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I took a good look at myself in the mirror this morning. OMG! Who the Hell is this guy? Where did Mavica go? 6'2", 205 lbs., 36 waist. The occasional brown spots from blood thinners. Oh, about to turn 75 in a couple of months! Prompts me to express gratitude that anyone will warm my bed ... for pay, or ... not likely ... for free! Thanks for the memories!

Olddaddy - I escaped the water gun fights of Songkran to Vietnam and I had a great time. I was in lovely Da Nang on the South China Sea for 12 days and it was great. I used the local gay tour guide services of Lê anh - a cute fun guy (no sex - as I did not ask as I made separate arrangements for that as my Heesay app |formerly BLUED| was always FULL with meet requests). I asked him this morning if I can share his contact details here and he said yes. Line and Whatsapp Grindr and Heesay (formerly BLUED) Enjoy Da Nang as I found the prices to be 20% less than in Pattaya due to the poor performing Vietnamese currency (VND Dong).

Many of us are getting older, and our interests and preferences have changed. Being in bed by 10 p.m. can be the new norm. So arranging for someone to entertain / service / please / accompany us earlier rather than later in the day is what we look for. 😁

Why did Von ShitzInPantz claim he was not allowed to testify due to the gag order, and he turned to his attorney who nodded in agreement? Does he think his MAGAt supporters are so stupid they'd believe this??? Silly question, I know. He does and they are.

Judge Merchon threatened to jail tRump today. Put Trump in Epstein’s cell!

?? AMLO is the President of the Republic of Mexico.

More info about my recent trip to Da Nang can be found in the below 3 links. https://www.gayguides.com/forums/topic/50942-i-may-do-a-side-trip/?do=findComment&comment=389766 https://www.gayguides.com/forums/topic/50942-i-may-do-a-side-trip/?do=findComment&comment=389909 Enjoy

I sometimes watch old videos on Youtube. Hoping to find som new ones from the past, but usually no luck. A moment ago I stumbled across this one, I had seen it before, but how can it be that this still brings tears to my eyes? Many familiar faces, thai and falang. The bar where my beloved worked can be seen, but at this time already under another name. Happy that he is still with me today after 18 years.

When I started to read this sentence, I thought you were going to say you were tight, like a virgin......I won't say what I was thinking after finishing reading that sentence, is too crass even for @gayinpattaya 😬

Hear, hear! Totally agree. It's patently discourteous of these shops to post such ugly photos offensive to our sensibilities. We present our lux bodies and our handsome features to the boys and they have the gall to pester us with these hideous images.

I'd be interested, Foolish, if you have been to Pattaya or Bangkok? The most important thing is not to expect Phuket (specifically Patong) to replicate the sort of scene you find in those two places. It's a good place for beaches- though not the best in my view- and has some good hotels, but you'll be disappointed if you expect to find the extent of gay life available elsewhere.... I found this out as long ago as 1997....which is not say that none exists around the Paradise area. I recall massage joints and a number of bars. So if you go there, explore the possibility of other activities rather than relying on the scene. By the way, prices used to significantly higher than in Pattaya ...but I haven't been there for six years or so.

>>Sara is the intimacy director and consent consultant for LA Opera.<< Sara Widzer got a credit. Have you been to the movies lately. If you were in a room where making the movie was discussed you get a credit these days. It seems ridiculous to me, but then it isn't my industry and I don't know what having a credit really does for you. I do recall reading about tech companies some time ago offering people bigger titles if they'd take less pay. Some people took them up on it, since it would help with their next job.

You may want to read my report from January trip. I stay on Paradise Complex which epicenter of gay life in Phuket, not that is much left of it. Don't remember name of hotel but was right beside Zag, main gay venue in Phuket. I did not have much luck on my 2 days/ nights there but still I m glad I went

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yes I agree 100% - there was one Oral Academy guy that I wanted to off and take home at all costs. I asked the owner to please help me make it happen. So, when the model finished his work I sat with him at the front part of the bar - near where the entrance is. He did not speak any English but the "woman" next to him did. So, I had to tell the woman all the details about what I wanted from him. She replied to me - Excuse me, but I am his wife - I send him here so that all of you can look at him - he is my baby - and he will only do what I tell him. She said, if you want him then you need to off the both of us - as a husband and wife team. I declined the offer as I wanted him ALL for myself. In my 9 years of working and living in Budapest - this type of above situation manifested itself more than one time. Many of the wives were punting out their husbands to bring in more income (bacon). I always found it amazing that the wives were never jealous. I became VERY close with one of these types of straight guys and I actually got to know the wife who liked me because she did not see me as a threat to their relationship. I saw her husband for 4 years - but in year 3.5, he betrayed her and used my name as his alibi. One night she called me frantically at home looking for her husband (he told her that he was with me giving me a massage) and instead he was out with another woman. I was so angry at him for using me as an alibi and not even telling me about it.

