Gay Thailand

I’m currently planning my next trip for middle of 2019. I’ve not been to Cambodia on previous trips so planning to spend 5 or 6 days in Phnom Penh and then a couple of weeks in Patts. Anyone have any good suggestions for hotels in PP? Looking at Arthur & Paul or Rambutan at the moment but if there are any other good places to stay suggestions are welcome. Only places that allow visitors please. Is 5/6 days a good time to spend in PP ? Back in Patts, can anyone recommend Zing Resort? Found a really good rate for my dates but not sure if there’s a reason for the cheapness.

I think its common knowledge now that many airlines has a policy that you need to book a return ticket or out of country next destination ticket before they allow you to board the plane. Main reason is if you are denied entry to the destination country, airline have to fly you back home. I have done some research that some of the strategy if you dont have a set date of return or dont want to buy return ticket too early as they might be too expensive at the time of purchase, u can do few of the following. 1. Buy a fully refundable return ticket and cancel the ticket once you are in thailand. Some caveat is that your money will be held by airlines for a while before you…

Most likely a short thread as the question is simple. Decades ago the Bangkok bars competed periodically in handsome man contests. One bar hosted, the others sent their contestants, there was food serviced - a party like atmosphere with an actual party in the soi. I haven't heard of this in years. Are they still held?

Hello! I have a question about guys in a white T-shirt from the Zag club in Paradise complex Patong. What is their role in this club? My English does not allow to understand what the presenter is talking about announcing their appearance on the stage. Thanks in advance for your reply.

I've often wondered why gay establishments in Thailand don't promote themselves much. They will promote a new opening or a birthday but planes are landing every day with new first time visitors who know nothing about the gay scene and don't know where to go to have fun. I remember when I landed in Puerto Rico. I checked into a gay hotel. It was a dump and I had to stand in line with other guests that wanted a refund and to check out. The hotel told us all that we had committed to a 3-night stay and after night 3 we checked out! How did we end up staying at that dump? Promotion! They posted in the gay newspapers and were promoting themselves in the gay forums …

Of course you have to be clean.....but one thing I love is getting a long tongue up my pussy. ( butthole) Or being “ rimmed” as its known , its actually very popular up in the straight farang areas Soi 6 bar area where of course the best “Rimmers “ are the Ladyboys and thats why they can be popular among the straight farangs who luv their holes being licked & pleasured by a hot tongue lashing. Whilist its not the easiest thing to request in Pattaya unless you go for the feminine ttype boyz , money seems to talk and sometimes im lucky enough to find a hot straight muscle thai boy to lash my pussy with his tongue, The best rimmer I everwas a hot guy in New …

Saw these mentioned as ''homeplace'' from some guys advertising on gboysiam69, they seem to be in outer areas so probably not too many farang going there, but its just a try. Also, some seem to have a kind of site or page at facebook, I do not do fb at all so cannot see further details-even that would be nice if someone could access more info. CROWN spa, in Ngam Wong Wan soi 43, which actually is just on the border of BKK and in Patum Thanee province. The soi is very long and has many side-sois, so it wont be easy to find without info. Pause-Relax, in Phahonyotin 73, this is very far out of town, beyond Sapan Mai (new bridge), about the backside of DMK/airport, near ZEE…

A recent story from a venerable member here about arriving without an ATM card got me thinking about my resources should that happen or if I lost it. I've, recently, heard that bars are beginning to take credit cards for bar bills, including offs. How extensive is that? Even with my ATM I always worry that I will run short of cash on an evening out, this could relieve those worries. Does this work in Pattaya as well as Bangkok?

Hi, I'm from Tokyo and visiting Bangkok in early December for work/short vacation. In need of some advice so I can make my first visit memorable: 1) I am so-called Twink looking bottom, average hight (170cm) but super skinny. Is there any good sauna for someone extremely skinny like myself can enjoy? I'm looking to have some fun with people around my age. 2) Since this will be my first visit to Thailand, I wanna be little bit adventurous. Thinking of trying a massage place. As I've seeing threads here, it looks like the "happy endings" are not necessarily all the way service. Is there any massage place I can go all the way with a masseur? I will be stayi…

Hi, everyone, I am an Asian-American guy in my 50's. I am interested to know more about all aspects of life as a gay mature expat in Thailand as information that could help me with my plans to retire in Thailand, most likely in Bangkok. All information is needed and so appreciated. Eg, what is a good area so live at (Silom, Sukhumvit, Sathorn, Chidlom?), how do I meet like-minded people as platonic buddies that I can chitchat, hangout, hunk hunting together with (Tawan being my favorite place)? How-to and pros and cons of finding a hunk guy for a boy-friend? Things to watch out for, etc. I am well educated, friendly, sensible, sincere, down-to-earth, financial…

One thing I detest is negative type of people. You know those who do nothing but give off negative types of vibes around you , whether its looking doom & gloom or just complaining about everything. Nowadays if im sitting in a beer bar and there are farangs or even Thai guys who are expressing negativity then I move on, I dont want that negative energy of theres to pass over to me, they own it and I dont want it . Last visit I sat in Eden Bar having a wonderful tme before a Farang came in sat opposite me and if they talk to me i will always chat back to them, my parents didnt bring me up to be arrogant , so he started talking to me about small things and …

Now im getting older and nearly hitting the big 5, I have been going thru this “ phase” of trying to learn Technology,things like that instagram , facebook etc I like change and inlove to try to learn new things . But you younger guys that know about modern technology,( i shouldnt just say young guys ) can you explain how it can be now used in business areas such as Go Go bars . For example using cams in go go bars and then someone sitting in their hotel room etc can look at the guys on stage and order online , I dont suppose thats new ? Im too old lol But what other technology now is the latest that can be used in business? That can be used in a Go Go…

Hi guys, i’m a newbie so please bear with me. On my last visit to Pattaya I was in Eros Bar. I had some drinks and offed a guy. While I was there I noticed another patron went down on at least 2 boys. I thought it was hot and if I can get up the nerve want to try it on my next visit which is later this week. My question is do the boys get the standard 1000 or do you give them more because you are not paying an off fee, or do they get less because it super short time? I just want to do the right thing, so any help would be greatly appreciated.

