[Heading to thailand again, first stop, Pattaya. Any member want to meet?]

Sorry our dates clash and I couldn't meet you this year. I always enjoy going to bars with you! @spoon please enjoy yourself!

[My First Time in Bangkok - November 2023 Trip Report]

Wow! That's an action-packed day! I am so envious of your stamina.

I will be content with just spending the night at Hotmale Beer Bar downstairs with the waiters.

[One week in Bangkok (Nov/Dec 23)]

After supper at Foodland Patpong, Z and I went into Dreamboys. It was 11 plus and halfway into their show. Fewer customers and fewer guys working as compared to last Friday night. Show about the same. Z enjoyed watching the energetic dance numbers. He sang along to the songs that the ladyboy diva singers sang. He didn't like the erotic cock dancing and big cock show. When macho man in heels appeared, Z was taken aback at first but he enjoyed it as the performance went on. "You want to tip him?" I asked, holding out a 100-baht note. Z said yes and appreciatively handed the tip to macho man in heels on stage.

Z recognised and called out to a Dreamboys guy. "He's my friend. He's from Myanmar." He is one of dancers for Sex Bomb dance and he is a good dancer. We watched him dance and I gave Z a 100-baht note to tip him. I can confirm that Myanmar dancer is not just working at Dreamboys purely as a dancer. He is available for off. He has a number on his white shorts and he went on rotation on stage with the other guys. So it seems that Dreamboys doesn't hire only Thai guys. They have guys from the other countries as well.

At 12.15am, the coyote dancing began signalling the start of the 3rd show of the night. Only 6 guys dancing compared to 9 guys on Friday. When they ended, 3 guys received 100-baht tips each while the best 3 dancers received 1000-baht garlands each to applause.

Z and I left after coyote dancing. I said bye to him. "See you next year, Myanmar boyfriend," I said to him as I hugged him. "See you next year, Singapore boyfriend," he replied.

[One week in Bangkok (Nov/Dec 23)]

My plan for the night was Hotmale Beer Bar downstairs, supper at Foodland Patpong with fellow forum member (he would leave Thailand two days later), catch a show at a bar and finally massage at midnight. O, the massage guy, offered to come to my hotel room after he ends work at 12.30am. Of course I said yes.

At Hotmale Beer Bar downstairs, it was one of the waiter's birthday and he had invited some friends over for a small celebration with some food at the sofa seats and table. I wished him happy birthday and gave him a tip. Z, my current infatuation, was working at the upstairs bar. News soon spread upwards that "Z's Singapore boyfriend" (a name given by the other waiters) had arrived and Z promptly came down to say hi to me. I told him about my midnight massage so no off to hotel. But how about dinner and watch boy show with me. OK he said. At 10.10pm, we adjourned to Foodland Patpong to meet fellow forum member and his guy for last supper until next year (tentatively middle of year in June).

[One week in Bangkok (Nov/Dec 23)]

I took BTS back to Sala Daeng. Saw that a new bar was being built next to Hot Male Beer Bar downstairs. It's in pink. Oh dear. Not a girlie bar please.

Got some lunch then lazed at pool waiting for Grinder guy. Not just one but two in fact. One Thai guy. Mid 20s. Tall and twinkish. Freelancer just like the Thai guy I met yesterday.

My other Grinder initiated session came in late afternoon. 34 years old. Laos. And surprise surprise he works at Super A! He was stopping by at my room for quickie before he reports for work at 6pm. Sex with him was the best among all the guys I met this trip. Experience trumps pretty boy looks, sexy 6-pec abs body and skilful massage skills, I guess.

