[First time Pattaya]

Lots of good information here about the three main gay areas, and yes, I still count Sunee - plenty of life left in that old dog yet! I have had some stunning nights in Winner Boys and Nice Boys in the past.

But there are also boys to be found everywhere across the city -

There are dedicated boy massage shops, but also mixed-gender massage shops with boys. Happy endings are available in most boy massage shops, and also in the mixed-gender shops occasionally. 

And as the bars close of an evening and the late-night clubs and karaoke bars open across Pattaya there are hundreds of boys to meet, party with and possibly more, until the wee small hours of the morning.  Most karaoke bars are Thai orientated, but we have never been turned away from one, and there are a bewildering number of them!  Many of the boys are straight, but most will party with guys as happily as girls.

@colmx is the expert on these and the clubs and could say more.

[A boyfriend?]

3 hours ago, TotallyOz said:

I have a real love BF. It has been almost 19 years. He is great. He was not a money boy when I met him and he never asks for money.

@floridarob(we won't talk about houses, cars, motorbikes, etc). I do think a flat fee would have been cheaper.

But, do I believe he loves me. Yes. Does his mother agree with me?  Yes. Does his son and daughters agree?  Yes. Does his wife agree?  Yes

It is unanimous. And, I also adore him. He is now pushing 40. He has always said I was top priority in his life and he has put me so.

I had to read that twice and am now desperate to learn the larger back-story to this, even though there are recognisable shades of this permutating my own 'romances' in Thailand.

I do have a boyfriend now, although I share him with a Swiss guy. When he is with me I am No. 1, when he is with Mr Switzerland he is No 1. Kinda works in an odd way. Fortunately we both holiday at different times with the lad, but I do kinda wonder who is his No 1 when neither of us are in town? 🤣

At the end of the say we will each have a different story (or stories!) to tell, but as long as we are happy with whatever relationship(s) we have, surely that is all that matters?

[Farang fraternising?]

I guess I have met many BMs over the years, although most from the other forum I am on. Always interesting to meet new people, some I see again and again on subsequent trips, others are happily only passing ships. 

However, I have been fortunate to have had a succession of three 'wingmen' supporting me on my  22 trips; people who have very definitely become friends both while I am in Thailand and back home. Two sadly have now passed on but I remember them fondly for their friendship, advice and wisdom.

The third has hopefully many more years left in him as he is quite a lot younger than me, but knows the gay scene of Pattaya vastly better than me. Our holidays don't always coincide, but when they do mine is immeasurably better as a consequence.

There is a level of gossip and banter that you can have with farang friends in Pattaya that is not really possible with my Thai friends; language barriers mostly, but also wholly different perspectives as to why we are each in Pattaya.

 

If all goes to plan I hope to be back in Pattaya from 2nd September for 4 weeks and would be happy to meet up with (most 🙃) other BMs on this forum for a drink and a chat.  Don't worry about cramping my style amongst the other bar boys, that's my boyfriends chosen job! 🤣

Please send me a PM if you would like to do so  

[Is it just me? Am I too old?]

Another interesting thread Olddaddy, especially as I am even older at 68 and I am preparing for a 4 week trip in September, my longest ever. I usually do between 2 and 3 weeks, but now, almost fully retired, I have the opportunity to stay longer and wanted to see how I would cope with a longer stay both financially and physically.

I am overweight, but not obese, physically active but no gym slave. I live a celibate life alone at home and drink moderately maybe once a week. Yet get me over to Thailand and I am trying to pretend I am a 20year old again, drinking and partying most nights and shagging at least two or three times a day.  And when I first came here over ten years ago I could, and I did. But age is slowly catching up on me and, if I am being honest, I am slowing down.  And that manifests itself in my sexual activities; let me explain.

I do more threesomes, no seriously! . I am usually one of two 'tops', and although I participate, these days I am personally more of the warm-up act rather than the 'main event', and end up watching as the other top pounds the ass off the hapless twink of the night (usually my boyfriend - he loves it!).

