3 hours ago, hank75 said:

However he volunteered today that his room mate (who has been away, staying with a customer) is back in the room because the customer demanded sex daily until boy was exhausted and couldn’t keep up!! Apparently unkind words were exchanged when the sex quota was not fulfilled, boy got exasperated and stormed off home. 

Oh no, how sad for our ambitious forum member. He will now need to find another guy to off who has more stamina. 

Wait... this story is not as clearcut as it may at first appear.

Much depends on the deal made between the customer and the boy regarding being off'd for a period of days. If the customer had agreed on a rate that represented the equivalent or near-equivalent of a tip for short-time or long-time for each day they would be together, then I think it's only fair that the boy should know he has to deliver. Of course, if the customer was not agreeing to such a rate and still demanded daily service, then there is a good financial reason for the boy to get out. However, the story mentions exhaustion, not financial dissatisfaction.

If a boy in the sex trade cannot cope with daily sex then he shouldn't be in this trade. I've spoken with massage boys in Thailand and Japan, and many have told me they do an average of 3 customers a day, taking perhaps one or two days off a week.

11 hours ago, bkkmfj2648 said:

Oh no, how sad for our ambitious forum member. 

What makes you to think that customer is our member?

 

16 hours ago, macaroni21 said:

Wait... this story is not as clearcut as it may at first appear.

Much depends on the deal made between the customer and the boy regarding being off'd for a period of days. If the customer had agreed on a rate that represented the equivalent or near-equivalent of a tip for short-time or long-time for each day they would be together, then I think it's only fair that the boy should know he has to deliver. Of course, if the customer was not agreeing to such a rate and still demanded daily service, then there is a good financial reason for the boy to get out. However, the story mentions exhaustion, not financial dissatisfaction.

If a boy in the sex trade cannot cope with daily sex then he shouldn't be in this trade. I've spoken with massage boys in Thailand and Japan, and many have told me they do an average of 3 customers a day, taking perhaps one or two days off a week.

May depend on whether  the boy was top or bottom? Mind you, even if top, he is young, and as said, once a day should not be an issue. Indeed, some of our members claim to be capable of much more than that! Perhaps  more likely that the boy didn't like the customer?

Also depends on how long has the roommates has been staying with the said customer. If he has been with that customer for 3 straight months, daily sex for consecutive 90 days might be too much? Lol or maybe the sex duration? If daily sex, and its only 30min or less, vs, say 2 hour per session. Or maybe in 1 session, the guy wants multiple rounds? 

1 hour ago, spoon said:

Also depends on how long has the roommates has been staying with the said customer. If he has been with that customer for 3 straight months, daily sex for consecutive 90 days might be too much? Lol or maybe the sex duration? If daily sex, and its only 30min or less, vs, say 2 hour per session. Or maybe in 1 session, the guy wants multiple rounds? 

I believe the customer was paying him extremely well for a boyfriend experience. He was spending most of his time at the customer’s condo, at least 2 weeks but it could have been 2 months for all I know. So yes it was daily sex for days on end. Met the boy once briefly and he strikes me as a top. I was told the customer was Asian, not old, but “big a bit”

Last update I had was that the customer was trying to lure him back with promises of a motorcycle. 

 

40 minutes ago, hank75 said:

Last update I had was that the customer was trying to lure him back with promises of a motorcycle. 

 

He must be a very talented top with a very blessed appendage for the customer to lure him back with a very expensive prize despite being left by the guy for expecting the guy to do what he is paid for

As has been often stated here and elsewhere, it is very important to make your expectations very clear right at the start.

I have very few demands of my long term guys - just that they suck without a condom and are up for sex any time I feel like it. Being versatile is a bonus, but not always possible. (The cock is also important - no mooks, no silicone, large size - but that comes before any negotiations).

Although in my mind I imagine we'll be fucking all day long during my stay, in reality twice is enough if I'm topping. Maybe a third time if I bottom. My long termers have probably been relieved! 

A young guy can easily jack off twice a day - a morning and bed time wank is the norm - , so expecting that number of sessions in bed is not unreasonable. So any refusal to do so is not out or exhaustion, but out of choice. But it's important he is given that choice before you off him.

