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While doom scrolling earlier this week, X showed me a picture of a guy that looked like the identical twin of my first boyfriend from more than 20 years ago. Well, identical except for a paw print tattooed on his ass which is both kind of odd and kind of hot all at the same time but I digress…. His IG profile was linked so I messaged him there and basically said I thought he was hot and that he reminded me of someone I used to know. A day later he wrote back and we have been chatting ever since. His English is excellent and, yes, he “makes content” but also has a science/engineering day job in Bangkok and is genuinely interesting. I am in my early-40’s now an…
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There are 18 contestants to vote from for the Mr. Gay Thailand 2026 contest. I believe that the winner will be announced on Saturday July 11, 2026. You can cast your vote up to Friday July 10, 2026 at 10pm Thailand time. It costs 20 baht to cast your vote** (see below what these funds are used for). https://www.bangkokrainbow.net/en/category/mrgt2026 Who would you vote for? For me, I like #7 - Khun Arthur https://www.facebook.com/mrgaythailand **
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Hi everyone, I'm lookin for a guy with big cock. Massage guy or freelance guy in Pattaya / Bangkok. Any recommendations, contacts , names of guys /places are much appreciated. Thank you!
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Just spent time in Europe (Portugal, Spain, France). During the 4 weeks of my stay, I paid nearly nothing in cash. Even the public toilets in France that charge 1 euro accept tap to pay options (including Apple Pay). I was amazed how few times I even had to drag out my credit card. Now, switch to Thailand, where "cash is (still) king" amazingly enough. What gives? Thailand has a really ubiquitous QR-based payment system (Prompt Pay) which is (still) unaccessible by foreigners (who do not have a Thai bank account). There have been a few initiatives, those from Kasitikorn Bank, for example, but all (?) the methods which exist still only can transact with "business" ac…
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I am trying to fill the gap until my next south-east-asia trip and decided to watch some gay thai dramas on Youtube. So far finished 5 (yes the Christmas/New Year holidays where rather convenient this year ...): - Waterboyy the series - Kiss me again - Dark blue kiss - Theory of love - 3 will be free While not always of highest artistic quality, the stories are entertaining, there is a lot of eye-candy and I can try to improve my (extremely modest, close to 0%) listening comprehension of the Thai language (now reaching 7%). It feels there is an almost unlimited number number of gay love series. Every time one of us guys enters a gogo bar in T…
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I have come across pictures of these two in several online dating and social media profiles. Chat (in Thai) leads nowhere (slow reply, long offline, I never managed to talk business). The last picture of the tattoo boy (with neck tattoo) is from 2023, which means pictures without neck tattoo must be before 2023. There is a good chance both (or rather the person who uses their pictures) of them are fakers or scammers.
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I would like some advice about whether sending some condolence money (?) to a boy after the passing of his father would be appropriate, welcomed, or if the whole idea is absurd. I did offer (as we send some money in our country even if we cannot attend the funeral and I am of the understanding there is a similar culture in laos), but his reply was vague and left me directionless. For context: we are not of long acquaintance, but at the beginning of a 2-month-long trip that started approximately 2 and a half months ago, we met (or rather we saw each other) at one of the bars, and over the course of my travels I managed to off him 3 times. My only regret was not…
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He probably meant to say "my brothers"...
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I met this Thai guy back in November, and we’re due to go travelling together in a couple of weeks. The plan is that I apply for a DTV by September, and he’s also talking about eventually moving in with me. The long-distance relationship since November has been quite difficult. I sometimes feel like he isn’t fully honest, even about small things. I also don’t really feel very loved by him—for example, I often send him what I think are affectionate or sweet messages, but he rarely responds in the same way. I realise this could potentially be a cultural difference, as this is my first time dating a Thai man, but I’m not sure. He also goes out at night quite often …
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Does Uber operate in Bangkok? If so, has anyone ever used Uber to go from the main international airport to Pattaya? If Uber is not at the airport, how easy and the cost of booking a car to go from the airport to Pattaya? I am familiar with the bus but I think I will not use the bus on this visit. Thanks.