I love oil massages and their happy endings, but now it is mostly HJs and BJs (although not always  ) and not always to orgasm, but I still love the teasing massage experience, and I love making the boys cum.

I can still fit in at least one or two short-times a day, but increasingly I am happy to bottom. The pornstar sessions of yore when I am pounding the ass of a beautiful twink in various positions to a mutually happy conclusion are becoming less and less common each trip. 

In fact if I can actually cum once a day I am more than happy. But I still absolutely love being with naked, horny, young Thai guys less than half my age even if they don't have to work quite as hard to earn their money as they did a few years ago.

And of course it is not just the sex, I am having to learn to moderate my drinking and partying. I try not to start drinking alcohol until after 10pm at night, although I am often still fairly drunk by the time my boyfriend and I make it back to the room, but now its often a case of shower and sleep rather than shower, sex and sleep. 

But although, as I get older, my holiday activities are slowly evolving, I still have an absolute blast! and look forward to my forthcoming trips with much the same excitement as I did ten years ago. 

 

[How much to tip boy next to you]

Throughout all this thread it seems to me three areas of delusion are emerging.

First, - 'wouldn't it be nice if everyone else took the same approach to money boys in Pattaya/Bangkok as I do'.

Second - 'wouldn't it be nice if everyone else paid and tipped the money boys the way I do'.

And the third - and this is the real killer -  is the delusion that a handful of active BMs on a small internet forum could materially alter the complex, and at times delicate, economy of  the money boys and bars across the two cities. Even if we all agreed - which clearly we don't.

 

I have the money I have, I am as generous as I can be with the money I have, and am realistic about what I can do with the money I have. I have less money than some (clearly!), and perhaps more money than others. Any yet the boys and bars of Pattaya continue to welcome us all; which is why we love the place and keep coming back  

[Interfering rude farang]

THere is a certain etiquette to this, or at least I would like to think there is; probably naively.

I too have occasionally had the 'alpha males' deliberately trying to muscle-in on boys I was sitting with; it is annoying but also a test on the boy. If the boy is clearly distracted by the said alpha male, then he probably wasn't the right boy for me anyhow. Does dent the ego, but I am usually surrounded by alternatives.

It has also worked the other way for me. I have gone into a bar to meet-up and off one of my regulars to find that he is already sitting with a customer. This has happened to me several times with one of the more popular boys in Winner Boys, Dah.

Disappointed I will sit with my drink and look for an opportunity to make eye contact with him if he hasn't spotted me first.  He will usually make an excuse to go to the toilet, and either make eye contact again as he does so and either smile or give a discrete little wave, or else he will swing by me on his way back and very quickly say if he thinks his current customer is just there for a drink, or maybe a possible off.  So I either stay and wait my turn, or move-on accordingly, as Dah usually calls it correctly.

But I echo the advice that the boy isn't yours for the night until you have offed-him and his off-fee is sitting in your bin.

On the other hand I often go into a bar and just want a boy to sit and drink with, and I usually tell the boy/mamasan (so that the boy understands), that this will just be a drink or two and if he sees a potential customer come into the bar, he is entirely free to say goodbye to me and go and try and get an off elsewhere. Doesn't happen very often, but I would feel guilty if my drink and usual 100 baht tip spoiled a boy's chances for a short-time. 

 

 

 

[How much to tip boy next to you]

15 minutes ago, 12is12 said:

Venessey,

What did u mean when u wrote "fuck u in the bar"?

Is there actual "all the way" fucking going on in public btw clients and MBs?

If they were not too busy in Eros Bar, and by special arrangement in Good Boys, you could get fucked in the bar. Not done so myself, but witnessed it several times in Eros Bar, and had it reported to me in Good Boys. 

Both bars are closed now, and, as far as I know, that is no longer possible in any of the current Sunee Bars.

[How much to tip boy next to you]

This thread is getting toxic - which is a shame.

