Olddaddy

Must admit never used those apps,only into Grinder.
I have Instagram though, this may seem like a silly question so forgive me , how do you meet Thai guys on there?
Is that using the search?

I have met so many guys from Twitter and Only Fans and Instagram. It is often not easy and takes time. But, tonight, my superstar came over and I had a good time with him. I have only been following him since Covid and he chats with me but never would come here. But, my patience paid off and this stud came over rock hard and ready to rumble. Happy times!

This reminds me of my first ever visit to Thailand more than 4 decades ago. I was staying far from Suriwong and given the times I was somewhat timid about exploring. Then a tout offered to take me to a gay gogo bar and for the only time in my life I took him up on the offer. A long tuk-tuk ride later, I was in the somewhat notorious Stockholm bar near the foot of Langsuan - long before that street moved very upmarket. It was a large bar in an old Thai building, hardly any other customers and about a dozen boys dressed in jeans. The mamasan soon sat next to me asking my choice. Jet-lagged and unsure of protocol I said i was still not sure. She recommended I take two upstairs and let them do a show for me.
And that's what i did. For one whose only prior experience of sex clubs was a couple of visits to the Reeperbahn in Hamburg and the saunas in Amsterdam, I was somewhat nervous. But the boys were great. As they were performing, one suggested I move to sit on the bed. It was not long before I was invited to join in the action. Given my inexperience of Thai bars, I loved it and even today it remains clear in my memory.

Thanks for your perception but if you read my past posts you would see I'm into mature age guys
I don't block many members on here ,you will be the first one.
 

Thanks for your perception but if you read my past posts you would see I'm into mature age guys
I don't block many members on here ,you will be the first one.
 

I recently came across this forum and have been reading the many posts on gay adventures in beautiful Egypt. I wanted to pay my contribution by adding stories of my experiences as a 30-year old European expat living in Cairo between 2015 and 2020.
 
My apologies for the context I would like to provide. The main reason for leaving Europe in 2015 was the lack of adventure and excitement I felt in my early thirties. I was living in rainy Western Europe, had random unexcited hook ups via Tindr or Grindr once in a while, but generally felt like living a boring routine. Therefore, I applied for a teaching position at a Cairo international school, was offered the job and left for the unknown. The moment I arrived at Cairo Airport, I knew I was about to love this country: chaos, shouting everywhere, a lack of structure, adventure, the heat, ... Soon I was about to discover something else: the ridiculously handsome men available... everywhere.
 
The school arranged us a flat in a lush suburb south of the city center, Maadi. Having your own space, it turned out quickly, had amazing advantages in terms of excitement. Each apartment building in Maadi is guarded by a bowab, a local doorkeeper, often from the southern Egyptian regions. Separated from their families in the warm south and often very young of age, their main task is to maintain the building and secure your safety. The first week of arrival, our building's bowab asked me to help him move a table in one of the other flats. it was 'too heavy to lift by one person only'. How naive could I be? Soon he wanted to show me the flat's bathroom 'as it was more modern than mine'. Before I realised, we were showering together. The sex was quick, rough and meaningless. Finished by a 'Welcome to Egypt', I could not have imagined this to be start of a new journey.
 
I subscribed at a local gym. After work, not wanting to hang out with my colleagues all the time, I would hit the place and finish off in the sauna. Within days, I became part of the (gym) community. Egyptians are very eager to meet foreigners in general and the sociological characteristics of that Maadi sauna were of an interest to me. After working out, men would typically hang out in the sauna or in the steam bath. All pre-arranged married, they did not seem to have the appetite to go home early. Neither did they particularly seem to like / love their wives. They all raved about their kids, yet - Egyptians don't shy the topic - the marital sex life was far from satisfying for many of them. Most men I met in the gym (and later), it seemed to me, were eager to enjoy and explore life. The word 'gay' was never mentioned, nor assumed. It was all about enjoying, relaxing, massaging, smoking shisha, going home and watching porn / masturbating together, having a beer, smoking hasjish and finishing off with quick, good sex. Five of us would become friends with benefits: through them - on parties in Maadi or the city center - I would meet other men. In exchange, I invited expat colleagues. 
 
I could never have imagined this being the Middle East. Men looked beyond gorgeous with their muscled bulky bodies, deep voices, dark-brown soft skin, cheeky smiles and endless capacity to explore. They all seemed so relaxed. They live life to the fullest, especially as the Revolution had proven that things could turn to worse very quickly. That atmosphere felt so sexy and harmless. I never felt the need to turn on Grindr on Tindr, you just would meet endless boys and men in the supermarket, in coffee bars, on the metro, in taxi's (Uber got introduced when I was living in Cairo - a hot spot as well) and in bars and clubs in the city center. 
 
