calluna15

It had crossed my mind to retire in Thailand.  Such good value and good fun...
But most of these "hard truths" give me goosebumps.
I rather put up with the 24 hour travel time to and from Thailand.
One alternative I also thought was to retire to Kuala Lumpur, and make many shorter trips to the countries around that attract me the most.  But in the meantime I'm so happy where I live now.

Well, I think there is.
 
You can dislike a painting but that doesn't mean you feel the same way about the artist.
 
But of course, we have the right to take things as an insult if we feel that way. No problem with that.

Love goodboys and headed back there
In sept. I want to stay at twoguys but
Am not getting a response from either
Email phone or website. I was just there
Mid august. Does anyone have a current
Phone #.

Welcome onboard
 
1&2: don't worry
 
3: What city and where guiding? If Bangkok and you mean historical/cultural places - then better to have professional guide. Over 80% of boys in bars are from  another provinces or even from Cambodia, Laos and Vietnam.
 
4. For to get most precise advice about hotel: what is your budget per night? General advise: choose your hotel near BTS or MRT station.
 
5. Choose boy, discuss what he does in bed and what are his "no-no", discuss price/tips, only after all take boy from bar. Mamasan (manager) will help you to chat with boy if boy's English is weak. Don't trust to mamasan's "he can do everything" without boy's confirmation. 

There have been quite a few posts recently on the above topic, I personally live in the UK, work  and can only spend a couple of two week holidays a year in Thailand which I have done for the past ten or so years, always with a few days in Bangkok and longer in normally Pattaya or occasionally Phuket.
 
I have previously casually met a few members of this forum, often almost by chance and enjoyed a drink and a chat, though always I guess for any of us not resident in Thailand my main focus is the boys!  
 
I am sure that I am not alone as the earlier posts I mentioned would suggest, in that I would love to share a drink and catch up with any members of this forum one evening during my visits if our itineraries allowed. I am no I.T. or forum posting expert but would it be worth and feasible to have some form of ongoing posting trail where any member interested in briefly meeting up with any other members during their holiday or those now resident in Thailand posted basic details and dates with the option for anyone interested in meeting to private message to get in touch - unsure how best to make it work but i think doable and no doubt someone will have a better system if of any interest?  
 
Only a thought but guess a lot of us have holidays that coincide and a if in the same area would be nice to say hello and perhaps enjoy a drink?

don't torment yourself , call the boy over , even if for hand holding session.
 
You are on vacations , don't make it some kind of retreat, LOL

I shocked to the 7-11 gutted. I stop off there every time I go to jomtien.
I hope its returns soon.

Back in bkk jan 6 and pattaya on the 8th.
And vessey I'm looking also to purchase
Something revealing straight from gay
Chealsea in manhattan to a favorite
Mostly former goodboy.

Only place I can think of in sunee
With muscled boys would be good boys
Beer bar. Not overly muscled but
Some very handsome macho read straight
Funny good natured guys. Not to everyones
Taste some sport tatoos. You will be
Spirited very quickly back into the nether
Regions behind screened in area.

Thank you very much for your report, especially the various prices (drink, off fee; could you add short time expectation?)
 
 
Fully agree. Before I take a seat and order, I take a close look from the door, and if number of boys is low or I don't like the way they are dressed, I leave.

Le meridian states that only registerred
Guests are permitted in the room.
I stayed there for 2 nights on last trip
And did not challenge this rule.
Has anyone had guests without a problem?
Love the rooms and location on surawong.

Oh beer. Had him numerous times on all
My trips. Not a twink but hot body
Nice big ass soccer legs etc.
He is wacky acting walks incredibly fast
And really makes the rounds in sunee
Boyz town and jomtien. He will be sort
Of a pest if u off him a few times.
But will leave u alone when u make it
Clear ur not interested. Once in awhile
I spot him grab him as a consolation
Prize when all else fails. U can b
Totally uninhibited with beer.
About him willing to do everything I
Don't know about that.

Oh beer. Had him numerous times on all
My trips. Not a twink but hot body
Nice big ass soccer legs etc.
He is wacky acting walks incredibly fast
And really makes the rounds in sunee
Boyz town and jomtien. He will be sort
Of a pest if u off him a few times.
But will leave u alone when u make it
Clear ur not interested. Once in awhile
I spot him grab him as a consolation
Prize when all else fails. U can b
Totally uninhibited with beer.
About him willing to do everything I
Don't know about that.

