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I meant 2018😂I knew you would pick that up 😂

Starting with this newly uploaded post Saigon in the heat of April, there will be a series of reviews of five massage places in Saigon (Ho Chi MInh City) on my blog. It may take a few days for each of the rest of the posts to come up because I am still putting finishing touches onto them, in between catching up on work. It was a rather last-minute escapade. I found myself with a relatively free week and decided I would use it "productively". Since it had been at least 10 years since my last visit to Saigon, it was time to re-acquaint myself with this city. 

2028 B.C. I gather?

Very true (what you've said).
The (supposed) thrill of meeting someone you are unlikely to meet otherwise and having sex in public place with some danger added ... is a lure for many gay men. 
When I lived in Mexico City it wasn't uncommon, before the introduction of social media, cruising apps, etc., to walk into one of the men's rooms of the many Sanborn's chain of restaurants and encounter, in the open, guys engaged in blowjobs.  A friend of mine in Chicago, a church pastor, would cruise public park bushes in the middle of the night and suck off and get fucked by guys looking for money to buy drugs. 
Myself?  When I worked in Mexico City I had a regular consulting appointment at 8 a.m. several days a week and on the way to work I would stop in one of the Sanborn's men's room near to where the appointment was ... and, frequently, a student in an expensive nearby high school would blow me and sometimes I'd fuck him.  He in his school blazer and slacks and me in a suit and tie.
Back to Chicago:  before the social / dating apps I would cruise the 'bushes' in Lincoln Park on the lakefront 10 p.m. to 4 a.m. if I hadn't gone to the baths.  Scores of guys were there when the bars closed and the sex was good.  We were all grunting like pigs.  Every once and a while several police cars would show-up with lights flashing, bullhorns in hand, telling guys to get out - and some guys jumped in the water or let the police lead them out.  Me, I knew the police were not going to get into the bushes so I stayed put.  At the time I held a very good job and I could have lost it all if arrested for being caught like that. 
When we're young many of us throw caution to the wind.  As I've gotten older, much older, I don't often take risks like that.  But, never say "never."

What I noticed last year was many young Singaporean & Malaysian guys ( with partners) in the gay areas ,fit looking ,maybe professional types 
Are they interested in sitting at bars with old men or are they into rave parties & nightclubs 
I doubt they hire money boys.
To tell you the truth I saw most beer  bars full in jomtien on my last visit with a mixed crowd including those new age young professional types with a mix of elderly farangs .
I'm not sure why your saying that bars aren't busy 
Is it as busy as 2004?, No absolutely not,sunee was pumping ,BUT it was the case if closeted old men seeking out the illegal younger boys at that time and things have thankfully changed !!!
A lot of them would have died off plus the tough  laws and society attitude to this has changed 
But having said that ,this gay generation particularly young Asian professionals,on what I have seen ,seem to be more into rave parties ,nightclubs ,dance parties etc rather than going to small bars with host boys.
A few of this young professional Asian generation seem to have some sort of thing against older farangs hiring money boys 
I think hiring money boys is looked down at from this younger professional gay crowd 
 

The thing is I have never "cruised" before .
How do you cruise say in a public toilet?
Can I get some advice from you experienced cruisers.
I'm talking more about the free sex,not cruising for money boys although that's another side to cruising areas 
There used to be a cruising forum if I recall rightly?
Is there still a cruising forum.
Say I go to Royal Gardens shopping mall,what sort of body language would I use, obviously I'm not going to walk up to a guy "would you like a BJ?
I had a middle eastern guy last year in one of the big shopping centres, wasn't the royal garden it was the other big one can't remember the name but I accidentally was looking at him outside the public toilets.
I was fascinated by his crocodile shoes, he saw me smiled and walked to the public toilets.
But being shy I didn't follow him in. I had no idea how to approach this.
next visit to Thailand on my bucket list is  visit every Bangkok  shopping mall  toilets to see if I could pick up both free and/or paid sex adventures.
 
 

I guess this coming into a new generation, most of the older ones have died off or don't go to Thailand.
The new generation I believe look for free sex off the apps more than hire money boys ,I could be wrong but that was my perception when I was in Thailand last year.