 

2 hours ago, spoon said:

He must be a very talented top with a very blessed appendage for the customer to lure him back with a very expensive prize despite being left by the guy for expecting the guy to do what he is paid for

LOL exactly my thoughts. I was hit by FOMO after hearing that and wondered if I should quickly grab the boy myself but I am not in Bangkok at the moment. 

I’m not entirely sure if I misunderstood the motorcycle bit but certainly the customer is wealthy and has been keeping him very very well compensated. That said, if you’re kept f*cking daily for something like 3 weeks non stop, a day off might be nice! 

52 minutes ago, a-447 said:

So any refusal to do so is not out or exhaustion, but out of choice. But it's important he is given that choice before you off him.

I agree but still not very clear on the exact circumstances that led to this choice. Sure customer isn’t attractive but realistically how many are? Possibly too customer approached it in emotional rather than professional language leading to boy getting upset as well 

Update on rich Asian customer at Freshboys. After 20 days, he has finally gone home. The 10 plus Myanmar and Cambodian guys he offs every night for drinking are now available to other customers for offs! Some of the guys are really goodlooking and stunning!

On 6/29/2026 at 7:13 AM, jason1975 said:

Update on rich Asian customer at Freshboys. After 20 days, he has finally gone home. The 10 plus Myanmar and Cambodian guys he offs every night for drinking are now available to other customers for offs! Some of the guys are really goodlooking and stunning!

boys may be eligible for  extra cashs as I was told bar pays some bonus to boys who had so many offs during month

20 minutes ago, vinapu said:

boys may be eligible for  extra cashs as I was told bar pays some bonus to boys who had so many offs during month

I don't think the bonus applies if it is offs by same customer.

22 hours ago, jason1975 said:

I don't think the bonus applies if it is offs by same customer.

that would be strange rule as off fee is off fee, no matter who pays it although I see some logic in that i.e. encouragement to bring new custom to the bar

1 hour ago, vinapu said:

that would be strange rule as off fee is off fee, no matter who pays it although I see some logic in that i.e. encouragement to bring new custom to the bar

I believe the management also takes into consideration the number of drinks brought in as well. The bars actually earns more from boy drinks.

On 6/21/2026 at 9:13 AM, jason1975 said:

We only realise how much we matter to each other last December when we had a falling out. He was unhappy that I went out with my friends (forum members) instead of being with him and I was unhappy with him for not trusting me. 

He doesn't know that you sometimes flirted with more than one forum member right? If not, I would be happy to keep him informed.

3 hours ago, Min said:

He doesn't know that you sometimes flirted with more than one forum member right? If not, I would be happy to keep him informed.

Blackmail?😂

You guys love to make fun of me. 😭 Anyway, should be time to retire this thread.

I am going Bangkok this weekend. Trip report will be in my weekends in Bangkok topic.

8 hours ago, Min said:

He doesn't know that you sometimes flirted with more than one forum member right? If not, I would be happy to keep him informed.

Since he has met a few of the forum members, I can’t imagine that he is the least bit concerned.

14 hours ago, Travelingguy said:

Since he has met a few of the forum members, I can’t imagine that he is the least bit concerned.

It could totally go the other way: Well, if he even flirted with THESE folks, is there anyone he WOULDN'T flirt with?

16 hours ago, jason1975 said:

You guys love to make fun of me. 😭

Just keep in mind: you are loved.

On 7/6/2026 at 4:28 PM, jason1975 said:

You guys love to make fun of me. 😭

I take it easy on you, because we haven't met....my dry sarcasm isn't always received well, even after we've met 😁

After not having been on this forum for a while, I'm catching up a bit. Nice to read your reports again. It immediately gets the urge bubbling inside me again; I want to go back to Bangkok too!

1 hour ago, emiel1981 said:

After not having been on this forum for a while, I'm catching up a bit. Nice to read your reports again. It immediately gets the urge bubbling inside me again; I want to go back to Bangkok too!

I bet you do , have that little girlie bum of yours played with darl ..I bet you do sweetheart 

Shakin that ass🍑...I see you baby shaking that ass 🍑...shakin that ass 🍑

3 hours ago, emiel1981 said:

After not having been on this forum for a while, I'm catching up a bit. Nice to read your reports again. It immediately gets the urge bubbling inside me again; I want to go back to Bangkok too!

just go !

2 hours ago, vinapu said:

just go !

And you... your calendar is out of whack, long overdue.