The Action Bar also had a 2-way mirror looking over the urinal trough so you knew who was hung and who wasn't. I loved the Oral Academy, as the guys were very well endowered and quite a mouthful!

Yes - Budapest's hey day was when the Action Bar was in its FULL glory. I lived in Budapest for many years and I went to the Action Bar almost every weekend. In addition to what you write above, on Thursday nights they had "Meet your Escort" night where you could meet many of the escorts that you would see in Hunqz or others who did not advertise. It was fun to meet them outside of the bedroom. Ironically, the former owner of the Action Bar is here as a retiree in Pattaya.

not the same.....

fortunately now we have apps in our hour of need, not to mention massage places are everywhere

Last night in Supertown, M Bar was very busy with many customers and boys. M Bar is not on the main soi in Supertown but on the next soi over, near Agate Hotel

It was the twins, Es and Em's birthday at Poseidon. Not Chinese people. They invaded cocka2 bar afterwards, were our group of 10-12 were sat. You are correct that a lot of the complex was dead, and has been since the end of Songkran, but the well run bars are busy as usual. While I love low season, the Complex has lost 2 bars in the last 2 weeks (Lambada and BC Bar). It's likely they won't be the last to shut up shop. There simply isn't enough expats and/or tourists to support 30+ bars in the complex.

and Golden Cock gave you somewhere to go early in the afternoon for a drink and some fun, didn't have to wait until 9-10pm.

Yes, OK, but I like a bit of atmosphere. In Bangkok, the Golden Cock, for example, in its glory days, lots of boys, in various stages of undress, some sitting on sofa, cocks out, a farang getting a blow job at the bar!

Yes, I followed the daily cherry blossom report on TV but it kept changing in line with the unpredictable weather. But we didn't have any particular time -frame; we stayed there until we saw them in full bloom in Kyoto, Tokyo and other areas.

Yes yes very true Vinapu 😂

indeed, remember all we need is one bar and one boy in it as long as he meets our specifications

For a first visit, stay in Chapigay. Everything is walking distance and all of the gay-ness is walking distance. There are also a few clubs and bars in Zona T immediately north of Chapinero. Yes, the buildings in the hills above Avenida 7 are considered a very desirable place to live with excellent restaurants and amenities. As for guests, this topic has been covered to death here. The vast majority of hotels will charge for overnight guests. Find out the fee in advance. Some exceptions to the rule have been shared here. If you want total access, it's Airbnb/VRBO for you and expect mandatory registration of all guests with the doorman/security. You may luck out on a building without that, but it is to your benefit as has been discussed previously. If you absolutely cannot abide either option, there are tons of love motels in the zona and multiple sauna options. FWIW When in Bogotá I stay either in upper Chapinero or in the Parque Virrey neighbourhoods. I also walk frequently alone at night because I know the city and the different barrios. For a first-time visitor, use Uber or Indriver and stay safe. Enjoy!

There are definitely a lot of clubs, saunas & massage parlors, Id say stay in Chapinero close to Parque de los Hippies, you can stay on the nicer side of Avenida 7(?), but overall Bogota isn't that safe to walk around at night unless there's a lot of people out or you're in a group, unless you wanna stay far away from all the action.

Or you could use a dildo or some large vegetables to "squash" that desire, so to speak 😝

I must be pervert but for me ever new trip seems to be better than those previous ones. Not that I did not have fun then but I think now I'm better in navigating system and fishing boys closest to my dreamed of specification while then I tend to catch first who crossed my way and smiled at me. But it's just me

It sounds as though you'd be surprised. I got forcibly fondled and groped by my gym teacher when I was 12. I reported the episode immediately. At my 20-year reunion, I found out he did that with a number of other boys. I obviously understand actors need direction with each scene. My surprise was that a director (especially a female director with a university degree in directing) couldn't take care of it--especially since this was simply an opera with only a few kissing scenes (nothing really intimate). I understand the need in some movies, etc., but--really?--a 19th century Verdi opera?

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It isn't company. It is coop of gay guides from 7 countries. Yes, Siamroads.com