Because he's been to the Dr so many times for sucking cock and ass, the Dr figures it's best to keep his Testosterone low -  but Old Daddy wants some action 😳

Oh ok ,well I walked all around Sunee at night last month and had no problem,I even walked and lurked around that Soi that was opposite the old Le Cage /Mike's bar.
I think people seem to be wary of me with my long beard and beanie on😅walking in a dark Soi .I'm relatively big guy with long beard so I may not appear weak and frail 
I was more concerned of motorbikes driving fast past me than people 
I was a bit cautious in Walking Street however particularly on a weekend night with a lot of drunk young farangs around , thankfully it wasn't too busy,but one only has to bump into these young farang guys and next thing they want to fight 
But of course like anywhere you need to have your wits about you,  I tend to be aware of my surroundings and what's up ahead,if I see some drunk guys or something I cross the road.
THe Philippines particularly Manila I had to have my wits about me and be aware and confident .
You can always buy pepper spray as well from the market shop near Boyztown .
 

What I saw last trip is Boyztown is far more expensive in regards to pricing 
The guys in Boyztown seem more muscular,more " top" types than Jomtien Complex who seem to me more feminine twinky .
Sunee is open , Nice boys Go Go in Sunee had more man type guys with tattoos and there was customer interaction with guys ,I tipped several guys and played with their cocks & balls 
Winner Go Go in Sunee also has a lot of twinky guys and I sucked off a few guys in there sitting next to me .
I had two guys sit next to me on the bench,bought them both drinks and sucked their young hard dicks,both sitting next to me with ducks standing proud , I couldn't decide which guy to take back to the room so started sucking one off and I really wanted to sit my old butt on his standing up hard cock,riding him with my back to him ,  but I would be riding him up & down in front of the stage so decided just to suck him off and take the other guy  back to my room,not only that the Go Go bar owner Paul was walking around so decided against riding that hard dick in there .🥒
I doubt they allow that in Boyztown Go Go bars though 😂
🔵( I should add that I use the word "guys" rather than the word "boys" which I'm sure many "Karen's" that read these forums would take meaning as something else,so I use the word "guys," rather than boys which to me people/Karen's could interpret as another meaning IE underage, hopefully many of you will follow suit rather than use that outdated word "boy" )🔵
 
 

This is the 3rd time this has happened in the last 25 years of coming to Pattaya but still it makes me angry.
The other night I'm in a bar bought the boy a drink, sitting next to each other,the boy says hello to John or whatever his name was, john sees the boy with me but ignores me and sits on the other side of the boy.
John completely oblivion to me starts chatting to the boy who turns his chair to John.
Now john didn't bother to buy the boy a drink but obviously knew him as a customer
I was going to say something to John but thought let it go 
 
This once before happened to me in about 2009 in Sunee Plaza which a farang butted in and bought the boy a drink whilst he already had one !!
Just right in front of me got on the other side of the boy and bought him a drink !!
Me sitting there looking a dummy !
, I then walked away  leaving the boy and the Farang , later he  went too  and the boy came back to me in the bar ,I just paid the boy drink without tip and left too after that !
But guys !!  Surely Surely  you must SEE the boy is SITTING with another farang ????
Why would you do that ?
Should I get into a physical fight with the interfering farang?
Its just plain rude surely you are not that ignorant?
Is it a power play ?
Have to feel like your powerful ?
 
 
 

Your right , I have always found Russians here in Australia arrogant & rude , especially here in Sydney where they live in the wealthy areas such as Bondi .
I tend to avoid them 

What seems to be the problem there?
Theres plenty of jobs it seems and they aren't a third World Country ?
There seems to be a lot of Russian I meet who like it there ,I
would love to visit Russia one day ,after this silly war 

The only thing is you will have to look for it ,unlike Pattaya,Either Grindr or going out to meet boys, so it doesnt suit a lazy person or under confidence person,I'm a introvert but I still did it 
 
I love all the top guys the Phillipines has 
 
There is gay sauna in Manila 
But go out and meet guys ,best way like I did is ask guys especially those without a shirt on  for a picture with you ,slip them 100 pesos , give them your card with a number 
Get cards printed with your number 
I was gang fucked in Gensan by 4 young dark skin factory boys from 19yo to 23 all came inside me ,I think I paid 3000 pesos all 4 of them plus alcohol ,my bf did get them for me though , I had a sign on me CUMDUMP and my bf took pics as they were fucking me , all took Viagra ,
 
I also had much free sex from Grindr mostly straighttradies with Hilux utes 
 
 
 
 
 

Yes your right about the hotels being more expensive,nothing like Pattaya prices .
 