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"Colonized" refers to a territory, people, or place that has been taken over, settled, or subjected to control by a foreign nation, often through political, economic, or physical force. Thais are proud to say that their country is the only one in Southeast Asia that was never colonized. Unfortunately, it is being colonized today, not through battles with a foreign power, but by a shrewd and ruthless economic takeover by Chinese investors. We first heard of "zero dollar tours" being conducted in Thailand about 25 years ago, completely organized and run by Chinese companies, with the profits going to China, and not benefiting Thai owned businesses with even one…
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For all you experts on Privateboy (Anonone) tell me where I can find this boy named Set.
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15 years is a long time and memories fade. But it was in 2011 that Thailand was caught out in a mini scandal during Sonkran that had local tongues wagging for quite some time. That year, three young girls aged 13, 14 and 15 got overly into the Songkran spirit. On one of the days they climbed on to the top of a minivan at the top of Silom, took off their tops and danced much to the delight of many in the crowd. Unfortunately someone posted a video on youtube. The Bang Rak district director filed a complaint with the police and urged that obscenity charges be filed against the girls. He claimed the topless female revellers had hurt the image of Thailand and distorted…
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What I thought was going to be a difficult conversation to have with Cam turned out to be quite easy using forum members as a jumping off point. With so many traveling forum members in Bangkok at the same time, Cam was able to meet a few of the members when getting together for our evening meetings. That allowed us to have some very serious conversations about a host of things…family, goals, dreams, relationships. He was curious about how we knew each other. I explained a little about the forum without going into too much detail, but said we had a shared love of travel, especially Asia in general, but specifically Thailand, and an appreciation for Asian men. Especial…
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There was this big boy who entered a playground and started picking on a smaller guy, insisting that he hand over his collection of toy guns. He broke the boy’s left arm and declared victory. But the boy hit him with his right arm. He broke the right arm but the boy started using his legs. Worse, he started to kick out at the big boy’s friends, landing a few blows here and there which left them bruised. The whole playground of kids crowded in for a look. The big boy kept spluttering: “I won! I won!’’. But the little one was still breathing and spitting back. Big boy told his friends to “help, help’’ and called them cowards. But they didn’t seem keen on joining…
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Greetings from the Land of Smiles! I am now in Bangkok after spending five days in San Francisco visiting old friends and colleagues. I do not plan to report as detailed as I did back in October/November, but will share some tidbits along the way. Since I will be here for seven weeks, a detailed ‘blow by blow’ (pardon the pun) feels like it will be boring and tiresome to read. Although it was cold and wet in SF, I did enjoy getting to spend time with my friends, eating at some of my favorite restaurants, and even managed to take in a play. I was shocked by the overall condition of San Francisco these days. So many businesses have closed. Entire blocks filled wi…
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Hey everyone, this is the continuation of my Dubai trip report. I arrived at BKK in the morning of February 27. Luckily, I had an entire row to myself and could sleep quite well during the roughly 6h flight from Kuwait. Before immigration I got a SIM card from AIS and then waited for quite a long time in line until I was finally clear to enter Thailand. All my flight’s luggage had already been cleared and I couldn't find my checked bag at first. Eventually, I was guided to an unclaimed baggage counter and luckily, my bag was there. I did a bit of research beforehand and found the bus connection to Jomtien to be quite convenient so that was my plan. I went…
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Never had such a stressful start to a holiday... While I was on the train to the airport (the travel time from my home to the airport is over two hours), I saw that the plane that was supposed to fly me from Amsterdam to Doha was still in Doha. According to Qatar Airways, the delay would be about five hours. With a three-hour layover in Doha for my flight to Bangkok, I was already getting a bit grumpy. I wouldn't make that connection. But the closer I got to the airport, the more negative the news became. Missile attacks in Doha and the surrounding region. Check-in wasn't open yet at the scheduled time. I had to come back in an hour because there was still no news about w…