[One week in Bangkok (Nov/Dec 23)]

Day 7 (Monday) - last full day in Bangkok on this one week trip and what a packed schedule. In morning after breakfast, I went to nearby St Louis Catholic Hospital to pass some money to my cha nuoi (godson). His condition had gotten worse since the last I met him and he had to be admitted to hospital for 2 nights. He had asked me to help him pay part of his hospital bill during his discharge and I said no problem. The hospital is just next to St Louis BTS. Modern and clean. Cha nuoi was staying on 20th floor. I knocked on door of his room and went in. A nurse was helping him take off the IV drip. Two of his Vietnamese friends were there as well to take him back home. One of them works at same packing and delivery business while the other was a stunner! He had tattoos on his left arm and was well-built. I had to ask.

"You work in bar?"

"Yes," he said in very low sexy voice.

"Which bar?"

"Jupiter." I was half-expecting that answer.

I thanked him for looking out for my cha nuoi and then proceeded to ask him for his Line account. "Ok. No problem. My name is Man. You good friend. You help Tiep (cha nuoi's Vietnamese name) long time."

"You good friend. Tiep sick and you help him."

I swear cha nuoi was rolling his eyes at my shameless flirting.

After the nurse finished her task, she left the room and I passed cha nuoi the money. I said my goodbye and wished him quick recovery and of course I also said goodbye to good friend from Jupiter.

[One week in Bangkok (Nov/Dec 23)]

Blackjack night ended just before midnight and my 4 guests left happy. I had invited Z, my current infatuation to blackjack night, but he was shy and didn't want to go as he didn't know the other guys personally. I sent Z a message on Line:

"What time does DJ Station close?"

"2"

"You want go."

"Yes"

I rushed off to Hotmale Beer bar downstairs, passed Z a 1000-baht note to pay for his off. Another waiter saw and he looked at me and pointed at himself. "Sure, let's go together!" So no change received and 3 of us were on our way to DJ.

No queue to get in but it was packed inside. 300 baht for 2 drinks represent very good value in my opinion, as compared to the 400 to 500 baht charged for one drink in gogo bars. We wandered the different areas in DJ Station but spent most of time at K-pop dance area. Z likes K-pop but he doesn't know the dance moves that the DJ Station regulars were doing. "You learn. I learn. Next time we come here. We dance like them same same," I said to him. Ok he nodded. I hope I don't have regrets! At 1.45am, we decided to leave before the inevitable huge exit crowd at 2am closing time. I thanked and tipped them before we split off and I went back to hotel to sleep after an eventful and fun day.

[One week in Bangkok (Nov/Dec 23)]

At 9.30pm, I went off to pick up the guys for my blackjack party. I had been in contact with them individually via Line the past few days about the arrangements. I have known them for years and taken them off individually. Now it has become a tradition for me to meet them together. They were all ready for me to pick them up, starting at Banana Bar then Jupiter. Two down, another two to go at Freshboys. I told the first two to get some food from the stalls along Surawong Road while I went up to Freshboys to get the other two. Once our gang of five was complete, we crossed Surawong Road and headed to hotel. We passed by the big Christmas tree at hotel lobby and I asked one of the hotel staff to take a photo of us altogether. In hotel room, we had beer while we played blackjack with me being the dealer. No actual gambling. We used chips and at the end of the game, everyone counted their chips. I gave token cash prize to the guy who won the most. But he had to wear a silly T-shirt out!

[One week in Bangkok (Nov/Dec 23)]

Hotmale Beer Bar downstairs was quiet at 9pm on a Sunday night. Just as I started to enjoy my drink while ogling the Sol Bar guys at the balcony, it started pouring! Everyone made a beeline for shelter. All the Sol Bar guys escaped into the bar. Thankfully the rain lasted only 10 minutes and life went back to normal.

[One week in Bangkok (Nov/Dec 23)]

Back in hotel room, I chilled out until night time. At 8pm, I received a message on Grinder. Thai guy. Mid 20s. Kinky photos on his profile. He doesn't work at bar or massage shop. He's a freelancer. He stays only 150 metres away from hotel.  Can walk over in 5 minutes. OK why not. An hour later, both of walk out of hotel towards different directions with him towards his home while I headed towards Hotmale Beer Bar downstairs.