A couple of observations if I may please:

Lets keep with my experiences in Nice Boys in Sunee Plaza and take one boy in particular, Dui, who I have been seeing a few years now on my regular holidays to Pattaya. If I off him and take him back to my room, I pay him 2k baht. An exPat friend who visits the bar a couple of times a week, only pays him 1,000 baht to go back to his apartment. And if my long, long time feels horny at any time and wants this lad to come and fuck him in his room, he pays him 200 or 300 baht. Different rates from different folk to the same boy for essentially the same service, but Dui is happy with all his 'customers'.

Secondly, how much you pay a lad for a Chuck Wow, or a short time, or whatever sexual service, is, for me at least, only part of the equation. It's also about how you treat the lad while he is with you, the respect you show him, the little kindnesses you show him. Taking him out to eat, to drink, or to party in a karaoke bar, or whatever?; showing him a good time while he is with you. 

I have a small gang of 'regulars now' from various bars, some gay, some straight, but lads I have known for up to six or seven years now and we frequently go out of an evening together. I believe I pay them reasonably, perhaps a little too reasonably sometimes, but although I remain their 'customer', I like to think we are also friends. But, if we are friends, it is as much to do with how I treat them as how much I pay them  

[How much to tip boy next to you]

I can only comment on the suck and tug bars of Sunee Plaza.

Nice Boys will serve as an examplar,

For Chuck Wows to finish, assisted or otherwise, 300 baht is expected.

General handling of the goods, even the odd taste, 100-200 is expected.

Anything in excess would no doubt be appreciated, but certainly not expected.

Nice Boys Bar still has plenty of boys and no shortage of customers.

(The old Goodboys and Eros Bar was also 300 baht for a Chuck Wow - rising to maybe 500 if they reciprocated for you; or 1k plus if they fucked you in the bar as well.) 

Winner Boys is less hands-on, but the occasional Chuck Wows merit the same level of tips.

I am not aware of any Chuck Wow bars in Jomtien, or even Boyztown now?

[The Disaster that is British Politics]

Although the Observer is primarily a champion of the left, so I find their views unsurprising. 

The current system has two advantages:

First it usually provides a clear 'winning party' that is able to form a reasonably stable government for its term of office (although dependant on the size of its parliamentary majority).

Secondly each constituency elects its own member of parliament who is accountable to those people living in that constituency - some MPs are better at that than others. But generally they make themselves available to their electorate to advise on their problems.

Labour and the other smaller parties are keen to change the system, largely, I suspect, because, historically, they 'win' far less often than they believe they deserve to. 

No system is perfect, but when I look across the pond at the political system there, I am glad that I live this side of it.

[Bangkok Trip Report 2022: The wait is over. What was I waiting for?]

I am looking forward to this and to comparing experiences as I was also able to get to Thailand and Pattaya in April.

[Unexpected reunions and few shattered dreams - 22nd trip to Thailand in May 2022]

Bravo @vinapu an epic trip report and I enjoyed every day's account,

I was particularly impressed that you never dwelt on any minor setbacks and disappointments and instead got on with the business of enjoying the next day to the full; that should be a lesson for us all on how to get the most out of our holidays.

[Gay Massage Reopening]

23 hours ago, jason1975 said:

This Youtube video by a Chinese Youtuber was shared on K-Man Spa Twitter account. There are English subtitles.

Wow that customer was nervous. My own personal rule is not to try and touch their cock until they are touching mine, but why, at least, did he not ask the boy to remove his towel?

[Odd Question from Guy Wanting Laos Boy LINE ID]

3 hours ago, TotallyOz said:

Damn, Vinapu. I am sorry. This cute twink asked me for your number and I just gave it to him. Is consent implied if they are cute?

Did someone mention cute twinks?

Feel free to send any my way - but only if they are cute though 🤣

But tell them they will probably have to wait until September  

[To tip or not ?]

In the straightforward, no extras (normally) massage shops, either staffed by ladies, or more often by a gender mixture, the staff do get a % of the cost of the massage. 

I used to go to one of the bigger ones on Second Road opposite Alcazar (now closed-up) to see a Cambodian boy who I took a shine to. Oil massages there were 300 baht, of which he got 100 baht. 