Oh beer. Had him numerous times on all
My trips. Not a twink but hot body
Nice big ass soccer legs etc.
He is wacky acting walks incredibly fast
And really makes the rounds in sunee
Boyz town and jomtien. He will be sort
Of a pest if u off him a few times.
But will leave u alone when u make it
Clear ur not interested. Once in awhile
I spot him grab him as a consolation
Prize when all else fails. U can b
Totally uninhibited with beer.
About him willing to do everything I
Don't know about that.

Condom use for French kissing and nipple sucking? 
Perhaps a dental dam would be easier to use and more effective?

The crying is what many thais excell at.
When they think you are a soft touch.
If they sence you are the type that sees
Through these ploys they won't bother.
Once you give money outside of a normal
"Business" arrangement the requests for
Money will never stop. Just as long as they can phone email facebook u name it.
These are some of the requests I
Personally have had.
I go monkeyhouse have motorcy accident
Walking street she lady want 35000bht.
My aunt smoking too much go hospital
Doctor say she not pay bill go monkeyhouse
25000 baht.
I boxing stepmother she crazy hit me
I need new room she want 12000 baht or
Go monkeyhouse.
Baby need school 30000 baht.
Crying crying and more crying.
It went on and on.
It is never enough. There is no closure
Or resolution of this persons crisis.
Favorite saying "you not care me"
I think you butterfly. By the way I stated
This upfront.

Do not let this go on. Sever communication
With this guy now! This kind of thing
Is extremely common here. I speak from
Experience.It will only cause you more
Stress and complications harassment etc.
Do not let him back in your room or meet
Up with him.

Do not let this go on. Sever communication
With this guy now! This kind of thing
Is extremely common here. I speak from
Experience.It will only cause you more
Stress and complications harassment etc.
Do not let him back in your room or meet
Up with him.

Do not let this go on. Sever communication
With this guy now! This kind of thing
Is extremely common here. I speak from
Experience.It will only cause you more
Stress and complications harassment etc.
Do not let him back in your room or meet
Up with him.

My new way to handle these upsetting
Situations is not letting it get past
First base. By that I mean when a thai
Boy starts on one of those oh so tragic
Sob stories listen politely and if a request sort of is made say well I hope
You ok someday. Then change the subject.
There are 7 million stories in the naked
City remember that tv show. They all
Have a story true or not true that have
Driven many farang to the edge. U have
To set limits early on. Keep things business like. It can be very heady and
Intoxicating being with one of these
Boys there tenderness etc. They are very
Manipulative and skilled at what they do.

Do not let this go on. Sever communication
With this guy now! This kind of thing
Is extremely common here. I speak from
Experience.It will only cause you more
Stress and complications harassment etc.
Do not let him back in your room or meet
Up with him.

It helps to know some thai at saronrom.
Even if you don't smoke bring cigarettes
To offer the boys. They all smoke.
Good ice breaker.
Always ask for id and I mean good id.
On a good night there may a few superstars
Even better then in the bars. But use
Common sense. Cruise around in a taxi
For hire strike a flat rate deal with
A willing driver. Not all are willing.

I have known guys for years but trust
None of them when it comes to money
Or my security. Sad but necessary.
My room is on complete lockdown and
Ready before i bring guests.
Sure there are still risks but gonna
Make very difficult for them.
Some guys may disregard long term gains
For quick easy theft.

You know that strip at the begining
Of dongtan from 7-11 to tui's place
Sometimes has some hot older guys if you
Hang around there for awile. I have had
Several of them. Very eager to please
You at bargain prices. Afternoon is the
Best time. It's very convenient cause
The dd inn is right there. 300 baht
Short time rooms. After dark be more
Careful cause it seems the more undesireable and agressive ones come out.
Many steamy afternoons have been spent
There. One guy a regular was a former
Island caprice studio "actor". Now about
32. Some of these guys are down on very
Hard times and a little mileage but have
Given me some of the best sex in pattaya.

A thai guy I know has no siblings
No living parents and has a 3yo boy.
He is in a constant money crisis. He
Told his relatives he had farang friend.
I.E. boyfriend on a visit to issaan.
Well his former stepmother came out of the
Woodwork demanding money.By his own
Admission he hates her and vice a versa.
Long story.He had what he said a boxing match with her.she pressed charges
He negotiated at police station money
Paid to her.guess who forked out the
Baht.I have become exasperated with all this. I have been to thailand many times
With no problems regarding this type of
Thing. But sadly let this guy cross
The line. Lesson learned. Do not let
Any sob stories however real or imagined
Get to you. All this happened in pattaya
By the way.