[One week in Bangkok (Nov/Dec 23)]

After L left, I went to Foodland Patpong for my late lunch. As fate would have it, a fellow forum member had just finished a massage at nearby Adam Massage at Soi 4. He came over to chat. I told him that I needed to get more Thai baht and he kindly walked me to X-One. It was my first time there. Very well thought of process of limiting the number of customers inside through ticket system. Rate offered was indeed better than the other money changers in Silom area. After that, we took a leisurely walk and ended up outside Queen Club aka previously New Twilight. Directly opposite it was Golden Cock! There were 3 guys inside and one of them recognised fellow forum member and they chatted about the relocation and how's business. After short chat and update, we continued walking and saw Super A. The lights were not on but we took a peek and saw that there were guys inside. Hooray for them! Glad that these two niche bars are still surviving. Fellow forum member and I then continued walking to soi 6 and we said hello to the many massage guys who recognised him. We then resumed our walk and we finally separated at Soi Patpong where he went to Silom Complex and I went to get beer for a blackjack party I was hosting at night.

[how do i hire an escort in bangkok for multiple days?]

59 minutes ago, lelele said:

For this trip, im planning to explore the night life, gay scenes, etc. so will most likely be going out just at night. is this something possible w siamroads guides? Will they be able to join w me inside gay bars, sauna, etc. thanks

You should make an open call and ask fellow forum members here! Many of us will be happy to take you around (if we happen to be in Bangkok during your visit!)

[One week in Bangkok (Nov/Dec 23)]

Day 6 (Sunday) - I had L the massage guy visit me in my hotel room again in afternoon. It's my 3rd massage with him - one in his shop and twice in hotel room. By now, he knows me intimately and vice versa. Advantage of having a regular. After session, L was wearing his pants and looking out the window when he suddenly pointed to a building. "Casino," he said, "Now close." I then asked him whether he gambled. He said no but he knew of friends who did and they told him about that particular gambling den. I had a deck of cards and poker chips in my luggage and I took them out to play a few rounds of blackjack with L. Then he asked me,"I show you Vietnam poker" and I said sure. Vietnam poker has a points system with 3 cards. While I was trying to get the hang of it, L suddenly realised that it's time for him to go back to massage shop. "It's ok. Next time I meet you. You teach me," I said.

[One week in Bangkok (Nov/Dec 23)]

Day 5 (Saturday) - A tale of two Thais

I had pleasure of meeting two very interesting young Thai guys - both in mid 20s. I got to know them through Grinder. They hit me up yesterday and I am only able to meet them today one in late morning and another in evening.

One of them is a masseur at Olivia Massage. Shall call him O after his shop. English is very basic. He uses Google Translate when he messages me. But to be frank, during massage and sex, language does not matter. O is a cute twink. Very friendly and loves to kiss! Hardworking as well. Strong massage strokes. I had him come/cum (Lol!) to my hotel room for massage in day time so I had to pay an off fee to shop. O loved doing massage in hotel room. He took pictures and videos of city from window of room. After leaving, O sent me a message: "Let me know in advance when you want me to go your hotel. I can go before work or after work. I can also go during lunch break. You no need pay my shop."

The other young Thai guy I met speaks fluent English. He even types all his messages in English. He is the epitome of the young modern educated Thai person. He has travelled to all of the major countries in Asia except China and he has even been to a number of European countries. He studied aircraft engineering and works at airport where he stays nearby. He is looking for an older boyfriend after some previous relationships. We talked about interests and personal life and I found him to be a remarkable young man. He came from a complicated family background and is currently out on his own. His name starts with L but to differentiate him, shall refer to him as L+. When I complimented him on his achievements at such a young age, he was on the verge of tears and hugged me tightly. I think not many people have given him positive affirmation in his life. I hope he finds the right guy for his boyfriend and happiness together.