Unfortunately I work for a very large  Government department which is taking all this political correctness to the maximum
Recently I sent an email to my HR department to ask about a pay disrespency " Dear Sir or Madam " I started off the email 
Only to get a email back with the some policy of the Department now being non gender and we shouldn't presume someone is either a male or female etc etc 
Apparently the HR department person reading my email was traumatised after reading it and had to take leave for counselling !!
This HR guy rang me he sounded like a feminine gay his voice ,"Shana had to take leave over Xmas she was a bit traumatic at your opening email as it brought back memories of her bullying against their gender" 
I presume Shania was the HR woman who opened my email?
Anyway all this rubbish 
Isn't it getting ridiculous all this PC stuff ?
And another thing ..another thing if you can't joke about being a " poof" or poofter then get a sense of humour !
I had a couple of workmates telling " gay " jokes to each other the other day when one stopped all of a sudden and remembered I was a "poof" , " oh I'm so sorry"  he said and I told him keep going if he got into trouble I would be bending over forwards to help him out😂
I'm sick of everyone having to walk on  thin ice because of what they say is taken personally or seriously , 
I really stay away from serious sensitive people they annoy me 
 
 
 

Yes many of them you meet in the apps (except the free  married closeted guys) will want to see you again and be your tour guide etc ( mostly uni students)
Even at 62yo I had a lot of free sex in the Philippines,it made it so difficult when I went back to Pattaya my last few weeks of the trip to have everyone ask for money for everything.
It didn't seem "horny" is that the word? to have some guy fucking my ass (Thailand)  knowing I paid him and he is staring at the wall barely enough to get a hard dick !
I would rather than have some tattooed tradesman in the Philippines for free who is closeted gay fucking my ass in his lunchbteak for free as his wife is not giving him pussy 
The best guys in the Philippines were straight middleaged guys , tradies who wore their high viz vest fucking me for 5 or 10 minutes.
No money involved 
I had one guy in General Santos City ( I think he was a electrician) about 35,very fit looking, tatts , pull up at my motel directly outside the door,with his ute ,child seat in the back, he fucked  me for like 3 minutes on the bed ,I was on my back watching his face as he enjoyed my old ass pussy, ,no condom , then say to me " now I empty my balls I feel so good  ,my wife doesn't let me empty !
With that and a smile on his dial,  he answered I presumed a customer call and he drove off on  his merry way in his ute  ,😃
 
 

I am fond of guys from any and all asian countries but if I had to make a choice between Filipino and Thai guys I would have to go with Thai for the simple reason that they are uncut. Just a preference of mine. 

Good idea.  I could actually be a woman if I am in drag, a very feminine blonde drag queen.

I agree  with both statements.   One dissent  though , guys asking for more may not perform even average but almost always are best looking guys so in half cases I find paying more rewarding because of , so to speak , esthetics  ,  

Why do I think it is this post that is rubbish? Throughout my career I have come across quite a few guys and gals who work in HR. The very nature of that type of job means they have to put up with considerable flak from other employees, often on minor issues. Any person allegedly "traumatised" and requiring "counselling" when reading a communication simply because it was headed "Dear Sir or Madam" would be nowhere near any HR department in any company, large or small.

Unfortunately I work for a very large  Government department which is taking all this political correctness to the maximum
Recently I sent an email to my HR department to ask about a pay disrespency " Dear Sir or Madam " I started off the email 
Only to get a email back with the some policy of the Department now being non gender and we shouldn't presume someone is either a male or female etc etc 
Apparently the HR department person reading my email was traumatised after reading it and had to take leave for counselling !!
This HR guy rang me he sounded like a feminine gay his voice ,"Shana had to take leave over Xmas she was a bit traumatic at your opening email as it brought back memories of her bullying against their gender" 
I presume Shania was the HR woman who opened my email?
Anyway all this rubbish 
Isn't it getting ridiculous all this PC stuff ?
And another thing ..another thing if you can't joke about being a " poof" or poofter then get a sense of humour !
I had a couple of workmates telling " gay " jokes to each other the other day when one stopped all of a sudden and remembered I was a "poof" , " oh I'm so sorry"  he said and I told him keep going if he got into trouble I would be bending over forwards to help him out😂
I'm sick of everyone having to walk on  thin ice because of what they say is taken personally or seriously , 
I really stay away from serious sensitive people they annoy me 
 
 
 