He said most farang customers would leave a personal tip after a massage, however he said that was far from the case with some other groups of visitors, some leaving perhaps 20 baht, or nothing at all, especially after foot or head massages. 

He and I gradually developed a scale of bigger tips for extras (he was straight and with a GF working in the same shop), culminating in 'full service' visits to my hotel room (sadly he is now back in Cambodia). 

But, like I said, that was for the basic - no extras - massage shops. I can understand in those gay massage shops where extras are regularly offered, even expected, that the boys survive mostly on their tips alone. Although that said, it wouldn't surprise me if many/most boys got a basic hand-out for turning up to work.  My regular boy at Scandic got 100 baht a day providing here was here by 8pm and stayed until closing - although that was pre-Covid, but I would also be surprised if such an arrangement wasn't back in place to encourage boys to turn-up?

 

[Back in Pattaya after 2 years and 4 months]

2 hours ago, macaroni21 said:

If Winner bar has a viable business model, they really should get out of Sunee; the dreariness of the neighbourhood will put a ceiling to their customer traffic and revenue. There must be plenty of vacant shoplots, if not in the Boyztown soi, then in the adjacent sois, e.g. where A-bomb is. That said, the Boyztown area will not have the al fresco space that the Sunee area has, but some shoplots have balconies.

The pity is that the Jomtien Complex does not allow gogo bars.

Actually I disagree with that for the simple reason that Sunee is exactly a dark and out-of-the-way sort of place.

In Winner Boys it is still possible to have discrete, but 'very intimate' conversations with the boys; dark corners for dark deeds, so to speak, and even occasionally with 'happy' conclusions to those conversations. Not as 'in-your-face' as the more openly 'hands-on' that you get in Nice Boys, but still a level of customer/boy 'intimacy' that you never see in Jomtien Complex, or in Boyztown now for that matter.

They can get away with it in dark, forgotten little Sunee Plaza, but I just can't see that model being allowed anywhere else in the gay areas of Pattaya - I would love to be wrong on that but .... 

Sunee Plaza and Winner Boys (& Nice Boys) is still worth regular pilgrimage. Winner Boys might not be as packed-out with customers as it could be, but free of Covid restrictions, it can still be a nice modest little 'earner' for its boss and its boys with its current level of traffic.

[Dragon Man club Pattaya]

On 6/20/2022 at 4:53 AM, Olddaddy said:

There is a saying....if it's too loud ..your too old !😂

Unfortunately I'm old too 😁

I am 68 and far too old for these sort of places, but my long long time drags me off to them notwithstanding, but the saving grace is that by the time I am heading there, usually post midnight, I am getting happily drunk, and when they close (about 2am, Hollywood is usually even earlier), and I am being dragged to a karaoke bar (smaller rooms, even louder music), I am usually sufficiently inebriated to just stand there with a happy smile on my face taking in the boys and the atmosphere 😅 until I am led back to our room to sleep for what's left of the night.

(Friendly Club Karaoke - about 3am haha)

[Minimum Tip on Massage/spa]

At Scandic Massage near the Second Road entrance into Boyztown, you choose your boy from outside, you go inside the shop with him to the cashier at the far end where you are told '1,500 baht for massage and sex with boy'  and you pay that up-front - an 'all in' payment so to speak for massage and a shag 😅

I found out later that the boy himself got half that, so I would usually give my regular lad an extra tip in the room - but that certainly wasn't expected.

 

Royal House Massage, I was told that, aside from the massage payment, that the boy would expect 1,000 baht tip and I recall noticing that as the massage commenced there was a condom and lube put ready and my lad (no English), just completed the massage, and without a word, put on the condom, lubed-up and got to work! 🤣

 

I have had a lad at a massage shop behind Tukom seemingly delighted that I gave him 300 baht after a successful hand-job - he assumed at first that that was me just paying the 300 massage fee. 

At Soda Massage in Jomtien Complex, I give 1,000 for mutual blow-jobs and happy endings, and up to 2,000 if penetrative sex took place.