O and L+ are two Thai gay guys whom I will not forget and I suspect I will be keeping in touch with them for years to come. Most of the guys I got to know well during my trips to Bangkok are not Thai (and not gay!) They are mostly from Myanmar and Vietnam (due largely to their English proficiency). There are Laos and Cambodia guys I know as well but I need Google Translate when I meet them.

Oh yes, report on night activities - I was at Screwboys after supper at Foodland Patpong with fellow forum member. But no.93 wasn't there. Hopefully he will turn up tomorrow.

[One week in Bangkok (Nov/Dec 23)]

After fellow forum member left at 11 plus, I decided to go to Dreamboys. Show was midway. Seats all taken but mamasan managed to squeeze me in left corner. There were both male and female customers. I was seated diagonally across the hall facing a certain Hotmale Beer Bar waiter with Japanese lady customer in private sofa booth. I also saw many guys who were at Circus and Balcony in Soi 4 earlier in evening.

Show was same as when I watched in June. Mix of different types of performances for everyone from the casual curious tourist who just wandered in to the seasoned visitor. Ladyboy diva singing, energetic dancers, slapstick masked face comedy, macho man in heels dancing and the usual erotic dancing with cocks exposed - this had everything for everyone! The entire show lasted till 1am with 10-minute intermission every half hour where the guys went on stage for prospective customers to off. Half the audience left at midnight after big cock show. After 10-minute intermission with guys on stage, the show continued. Coyote dancing at 12.30am saw an appreciative customer giving 100 baht tips to the 9 guys who danced. They formed a line to collect their tips with one guy even kneeling and wai-ing!

At 1am, the music stopped and show was over. I headed to Screwboys to off the guy I saw last night (no.93). Unfortunately he had been taken. So I went back to hotel alone on day 4.

[One week in Bangkok (Nov/Dec 23)]

Back to last night. It was a fellow forum member's last night in Bangkok. I have known him since Soi Twilight when he used to sit at Maxis. During the past few nights, I have been hanging out with him at Hotmale Beer Bar downstairs. We also met other fellow forum members for dinner and drinks. When it was finally time to leave, there were hugs and goodbyes for him from the waiters. "Take care and see you next year!"

[One week in Bangkok (Nov/Dec 23)]

Instead of continuing about the rest of my night (at Dreamboys), I want to share this video of a group of Brits taking over Hotmale Beer Bar downstairs for their Christmas party on a Saturday afternoon. They were originally at Shenanigans but they moved to Hotmale Beer Bar downstairs presumably because the beer is cheaper. And obviously they requested the music to be changed to Christmas playlist!

[One week in Bangkok (Nov/Dec 23)]

It was a crazy Saturday night at Hotmale Beer Bar downstairs because two regular lady customers visited. One Japanese lady customer was locked in embrace and kisses with a particular waiter at the sofa. They then adjourned to Dreamboys in private sofa seat with bottle service to enjoy their show. Yours Truly happened to go to Dreamboys and sit directly opposite them. The particular waiter looked half drunk by the time they left after midnight.

The rest of waiters at Hotmale Beer Bar downstairs became half drunk due to a Thai lady customer who showered them with whisky shots. She's a regular and when she comes, most of the staff crowd around her. They even change their music from English songs to Thai just for her and they sing, dance and drink throughout. She ordered shot glasses to be brought out and she personally poured bottles of Jagermeister into each shot glass full to the brim and then gave them to the waiters to drink. Most got 2 to 3 shots while her favourites got more than 5 shots. I presume she tips them when she leaves. I wasn't around to see the tipping but I did find out that her total bill for drinks once hit 20k baht in one night!

