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This might be a little sensitive. I would like to take my regular boy for STD/HIV tests in Bangkok on my next visit. While we do use protection and he has also assured me he is “clean”, we have reached a level of familiarity where it is just too easy to slip up. He was pretty upset the first time I felt it was necessary to broach the subject and offered to get tested (said in a fit of pique rather than a real offer). But I think I might offend him greatly and cause him to lose “face” if I insist on having him tested, and also being present for the test and result. Has anyone had a similar experience? What is the most tactful way to proceed? I also would like to hav…

Hey there to all!!! I'm back from BKK again, reporting 4 duty, haa haa, here's my latest report for all of you...to start, I've been with 5 hot guys and been to 3 new places for me, so I hope you all stick around for my 3 days report, okay? Let's get it on. On my 1st day, my most favorite go go boy, I call him Mr. Perfect Guy (you can read more about him on my previous reports) is not available but its a good thing Mr. Cute2x Guy (you can also read about him in my last report) sent me a message asking me if I'm in BKK and if we can meet and I told him to go to my hotel. Tip: For those who are new to this, you can ask the boy to go directly to your hotel so you won't …

Hi guys, rookie question here. Let's say you're staying at a hotel in Jomtien, is it still possible to off someone from a bar in Sunee plaza? How would you get back if you're a visitor and don't have a car? Take a baht bus or taxi together? I'm guessing that your time for short time starts when you walk out of the bar, so 20 minutes of traveling really cuts into the time heavily. Short time is normally an hour, right? How strict are guys with the short time timeframe? In this situation would most of you recommend using a short time room? Something about it just doesn't appeal to me, but I don't have any experience with them. In my mind it seems safer & …

Had a recent quick stay in Bangkok either end of a business trip to region. First night was during Songkran. Loved the party spirit and water fights. Stayed out by the university and great to see the local area on holiday. Drenched by smiling kids. At night went with Thai friends to app arena. They move the whole club outside and rig up ‘sprinkler scaffolding’ so you spend all night drinking and dancing under constant rain. Brilliant fun. 95% locals, guess 750 there at least. Sharing whisky bottles and getting soaked through. Great jet lag cure and so much more fun than the commercial tourist scene. Next weekend checked out silom area and took probably last chan…

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Any reports ? is it a host bar? is it associated with the Banana bar on Soi Twilight?

This trip , my 18th was a bit experimental. Most my trips to Thailand were short ones but always in connection with visiting other countries in neighborhood or on my way somewhere further away. Never flew that far just to be in Thailand for 1 week only and return home . Due to few factors I decided to try such foray this October, chalking that month off as well as it was my first Thai visit in October. It leaves me only 6 months to cover –Jan-Apr and Jun / Aug. Schedule co-operated to optimize my time as I could leave hometown just past midnight and return in the evening. And since trip is over I must say , surprisingly perhaps for me as I considered this id…

It moves the steps toward equality one more step in Thailand. https://www.bangkokpost.com/news/general/1600614/cabinet-endorses-civil-partnership-bill

Anyone knows what would be the best Thai gay chat? Looking to chat with gay Thai. Tks guys

I would like to wish all readers and members of Gaythailand and Gaybuttonthai a merry Christmas! For those of you in Thailand, have a blast!

I recently made it a personal goal to try and read all entries on the now defunct Bangkokbois (RIP) blog, which has helped to make the many hours spent in airport transit far more entertaining. Appropriately for today, resurrecting a Christmas post from 2011. Enjoy! Twas the night before Christmas, when all down the soi, Sex tourists were creeping, in search of a boy. Neon lights were all strung – god only knows how, While barkers yelled loudly their call of, “Show Now!” The boys were all listless, but strutting their stuff, Each a vision of youth, lined up in the buff. Mamasan was in drag, the captain in a tux, The boys were all wistful of making some …

Took me a lot of going back and forth about going to qspend ny year end in bangkok, mainly because flight ticket and hotel prices during this time is outrageously high. But the longer i wait, the higher the price will be and some accomodations actually sold out too. So i pulled the triger today, after making sure i can get the ticket at acceptable (still high) price, as well as my choices of hotels. I have to take leaves anyway or it goes away since i can only carry forward a finite amount of leaves to the next year, so its a matter of choosing where to spend my holidays lol. Due to ridiculous prices of hotels in silom during new year and new year's eves,i decided to …

Since I have only been 1 time in Thailand during high season and all my other travels in the March and October months (which count officially as low season) I am very curious how crowded Sunee and Boyztown are this very moment? Many farang visitors? The bars have a good amount of customers? Sunee was mid-October quite deserted, how is it now?

