the Bangkok Metropolitan Administration (BMA) and various civil society and private sector allies, is planning a spectacular event. A 200-metre identity flag, billed as the longest of its kind, will make history alongside the city's iconic rainbow flags, signalling Thailand's commitmen…

Coming up to 3 weeks,I'm now staying in Pattaya I read on here how you guys fuck twice a day and even more . Tonight I feel guilty, my Filipino bf is out at karaoke 🎤 and here I am in the Airbnb relaxing watching TV and eating I never even chased any boys today ,went swimming today ,gym 1 2hours 🏋️‍♂️🤸‍♂️and then came back to the room I even took pre-work out red bull I feel I should be out there dancing in the Cocka2 bar,singing with my Filipino boyfriend 🇵🇭 I had 3 guys on Sunday 2 unpaid ( sansuk sauna) one older Asian and one older farang and one paid young moneyboy , I came twice Sunday Fast forward 2 days and I'm "fucked…

Last year I came to Bangkok by myself without my Filipino bf I went in Grindr , trying to get free sex ,had a few Harry Potter or old types message me but no boys really my type I ended up back in Pattaya for money boys. This week I'm in Bangkok WITH my Filipino boyfriend 🇵🇭 Guess what ? My Grindr app running busy with boys my type for free I

From Pattaya News March 30, 2025 – As Thailand gears up for the highly anticipated Songkran Festival, the traditional Thai New Year celebrated with vibrant water fights and cultural festivities, authorities and local organizers have confirmed that the recent earthquake in the region will not disrupt planned activities. Thai Prime Minister Paetongtarn Shinawatra addressed the nation earlier today, stating, “The situation in Thailand has stabilized, and we are working tirelessly to ensure safety and normalcy. Songkran is a cornerstone of our culture and economy, and we are committed to ensuring it goes ahead as a time of joy and renewal.” Bangkok Governor Chad…

That was scary. I was chatting with my Thai boyfriend and the curtains and lights in my condo room started swaying at 1:22pm today. https://www.khaosod.co.th/breaking-news/news_9694098 Here is a 6 second video of the lights above my bed swaying....scary... 20250328_132732.mp4

From Pattaya Mail By Barry Kenyon Thai international law attorney Victor Wong doubts that the major concern of either Thai immigration or the Thai Revenue Department is the plight of retiree expats on fixed incomes. He told Pattaya Mail that TRD was aware of billions of baht imported dubiously into Thailand via off-shore accounts, cryptocurrency transactions and untaxed income from overseas corporations. Both Thai citizens and foreign speculators were involved. As regards Thai immigration authorities, their main concern is visa-related regulation and investigations into business fraud such as unauthorized working, use of nominees as shareholders and illegal…

From The Thaiger Thailand is making moves to woo foreign investors and expats, rolling out a brand-new one-stop shop for investment and visa services in the heart of Bangkok. Prime Minister Paetongtarn Shinawatra cut the ribbon on Monday at the grand opening of the Thailand Investment and Expat Services Centre (TIESC), housed in the sleek One Bangkok building in Pathum Wan. Located on the corner of Witthayu and Rama IV roads, right next to Lumpini Park, the centre is set to streamline bureaucracy and fast-track investment, visa, and work permit processes. Spanning the 6th and 7th floors of the Parade Zone, TIESC is a joint effort by the Board of Invest…

Just came back from Thailand. 2 nights in Pattaya. 4 nights in Bangkok. My first time to Pattaya. Got comfortable private car to and fro. I'm so honoured to have forum member @bkkmfj2648 showing me around at night. He took me to Jomtien Complex and we watched cabaret show at new bar Candy. Very professional and nicely done. Then on the second night, he took me to Boystown to watch the show at X-Boys. More hardcore than shows in Bangkok bars but it's not something I haven't seen before. Saw similar shows in Soi Twilight years ago. We also explored Sunee Plaza and visited Nice Boys which has been renamed Boys Nighclub. Bar model is similar to that of Golden C…