A lot of you guys leave the Philippines out when you talk about Asian boys , you all mention Cambodia etc 
But anyway that's not what my topic is about !
It's about what I saw last night in the gay sauna in Sydney Australia.
I particularly like Tuesday nights in 357 Sauna in Sydney as it's "trans night " , I'm not interested in the free entry to trans people but what I like particularly is that you can wear your clothes on this night and I wear my t shirt and undies .
So I arrived at 8pm $32 entry fee .
Put my stuff in the locker and yes kept my t shirt on.
Saw a few trannies walking around including Thai ones but didn't interest me 
A few Aussie Bears touched me but being a bear myself I wasn't interested so kept walking around 
What I noticed was about 7 or 8 Thai guys ,most were that feminine look walking or prancing around,none were interested in me it seems and I didn't chase them .
A few went Into the rooms with guys of middle eastern backgrounds and I presumed suck their Lebanese dicks ,I could hear it outside the room then sucking the arab guys cocks 
There was one Thai who was good-looking but he was waiting for me to ask him and I thought fuck that he can ask me so he walked slowly past me towel around his waist shirtless nice chest but I didn't say anything and then he bumped into me so I said want to go to a room 
He said " how will you pleasure me?
I said I can rim your ass ,he said show me your daddy dick with a screeching sound and then tried to touch my dick .. ahhhh not big enough he said , I 
I said fuck off I'm bottom anyway and walked away 
I then watched this group of Thai sluts going and out of rooms with guys of middle eastern and indian backgrounds.
So anyway about 11pm 3 hours after arriving I sat down on level 3 to have a free coffee only to be approached by a young Filipino ,hey he said this is my first time here he said to me .
He was brown skinned 20yo hot cutest smile with very white teeth  🔥
I thought fuck this can't be true ,😳😳😳and then I started to get nervous as other old guys walked past but they stopped pretending to stare at the wall paintings to listen to our conversation.
So I just said to him ..let's go to a room and he said yes ,I thinking if he said no I would look embarrassed with the old guys hovering nearby to listen 
In the room on he told me us Filipino boys love daddies .
He loved touching my beard and kissing , hugging ,I thought I just want him to fuck me but he was incubated with my beard and belly 😂
He said I'm from Manila and I come to Sydney for Xmas 
His brown dick was big thick biggest Filipino dick I have ever saw 
After he licked my beard, yes he liked to lick my beard , no idea why but anyway after he done that ,I laid on my back on the bench inside the cubicle and he stuck his 20yo dick into my asshole , I was using the popper to sniff as he mounted me standing up and I was on my back with my legs in the air on the bench 
I suddenly dropped the popper and it spilt on the red coloured mattress I quickly put the top on but the aroma was so strong and he easily put his young  large cock in my old anus stretching it as he looked down on me ,the strange thing the thoughts going thru my head as he pounded my asshole was me thinking he had the same face as that boy in Tarzan ,remember that kid in Tarzan he looked like him !
He was pounding me and I could hear someone trying to open the locked door then I could hear guys outside the door I guess trying to listen in as I moaned louder so they could hear ,"yes yes fuck me with your young cock " I shouted ,he started to laugh as he really pounded me ,then all of a sudden his body shook and he let out a grunt and I could feel him filling me up ,his cock was about 10 inches and it was buried into me right up to his hairless brown balls ,I could actually feel and I kid you not but actually feel his load filling up my asshole ." I didn't cum in 10 days" he said .
Then.. after guess what ANOTHER Filipino guy approach me hey he said tapping me on the shoulder " want to go to a room? In his Filipino American accent cute smile with white teeth brown skin , he was a bit older 40's?  But he had recedin
g hair but I thought beggars can't be choosers and if he is offering why not 😂 but he also topped me and loved kissing ,small dick though but wide and hard ,but wasn't as exciting as the first because this guy cum in like 1 minute and insisted on a condom,he said my son already fuck you 😳😳😳😳that's what I thought he said ? My son already fuck you !😳😳
But .😂He didn't have to use to much lube ,as my asshole had the previous young Filipino guys lube ,
So to me thais last night wanted me to approach them obviously because they think everyone wants them and expect me to beg
I'm starting to get over thai guys I'm saying you guys please try the Philippines,
www.357.com.au

For a few thousand Baht, a lot of things can and will happen. But my objective is not to get the boy at all cost, but on a budget. In fact, getting a boy on a budget, 500 THB in my case for boys who don't speak English and I assume have no regular contact with foreigners, is as much as a thrill as getting the boy at all.
And the amount of money does not change the service rendered. On the contrary, there is rather a negative correlation: those who ask above average, usually perform under average.

I've had guys whom I am 100% sure that are straight sucked me.. One guy was a construction worker in the Philippines, he agreed to suck me for another 500 pesos and with all the lights turned off.. He sucked it for a minute or two and gagged after he tasted my precum 😅 He said he couldnt do it anymore but continued on kissing it after until I finish..
 
There's a couple more who gave me a full blowjob.. Not sure if they are bisexual or curious though but I am sure that they are into girls. I catfished these guys off tinder using a fake girl account and eventually agreed to with this fake girl account's gay friend (who is me 😅) for less than 3000 pesos.
 
IMO, there are a lot of straight guys who would do it for money