Hi guys, one more quick question. If you're a top, how do you communicate that to the guys at the bars? From digging through several forums, it seems like the majority of guys who work at bars in Pattaya are actually straight and will only be top. Is that the case? If you yourself are top only, how do you go about finding bottoms at the bars in Pattaya? In my case, especially feminine bottoms would be preferred. I suppose I may be over-thinking it. In my head I was imagining finding a cute guy at a bar, buying him a drink and chatting for a while, only to find out that he's a top-only. Not the end of the world, obviously! Can easily move on to other guys. I…

Just noticed it’s now down to just over 41 baht !. The latest fall is of course a result of the current uncertainty about the Brexit exit. In my humble opinion the population made a very foolish choice when voting to exit the EC. when I first discovered Thailand nearly 20 years ago I recall receiving around 70 baht for my pounds. I think the drop is much greater than that experienced by the € and the $. Whilst I am well funded I have hesitated when confronted by the financial,requests of my temporary Asian boyfriends, whereas in the past I was generous particularly with hot boys who give a good performance in bed. Certainly I believe the numbers of gay Brits in Thailan…

Anybody been here recently? Any recommendation? Tip for masseur?

This kind of act would add some interest in the gogo bars: https://youtu.be/NtZkN0Ab7cs

The Sky Walk at MahaNakhom is open to the public. MahaNakhom, aka “KingPower Tower” is that building that looks like its had bits of itself bitten off. At the very top, some 78 stories above Bangkok is an open air sky deck. The views are amazing! I had the pleasure of spending two hours last night at sunset with Forum members Reader and DivineMadman. One enters at ground level though security, walks down a corridor filled with electronic images and the corridor ceiling is a three dimensional replica of central Bangkok. Up a speedy elevator that has a sound and light show to the 74th (75th?) floor. Exit to a glassed in skywalk with stupendous views. Around a…

BARS Classic Boys Traditionally a twink bar. Had a reasonably diverse selection, including 2 or 3 good candidates for an off (I like twinks). The one I picked was the best looking lad I have offed for years. The drinks were about 400 & the off fee 600, total 1400. Left 100 in the wallet for the waiter and the pest of a mamasan asked for a tip too. I declined as the mamasan had been of no use. The lad was delightful in bed, but not so keen on the 1600 tip. I yielded to pressure to increase it to 2000. So total cost 3500 G-boys Made a brief visit. Boys not really my type. There is a very worn ladyboy working there. At one point it was stood betwee…

Dear all, I am visiting Bangkok for the first time and would like to try the 4 hands massage. Is there any recommendations? Millions of thanks!

I'm hoping this topic will be both helpful and new. I would hazard a guess that the vast majority of us get to Thailand by air and it's probably the single most expensive element of our travel. So, let's discuss how we go about getting the best fare/service. Do we book directly with airlines, use online travel agencies, apps like Kayak, etc.

Before I start, first I would like to thank you all for sharing your experience and views on this forum, this seems to be the blog everyone should read before coming to Thailand no matter how experience they are. I now feel so stupid not having done so before my travel but mistake corrected and now I do and therefore thought to share mine too. Second, a very special thanks to DivineMadam and Vinapu, you guys seem to have lot and lot experience and thanks to all your posting and recommendations, not only I was able to correct my mistakes (details will follow later) but was able to enjoy the time after having, which I call not a healthy start. Okay, now little backg…

Heading to Chiang Mai in January. I've not been for a few years. Any recommendations? It looks like Adam's Apple still going. Any others worth checking out?

Back in my room eating mango sticky rice noms as I wonder what to do until the night gogo bars start to open. Decide to write about my trip, years ago I learnt a lot of valuable info from this forum so hope this helps any newbies etc. Also this is just a place for me to write abt my trip like a diary for future reading and enjoyment, and not meant to be like a super informative guide, but hope it helps! Day 1 So landed in Suvarnabhumi Airport and the queue was terrible... almost 30 minutes for immigration. Took airport taxi which ran by meter to my trusted Le Meridiem Hotel on surawong road. About 280 baht + 75 for highway toll + 50 for airport fees. Ive been …

I'm very lucky to have been to Bangkok 5 times so far this year. My Thai fiance and I normally stay in an Airbnb apartment on or near Silom Soi 3. These are our favourite restaurants we end up at least twice every trip. Oasis. Opposite Meridien on Surawong. Robert runs the front of house and his wife Nadawadee manages the kitchen. Great food at very reasonable prices. 88 Eatery and Bar. On Silom soi 3. Anon is an inventive chef with really innovative dishes. Thai fusion tapas. Catch his cooking before the Thai hi soc recruit him into an expensive restaurant. G's on Silom soi 4. We always go for the Thai food rather than German. Super service from the Myanmar …