In terms of Cairo, I remember the railway station (Ramses Station) and the huge square in front of it to be a popular hook up spot, as well as the bridge crossing the Nile at Tahrir Square (Qasr El Nil Bridge). However, as mentioned, there never seemed to be the need to look for something. It would come to you! In Aswan, for instance, I was approached by the taxi driver who drove me from the airport to the hotel late at night. Nubian penises and fatter are bigger than in Cairo. Moreover, the city's feluccas and corniche are ridiculously cruisy, both at day and night. I occasionally picked a handsome (and incredibly fit) felucca sailor and we had sex in his boat around Elephant Island in the River Nile. On a Luxor trip, I would visit the temples and Valley of the Kings in the very early morning and relax at the hotel's pool / room in the early afternoon. As mentioned on this blog earlier, staff is eager to meet you. Egyptians are allowed to enter the big hotels without any issue. There is too much passage to control. At the Luxor Steigenberger I invited a fruit vendor I met at the temples earlier that day. His triceps were the biggest I had ever felt in my life. Although the sex was rubbish, just seeing him undress and observe his body was a pleasure enough. Alexandria is a driving sea city in which all life surrounds the most amazing sea side boulevard I have ever came across. Hotels turn into rooftop night clubs at night. People enter and leave the buildings at a paste unable to control. When looking for more adventure, try one of the many desert tours (with overnight camping - pleasure guaranteed with the staff), a Siwa oasis visit, crossing the Suez Canal from Port Said to Port Fouad, relaxing in one of Dahab's open-minded hammock guest houses or staying over at one of the 'liberal / freedom camps' between Sharm-El Sheikh and Taba.
 
Having an Egyptian boyfriend - I got even introduced to his (well-educated) parents  - is a different story. They are hard work. In the flux they are at, it almost seems impossible for them to meaningfully connect to one person. Monogamy is unheard of in Egypt's gay community. They key words remain pleasure, devotion, emotion, passion, unlimited sexual drive and endless adventures.
 
Enjoy this marvelous spot on Earth, both culturally and spiritually!
 
Cheers
B.
 
 
 

I stayed in the hotel a couple of times pre-Covid for I think for 4/5 days each trip.   It’s situated about 300m downhill in a side soi off Thrapraya Road which connects Pattaya and Jomtien.  Transport is rather an issue but I had a rented motor scooter which overcame any difficulties. They had a Tuk Tuk which was sometimes available for a lift uphill to the main road. The distance to the Jomtien Complex is rather shorter than to Boyztown so I didn’t find it a problem to walk. At night it was sometimes difficult to stop a baht bus going to Pattaya on the main road as they were often full of passengers.
it’s a while ago but my memory has no recollection of anything negative about my rooms and for breakfast sitting by the pool was rather pleasant. In the evenings I remember the restaurent food being pretty good.
it is of course a gay hotel and I didn’t see any female guests. I usually had a boy with me overnight. I had to get one of the staff to explain on two occasions to boys from Grindr  how to find the place. Guests of course get admission to the sauna and spa (including the dark maze) which opens about 4pm, but I was able to use the small pool with boyfriends during the day.
 
 

I talked to this African guy last year: https://twitter.com/top_stallion?s=20. I asked him if he wanted to join me and one of my Thai fwb in action.
I was a bit surprised when he told me he was a mb. I like the videos on his Twitter profile, though I don't think the bottoms are his actual customers, as they are all young twinks who I would say don't have the need to pay.
Didn't ask about rates, as I don't really do transactional sex, but if he is your type shoot him a message on line. He replied pretty fast.
 

I stayed at the Tarntawan for a week last month before changing to the Raya. (after reading Vinapu's recommendation)
I didn't think it had been in any way refurbished - it seemed a little tired, that's all.
I like the way they hold the visitors' ID cards. Also, the staff is very friendly and they still remembered me! 
The Raya was so much nicer. Everything there is new and the room is big. 
If you meet your guy downstairs you can go straight up to your room without having to go past the reception. As I've known the guy I was with every night for a number of years, I didn't need him to register with reception, but if I were offing a new guy I would want him to be registered. 

I meant 2018😂I knew you would pick that up 😂

Starting with this newly uploaded post Saigon in the heat of April, there will be a series of reviews of five massage places in Saigon (Ho Chi MInh City) on my blog. It may take a few days for each of the rest of the posts to come up because I am still putting finishing touches onto them, in between catching up on work. It was a rather last-minute escapade. I found myself with a relatively free week and decided I would use it "productively". Since it had been at least 10 years since my last visit to Saigon, it was time to re-acquaint myself with this city. 