[One week in Bangkok (Nov/Dec 23)]

Day 4 - In morning, I got hit upon via Grinder by a university student at nearby Chulalongkon University. Early 20s. He wanted to come to my hotel room and he asked for 2pm. So I did not have anything planned for early afternooon and waited patiently. 2pm and there was no word from him. I had to send a message asking if he was coming. At 2.30pm, he replied that due to school work, he had to postpone to 5pm. At 5pm, he messaged to say he would be late. I smelt a scam. I wanted to cancel but Netflix saved him by keeping me occupied the whole afternoon. "Near now. Please wait," he said at 5.30pm. He finally arrived at 6.10pm. I was glad that I waited. He was very willing to please and worth his short time tip.

However, during the afternoon while waiting for uni guy to appear, I rejected 2 opportunities to meet - one was from Soi 6 massage guy L whom I saw yesterday and another was young Thai working as engineer who found me on Grinder. In fact, I would count it as 3 opportunities lost because fellow forum member went to One Spa and I could have joined him but didn't. Thankfully, uni guy and I clicked when we met so I  have no regret at the 3 missed opportunities.

In evening, I went to Circus on Soi 4 for dinner. Sat at front row perfect view to eat slowly and watch people passing by. I enjoyed seeing the reactions of curious straight tourists who walked in and did a U-turn back out. Seeing the Jupiter guys report for work was a treat. I stopped B, a Laos Jupiter guy and offered him dinner. He said he had eaten but he was accommodating to sit with me for a few minutes to chat. B is a longtime guy I know from Banana Bar.  I swear he gets more handsome every thing I meet him. He agreed to an off for Sunday night.

I noticed many (Asian) bears going up the stairs to Hugs Bar. Glad to see that there are niche places for different interests. A group of European-looking older gentlemen sat to my right at Circus and had beer. Later, I would see them at front row in Dreamboys watching the show. Circus had a cabaret show inside srarting at 9pm, with its Aussie owner taking limelight as show announcer. At 9.15pm, I paid my bill and made my way to Hotmale Beer Bar downstairs.

[One week in Bangkok (Nov/Dec 23)]

I decided to check out Screwboys so I went in after saying goodbye to the guys at Hotmale Beer Bar downstairs. It was about 11.40pm. Few customers and 2nd show was going on. It was erotic dancing with some guys touching and rubbing a guy with erected penis sticking out. After that was big cock show where the guys went looking for tips. The guys in basketball singlet and shorts seated outside came inside for rotation on stage after the big cock show. Twinks galore! But I wasn't offing anyone. I just spent the next hour looking and ogling. Something new at Screwboys is mamasan calling the guys to catwalk down the narrow aisle one by one. Really nice way to showcase them and introduce them to audience. I saw Sol Bar do this yesterday night and of course it's copied from Jupiter.

After midnight, groups of Thai ladies came in. They ordered bottles and invited the cutest guys to sit with them and drink. I counted 15 ladies against 5 lonely male customers at 1am when the 3rd show began with ladyboys singing. I decided to leave. As I walked out the door, I scanned the guys seated outside and tipped one guy whom I took a fancy to. Number 93. Later on back in hotel room, I spotted him on Grinder and I sent him a "Hi" message. He replied immediately.

"Thank you for tip. Tomorrow you come my bar?"

"Yes"

"Tomorrow I wait for you."

And that ends Day 3.

[One week in Bangkok (Nov/Dec 23)]

Hotmale Beer Bar downstairs was quiet on a Thursday night. A the charismatic bartender had been taken off by customer. "Customer take him for eating," said A, his sidekick and best bud. They are the only ones allowed to operate the cash register. So it's not possible to off both of them at same time. Believe me, I have tried for years. Why can't management train more staff to be cashiers?