In Foxy Massage, just up from Soda, a gay boy there specifically negotiated 2k for me to shag him at the end of the massage.

But in most cases, I have usually negotiated with the boy as to what he would do and how much. For me negotiation time is when the back massage is complete and I have turned over and my little flag-pole is waving happily at him. 

 

[Winner Boys Pattaya Re-Opening 1st June]

A couple of updated pics from their FB page:

(boys dancing in their pants - wonderful!)

(Nam, the bar's little superstar; just the perfect twink and a happy and fun-loving boy)

Bars like these desperately need professional or semi-professional pictures to promote themselves. The girlie bars fill their FaceBooks with enticing pictures that are regularly updated. Why are boy bars so reticent?

 

[Pattaya massage]

20 minutes ago, z909 said:

Are Soda a good choice though ?     There are several other massage shops around the area, including a couple more almost next the the French Bakery.   Doing a circular walk of the block which includes the French Bakery will take you past quite a few. 

These days, quality isn't always guaranteed.   In early 2021, I stopped off at a small massage shop across the road from Natans.   The 1 hour massage lasted 20 minutes.   Obviously, I've not been back there and after that I started confirming the duration of the massage in advance.

Soda Massage always been good to me; variously had HJ/BJ finishes and 'full service' finishes. Mostly gay boys there.

Same Foxy massage around the corner, had several 'full service' massages there which were excellent. Even had one of the Foxy lads back to my room in April for a more relaxed 'full service' massage. Gay and straight boys there.

Both places know exactly why you have chosen them to visit for your massage 😂

Always had the full hour in both places and usually a well managed hour to ensure you get both a decent massage, and also ensuring that when you 'turn over' you are visibly good and ready for the extras to follow! 😅

 

[Dragon Man club Pattaya]

Dragon Man Club seems typical of these sort of late night clubs of which there seems to be a few in Pattaya reopening now.. 

I have been a couple of times in April, once when it had a small audience and just a DJ, the second time when there were the soda water shows and guys in translucent pants (when wet). 

I remember the old Nab Club best as that was between Soi 5 and Soi 6 and easy walking/staggering distance of my hotel.

It seems to me they are mostly aimed at a Thai audience, although farang buying bottles of whisky to share out always seem welcome haha.

The are mostly places where you go with friends to continue the party when the main bars have closed for the night. Where you go to chat (despite the volume of the music), dance and admire the dancers on stage.  The boys in the audience often circulate between tables, garnering whisky shots as they do so. You are far more likely to meet and off a boy from the audience than  you are from the stage, as the stage dancers are mostly eye-candy. 

So going with friends, getting drunk with friends, dancing with friends and admiring the big cock boys on stage; it makes for a great 'end of evening' (unless you go to the karaoke bars even later).  I am a fan of them, 'Dragon' included.

 

[Pride Party Tonight and Tomorrow at Home Bar, Jomtien Complex]

4 hours ago, aussie_ said:

The Pride party was well attended and a big success. Many partygoers were dancing in the soi when i left around 1230am.

The Venue Show Bar also had a full house for their anniversary party.  

Great pictures, thank you so much for sharing  

[Pattaya massage]

3 minutes ago, spoon said:

Is there no longer gay massages shop near tukcom?

Several; some mostly gay boys, others, like Royal House Massage, mostly straight boys.

[Pride Party Tonight and Tomorrow at Home Bar, Jomtien Complex]

Just now, Olddaddy said:

Always love your pics Vessey,thanks 👍

Not my pics - I only wish they were, just borrowed from the bar's FB posts.

[Pride Party Tonight and Tomorrow at Home Bar, Jomtien Complex]

Looks likely to be one hell of a party planned, just wish I was there  

Tonight (17th and tomorrow 18th I believe)

Would love to hear any reports if any of you drop by?

https://www.facebook.com/Athomebarjomtien

https://www.facebook.com/photo?fbid=3101524343398308&set=pcb.3101526123398130

 

It would seem that other bars in the complex are joining, these are from JQK Bar,