2028 B.C. I gather?

Very true (what you've said).
The (supposed) thrill of meeting someone you are unlikely to meet otherwise and having sex in public place with some danger added ... is a lure for many gay men. 
When I lived in Mexico City it wasn't uncommon, before the introduction of social media, cruising apps, etc., to walk into one of the men's rooms of the many Sanborn's chain of restaurants and encounter, in the open, guys engaged in blowjobs.  A friend of mine in Chicago, a church pastor, would cruise public park bushes in the middle of the night and suck off and get fucked by guys looking for money to buy drugs. 
Myself?  When I worked in Mexico City I had a regular consulting appointment at 8 a.m. several days a week and on the way to work I would stop in one of the Sanborn's men's room near to where the appointment was ... and, frequently, a student in an expensive nearby high school would blow me and sometimes I'd fuck him.  He in his school blazer and slacks and me in a suit and tie.
Back to Chicago:  before the social / dating apps I would cruise the 'bushes' in Lincoln Park on the lakefront 10 p.m. to 4 a.m. if I hadn't gone to the baths.  Scores of guys were there when the bars closed and the sex was good.  We were all grunting like pigs.  Every once and a while several police cars would show-up with lights flashing, bullhorns in hand, telling guys to get out - and some guys jumped in the water or let the police lead them out.  Me, I knew the police were not going to get into the bushes so I stayed put.  At the time I held a very good job and I could have lost it all if arrested for being caught like that. 
When we're young many of us throw caution to the wind.  As I've gotten older, much older, I don't often take risks like that.  But, never say "never."

What I noticed last year was many young Singaporean & Malaysian guys ( with partners) in the gay areas ,fit looking ,maybe professional types 
Are they interested in sitting at bars with old men or are they into rave parties & nightclubs 
I doubt they hire money boys.
To tell you the truth I saw most beer  bars full in jomtien on my last visit with a mixed crowd including those new age young professional types with a mix of elderly farangs .
I'm not sure why your saying that bars aren't busy 
Is it as busy as 2004?, No absolutely not,sunee was pumping ,BUT it was the case if closeted old men seeking out the illegal younger boys at that time and things have thankfully changed !!!
A lot of them would have died off plus the tough  laws and society attitude to this has changed 
But having said that ,this gay generation particularly young Asian professionals,on what I have seen ,seem to be more into rave parties ,nightclubs ,dance parties etc rather than going to small bars with host boys.
A few of this young professional Asian generation seem to have some sort of thing against older farangs hiring money boys 
I think hiring money boys is looked down at from this younger professional gay crowd 
 

The thing is I have never "cruised" before .
How do you cruise say in a public toilet?
Can I get some advice from you experienced cruisers.
I'm talking more about the free sex,not cruising for money boys although that's another side to cruising areas 
There used to be a cruising forum if I recall rightly?
Is there still a cruising forum.
Say I go to Royal Gardens shopping mall,what sort of body language would I use, obviously I'm not going to walk up to a guy "would you like a BJ?
I had a middle eastern guy last year in one of the big shopping centres, wasn't the royal garden it was the other big one can't remember the name but I accidentally was looking at him outside the public toilets.
I was fascinated by his crocodile shoes, he saw me smiled and walked to the public toilets.
But being shy I didn't follow him in. I had no idea how to approach this.
next visit to Thailand on my bucket list is  visit every Bangkok  shopping mall  toilets to see if I could pick up both free and/or paid sex adventures.
 
 

I guess this coming into a new generation, most of the older ones have died off or don't go to Thailand.
The new generation I believe look for free sex off the apps more than hire money boys ,I could be wrong but that was my perception when I was in Thailand last year.

Because he's been to the Dr so many times for sucking cock and ass, the Dr figures it's best to keep his Testosterone low -  but Old Daddy wants some action 😳

Oh ok ,well I walked all around Sunee at night last month and had no problem,I even walked and lurked around that Soi that was opposite the old Le Cage /Mike's bar.
I think people seem to be wary of me with my long beard and beanie on😅walking in a dark Soi .I'm relatively big guy with long beard so I may not appear weak and frail 
I was more concerned of motorbikes driving fast past me than people 
I was a bit cautious in Walking Street however particularly on a weekend night with a lot of drunk young farangs around , thankfully it wasn't too busy,but one only has to bump into these young farang guys and next thing they want to fight 
But of course like anywhere you need to have your wits about you,  I tend to be aware of my surroundings and what's up ahead,if I see some drunk guys or something I cross the road.
THe Philippines particularly Manila I had to have my wits about me and be aware and confident .
You can always buy pepper spray as well from the market shop near Boyztown .
 