Anyone stayed there? Is it ok to take boys back there?

Sometimes board members mention taking boys to cities outside of Thailand as a treat for them/us. How do you guys deal with the negative reactions, cold stares from the locals and especially the tourists? I often sometimes feel uncomfortable out and about with a boy in even in Thailand. No one assumes he’s my son/grandson. I’ve had boys hint at and ask me to take them to various SE Asian destinations and it’s sometimes tempting. But I’m not so sure how uncomfortable we might be made to feel. Do others have positive trip experiences?

I've always stayed at the Ambience and never Jomtien. I made a booking at the Poseiden for January. The reputation is superb, the price fine and I've read raves about the restaurant. When I booked, there was only the regular room available. When I check back to confirm I want to know if looking for a studio is worth it. If anyone is familiar with the various room types I would appreciate your opinion/observations.

Hey boys I'm returning next week after 2 years.... was just wondering if anyone could update me on where the real sleaze is these day in BKK and patttaya. Is it still goodboys, Eros and niceboys in Pattaya? Thanks in advance

I recently talked to a long-time friend who has now started using Ice. He says he only uses it for extended sex play. I didn't get into a conversation about it because I don't want friends using drugs to think that I am interested in drugs but I do have questions. Keep in mind that I have never used Poppers, Weed or any drugs beyond Marlboro Cigarettes and some alcoholic beverages. Can anyone tell me what the attraction is to Yabba? Does it get you high similar to that of being drunk? That is the only high I can relate to because in the past I have gotten drunk.

I’m wondering how much people tip waiters at gogo bars. I’ve often found the check bin process unnerving with people, I hadn’t ever noticed before, hovering around and hoping for tips. One thing I have learned from this forum: from now on I will pay with exact change so I can easily keep track of my change and who and how much gets tipped. Usually, I will have bought two or three drinks (one for me). I usually tip the waiter 20B per drink or a straight 50B. Is this amount ok? Should I place this on top of the book that arrives containing the check? Nothing inside? Now on to the highly controversial part. Usually I do not seek advice from mamasans, But they always ho…

Another thread has raised the question of perceived or expected tip amounts in Bangkok and Pattaya. As we are starting a new high season it might do to assess the 2019 expectations. By this, I mean the late 2018-2019 high season. What do you all think of: Bangkok: 2000 short time and 2,500-3,000 long time. Pattaya: 1,500 short time and 2,000 to 2,500 long time. Now, I'm talking about the expected ( by the boys ) going rate NOT the rate you finally agree on if you bargain.

Let's collect some more data with a 2018 poll What do YOU tip in Bangkok ? Pick the nearest value This is for taking boys back to your hotel. Pick the nearest value. The "mind your own business" option is selected by not participating. And, if you are at the high or low end of the spectrum, is there any reason ? High tippers: Are you just generous, or going after muscle boys, or other boys you perceive as top notch talent ? Which bars ? Low tippers: What type of boy are you going after, where are you getting them from ?

Note: The polls remain open after I have published this post, so this summarizes the situation at the time of publication. Pattaya Short Time 84% offed Twinks & 45% offed Muscle guys The average short time tip to twinks is 1200 baht, however 43% of them have to make do with 1000 baht. he average short time tip to muscle guys is 1360 baht, however 55% of them get 1500 or more Pattaya Long Time 83% offed Twinks & 38% offed Muscle guys. A similar ratio to short time, as expected. The average long time tip in Pattaya is 1900 for twinks and 2050 for muscle guys. Muscle guys get about 8~12% more on average. I have no idea why, but as a twin…

I had a sick day off from work this sunny windy Tuesday and feeling a bit rundown,so have been in bed with my computer. Strangely I received a message on the Facebook messenger,usually I dont answer but this one messaged me with “ when u come back Pattaya? Looking at their Facebook profile I recognised a Thai guy who was my ex BF. I have not replied back to him though. It started in August 2018 when I visited the hamburger s near Tukcom in South Pattaya. Looking forward to my big cheese hamburger they made there I sat down and admired how beutiful and clean inside was. I could see the Waiter approaching me from the corner of my eye but I never like…

My tip is for shopping. When I was at MBK, I found a metal elegant tissue box I wanted to buy for my sister. The lady selling it asked for 2000 baht. I stepped aside and looked for the item on eBay. I found it for $8 USD from China. I went to another shop, showed them the picture and the price asking if they had it. They did, I saw it before I asked. I asked how much and she gave me a slightly better price than the eBay price but she was not smiling...

Do we have a list of the latest Gay Thailand blogs ? Some are now outdated, Use to love Xiandarkthorne ‘s blog, hasn’t updated for a few years , I read on another forum he had passed away sadly.