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Has anyone actually been to this shop? I have been wanting to give it a try, but am specifically interested in one of their masseurs named Ice. I believe he was at History of Massages at one point in time. In their daily Line updates, he is always listed as fully booked. On their website, he is never even listed in their daily schedule. You can literally go through the entire month of March and he is never listed. I have also noticed that many of the therapists they show on their website and in the daily updates are not listed in the daily schedule. Not sure what is up with that. Thought I would see if anyone has been and what it was like. Guess I could always ju…
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What makes you pick Bangkok over Pattaya ? Or Pattaya over Bangkok Or ...do you like to do half n half .. I'll have half ...( Don't qoutec me on that saying as I remember it from. A UK comedy show back in the 1980s "I"ll have half " ...love thy neighbour What's the pros and cons ?? Well . Bangkok can grow on you Does Pattaya get boring after a while ..well yes for some and I shouldn't be answering that question thanks Well.... Bangkok more guys and non money boys to choose from I have been in Bangkok 3 days and already over 20 guys free from Grindr and gay saunas , , Filipino 🇵🇭and arabic , Scottish, Malaysian, American and o…
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I'm curious as to what time people start their evenings for a night out on the town and bar-hopping? Does it start with an early dinner and you guys go on from there? I try not to eat after 7 PM which means I have dinner relatively early following my diurnal activities, then return to my hotel or apartment to rest, shower, before setting out again around 9.30 or 10.00 PM. I try to look presentable and dress appropriately even at the most humble of venues but these days shorts and t-shirts seem de rigueur at the gay establishments. It seemed to me that I was often among the latecomers at the bars and occasionally ended up not having enough time to go to the venues that I w…
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What a stupid tittle for trip report – if somebody says that , I won’t blame him . I’d do the same. Still I stick to it. Reason is simple – during my month -long trip which took me to 4 countries of SE Asia I stay in 11 hotels and in 9 of those I was given room on , you guessed it correctly, third floor. Arrived at Swampy past midnight. Quite crowded , I was 11th in priority line. By time I cleared immigration and bought SIM card, my luggage popped out so I could go straight to taxi. Driver suggested 500 to Silom, I agreed but said ‘you pay the tolls”, he nodded approvingly. Considering that meter would be 300 plus 50 airport fee plus 75 tolls, that 500 was not tha…
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Prologue I’m at BKK airport starting to write this report. I want to hold on to the memories while they are still fresh as this trip was as always eventful and fun. This is probably my 12th trip to my Beloved BKK. I use this forum to maintain all the wonderful memories that I don’t necessarily share with other people. First report was 2013! I was still in my late late 20’s no husband no kids! I am now 41yo, Married + 2. I was supposed to fly to Rio for Carnival. Had everything booked. A month ago my best friend told me he decided not to come since he is not mentally at his best. I understood but was disappointed since I was waiting a long time for this vac…
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I was in Hat Yai last week and I can confirm that the Elysium sauna is very much running. The owner told me he opens on Thurs, Fri, Sat & Sun. I went on Friday evening which was fairly busy and again on Saturday which was packed. I was the only farang there both times, and I would guess that the rest were a mix of local Thias and some Malaysian weekend visitors. As expected 90% of the guys had no interest in a mid 50s white guy, but they were polite and friendly about it rather than hostile. The other 10% provided ample opportunities to have fun, especialy in the saturday "naked zone" party. The place itself is nice - clean, decent facilities etc. The …
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As far as I know only X-boys and Boyz Boyz Boyz have sexy shows, with X-boys having a raunchy, retro Patpong-style show whereas Boyz Boyz Boys is midly tiltillating. What about Castro and Dream Boys; do they have shows? Long before Covid I remember watching an X-rated show at Dream Boys. I was with a newbie friend whose mouth remained open throughout. 😅 I recall reading about a sexy boy show in Jomtien Complex where Aunty Vin was lusting after one of the performers to the point of going on a wild goose chase after him. Can't remember the details of the bar or the show. PS Could the moderators move this thread to the Pattaya forum, please? I posted it here by mi…
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