T, the Laos waiter asked me if I was keen to go DJ station. I said I would think about it. Z, the Myanmar waiter then appeared and asked me the same question! Now there was no way I would take Z off to go DJ station and then let T discover it. So I said no unfortunately. It was also a no to offing Z for sex because I already had my fill in afternoon with L, the massage guy. I am not like our (in)famous forum member @vinapu who can meet three guys in a day! So I just ended up buying drink and chatting with Z while at the same time ogling at the Sol Bar guys at balcony. P, my off, from last night had sent me a message in afternoon which included an impressive video of him lifting weights at Lumpini Park gym. ("I pay 1000 baht every month for gym and I go every day"). P was looking for a repeat and he even crossed the soi to say hi to me. Sorry I am not offing anyone tonight. I gave him a tip and said I might see him again another night.

[One week in Bangkok (Nov/Dec 23)]

After massage, I took a nap. I had such a good sleep that I was surprised to wake up at 7pm! I had slept for 3 hours! I had a dinner appointment with fellow forum member at 8.30pm at Wine Connection at Silom Complex. I went there and we had dinner with our partners. 4 of us shared a bottle of wine and ordered individual salad dishes and a pizza. My Vietnamese con nuoi (godson) came along even though he was down with dengue fever a few days ago and is currently slowly recovering. Unable to work at his logistics packing and delivery job on doctor's orders, he had to forego his wages for these few days so I quietly slipped him some money to tide him by. I asked him why he only wanted to work at Dreamboys at night when he could easily work at Sol Bar and Screwboys (which I confirmed had Vietnamese guys. Report on Screwboys later). Con nuoi said those bars few customers compared to Dreamboys. We finished our dinner just before closing time at 10pm and parted ways. I was on my own for the rest of the night and of course I made my way to Hotmale Beer Bar downstairs.

[One week in Bangkok (Nov/Dec 23)]

Day 3 - L, the massage guy from yesterday's massage came to my hotel at 2 plus. Yesterday, at the room in his massage shop on Soi 6, he had his clothes on until midway when he asked me if I would tip him for extra service. Only then did he get naked. This time, the moment he entered my hotel room, I started unbuttoning his shirt then lowered his jeans and black boxer briefs. (Same as yesterday? Or does he have several pairs of same type?) I also got naked and led him to my bed for massage to start. I believe it was easier for him to massage because the hotel bed is much bigger than massage bed. He was literally on me as he massaged me body on body, with his warm expanding cock rubbing against my a-hole. He didn't bring any massage oil or cream but the massage still worked because of his skilful strokes. It was one of the best sessions I had, erotic massage leading to sex. Yesterday, I asked him if he would cum with me. He had replied that he was working so he couldn't. But on hotel bed, HE got so horny that he begged me to jerk him off. He said he was man so he won't bottom but surprisingly, he allowed me to finger him deeply. I found his G spot and finger fuck him while he jerk his cock furiously. Finally he let out several cum shots which reached his chin. I kept him on hold and didn't let him wash up until I unloaded my cum on his sexy abs. After that we showered, I paid him his tip and he went back to his massage shop to work. Sorry this report sounds like amateur porn but I am just reporting what really happened. Hehe.

[One week in Bangkok (Nov/Dec 23)]

5 minutes ago, yp11 said:

Sound interesting, how many boys perform in big cock show? Is their boy mostly are twink or twunk? I will visit Sol bar next time, once the entertainment time extend till 4am maybe they will have 2nd show.

8 guys in big cock show. Mostly twunk.

[One week in Bangkok (Nov/Dec 23)]

I asked P if he was not with me, which show he would be in. He said the erotic dancing. He also said some nights there's a shower show and he would be in it. "You do shower show for me in hotel?" I asked. Yes he said. After the SM show, the Sol Bar guys came up on stage. I gave 100 baht tips to numbers 10 and 14 - one for nice smile and another for well proportioned body. Both I suspect our forum member @vinapu would approve. I didn't do the @vinapu tuck into their white shorts though. Finally, P, being a good friend, asked me to consider tipping his friend, no. 18 and I did willingly. I love how P looks out for his friends.

We left Sol Bar and in hotel room, P kept his word and gave me a shower show. He's a true pro. Well worth his tip!