What I saw last trip is Boyztown is far more expensive in regards to pricing 
The guys in Boyztown seem more muscular,more " top" types than Jomtien Complex who seem to me more feminine twinky .
Sunee is open , Nice boys Go Go in Sunee had more man type guys with tattoos and there was customer interaction with guys ,I tipped several guys and played with their cocks & balls 
Winner Go Go in Sunee also has a lot of twinky guys and I sucked off a few guys in there sitting next to me .
I had two guys sit next to me on the bench,bought them both drinks and sucked their young hard dicks,both sitting next to me with ducks standing proud , I couldn't decide which guy to take back to the room so started sucking one off and I really wanted to sit my old butt on his standing up hard cock,riding him with my back to him ,  but I would be riding him up & down in front of the stage so decided just to suck him off and take the other guy  back to my room,not only that the Go Go bar owner Paul was walking around so decided against riding that hard dick in there .🥒
I doubt they allow that in Boyztown Go Go bars though 😂
🔵( I should add that I use the word "guys" rather than the word "boys" which I'm sure many "Karen's" that read these forums would take meaning as something else,so I use the word "guys," rather than boys which to me people/Karen's could interpret as another meaning IE underage, hopefully many of you will follow suit rather than use that outdated word "boy" )🔵
 
 

This is the 3rd time this has happened in the last 25 years of coming to Pattaya but still it makes me angry.
The other night I'm in a bar bought the boy a drink, sitting next to each other,the boy says hello to John or whatever his name was, john sees the boy with me but ignores me and sits on the other side of the boy.
John completely oblivion to me starts chatting to the boy who turns his chair to John.
Now john didn't bother to buy the boy a drink but obviously knew him as a customer
I was going to say something to John but thought let it go 
 
This once before happened to me in about 2009 in Sunee Plaza which a farang butted in and bought the boy a drink whilst he already had one !!
Just right in front of me got on the other side of the boy and bought him a drink !!
Me sitting there looking a dummy !
, I then walked away  leaving the boy and the Farang , later he  went too  and the boy came back to me in the bar ,I just paid the boy drink without tip and left too after that !
But guys !!  Surely Surely  you must SEE the boy is SITTING with another farang ????
Why would you do that ?
Should I get into a physical fight with the interfering farang?
Its just plain rude surely you are not that ignorant?
Is it a power play ?
Have to feel like your powerful ?
 
 
 

Your right , I have always found Russians here in Australia arrogant & rude , especially here in Sydney where they live in the wealthy areas such as Bondi .
I tend to avoid them 

What seems to be the problem there?
Theres plenty of jobs it seems and they aren't a third World Country ?
There seems to be a lot of Russian I meet who like it there ,I
would love to visit Russia one day ,after this silly war 

The only thing is you will have to look for it ,unlike Pattaya,Either Grindr or going out to meet boys, so it doesnt suit a lazy person or under confidence person,I'm a introvert but I still did it 
 
I love all the top guys the Phillipines has 
 
There is gay sauna in Manila 
But go out and meet guys ,best way like I did is ask guys especially those without a shirt on  for a picture with you ,slip them 100 pesos , give them your card with a number 
Get cards printed with your number 
I was gang fucked in Gensan by 4 young dark skin factory boys from 19yo to 23 all came inside me ,I think I paid 3000 pesos all 4 of them plus alcohol ,my bf did get them for me though , I had a sign on me CUMDUMP and my bf took pics as they were fucking me , all took Viagra ,
 
I also had much free sex from Grindr mostly straighttradies with Hilux utes 
 
 
 
 
 

Yes your right about the hotels being more expensive,nothing like Pattaya prices .
 

Unfortunately I work for a very large  Government department which is taking all this political correctness to the maximum
Recently I sent an email to my HR department to ask about a pay disrespency " Dear Sir or Madam " I started off the email 
Only to get a email back with the some policy of the Department now being non gender and we shouldn't presume someone is either a male or female etc etc 
Apparently the HR department person reading my email was traumatised after reading it and had to take leave for counselling !!
This HR guy rang me he sounded like a feminine gay his voice ,"Shana had to take leave over Xmas she was a bit traumatic at your opening email as it brought back memories of her bullying against their gender" 
I presume Shania was the HR woman who opened my email?
Anyway all this rubbish 
Isn't it getting ridiculous all this PC stuff ?
And another thing ..another thing if you can't joke about being a " poof" or poofter then get a sense of humour !
I had a couple of workmates telling " gay " jokes to each other the other day when one stopped all of a sudden and remembered I was a "poof" , " oh I'm so sorry"  he said and I told him keep going if he got into trouble I would be bending over forwards to help him out😂
I'm sick of everyone having to walk on  thin ice because of what they say is taken personally or seriously , 
I really stay away from serious sensitive people they annoy me